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29 minutes ago, Nektar said:

It's been a while since I posted any of my screenshots. A little slice of 3dx life from your resident forum sissy:

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Stripping in the cold light district

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Some carefree fun at the garden

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My best car-show impression

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When he hits your spot just right.

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High-as-fuck dancing

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Ohhhhhh 👀

 

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Hey everyone! Been a while, to say the least. Where I've been? For those of you who haven't checked my profile out in-game, to sum it up: computer problems, and trips in and out of repair/service, which when all is said and done has taken nearly two months. The only good thing about this farce is I didn't have to pay anything, since the warranty was still valid.

The computer seems to be working fine now, but I've been burned so many times now that I'm a bit skeptical. Even so, it's good to be back. I have a lot of slutting to catch up on, so come poke me in game ^^

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So, having been back for nearly a month, what is my take-away? In many cases, it's like coming back home. You reconnect with old friends, reinforce bonds, and play catch-up on pent up lust. And while our emotions might make us feel that it is deeper than that, let us not kid ourselves, my darlings: this is lust. Carnal, primal, no less real, but ultimately not something you can build an actual relationship on. I think that without that physical presence to reinforce our bonds of relationships, what we have on here are attractions.

Don't get me wrong, attractions are important. Attraction is real. The bonds of attraction, camaraderie and friendship we form on here mean something, but without the anchor of close proximity and flesh on flesh contact, ultimately we risk drifting apart. Cherish what you have on here, my pretties, but never let it become a substitute for a proper significant other next to you.

Heh, reading this back it sounds like I'm quitting 3dx. I'm not. Hell no. I still love and cherish you all, my friends and lovers on here, and I will keep on sinning and making an ass of myself. I lust, oh do I lust, but I will not fool myself into thinking my lust is anything more than that. Now let's make some beautiful moments together, all you beautiful people ❤️ 

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When I'm on the prowl I find that I keep coming back to the lovers in my friends-list. It's nothing strange: these are people I click with and who I know I'll have a good time with. Sometimes though it makes me wonder if i've still got "it". So today I decided to hang out at a time that I'm usually never on, in a room I have never been in that does not cater to my fetish, to see if I could snag a guy. I'm pleased to say I've still got it.

The line that sealed the deal? "Say what you will about us sissies, at least we're easy." I'm garbage :P

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Fathers and sons

I wouldn't say I know my father very well. By that I don't mean I had a single parent childhood. What I mean is I'm from a family where we don't really talk about things. We talk, but never about serious topics. Things that matter. I know my dad loves cars, speakers, whiskey, but I don't know him. I never asked him for relationship advice when I was a kid. To this day he's something of a stranger to me. I know he suspects I'm queer in some way, but thankfully we've never had that discussion either.

What I do know about my dad, and something we can bond over, is our love of music. However stunted our communication is otherwise, here's something we can bond over without it feeling forced. So when it was time to get my father a gift for his 71st birthday, I knew I couldn't go wrong with something music related. Dad and I have different tastes in music, but we share some. One such artist is Leonard Cohen. So naturally, when I saw a DVD called I'm your man, which was a concert/documentary about the man with other artists interpreting his songs, I thought I was golden!

On The Day, dad opens his presents, all is good, and dad decide to go watch the DVD while my mom prepare the birthday dinner. We each have a glass of whiskey, in goes the disc, and I'm thinking: bonding time! First thing we're treated to is a bunch of black and white, dreary archive pictures of Montreal with Leonard Cohen's voiceover about growing up in the City of Saints, to a harsh industrial soundscape. This looks like something I would have shot with a DV-camera and edited using some shitty Pinnacle software, but okay, cringe aside, the music was coming. First up, Suzanne, interpreted by Nick Cave, Perla Batalla, and Julie Christensen. A beautiful song, surely this will be enjoyable!

Of course it doesn't work. The artists attempt a canon version of the song, but it just falls flat, and sounds unrehearsed. Then we're back in documentary mode, with Nick Cave extolling the greatness of being a Cohen fan before being a Cohen fan was cool, dark and mysterious. Not off to a great start, at this point I am still holding out hope, but it's like the atmosphere in the room is dropping.

