SusanLouisa

5 hours ago, Twiggy said:

Hey I don't think this has ever been suggested before and you will need to think about it for a bit to see that maybe it could be a solution, as when you 1st look at it sounds totally radical. But what about have it so we have the present single ignore we have now but also have a full account ignore that costs say 5k. That way pandora won't work without paying for it and people won't go on witch hunts as it will cost them. And if you have someone that is really harassing you it will be worth 5k.

Or maybe have it so there is a limit to how many times you can use the full ignore each week or even each day. If you could only do one a day then pandora won't work and even witch hunts wouldn't be easy.

Excellent idea!!  5k is a bit much but yes I would have gladly paid that.

5 hours ago, Twiggy said:

It wasn't just pandora, I agree with JackPine that there could be a full ignore system put in that pandora couldn't take advantage of. When it was all in the works and full account ignore was taken away it also came out that people didn't like the way the full ignore system could be used just in game, to find out who owned alts. For example you suspect someone, ignore him or her and see if the suspect alt is ignored as well. So even if they can make it so pandora couldn't take advantage people would still complain.

Yes if we could see what account alts belonged to can effect the game in ways Xizi pointed out but having it so alts are known to be alts without being able to see what account they belong to does not. For example there was a time I and my BF had alts that we used to go in the game and have it so we could get some private time without people knowing it was us. It would have made no difference what so ever if it was shown they were alts. But people don't even want to allow that. Reason being there are so many people playing 2 or 3 games in 3DXChat, and mostly around the same friends. They see it as doing nothing wrong, but they also know if they get found out people won't like it and for good reason. It is not just some people playing more than one game, there are lots of them. there are more female avis in the game that are played by men than there are females, and most of those men have a male avi as well. If one had to be shown as an alt they couldn't do it. That is the main reason it is all left the way it is and why we no longer have a full ignore system.

 

So their right to lie out weighs our right to be safe? 

Example I was vl married to a guy once who tested me with another guy.  I did not take the bait but I ignored it.  Next thing I knew I got a really pissed off message from the guy testing me.  HE was pissed I ignored him. The nerve!!  I had no clue I was ignoring him.  But yes it sure was nice to know.  And now I know he is out there pulling that crap on others because he can get away with it.

Same guy.  Gave him a second chance.  He blew it.  I broke it off again.  Then he stalked me.  In game and in real life.  He told others he was going to come for me to convince me we were meant to be together.  I must have blocked 8 different alts by him.  Just crazy.  And Scary.  He was asked to leave me alone by many of my in game friends.  He refused to listen.  I had to go to the cops to get him to listen.  You can say "its just a game" all you want and laugh it off till it crosses a line and some creep is sending you roses and balloons and cards to your rl home and telling people he is coming for you.  Then it gets real fast.

3DX has to do something to protect the innocent from the evil.  The evil doesn't need to like it.

First question:  Must it be connected via smartphone?  Can't it be done via computer?

Second question:  I've seen some with the tag Lovense user or owner on their profiles. Is this an option?  I'd rather not have it.

On this, the third anniversary of our first dance:

We sway to the music and I push the stray hairs out of your eyes as I gaze into them and whisper “There is still no place else I’d rather be.” And we continue to dance to our song, lost in our magic.

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1 hour ago, SpicySweet said:

It needs to be done by IP address and location (IP can be changed...location a little harder to do).

 

No. It does not work via IP.  It works via the account.  If I ignore you and you have 3 avis on that account all 3 get ignored not just the one.  Now if they have more than one account then yes need to ignore that account on one of their avis again.

Can I add different colored ties?  Or with a color wheel?  And not ties that are wayyyyyyyyy too short.  A real TIE.  And yes, socks.  I don't understand why everyone rolls their eyes at the suggestion.  We have been asking for them for years.  Whats so difficult about socks? Add a color wheel to them and done and we all shut up about them.  Easy.

On 6/2/2021 at 8:30 PM, Lexxxxi said:

I think you didn't understand. no one is promoting pirated version. simple making a point by giving an example. she had valid point that those people can add so many skins, poses and clothes why not 3dx ? they earn so much money why they never hire content creator and give players quality update ? i guess you will be happy to be slave (recent cage poses ) than cow. it's stupid to say that pirated version reduce chances of game upgrade (in fact its opposite ). in 3dx most content are created by one person if she think she wanted cage pose then she will create cage pose ( doesn't matter if majority of players don't even want it ) same goes with clothes.  you are to naive to blame other for work laziness of Dev. Look at recent update takes them 2 weeks to fix small lipstick bug ( wonder if dildo has same bug would it be takes 2 weeks ?). 4 months ago update promise as BBC update but in the end we got Sissy update.

You don't think that if those playing for free on an illegal version actually PAID to play as we do it would not assist and impact our game play?  Look who is being naive now.  I may not climb in a cage but I know many who would. I am not naive and this is not the only game I PAY TO PLAY and this has much more upgrades. YOU may enjoy BBC but it's not on my top ten list at all.  That is not the point.  If you wish to support a pirated game you are certainly free to do so.

On 6/1/2021 at 1:27 AM, Angelqueen said:

Please tell me...which stolen product did I advertise? I really hate this type of guys... hate to act, but have a big mouth when can attack without consequences

Plenty of people have visited one of the pirated versions from the forum at least once ... I'm just telling the truth that people like you are afraid of! The pirated versions in some ways, but surpassed the official version. This is easy to help, and official can easily push pirated versions back into the background , but for that, developers have to do something MORE ... not too much, but they have to do it!

