Perimede Posted June 23, 2018 Share Posted June 23, 2018 I thought this might be interesting Brett Smith 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brett Smith Posted June 23, 2018 Share Posted June 23, 2018 When I arrive to a club and the hostess jumps on me with a big hug that's cute so yeah. Otherwise no. ☙𝔼𝕩❧ 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Niblette Posted June 23, 2018 Share Posted June 23, 2018 I think it depends on the context of the hugging. If it feels like its someone greeting me then of course I don't mind or even like it. Is it a single hug or multiple hugs? Do they walk away after hugging me, or just stand around? There that can be awkward. Am I alone or are people I am chatting with or know around me? Is it one of their friends? Really its not such a simple thing to answer. I never really feel like my personal space is invaded by the game, but everyone is different. I am going with no in the poll though. ☙𝔼𝕩❧ and Sage Stoner 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AllisonStarlove Posted June 23, 2018 Share Posted June 23, 2018 I myself have never played 3DX, but my wife has (before we were married). She has told me she didn't care having men invade her personal space and being lesbian considered it an invasion (since most never look at the profile to see if they are even interested in men). She didn't really mind it when women did it, but as stated before by some, you have no idea wither the person taking liberties with you is actually male or female. She was the one that actually warned me not to get involved in 3DX (and we have better thing to do with NZ$50 a month). If you don't do it in the real world, you shouldn't do it in 3DX.Of course in 3DX you can't be arrested for a perceived sexual assault or have the shit kicked out of you for "hugging" some stranger. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xandisweet Posted June 23, 2018 Share Posted June 23, 2018 This should be interesting.... AllisonStarlove 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alliehotass Posted June 23, 2018 Share Posted June 23, 2018 No ah don't. Especially when they say nothing and stand there with their arms crossed in ma space.People on ma frands list is different, strangers who aren't can suck a phat one Do we like strangers in rl hugging us, out of tha blue? Nups…….they could have fleas or smell like bad eggs eeps Here tho ah consider a rando huggins worse than a "hi", even tho ah respond to all pms, because im not rooders, a rando hugg is ignored and then they can stand there waiting fo a return huggins and look like a complete doosh when they dunn get one Ah consider eet a little bit rude but a rando kik in da ball bag would be so sweet to have fo such occasions Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheTruth3dx Posted June 23, 2018 Share Posted June 23, 2018 This is not interesting. Truth. Xandisweet 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perimede Posted June 23, 2018 Author Share Posted June 23, 2018 So much similarity in turn of phrase to the way someone who got permanently banned wrote on other threads. If you can’t say something useful or other than the bloody obvious why do you post? You are neither being clever nor funny. AllisonStarlove and Brett Smith 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheTruth3dx Posted June 23, 2018 Share Posted June 23, 2018 You have no control over what I choose to say in these forums, and your approval of their content is of no consequence. Finally, my opinion differing from yours does not make it any less valuable. This topic is NOT interesting. Truth. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perimede Posted June 23, 2018 Author Share Posted June 23, 2018 Good points Brett and Niblette, it isn’t always that simple, but you get my point, which is good and it makes clear you reasons for voting the way you did. I appreciate that. Allie, I do love the way you write, especially the ‘Randi kick in the ball bag’. Now that is an animation we really must press the devs to create :-) Alliehotass and Brett Smith 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheTruth3dx Posted June 23, 2018 Share Posted June 23, 2018 So much similarity in turn of phrase to the way someone who got permanently banned wrote on other threads. You should show evidence of this claim. Until you do this could be construed as harassment and bullying. Truth. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perimede Posted June 23, 2018 Author Share Posted June 23, 2018 Philosophical question - is nihilism useful? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheTruth3dx Posted June 23, 2018 Share Posted June 23, 2018 I would say in regards to the subject of being nihilistic against random hugs in a sex game, it is of very little value. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheTruth3dx Posted June 23, 2018 Share Posted June 23, 2018 There are far more important and meaningful topics to be discussed in this game. If you do not approve of someone hugging you in the game of 3dx, use your ignore feature. Truth. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perimede Posted June 23, 2018 Author Share Posted June 23, 2018 It’s clear already that people don’t like random hugs except under specific circumstances. 15 to 1 so far, it also pisses people off, so don’t trivialise it because you get some nefarious thrill out it. Did you vote yes or couldn’t be bothered? It’s a secret poll so you don’t need to answer if you don’t want to, but you see the point? You and one or two others, probably fewer seeing as you’re playing alt game, are in the minority, get used to it and accept that most people don’t find what you’re doing, funny, interesting or anything other than a bloody nuisance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheTruth3dx Posted June 23, 2018 Share Posted June 23, 2018 I cannot be bothered by a poll that represents an unscientific and inaccurate sample of 21 people out of over 5,000 members. Truth. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perimede Posted June 23, 2018 Author Share Posted June 23, 2018 It a bigger proportion of the user base than the samples used to test drugs compared to the world population. I do agree that at this stage it isn’t anything better than a rough guide, but it is giving us idea of what to expect as it develops. Alliehotass 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mar Mohan Posted June 23, 2018 Share Posted June 23, 2018 Instead of a "kick in the ball bag" which seemed to have been liked which is far worse a punishment for a hug that could be a simple misunderstanding. How about what IMVU has in place, you put your hand up there for blocking the person from an unwanted hug, kiss on the cheek, room invite or partner request. You select it in a profile as to who you want to have contact with you or they just put it where anyone that isn't your friend can't touch your without asking but can turn it off when going into certain rooms where that is considered acceptable or encouraged. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheTruth3dx Posted June 23, 2018 Share Posted June 23, 2018 The game needs a "slap another member in the face" animation option, both for things such as unwanted hugs, but also for people that go on endlessly about trivial aspects of the game. Truth. Xandisweet 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brett Smith Posted June 23, 2018 Share Posted June 23, 2018 I am a hugger. I love hugging and cuddling and talk like that on and on. But yeah it is not my thing when an unknown someone jumps on me without any warning lol By saying that I don't like it doesn't mean it bothers me much. They usually move on pretty fast to hug someone else. There is no BO in 3DX, no STD, no sweat-catch-bugs so it's nothing but a bit annoying lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brett Smith Posted June 23, 2018 Share Posted June 23, 2018 Dont let me see any of you you in game. I will hug every last one of you #SerialHugger ROFL. You are no stranger so that probably won't cause any mass hysteria or media alert lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vaughan_Rarius Posted June 23, 2018 Share Posted June 23, 2018 I dont mind hugs off friends or greeters in a room. I dont like hugs from random people unless they at least say hi first. Its rude and invades my personal space. Maybe I just whup them! MeiLing and xMaceyx 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tlaera Posted June 23, 2018 Share Posted June 23, 2018 I'm sure that few people actually like hugs from complete strangers. However, the natural progression here is to suggest that we make it so that you can only hug people on your friends list. I would be against that. There are a number of people (male and female) who I see regularly and chat with in Local but who I haven't added to my friends list. I'm completely fine with them hugging me as a greeting when they come into the room. And similarly, I often hug these people when I enter a room, and they don't seem to mind (because they then hug me back). I feel that the negative of random strangers being able to hug me is less than the positive I get from hugging "friendlies" who aren't on my friends list. Tlaera Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xandisweet Posted June 23, 2018 Share Posted June 23, 2018 I thank randos for hugs and compliment futas on their cocks. This issue shouldn’t be an issue. You block the person... and move the heck on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheTruth3dx Posted June 23, 2018 Share Posted June 23, 2018 If only they would have hugged instead of shooting than perhaps the United States would still be a British Colony. Truth. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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