Desirea

Everyone's ideas and views have a right to be expressed.
 
Lets not make it personal.   Everyone is making some good points and this is an interesting topic and much is explained by members who have been here longer than others
 
We are actually doing ok at the moment and everyone is being respectful of peoples view points.
It seems in the past, one or two poke, others react and suddenly we have bedlam. Lets not allow that to happen anymore.
 
I'm enjoying this discussion and am reading everyone's ideas and solutions with interest. 
Its all good stuff. 

Anti-Valentines: Rage Against the Cupid
 
You know the truth... love sucks at times! 
With the airwaves full of testaments to the power of love and on Valentines Day, reaching insulting proportions, we are here for you with counter programming. Whether you're just not a fan of V-Day, recently broken up, happily unattached, or just looking for great music and good company, join us for ABSOLUTES Anti V-Day event. 
Like an ill-advised sexual encounter with a vacuum cleaner, it will prove that love can both hurt and suck.
 

 

Monday, February 18th at 8pm EST
DJ Raevaen with possible guest DJ.
 
 

I think moderation of our own Diaries is worth a try, as a trial run. I also want to say thank you to everyone for taking a step back and trying to keep the forum civil. Have fun all.

I think moderation of our own Diaries is worth a try, as a trial run. I also want to say thank you to everyone for taking a step back and trying to keep the forum civil. Have fun all.

I think moderation of our own Diaries is worth a try, as a trial run. I also want to say thank you to everyone for taking a step back and trying to keep the forum civil. Have fun all.

Sorry to tell you that this isn't a joke. You also get banned if you offer rape rooms for example. In a private chat you can do whatever you want, if both agree on it, but not public visible, like in a profile. 
 
Read up here about the community rules: http://3dxforum.com/index.php?/topic/1425-3dxchat-community-rules/
 
I bet your girlfriend didn't have any bad intentions but she was reported by somebody and so the moderators needed to react. Looks like this is still working in game - this here only as a marginal note.

I love the long waiting times between updates, so you really have time to learn how to use each new piece thoroughly

On the forums i like topics to do with the music people listen to, i like Olesyas short videos she does on peoples rooms she has visited and also like seeing peoples creations in Share your World Creations.
 
In the game i enjoy building
I like spending time with the people closest to me( girlfriend, friends)
I love going to parties and listening to music,  fav gathering location been Dangerous Divas on a weekend, always a lot of fun.
 
As I have said in the past, this game has so much potential, its just sad its taken 6 years to tap into only 1/10 of what it could be.

Lot's of people, in countless threads over the years, have discussed the unrealized potential of this place.  My opinion is that Gizmo and Lisa pride themselves in making high quality graphic content, and have not been comfortable hiring a full time resource to help generate content more quickly.  This is just a guess on my part though, I have no proof to back it up.  I would love to see more content, improved QA testing, and a growing community, but something behind the scenes seems to be holding this potential back.  I think they do a great job with what they publish, but I don't think user donations are going to change anything in regards to generating content more quickly.  I think it's already priced as high as it should be in comparison to other apps, as others have stated.  I would love to be proven wrong, but nothing over my 4+ years makes me think this will change anytime soon.   I do think they run the risk of getting passed by competitors if they don't find a way to generate content more quickly, but time will tell.  What keeps me coming back are the friendships I've developed, yes the social aspects.  I do get frustrated with the lack of FF poses without a dick, FFF poses, M and F facial customization, M and F clothes content, etc. at times.  Like I said, a lot of unrealized potential IMO.  Have fun all.
 
<looks around nervously to see if troll boy is lurking in the shadows>       

Lot's of people, in countless threads over the years, have discussed the unrealized potential of this place.  My opinion is that Gizmo and Lisa pride themselves in making high quality graphic content, and have not been comfortable hiring a full time resource to help generate content more quickly.  This is just a guess on my part though, I have no proof to back it up.  I would love to see more content, improved QA testing, and a growing community, but something behind the scenes seems to be holding this potential back.  I think they do a great job with what they publish, but I don't think user donations are going to change anything in regards to generating content more quickly.  I think it's already priced as high as it should be in comparison to other apps, as others have stated.  I would love to be proven wrong, but nothing over my 4+ years makes me think this will change anytime soon.   I do think they run the risk of getting passed by competitors if they don't find a way to generate content more quickly, but time will tell.  What keeps me coming back are the friendships I've developed, yes the social aspects.  I do get frustrated with the lack of FF poses without a dick, FFF poses, M and F facial customization, M and F clothes content, etc. at times.  Like I said, a lot of unrealized potential IMO.  Have fun all.
 