I have never visited it nor will I ever.  I make it a policy to not support thieves.  It is my opinion that each person who makes the choice to use the pirated version reduces our chances of obtaining all the game upgrades we all desire.

For the record I'd never wear cow spots either.  I am not a cow.

On 5/19/2021 at 9:05 PM, Jade Kali said:

Still think about him........

Me too Jade. Every Day.  I think we all do.  He set the bar high.  

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On 5/11/2021 at 12:28 AM, MaraVitus said:

Yes I agree. The rouge and lipstick is bugged for me as well @Gizmo. But, I know you guys will fix it soon.  Thank you for the new boots and such. 

BUT, the boots and the new leather skirt for some really WEIRD reason look grey when I put the colours #FFFFFF (whitest white) on them. In this photo, I am wearing the colours #FFFFFF on all three pieces of clothing. Can this be addressed as well? Pretty please and thank you  

I too had this issue.  Thought perhaps was my computer.  I would very much hope this could be fixed as well.

There are many times I go into a club and listen to the dj and dance without talking to anyone.  I have never seen this as a problem.  I sometimes go to admire the build of the room.  As a room owner I never took issue with it either.  It is not like the number of people in a room are a problem like in other games I have played.  I could see if we were limited to 10 person occupancy or 25 people even.  So please explain the problem to me?  Or is it just that someone was sitting near a fire or in a chair you wanted?

Edit to add:  When people enter a room and never move from the landing they cause lag.  So if lag is your issue when you join a room please move to another area of the room to cut lag for yourself and others.

6 hours ago, Leeloo said:

Even in a concurent game (Achat to not name it) they tried the pose editor.

As far as i remember, players could only place the dummie bodies in the position they wanted to be made then send it to the devs of the game with only the hope that they accept to do it.

And i think they got a lot more money (at least at this time) than 3DX. But this feature had a bad side effect. 99% of the proposed poses was hetero, meant that for two years there was zero LG pose made and they lost both gay and lesbian community. (And that's when i came to 3DX because two years without a single lesbian pose was too long, even for me )

I'm affraid that something similar would happen here with a pose editor.

The pose editor in that game has been introduced again.  Many are using it and some even have their creations for sale.  

Should they introduce it here as well the editor would not be limited to just hetero poses and users just as it is not there.  A hetero user should not be expected to design a pose they would not use as the instinct is not there.  So instead of making this a negative turn it into a positive and encourage those with different sexual preferences to also use the pose editor.

Sadly you are correct that there are many more hetero poses than others.  So work on changing it.

I rather like the change.  It's nice to see the dev's upgrading the graphics and I thank them for their efforts.  Breasts do indeed bounce.  No matter their size.  To expect them to be exactly like real life breasts is a bit of a high reach on the expectation scale.

Sure hope this gets figured out because the last thing I want is an IPhone.

If it all works as claimed....I've not yet tried it myself....then I think it's a fabulous addition.  Thanks Giz!

Following....

I completely agree with Jack.  I've tried other platforms where you pay monthly rent for your own home/property.  If I wanted to play a game where it took me 20 minutes to put together a pair of shoes I bought only to find out they do not fit and my toes show through the tips and the designer will not provide a return/exchange for correct size, I would be playing it now.  

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A night with old friends in honor of STEAK AND BLOWJOB DAY aka the Man's Valentines Day!!

This Sunday, March 14th at 3pm EST/7pm GMT

We are so excited  and looking forward to seeing  the Soap open and ROCKING again!!

So come on in for a bite to eat (grins) and some classic Soap Shine and enjoy the bubbles and song.

V and I find it difficult to be here without you....still....We know you walk here with us.

Olesya,

I am just reading this for first time.  Please know that Vaughan and I wish you the best of health.  These are scary and dangerous time we live in.  Know we love you.  Please get well soon!  

7 hours ago, JackPine said:

Lake Keely (TheLake)

As much as I love my travels in 3DX to places far beyond my backyard, I have fallen in love with this place.  Gentle breezes course through pine and birch, the rocky shorelines where reeds grow from the shallow water, gentle waves on the water broken by little islands dotting the lake, the sun seemingly becoming one with its reflection on the water.  Reminds me of summer sunsets just down the road from me.

And the music!  Another place where the selections fit the place so perfectly it gives me goosebumps at times. 

I find myself putting myself on a rock or dock and alternate some work with taking in the peaceful water and views of the islands off shore.  Quite a happy place for me.

Kudos to whoever built this place.

 

When V and I return next month remind me to tell you about the lake currently being used....Wishing you a happy Thanksgiving.  Stay safe!

9 minutes ago, Nektar said:

Precisely this It is paradoxical in a way. You have to surrender yourself, and by giving yourself up you in turn get that piece that was missing.

And....this...

17 hours ago, Nektar said:

Is it possible to be so thoroughly fucked that suddenly you realise that you're completely and utterly owned by the other? This is not the defined relationship of a master and slave, but rather like nature asserting itself. Predator and prey. Alpha and beta. There might be a bit of struggle, but it's just prelude. The outcome was never in question. There's something very liberating about knowing your place in the order of things.

I know exactly how you feel.  I could not have expressed it as well.  It is like finding a piece of yourself that you did not know was missing.  Foreign yet familiar.  Excitingly yet dangerously comfortable.  Just sensing you have found your peace and all the pieces fit without any force.  Congratulations.