Ok.. i will give this a try
I'll give myself some questions that in some cases differ from what Mondayy asked herself.
How did you get into the escort business?
First of all i have to say that most of my escorting has been done while i ran my own brothels, as madame So here is the background story and my history as Escort and Madame.
I visited a brothel like 4-5 days after i started in the game (5 years ago) and started working there on the spot. What atracted me was the adventure of it, lots of sex in an atmosphere with great co-workers, namely the other girls.
However, the boss was a male who more or less expected to have "free" acces to the girls working there. This, I later discovered, seems to be the case with most male brothel-owners.
So, after watching things there.... (i think the place was called Busty Bitches Brothel ) i decided I could make a much better brothel on my own... based on female guidance.
I had my first brothel, Pleasure Nest, up and running 2 weeks later with the assistance of 2 male friends. With all due respect to these guys, i was the central hub in the business, and when one of the guys starting taking credit for my work and calling me one of his "birds" in local chat, i decided to close it down. It lasted only a few weeks. However, this incident didnt pull me down, i still saw a grand fun future in running a brothel. So, together with the friend that didnt go behind my back i opened Heavens Delights shortly after.
I have to explain here the role of my male partner. In those days we used a system with a main area where clients and visitors could see the girls and get in contact with them, and a closed area behind, with the bedrooms. My buiness partner worked (among a lot of other stuff) as bouncer, blocking the entrance to the beds, only letting girls and clients through when a deal was set up.
This brothel lasted maybe 5 months. Some internal stuff that i have mostly forgotten by now made me want to break it down and start up again. Me and a group of girls came up with Garden of Eden, which was to become my most succesfull and longest lasting establishment. I still had my male companion with me, but due to some personal problems we had to go separate ways after a few months. After that i ran the business on my own.. with a lot of help from my staff of course!
One of my girls, the lovely Morgaine, got more and more involved and with time she took a lot of the responsability for the place on her shoulders. Towards the end of Garden of Eden, we ran it in unison, untill i decided i had been madame long enough and gave the keys to her . She did run it for a while after that, and all in all Garden of Eden existed 3 years or so, in one form or other.
After my time as madame ended, i did some freelance escorting, sometimes in established brothels, but mostly just out there in the "streets". I still do a bit.. but its minimal these days.
What did u like about being a madame/Escort?
There are many sides to this.... If we take the sex thing first.. lets see If the relation between a client and an escort is sound, its based on an agreement that the escort gives pleasure to the client for a limited amount of time, for a certain payment. Besides that... no strings attached. As a free spirit who has never been interested in going romantic in the game, that suited me very well. In my earliest days in the game i quickly realized that if i gave a guy a fuck for "free" there was a more than 50% chance (or risk, rather ) that he would would expect more, and in the worst case scenario, following me around with puppy eyes and getting romantic :-). Also called stalking...
So.. the Escort thing worked very well for me. I gave and received a lot of pleasure, in most cases being treated with a lot of respect from my clients. The gift thing for me (and i never charged more than 1 gift for ½ an hour ) has for me always had a symbolic value.. its not about the gift.. its a symbol of the agreement between client and escort, setting up a boundary of the relation.
As an escort, i only agreed on doing things with my clients i was comfy with myself and never took on clients i immediately disliked. It might surprise many.. that i went through almost 4 years of intense escorting, without doing anal sex.. as its a thing i dont fancy :-) I never sold my body nor my mind, as such..... just for the taking. I could never be a ragdoll, just having my body used for someones pleasure. Some might do escorting that way... but the best experience.. for both parts.... is when the escort is in on what is happening, and has the mindset to really give the client a good time.
I take some pride in what some clients told me... something like this: "I know you are an escort, and its just a business deal, but you manage to make me feel you care." And yes.. i did care, a lot! I always gave full respect to my clients if i felt they respected me, and i am happy to say it was like that in 98% of the way more than 1000 "jobs" i did In the remaining 2% of "jobs" (which occured due to my own misjudging of the clients character) I closed my eyes and thought of my mother country ! And i survived...
Another side to all this.. and here mainly in the sense being the madame of a good establishment, was the feel of working together in a group... with the girls that worked at my place. At times i had up to 25 girls that was working with me... showing up on the days they could.. often having up to 10 girls present. The camaraderie we girls had together is one of the most cherished memories i have from all my time in this game ! Of course i didnt get along well with all girls i did employ, i even had to sack a few, but on the grand scale we had a great time together. Some girls worked with me from the the very start, in my first brothel.... and was still coming in.. doing jobs, 4 years later!. And i still have most of the girls that worked with me and who are still on.. on my friends list. When we meet, we always come to talk about the good old days ... i think we all look back on it as something very specal and unigue.. I do ! If any of you girls read this.... thank you for a great end very special time!
this was a "tour de force" for me writing.. i also got rather sentimental I will follow up on this on a later date and answer some more questions