<looks around nervously to see if troll boy is lurking in the shadows>       

Lot's of people, in countless threads over the years, have discussed the unrealized potential of this place.  My opinion is that Gizmo and Lisa pride themselves in making high quality graphic content, and have not been comfortable hiring a full time resource to help generate content more quickly.  This is just a guess on my part though, I have no proof to back it up.  I would love to see more content, improved QA testing, and a growing community, but something behind the scenes seems to be holding this potential back.  I think they do a great job with what they publish, but I don't think user donations are going to change anything in regards to generating content more quickly.  I think it's already priced as high as it should be in comparison to other apps, as others have stated.  I would love to be proven wrong, but nothing over my 4+ years makes me think this will change anytime soon.   I do think they run the risk of getting passed by competitors if they don't find a way to generate content more quickly, but time will tell.  What keeps me coming back are the friendships I've developed, yes the social aspects.  I do get frustrated with the lack of FF poses without a dick, FFF poses, M and F facial customization, M and F clothes content, etc. at times.  Like I said, a lot of unrealized potential IMO.  Have fun all.
 
<looks around nervously to see if troll boy is lurking in the shadows>       

This is hilarious topic.
 
You know what? I do approve gizmo amazing feature of 100xgold per message in world chat... but let's go further how about we put this feature on Alivia forum's account 100xgold per post, 500xgold per topic if she want to donate so much.
 
Now how about trivia time with 5 year subscriber (though 2019 was gifted to me because I would not pay anymore)
 
Updates were much faster during first 3 years. You can check this on official page and compare the number of pages full of updates to updates in past 2 years. All this while subscriber count was significantly lower. This is priciest subscription game on market as far as I am aware, World of Warcraft / Final Fantasy cost 12 to 13 Eur per month counting taxes. This game is 24 Eur /month or twice the price. Obviously it is cheaper when you pay for 6 or 12, but there were cases and studies that shown that monthly revenue and people who visit subscription games for month or two are usually largest part.  And no, I really doubt majority of people get winter deal as that's available only 1 month out of 12. Most people likely aren't even aware of it as they don't visit or know that forum even exists nor it is indicated anywhere in the game or on the login screen like other updates are. I wonder why. This game got microtransactions (xgold and all related xgold purchases even if you get daily strip of them, I am aware of multiple people who purchased xgold even some more crazy values like 50k +, I seen and I know people with 15 gallery slots, people with 3000 gifts, usually gifted by same person 50 gifts in row without even text on same day, I really doubt that's from their daily income. This is an additional stream of income. If you want to support devs just buy xgold.  Servers are dirt cheap in 2019 like seriously dirt cheap, people could run WoW servers back in 2004 with 2 000 active players from their basement with the help of donations, now? You can rent servers anywhere in world for next to nothing. People who done content for this game that I personally know pretty much told me how they were ignored by developers here or got told to do something they didn't wanted to make and then ignored for months to come anyway. So they all given up and said fuck this. Example: Make item in a day > sent it to devs > wait month for reply only to get told to fix something > fix something in 5 minutes > wait month for another reply > repeat for very long time until people on forums started to asking where these things are. Maybe I am jaded but I do feel like everything in this game is going to downhill. Server stability in past few months been worse than past several years. In my opinion it's because devs just stopped monitoring the game daily like they used to and when shit goes down they notice week later and hit reboot. Because these outages are looking exactly same as they did in past but back then you seen devs on forums daily so if shit went down, they were aware of it same day but now they are invisible on forums so we really can't check when it's the last time since they checked. Still I can be wrong but the fact that during the last long time downtime we weren't informed until the servers pretty much went back on tells me I can't be too far from truth. Communities are dying, all the events that used to happen are gone, all the trivia nights are gone, no matter what time of the day it's just fuck rooms usually or same few groups. I know that people who were active and were doing the events for public, bug reports and so on quit on sole reason that they should not be doing all devs work to keep this alive and they are right. Not to mention all the drama that we had about DJs and all other beautiful stuff.  Empty promises by devs. We had big topics in past where devs for example 2 years ago promised all FM poses will be ported to FF, they shown us fancy excel sheets of that and here we are 2 years later and still not even halfway of that... the topic ofcourse got deleted. Remember when this was running on old unity engine? We were told the new engine is going to speed up updates and make it easier... ya know rust updated their game in 30 minutes and their devs said it's easy automatic process. Here it took over 8 months and updates slowed from monthly to every 3 to 6 months. Remember when we raised pitchforks and people said they would unsub? Suddenly we could get 3 or 4 updates a month but people don't do that anymore, pretty much everyone given up thanks to the little trolls that chased away anyone who was even semi interested in helping of making this game grow or better place. Now you post negative thing and get swarmed by alivia and some other semi newish ppl who tell you how you are wrong and how devs work 26 hours per day on updates for this game and how they live in gulag and didn't see their families for years as they need to work hard for updates. Let's add controversial point remember remember thing called pandora? So this thing also had beautiful stat page ie how many unique accounts there were logged past idk 10 or 15 days. The number after that large downtime and before the patch was around 13 000. So monthly subscriber could been twice as much. Idk I think that's a lot of income for doing fuck all for most of the year don't ya think? And let's remind people of how much they are cared for. Remember game anniversary gifts for players ala "the big updates"? Remember saloon that cost whole 25$ on unity store and goes to sale for 15 often or in another words 1 player subscription? Idk how you view it but personally for me that was beyond insulting. And IF we are resolving to lows as adding 20$ shitty asset to game for anniversary, why not keep adding these on weekly basis as I am sure there are commercial licenses or free to use items for everyone there.

