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  4. @Gizmo With all due respect, I regret you see these facts as 'attempts at provocation and destabilization of the community'. I've repeatedly tried to highlight some problems and open questions in here -in a constructive manner- (pls. read my previous posts and you'll see...) with the best intentions. Don't worry, a cockroach like me understands the message - sorry to waste our time!
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  6. I actually have a common friend for the person that I was ignored by, so I will look into it. No need to jump to conclusions.
  7. I got the same message.. I can only assume it was for promoting a room in World Chat. That's the closest I came to posting any form of "chat ad".
  8. my account got blocked when i tried to find out why it said reason chat ads what does that reason mean
  9. Gizmo

    3DXChat on Steam

    Everyone, I encourage you to maintain a respectful tone of communication in this community. Thank you!
  10. It doesn't look like a bug. It's some troll ruining your experience ON PURPOSE. They're coordinated and you're probably on some twitch or discord stream as they're doing it. Sounds like that kind of toxic behavior. People don't act that way when they're genuine.
  11. Assholes will be assholes. Trolling with this "I lost connection" trick during sex is also quite common. Or ignoring you without provocation. I agree that some people may just ignore you so they won't have to talk to you anymore. But the odds of all these disconnects and ignores happening in a "wave" is unlikely. Trolls will be trolls. The best thing to do is to let the trolls correct their ways or cut themselves out of the fun by ignoring everyone sooner or later.
  12. The fact they have "FJB" in their name lets me know there is about a 0% chance they will stop their attempts at provocation in the community. Its like telling cockroaches they better stop coming out of the cracks in the wall or you will have to call an exterminator.
  13. 7. The speed slider. Visual vs. Lovense toy effects The famous sex speed slider is your most subtle, yet effective tool. Treat it with great respect and use it with great guile and skill. The images tell you the spots where you get the best out of your slider %. Visually there's some better areas for the animation loops to avoid looking weird or chunky. When you have a lovense toy connected, there are some hotspots and some less-than-fun spots. These are not set in stone and experimenting varies from person to person. These are just the basics to know so you can actually perform on your partner. The RED is the WORST effect area. The YELLOW is the OK area where things are fine. The GREEN area is the BEST area. Move the slider accordingly and as previously recommended... Experience, experiment, try and come up with your own recipe of satisfaction. Now you "fuck" more than your average user who simply hits it to maximum speed and ... keeps it like that for 20 minutes.
  14. 6. "How to tell if a female avatar is a woman or a man" We can't really tell to the deepest end. And we can't hate on someone for trying to play the other gender(s). But if you're feeling uncomfortable, maybe this list below will help you a bit. But men playing female avatars tend to: - use tattoos in large amounts - have huge tits and small waists - do terrible work on makeup - be BISEXUAL - look ONLY FOR black men - can play as a FUTA (to land other women) - pretend to be lesbians with long nails (ask a lesbian RL. She'll tell you.) - dress and mix up terrible fashion (socks and sandals come to mind and all kinds of stockings) - have shiny skin (women use things IRL so their skin - especially face - doesn't shine... Ask your mom or sister. No joke) - lose patience when being eaten out - wanna get fast sex real fast - moan only to fast and rough sex - act weird about penetration because they don't know how a vagina feels in IRL - like humiliation and degradation - favor silent sex - use words like "cumbucket" - complain about how long it takes you to cum (Unless you need more than 30 minutes - COME ON!) - run off right away after sex because they have no idea what after-play is - tend to have exaggerated initiative and even approach you with pick-up lines - will try to roast or humiliate you if you're confident, funny and persistent This might get more added to it. But remember. It's not a crime to play as a woman.
  15. 5. Avoid the "easy ways out" and here is why There are three "easy ways" to land "sex" here. 1. You pretend to be black because "bbc". 2. You become a DJ or important person to seem a "high value man" 3. You pay escorts for sex. Besides eroding your confidence, these three will ruin your experience and I'll let you know why which of the above isn't great. 1. "I am black. Now fuck me cause I have a big dick and you're a porn addict". You'll attract guys playing as women. The data statistics show there are very few women who prefer black men. So unless you're genuinely black, it's an ugly blackface portrayal that shows everyone you're a paper tiger. It doesn't work like in the bbc porn. And you'll get trolled often while being called names. 2. "Fuck me cause I'm famous." Fame in 3dx is frail and it's hard to credit or verify it. So the women won't take it like it is. Being a poser is hard and if your personality can't back that up you'll be dumped a lot or rejected. Why not fit and be yourself? 3. "Here have this gold, now fuck me" Escorts are mostly men trying to scam you out of your gold. There is no safety net. You pay and she blocks you. And there is nothing you can do even if you report her. Most of the escorts you'll get to have sex with are still terrible, disinterested and could give less than a fuck if you have a good time. Remember, these aren't escorts, brah!
  16. 4. Women under 30 and women over 30 Now your lover boy skills need to be polished. Short explanation: Women under 30 want kinky, edgy stuff and porn-like stuff so they're likely to turn a blind eye to some fragile alpha male bullshit. That includes bbc, bdsm and they don't bother much to actually figure out if you're actually worth the fuck once you use these easy topics in your profile. Women over 30 want passion, intensity and won't work with poorly delivered bullshit but they might be trouble on the long run if you're a paper tiger. Especially if you're insensitive and greedy, it might not work. They'll need a bit of connection and you'll need a bit of vulnerability besides of your boyish bravado. There is no win-win and each comes with their own thing before you take into account that ALL WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT and if nothing else works... Being honest will give you a chance. Not a 100% chance, but a better chance than pretending you're a pick-up artist. Just be daring and talk to them. Approach them.
  17. 3. Approaches. To COLD or NOT TO COLD. TO COLD: It's easy. If you're hot, you won't get a bad result on colding. But it doesn't guarantee you positive results. When you cold someone and they take it, you need to be really confident on what you do next. If the next pose is anal or hardcore blowjob... They won't take a cold from you again ever. And might even ignore you after. NOT TO COLD: This is the better route where you flirt and get a feel of how things go and how well you mix. This has the highest chances of success and satisfaction. Talking and letting THE OTHER PERSON TALK too gets the best results especially if you're looking for quality over quantity. Worst things about colds: - You might get someone who doesn't take you seriously and won't interact with you. Silent no emote sex comes to mind. - You might get frustrated when you feel rejected but you didn't get to say a single word to that person. - You might lose to a guy who's got less to offer than you do but got to build a bit of a connection with the girl - People judge you for it and it gives a bad reputation Now you know your routes.
  18. 2. Profile basics There is a profile editor out there. Google "3DX profile editor" and you'll find it. It helps you A LOT in making a profile look good. It literally simulates how your profile would look in the game. Don't add weird ages. 18 and 99 are your worst choices. You're definitely a creep or someone's who way too young and wants to look mature. Don't add negative stuff. People see that card and by it choose to approach you or not. If you sound like a crazy person from your profile, most women won't talk back to you or will straight away ignore you. Nobody wants to interact with someone who seems to have deep rooted issues. Don't add dick pics in the opening. I know, I know. Everyone HAS A HUGE dick here. We know. You know. EVERYONE knows. Just that most guys pretending to have big dicks here have sex like they're sporting a pencil. Add images that promote and represent you or your lifestyle in the game. There is a screenshots feature and you can toggle cameras with F5 freecam and F6 character cam. Pan around, take pictures. You'll do a great job once you experiment a bit with it. And girls love it for some reason. Add images that are hot or speak volumes. If you need explanation for this, I think you're too young to play this. No joke. Have a decent amount of text that can easily be read. You don't have to use all the 1000 characters but it least having 4-5 lines about you and what you like or what you're into will help a lot in letting the girls know you're not mentally retarded. Keep working on your profile. Change is good. Improvement is good. Experiment. Try. It will gradually get better. And now people can check your "card" before talking to you.
  19. 3DXperience