Next up is Rufus Wainwright, who it turns on Cohen is friends with. "Okay, cool," I think, praying things will turn around soon. But no, Rufus takes Everybody knows, a darkly humorous song and turns it into some sort of tango version. At this point I'm dead inside. I glance over at dad, fearing what I'll see, and my fears are confirmed. He's not into this. Fuck you, movie! The documentary then moves on to explain what a dark, mysterious and tortured artist Cohen is and all I can think of is how these guys have missed the mark. What about Cohen's wry sense of humor? His incurable romanticism? No, it's like the director heard his songs in Natural Born Killers and then ran out straight to make a documentary about the man.

Anyway, Beth Orton comes on and sings Sisters of Mercy and for the first time, we actually get a good performance. But just like any good torturer, you break up the monotony of pain with glimpses of hope, before proceeding with more agony. Some guy named Antony sings If it be your will, or rather butchers it with a shrieking, weak, wavering performance. At this point I feel like I have to apologize to my dad. "I didn't know these people would suck, dad! I've got better taste than this, you've got to believe me!" At this point I'd rather tell him about the first time I sucked cock than watch another minute.

It's at this point when mom, bless her heart, tells us dinner is ready. Dad and I glance at each other with a sense of relief. We shut the movie off and have some fine steak.

I don't know if I will ever know my father better, but I know this. Fuck you, I'm your man! Fuck you.

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Yesterday saw the triumphant return of a 3dx legend (at least in my circle of friends).

I was just lazily scrolling through the user room list, when a familiar-looking creator name popped up. Surely not a coincidence! So I put on something decent, went to have a look for myself, and yes, it was in fact her :) We got right back into our routine of playful back-and-forth, not skipping a beat. Soon the place was packed with people I know or know of, and we're dancing, joking and hanging out. 3dx at its best :) 

As things start to die down, as they must, I spy a guy with a most interesting pic in his gallery, and we start chatting. One of the first things I do when I chat up a guy is glance at his preferences. If it says "Women" I double check to see if said man makes any special exceptions for sissies. If it doesn't say so, I just take them at their word, respect their orientation, and have a conversation. Naturally, this guy has "Women" listed, and I don't see him leaving any wiggle room in his profile, so I keep it PG13.

After a few minutes, he lets on to me he's been with a few sissies before which naturally leads the conversation down a new path, and soon we're planning our next destination. 

Usually, when playing to a fetish, there are a few stock lines, roles and character traits that keep coming up, but we both confessed to enjoying going off script. What followed was a surprisingly sensual lovemaking session, with a cheeky guy cheering me on in the background :P 

Afterwards, when we were cuddling (me and my partner, not the cheeky cheerleader guy), he asked me "How did you know I was into that?" I told him the truth: I didn't. Sometimes you just have to take a gamble :) 

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A few days ago I was strolling around the various user created rooms when I noticed a friend of mine was hosting a public room. I decided to swing by to see what was up.

What was up was her and another friend of mine making love. No, that's not the term. They were fucking. 

So? That's what everyone on here does! Well, not really. When I'm observing people on here 99% of the time they're making porn. I do it too. We kind of unconsciously follow this script of sex acts and positions we've seen porn. Well, not so with this couple! They were just going at it, carnally enjoying each other.

If I were to speculate, I'd say it's because they grew up in a time when internet porn wasn't readily available, so they found their own rhythm instead of following the unwritten script.

Where am I going with this? I'm not sure I have a point, but I'm going to try fucking more on here. 

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3 minutes ago, Nektar said:

A few days ago I was strolling around the various user created rooms when I noticed a friend of mine was hosting a public room. I decided to swing by to see what was up.

What was up was her and another friend of mine making love. No, that's not the term. They were fucking. 

So? That's what everyone on here does! Well, not really. When I'm observing people on here 99% of the time they're making porn. I do it too. We kind of unconsciously follow this script of sex acts and positions we've seen porn. Well, not so with this couple! They were just going at it, carnally enjoying each other.

If I were to speculate, I'd say it's because they grew up in a time when internet porn wasn't readily available, so they found their own rhythm instead of following the unwritten script.

Where am I going with this? I'm not sure I have a point, but I'm going to try fucking more on here. 

