r... is not fun

[Briana]

Like Ash said, it should be reported.

 

It's not "just a word". Yes, I understand 3dx is not real. If you want to RP rape, great... go RP it, but keep it out of the public at least. I completely understand people wanting to RP a rape scenario. It's mysterious and taboo. The problem is... I can assure you with 500% certainty that had you ever been raped you would never be curious about it ever again.

 

Here's an example for you slower types who may not "get" it...

If you saw a sign that said "Dead Mom's are awesome!" It probably wouldn't bother most people. But if your mother had passed away, i think you would see it a little differently.

You know what Jess...I think some ppl's here simply don.t wanna face the reality and bored about to evade and live they're fantasy they could not in rl,in my case ''RAPE'' isn't for me

[JessicaX]

Also for the record, i'm not trying to silence anyone or change anything or tell you how to experience your fantasies. I am simply making a point.  

[jenie]

Like Ash said, it should be reported.

 

It's not "just a word". Yes, I understand 3dx is not real. If you want to RP rape, great... go RP it, but keep it out of the public at least. I completely understand people wanting to RP a rape scenario. It's mysterious and taboo. The problem is... I can assure you with 500% certainty that had you ever been raped you would never be curious about it ever again.

 

Here's an example for you slower types who may not "get" it...

If you saw a sign that said "Dead Mom's are awesome!" It probably wouldn't bother most people. But if your mother had passed away, i think you would see it a little differently.

ok you wanna talk about RL in GAMES???? 

 

so stop all shooter games, because they kill people! Stop all war games the whole world is in fight! and many many other examples. Every day happend terrible things to real people, that is life!

 

Sorry thies is a game!!!!!  And every one can play what he wants! I think it depends on everybody himself. 

[Desirea]

It's called being insensitive. Most are acts of violence that are in no way pleasurable, and often with injuries (physical and mental). Keep it private, out of public view, and show some compassion for the person behind the avatar folks. This may hit close to home for more people than you realize. Peace.

[Deelicous]

Ok then the rules need to be reviewed so that all names that are potentially offensive are removed. 

 

Incest and race are obvious palces to start.

[Heidi]

Yes good Point Desirea.

[Eroaulon]

Wonders how people would think if they had a 12 year old daughter in the hospital, watching a nurse us a rap kit on her......just saying. 

[JessicaX]

ok you wanna talk about RL in GAMES???? 

 

so stop all shooter games, because they kill people! Stop all war games the whole world is in fight! and many many other examples. Every day happend terrible things to real people, that is life!

 

Sorry thies is a game!!!!!  And every one can play what he wants! I think it depends on everybody himself. 

 

 

I tried to make it s simple as I could. I like how everyone says "It's just a game" and things like "everyone can play how they want", yes are the 1st ones to bitch about getting colded. Well in that case, the one who is colding is playing the game how they wish right? Then noone has a right to be upset about them for doing that. Ohhh wait... I see how this works.. its ok if you like it, but not ok if you are against it.  

[Guest Toxic]

I understand how rape is a terrible thing and I would never wish that on anyone but really just ignore that room maybe even ignore that person then you won't see the word rape. This is a place where ppl come to fulfill fantasies and whatever else and everyone is different in likes and dislikes. Are you going to bitch at porn websites and whatever other places that may have that word or have rape porno, most likely not you'll just won't look at them. If you don't like their fantasy then ignore the room or ignore the person then you won't see the room or the word.

[jenie]

I tried to make it s simple as I could. I like how everyone says "It's just a game" and things like "everyone can play how they want", yes are the 1st ones to bitch about getting colded. Well in that case, the one who is colding is playing the game how they wish right? Then noone has a right to be upset about them for doing that. Ohhh wait... I see how this works.. its ok if you like it, but not ok if you are against it.  

wow jess your so smart you are my hero!!! your light shines so bright!!! Thank you that you make is simple. its a pleasure for me, that you have teached me!!!!

 

mmhhhhh         

[JessicaX]

wow jess your so smart you are my hero!!! your light shines so bright!!! Thank you that you make is simple. its a pleasure for me, that you have teached me!!!!