Hello, Happy new year... Hope it brings lots of joy for everyone.
 
Now... here's what I am personally wishing for and what I think I am owed.
- a more stable service.
- 64 bit client.
- better rigging for new clothes, and fix the current ones that look like they don't fit at all.
 
Stuff that interests me but wont cry if I didn't get.
- any type of editor (done right)
- tattoos and piercings.
- more customization for guys... they all look pretty much the same, Giz... com'on we women deserve to have more to look at.
- more lesbian non futa poses.
- more poses.
 
Stuff that will wreck the game for me
- any type of in game store... I pay a monthly subscription so I can have access to all content in the game... turning it into an f2p like game, imo will be a downgrade.
 people who want to sell their creations can run their own blog/website and ask for money for what they do... we have seen it happen and it works.
 
Thanks.
 
 
 

if u see this Raevaen , well i like ur parties  so plz make one soon <3

Respect ....................... hmmm ................... yeah most people in game get that and that is partly why I've decided to renew my sub. That and the ace friends I have. As for the knobheads? I guess they're in the minority and should be treated with the contempt they deserve.

On April 28th, 2015 I sent a girl a PM. Three years later that girl is my wife and very best friend, and although our connection has evolved beyond the boundaries of this game, it was 3DX where we met. And from that simple one-line PM until right now, there has never been anyone else to match what she means to me or me to her. Not even close.
 
We've had brief breaks from here, but never from each other and although I respect everyone's perspective on what 3DX means to them, for us it has projected a sense of love which is both profound and meaningful, in-game and out.
 
So to my wonderful Freya, a simple thank you, from the bottom of my heart.
 
I love you, baby <3
 
 
* We would also like to thank those people who have been by our sides over the years - as our friends, supportive and respectful of how we choose to spend our time. In no particular order: Togo, Twiggy, Jameis, Pyro, Chloe, EthericEssence, Maelstrom and CrazyDaisy, And to any others I have failed to mention, thank you too.

"Posted Today, 09:20 AM
It occurred to me just now that I have become rather conservative in my look, OK it's my style and reflects my style rl"
 
Oh yah! Looking hot in your acid house gear C!

Seems like this might be an easy change, to create a filter to block a few key words in room names that obviously break the ToS?
 
What you say and do in private is to each their own, I just don't want to see room names in public that seem to promote it.  Giz?  

Most of the things listed as contrary to ToS are also illegal in most countries in RL. Anything that trivialises or normalises these things cannot, under any circumstances, be viewed as acceptable behaviour. I know many others aren't convinced, but in my own mind I'm certain these rooms are opened by people who know full well what they are doing. MARVINXXX has been doing this for a week now, I'm not sure if he was involved previously but the other name, Riens (yes I've checked with my screen grabs), has done this before.
 
So it's back to asking anybody who sees one of these rooms open to report it - for those who don't know, you can create a report by starting to report one of your friends, say, and then editing the address line replacing the friend's name with the name of the room owner and pressing enter.
 
Also post here so as to nag the moderators in public.
 
If we can draw in supportive but sceptical people as well then even better. We know the moderators do act, but leaving it too long is as good as condoning what these people are doing.

Thanks for the report. We took action. Rape / rape roleplay / rape rooms are forbidden in our game.

Seems like this might be an easy change, to create a filter to block a few key words in room names that obviously break the ToS?
 
What you say and do in private is to each their own, I just don't want to see room names in public that seem to promote it.  Giz?  

Seems like this might be an easy change, to create a filter to block a few key words in room names that obviously break the ToS?
 
What you say and do in private is to each their own, I just don't want to see room names in public that seem to promote it.  Giz?  

Most BDSM participants participate consentualy and are willing. Rape is a violent non-consensual act on a person against their will and wishes and a violation of their body.

Seems like this might be an easy change, to create a filter to block a few key words in room names that obviously break the ToS?
 
What you say and do in private is to each their own, I just don't want to see room names in public that seem to promote it.  Giz?