    3DXChat on Steam

    You seem to have had a hard childhood so I'll try and make sense of this without getting into an argument with you. 1. What kind of incognito developer would waste his/her time to post this WITH A 3DX RELATED NAME IN THE TITLE? I don't know what game staff you talked to before. But they have no reason to make accounts to support their opinions. When they'll be done with you... All of a sudden your login won't work anymore. 2. Your attitude doesn't help your plans. You are just baiting the trolls and you're burning bridges with the staff here. Consider talking to people in a different manner. Or keep on trying to have a stroke in front of a computer. It's just not helping. 3. If I was working with this development team and I'd be moderating, you wouldn't be acting that way. You'd probably be paying for new subscriptions just to talk shit and get banned again. Until you'd reach a spree of ban-legit offenses and the ban will come on your rack's unique codes. So to start talking shit you'd have to change the PC entirely. And make another new account after. It's your time and your money. I'm sure they're happy to get it. 4. Make a change, start from you. The world around you will change itself slowly. Don't believe me. Try it. So don't worry, be happy and stay positive.
  20. 1. Avatar creation You'll get to edit your body right away as you create your first character. This avatar editing feature is always accessible so no stress... You can always change looks or adjust details. And save as many avatars settings (outfits included) as you want. Male body anatomy: For the best immersive experience I'd encourage you to try and be closest to yourself. Unless you got a specific fantasy or character in mind. The avatar's height is not adjustable (at least not yet) so here's some tricks to help you get some visual impressions going. Setting sliders to the right is not a good idea unless you experiment a little and know what you're doing. The thicker your arms will be, the shorter you'll look and the smaller your chest, back and torso will look. The waist does not come with a belly so feel free to try and build a different type of body than superman's. And for god's sake, women look at men's asses A LOT. I'm aware you guys aren't putting points into the ASS part so the dick looks bigger. Believe me. Girls will take the guy with a hot ass and average dick against a guy with no ass and a big dick. But it's impossible to have an average dick in here so don't worry. Keep calm and have AN ASS to fit your pants. Skin color: Picking a realistic color will represent you best. Don't overdo the tanning thing (if you're caucasian/asian/latin) or go pitch-black (if you're a person of color.) Your uniqueness and identity starts from being the most unique and realistic set of colors. Eyes: Give yourself a minute and work with a realistic color. Pick something between Black - Brown - Green - Blue and get a variant of those out. Most girls won't find a red or pink eyed man hot. You'll just look... Different. And not that good type of different. Hair: I won't lie. The options are comedic for men's hair. But go with what you like and take a couple of minutes to mix the colors with the hairstyle. It will pay off in time. I promise. Tattoos: Options are varied and with the sliders you can do some unique arrangements. Take your time and experiment. Don't overdo it in terms of quantity. Less is more. I think the rest is about clothes. Experiment with fashion and make sure your style represents you. There is a HUGE list of options and mixes for a guy to try so you'll find something sooner or later. And you're set to go.
  21. XOKINGDATAOX