 

mmhhhhh         

 

It's my pleasure. I enjoy helping others.

[jenie]

It's my pleasure. I enjoy helping others.

great, it was amazing      

[Briana]

I think the problem are the moderator just let going this in game without notified ppl's who break their rules ,  it's a lack of rules and I don't understand why they don't respect it, and it's for mostly.

[Briana]

Ok then the rules need to be reviewed so that all names that are potentially offensive are removed. 

 

Incest and race are obvious palces to start.

reviewed? Rules just need to be applied in game cause 3dx  already have.

http://3dxforum.com/index.php?/topic/1425-3dxchat-community-rules/

[skully]

roomname..-- hello titty plum thunder --inc

[Guest Skar]

I think the problem are the moderator just let going this in game without notified ppl's who break their rules , it's a lack of rules and I don't understand why they don't respect it, and it's for mostly.

Well, in-game, there no moderators and it been that way for a long time.

 

It the players responsability to report anything that seen to break a game rule. If the players don't report what happen in-game, the admin got no way to know what is happening.

 

And well, the forum moderator only monitor the forum and got nothing to do with in-game.

 

It 3dxchat choice to work that way.

[Naptime]

Rape rooms are not allowed in public as it breaches the rule based on illegal activities. If you see a rape room, report the room owner.

 

Also the same if people discuss it in the world chat or in any public channels.

 

Regards

Ash

Without my personal opinion I am just going to side with Ash's factual breach of conduct. Proper approach to this issue based on game RULES should lead everyone to there report functions in the game. Opinions on this issue are so not needed as the game itself requires you to report the illegal activity.

[simon]

Oh and btw you can't actually rape none in here cause you need the approval for the partner request. Rape happens when you force someone. And in in here you can't . So this post make no sense . Just saying.

And even if I rape someone in here what will you do? Call the police and tell them that a couple of pixels did raped you? Come on....

[Briana]

Oh and btw you can't actually rape none in here cause you need the approval for the partner request. Rape happens when you force someone. And in in here you can't . So this post make no sense . Just saying.

And even if I rape someone in here what will you do? Call the police and tell them that a couple of pixels did raped you? Come on....

No sense? Really? we just talking about the fact of promoting rape in game, you have no conscience or what!? wtf

[simon]

Lol

That is a game.

Following your thoughts we have to stop play game like GTA, battlefield and such games.

So come to talk to me when you will understand that is a game, nothing even close to RL.

If you think that is RL, well I'm sad for you.

[Guest SayaX]

Oh and btw you can't actually rape none in here cause you need the approval for the partner request. Rape happens when you force someone. And in in here you can't . So this post make no sense . Just saying.

And even if I rape someone in here what will you do? Call the police and tell them that a couple of pixels did raped you? Come on....

 

 

So when are you going to draw the line? Are you saying it is fine to talk about or RP pedophilia because in theory everyone here is over 18 right and it is only some pixels?

 

I am all for free speech and people exploring fantasies, but there are some things that will offend and if you have fantasies in RP about rape then I would be worried if you can just keep that as a fantasy and not take it into real life.

 

Even in a sex game there is limits. There are certain topics that are taboo and off limits and rape is one of those. By all means do it between 2 consenting adults or as a group but not in public, have some respect for others in the game.

 

This is a virtual world but there are real people behind the keyboard. If you just come here for fantasy and sexual pleasure then I think it is you that should be feeling sad. Most come and stay here for the community.

[simon]

I didt said that is one of my fantasies , as you know me saya, I'm not one of these persons.

But now pls stop play all the war games all of you actually play bec otherwise I will think you have a fantasies about killing ppl. Or like always most of ppl just like being ipocrit.

[SamanthaSweetheart]

You have no idea what it's like be taken to a doctor's checkup when you're only six years old, to check to see if you have rabies after a neighborhood dog's bitten you in the back of the knee, and the doctor asks your mom to leave the room.

 

You look back on it and think, “It is normal procedure for her to leave the room. The doctor has to work without any worry in the room.”

