Biggest Cons of RL Sex (obviously from a Lesbian POV)
1.) Major RL Drama .. In case you don't know it, Scorned Lesbians can be much more brutal than men ever can. When they coined the phase "Hell Hath No Fury As A Woman Scorned" they must have had a Lesbian in mind. They can be downright vicious.
2.) Disease ... STD's among Lesbians are very common.
Biggest Pros of Virtual Sex (From my prospective)
1.) No Bad Drama ... Sure, there is drama in any interaction between humans, (hetro,bisexual,gay,lesbian) but the difference in virtual you can click a button and it goes away (unless you were stupid enough to give real life details)
2.) No Diseases (unless you count a hacker planting a virus)
3.) Virtual Sex is different from Porn....I have Lesbian Porn I can masturbate to but its much more enjoyable if you have a depiction of a gorgeous partner on the other side of the screen (or world). I have had some mind-blowing orgasms in this manner. Some better that actual real sex. (believe it or not)
Some Cons of Virtual Sex (depends on how seriously you take it)
1.) Mixing actual feeling with feeling for a avatar on a computer screen. I have found that I can actually get very attached emotionally to some (real people operating avatars) I meet in sex computer games. When they let you down or disappear you feel it, especially if they stated the same feeling. Some people do this on purpose just to "fuck with people" and have a good laugh. I feel very sorry for them, they must have pathetic lives.
2.) You never know who you are with...You may see a sex female avatar but you never know if its actually a woman or a man. They definately don't look like that in RL. There are no fat, ugly avatars in 3DX Myself, I can usually spot them, if you get into a conversation a man has no idea how to think like a woman..there are other signs , won't go into that
I recently got very, very, attached to a woman in 3DX now she seems to be gone..and I have been going through hell. Luckily I have some that want to take her place.
Its YOUR choice how involved you want to get in virtual sex. If you have a good imagination it can be fantastic. If you allow it to effect your emotions you might pay for it in RL.
You will have to excuse me..I have to charge the batteries in my Vibrating Egg before I see my new girl tonight