DarrenD

I hope I won't be grilled for reviving this my first and oldest thread, but, for some reasons I thought I wanted to make my voice heard again First a friendly hello after a longer time away, but ... I have been busy elsewhere. The reason I'm back here in the forum is because many of the things that have happened in the last couple of months started with 3dx, and in particular with this thread. In the past couple of months I have been operating a fetish blog, that has gained a significant audience (no worries, no advertisement ahead lol) and that has proven to be a hell lot of fun. And all of this has started here. 3dx allowed me to untie my sexuality, much more than I had ever imagined. What had started as a nice way do distract myself and to relieve some of the "sexual pressure" that builds up in long term relationships, has allowed me to stand up and reclaim my sexuality, to open up to my long hidden fetishes and desires and find me not being alone with them I learned to express them in words, much based on the things I have "learned" here in 3dx, when interacting with people. And I learned to talk to my real life partner about all this, about 3dx and eventually also about my blog. LilCal's advice to talk to my partner has been the best advice in a long time. At the bottom line I have somehow changed from being passive to active, from passively watching porn to much more embracing my sexuality. Real real life effects. Just wanted to share that - have fun all you naughty pervs!!!

I used LiquidVPN before and now ExpressVPN. Can recommend both. If you ever intend to use the VPN to circumvent geoblocking (Hulu, Netflix) too, you should invest some time finding the right one.

the traffic is encrypted and hidden between the two VPN endpoints, that is for one part your computer (where you install the VPN client on) and for the other part the VPN server you are connecting to. The only thing someone monitoring the network will see is the connection between your computer and the VPN server, but not what kind of traffic is sent, because it is encrypted. VPN cannot be used for plausible deniability, if that is important for you. In other words: your shared home network owner can detect *that* you are using a VPN connection, but if that doesn't bother you, then you'll be fine and perfectly safe.

add ooVoo to this list, has excellent video quality, too

use a VPN and all is good

and I'm happy to be able to use it, and if it's only for the short???? period waiting for the new patch ...

Lol that website will be completely overrun by potential players, I'm sure

http://3dxforum.com/index.php?/topic/4897-3dxchat-saver-—-a-little-something-for-those-into-a-lot-of-building/

yeah, they can get away not telling the truth about their bust size, about their age, about their entire physical shape and condition (what if a person has disabilities?), except ofc about having a dick or a vag ...

ok, it's all about honesty. Then let me ask how honest our avatars can be? Is it lying to use an hair color different from your physical one? Or to walk around as a busty bimbo slut when indeed you are a flat chested female nobel price winner? Are futas dishonest people? Are people playing as vampires dishonest? Why do we expect people to be particularly honest when it comes to their gender? What I'm trying to say is this: don't *expect* to find truth, but expect to find good role players. If it is important for you, don't assume anything but directly ask the person you are interacting with. If the answer you get later proves wrong, yes, then you can say, you've been lied upon, but only then. And of course, like said by many other ppl in this thread, the best thing is if people use their profiles to give pointers about what is important to them.

I think I'd like to have that treatment for myself, too ... Maybe I could join you, giving Mr. awesome the chance for a threesome?

Lol, this is indeed becoming a bit nerdy I am happy to understand our existence to be more than electric signal processing (and that's not me now beginning to talk about spiritual dimensions of our existence). We are much more than the parts we consist of. Modern physics (Quantum Physics and String Theory, if you are open minded) has understood that for some decades. It's the dependencies between the parts that craft our world. Simply put: no, I don't think replication of neural inputs will give us the same original overall experience

Sorry to hear that!!! I think the only viable thing to do is to really save your room using ... well yes ... Alex' mod. If you've invested hours in crafting, you should always backup your work. Too late now ofc ... A shame, there's no save option in game.

slots? we need slots? then I want to have one too, pleeeease