I was asked to lie down on the examination table as the doctor began checking my body in places, I thought, was normal at the time.

 

She dug her hand underneath my shorts, past my underwear and dragged her finger across my opening, barely pushing her finger up inside of me saying, "I'm checking to see if there's any inflammation down here."

 

Like a fucking six year old would know about that sort of thing, right? She's a person of professional status; she had to do that to make sure I wasn’t sick.

 

It happened so quickly that I barely had enough time to realize what she had done to me. She just put her finger inside of me. I’m just six years old. She raped me.

 

After it was all over, I was given a lollipop and a clean bill of health, when the doctor did NOTHING to check to see if I needed some form of rabies shot. I wasn't prescribed any medication of any kind, the doctor told my mom I was "okay.”

 

All I remember is that smile she gave me when we walked out of the doctor's office, that fucking smile of,"Thanks for the good time kiddo; I hope your mom brings you here again so I can check up on you deeper next time."

 

You don't know what it's like to live in a world isolated from everyone after something like that has happened to you, shutting everything out because you can't explain to yourself, why in the world, someone would do that to you - of all people, a professional woman who was supposed to check to see if you needed care, but instead groped you and took advantage of you behind a closed door.

 

You don't know what it's like to feel unclean for years after that, crying yourself to sleep for MONTHS afterwards, until you were finally old enough to understand what happened to you.

 

Do you know what it's like to change in the girls' locker room in middle school away from everyone, calling you ugly names because you're afraid of them finding out what happened to you when you were six?

 

I had to come in 10 minutes before P. E. was over so I could change back into my school clothes, so that the other girls wouldn't pick on me.

 

I made peace with it when I was 16 years old; a sophomore in high school, when I found out that she had been caught molesting other children after me. I made peace with it 10 YEARS after the fact, but I forgave her for what she did to me. If I didn't, I would have let her ugliness consume me.

 

I bet you've never had your boyfriend leave you after two years of being together with you, when you finally gathered up the courage to tell him that you were molested as a little girl. Damaged goods, is what he mutters out from underneath his breath as he walks out from your life. That shit HURTS when they say that to you.

 

I bet none of this has ever happened to you. I'd slap that stupid grin off your face for even PRETENDING to know what it's like to be molested or raped; having to live with it for the rest of your life, thinking you're broken and used, how someone won't love you for who you are.

 

Because there is something wrong with you; innocence all yours to willingly give away at the right time in your life- gone, just like that.

 

The right education about this would be to bring to the forefront, to EVERYONE reading this, that this is a VIDEO GAME and should be approached in that manner.

 

What people do with their rooms is their business, and why should you report someone if they want to indulge in a fantasy that's completely free of consequences in the virtual world? You’re only creating a sub-culture of warped people who think they’re gaining favoritism and privilege at the expense of others.

 

Wouldn't you rather have someone indulge in a rape fantasy here, instead of gathering up the sick courage to go do something like that to someone out in the real world? Instead of policing such a delicate issue, why don't you leave people be to whatever fantasies they choose?

I’m for people indulging in this kind of behavior here, instead of going out and committing a crime of this severity, to someone in real life. If it's not hurting you, why should you "social warrior" the cause, ESPECIALLY if you've never been molested or raped?

 

I know it’s not just women; men are just as vulnerable, too. I know it’s harder for a guy to speak up because you were brought up to be strong. I’m sorry if something like this has happened to you, too.

 

Don’t give it power over you. And don’t let idiots on here, who know nothing about what has happened to you and I, dictate how you should act in a SEX VIDEO GAME – especially men pretending to be women on here.

[JessicaX]

The issues isnt that rape is in a movie or video game or even part of a story or RP... the issue is... It becomes the lowest form of tastefulness when its advertised and glorified. Its even worse when there are people who think this is ok.

[SamanthaSweetheart]

The issues isnt that rape is in a movie or video game or even part of a story or RP... the issue is... It becomes the lowest form of tastefulness when its advertised and glorified. Its even worse when there are people who think this is ok.

 

 

Have you been molested? Do you know what it feels like?

 

You're glorifying it and advertising it right now, aren't you?