    3DXChat on Steam

    @3DXperience Oh and Btw you joined this community an hour ago so you dont even count more than likely its Gizmo trying to be incognito
  22. This is going to be a huge thread and each comment will address a different topic while trying to keep it as compact as one can. I feel it is important to let you know that this is voluntarily done work, I do not represent 3DXchat official staff in any direct or indirect capacity and I have no skin in the game. This is just a compiled effort to help guys (and hopefully women and any others in between) to get a better experience. I strongly recommend you scroll through and read what feels relevant to you because there might be a lot of topics and there will be a lot of editing done. I would like to thank any supportive people before I start laying out the materials. I will not include any names or screenshots that may include users or other personal information. I hope this will help people get and give a better experience to everyone. It won't change much, but if a few guys do better after reading this... My work is done.
  23. XOKINGDATAOX

    3DXChat on Steam

    @3DXperience Then have me banned bro if you got valid reasons THEN DO IT, DONT JUST RUN YOUR MOUTH MAKE IT HAPPEN! like they say either follow thru or move along..... cause see i dont give a F*U*** who you are ill tell you like i tell anyone and everyone. I'm not here to kiss no ones ass or suck dick homie, I'm here to help my fellow community members get answers to questions that have been asked for years.
  24. XOKINGDATAOX

    3DXChat on Steam

    @Gizmo Just be a human being bro and stop with these robo answers to everyone's questions, Like generate a live Q&A Session on twitter, here in 3dx where you and your team sit and listen or answer questions from the community kind of like a town hall meeting or a fireside chat. Just a scheduled appearance by you and or your team to just mingle and interact with your customer base look it wont solve all the issues here but the appearance and the effort would damn sure go along way into the minds of many. I mean we could set aside a whole segment of the talk show and dedicate it to reading questions from the community and your responses. Anything is better than nothing at all right?
  25. 3DXperience

    3DXChat on Steam

    I have to ask myself. When did it become normal to ask for a game staff "dumbasses", say that "their lack of communication is disgraceful" and that "3dx is broken beyond repair". Call them a "regurgitating robot" and all these words? This kind of behavior is a ban-clear offense on 99.99% of the gaming communities online. The fact that they don't ban you is a sign of tolerance and appreciation towards you as a customer. If you go and vent in a shop in real life, they call the cops on you. Or they kick you out. And you never come back. This is also a business. While complaints are valid and nobody should be silenced for their opinion, it looks very disrespectful to talk that way towards the people who work for your playground. You pay a couple of bucks and expect to have your every whim satisfied. Being reasonable will probably make the 3DX official staff to also be even more reasonable. Those three questions sound like stuff most companies keep under an NDA. Non Disclosure Agreement. They are legally not allowed to tell you that unless the top owner of the company deliberately allows and decides to make this information public. We may speculate but trying to corner and bully a developer who tries to reply to your issues feels really low.
  26. Gizmo

    3DXChat on Steam

    That sounds wonderful! Can you provide specific examples of what you think I should do to make the community feel the way you describe?
  27. 3DXperience

    3DXChat on Steam

    Don't expect something you can actually work with. While people may speak valid concerns towards their experience, most of the times a developer cannot teach other people how to play a game or how to behave. And he/she isn't supposed to. In every community there are deeply bitter people and some of them are toxic trolls too. The others are the constant victims. They always complain and when they're not bullied... They do something just to provoke someone and then... Get back to complaining once they've turned a person they initially provoked into... A bully. STEAM is only a lot of work for the developers and probably about a huge pile of legal requirements. Every person who pays to play has the right to find an outlet to entertain themselves. Some troll, some enjoy the sexual fantasies, some like the social aspect, others just build and the list may continue to a thousand options. There shouldn't be hate towards any of them. Most of the trolls you hate publicly are just funny relatable people once you talk to them in private (one on one) and that should tell you all you need to know... In an adult game. People wear a mask. And if you wanna peer behind it without being invasive or abusive... You need to appear vulnerable and open towards them. Just like in real life. No developer will make a crusade just to satisfy a few users' personal dramas. And that's what keeps a healthy ongoing virtual environment. You can express yourself without the fear of being report-bullied by some professional victim or person who finds a sick pleasure in provoking people and then making them the villain. If adults can't find common ground and resolve it amongst themselves... This shouldn't be a kindergarten. Grow up.
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