This is so relatable. 
I can’t even count the number of random hookups that followed the exact same script. 
Chat a bit, flirt, some innuendo, clothes come off, maybe a bit of making out, then a blowjob, possibly some oral in response, then the true sex and you can tell that they pick the poses for visual appeal. Not for how they would feel irl. 
 

On the flipside, I get complimented for going ‘off script’ and keeping it real. 
Sometimes I don’t want to go through all the hoops, sometimes I just want to jump their bones and get bent over a table or chair. 
Sometimes I might not want to be fucked at all, but I still want them to cum, so mouth and hand is all they get. 
 

And that’s not even mentioning my primal fetish, that will leave my partner in a well fucked puddle, scratched to hell and with my teeth marks all over their shoulders. 
 

So yeah. I know what you mean. 

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4 hours ago, Nektar said:

A few days ago I was strolling around the various user created rooms when I noticed a friend of mine was hosting a public room. I decided to swing by to see what was up.

What was up was her and another friend of mine making love. No, that's not the term. They were fucking. 

So? That's what everyone on here does! Well, not really. When I'm observing people on here 99% of the time they're making porn. I do it too. We kind of unconsciously follow this script of sex acts and positions we've seen porn. Well, not so with this couple! They were just going at it, carnally enjoying each other.

If I were to speculate, I'd say it's because they grew up in a time when internet porn wasn't readily available, so they found their own rhythm instead of following the unwritten script.

Where am I going with this? I'm not sure I have a point, but I'm going to try fucking more on here. 

Damn, my ears are burning.😉

3DXCHAT is a place for virtual sex. However, what you witnessed, the only thing 'virtual' was due to the two being separated by physical distance.  The rest?  That was real, and I must say, deliciously so!

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1 hour ago, AtticusFinch said:

If you have cats close your door. If you think having one walk in when youre on the toilet is bad... that look of perplexion a cat can give when you're at the zenith of your orgasm is something that will haunt you for a long time.

Are my ears burning again? 😜

Earlier in the day Friday found me at Erotic Nude Beach.  A friend joined me.  She recognized another nearby sunbather as one who has been a rather rude colder.  We decided a show was in order...

By the time we were through, we had scared the shit out of her cat.

Damn, I AM bad! In all the good ways. 😉

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6 hours ago, AtticusFinch said:

If you have cats close your door. If you think having one walk in when youre on the toilet is bad... that look of perplexion a cat can give when you're at the zenith of your orgasm is something that will haunt you for a long time.

Haha! My cat walked in on me when I was trying on my latex outfit for the first time. He burred up his tail, raised his hackles and stared at me in pure horror. Yes, doors closed after that 😅

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6 hours ago, AtticusFinch said:

If you have cats close your door. If you think having one walk in when youre on the toilet is bad... that look of perplexion a cat can give when you're at the zenith of your orgasm is something that will haunt you for a long time.

Try having one of your dogs ‘helpfully’ lick your toes when you’re distracted and right there on the edge. 
 

It scared the hell out of me and I’m lucky my Frenchies are built like little tanks. Because I quite literally launched her a meter backwards by spasming my leg in fright. 
 

Lesson learned on both sides. 
They stay away now, and I put my legs up where they can’t reach. >.<

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4 hours ago, Nektar said:

I've been in this game and the dating game we call "real life" long enough that you'd think that by now being stood up wouldn't be such a big deal. Not gonna lie though. Still stings a little, every time. 

Surely 💫soon  good news surges,
an apology or something hard to overcome 🌪️
happened
making it impossible.
When you are in World🌎 chat
your name🌟 flashes in between
and that lucky person will realize
ohhh what I done ? !!!🤦‍♂️
rushing to PM 🗣️ you
whispering why !
in soft words.

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5 hours ago, Nektar said:

I've been in this game and the dating game we call "real life" long enough that you'd think that by now being stood up wouldn't be such a big deal. Not gonna lie though. Still stings a little, every time. 

Hello, friend.  I know the feeling well. 

However,  with my experience with the game the past two days?  I would not be surprised your date stood you up not out of any frustration with you,  but the game itself.  The latest updates are not without its challenges it seems.

My hope that is the case for you! 

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