On sexual orientation and 3Dx
A thing that has always stood out to me in this community is the number of male users who've set their "Looking for"-status in their profile as Women, yet these same guys will gladly hop into bed with me, a sissy, ie. guy with a girly avatar, but at the end of the day, still a guy.
First, let me say thank you boys, I'm very flattered😘 Second, just to be clear, I don't do "trap" stuff. I'm very open and clear about my sissy kink, and the guys I'm with know the score and still want to hop into bed with me. Third and final: boys, please, the line forms to the left.
With the preamble out of the way, lets move on to what I wanted to talk about. If you were to ask any of these guys about their sexual orientation, they'd probably tell you they're straight, or bisexual. Some might be closeted gay guys, but I'm not so sure. I've never been told by one of my partners to keep quiet about our misdeeds (not that I would talk about it, that's between us), and more than once been left with gifts in my profile for "services rendered". So why then is it that these guys that are not ashamed to have a fling with a sissy still say they're looking for women only in the game?
If I were to offer an hypothesis, it would be this: A good subset of guys are attracted not necessarily by women, but femininity. By feminininty I refer to the classical/traditional notions of the female form (knowingly simplifying a more complex and nuanced field of study, with my apologies to the discerning reader, simply to avoid having to litter my post with caveats and asterisks): softer, curvier features, womanly mannerisms and gestures, inflections, tone of voice etc. These traits attract them, regardless of if the person in question has a penis or vagina.
The most obvious rebuttal to this whole ramble would be that we already have a definition for this kind of person: a bisexual male. But I would still argue that this type of man isn't necessarily attacted to more masculine men, but would not mind sleeping with a feminine man and would not suffer any sort of emotional crisis or cognitive dissonance. Their orientation would be towards the feminine.
Perhaps I'm completely off in my assessment. Perhaps there have already been studies made on this and I'm just repeating old news. Perhaps I'm way out of my depth making these assumptions. Either way, guys who fall into this category: thanks for being around. You certainly make my time on 3DX worthwhile