Cheyenne

Who doesn't have a pun on their tongues now, hm ?   

I feel the new place is wonderfully designed, the attention for detail in a somehwat more classy ambience appeals me very much and having the lights dance over you in the somewhat dim atmosphere has a quite erotic touch.

However I found it present very little space, as previous posts already indicated, no bath- or boudoir room to take the conversations further for instance and I am quite certain that a terrace on the upper floor to gaze out into the ocean of stars could have presentend such an enticing addition, not just for indecent thoughts.

Perhaps that could be a thought for future updates together with the portation of certain Nightclub elements since I fear that place will become vacant entirely.

Having briefly skimmed through the previous pages I surmise that the frustration is directed towards an ebbing rate of updates in contrast to the potential and I strongly believe that the community would have loved to feel a little more involved in the building process, by means of another voting system what should find it's way into the club maybe ?

Surely it doesn't have to be on such a lush level of detail, especially in correlation to the performance cost, which already took a toll on my laptop.

Thanks for reading

The only time ever no one would sing "Let it snow..."

I should very much like to agree on the second option, a topic I am both in heart and mind very passionate about.

For instance, it already shows when you catch someone on the wrong foot, a false word or gesture can already escalate to friction, I think that alone showcases that many of us put their hearts and true selves into it.

There is a good portion of emotional enthusiasm and intensity dispersed over this place, just take a look at all those heartmeltingly romantic love declarations on so many profile, maybe it is just me but I'd like to think them truthful or for the rp'er, laced with some of it.

It has been a few years since I entered the virtual world myself, perhaps I just started off like most of any other tyro's on here but I'd like to think "evolved" is a good term to describe myself and associate my own interests on here. There is such a multifarious community both in cuture and character to meet, people from all over the world with their very own tales, some that touch you, some even shaping you on your own journey. Close communities, circles of dear friends and else can be established on here as well, while roleplay is definitely an aspect to spice things up, I couldn't display anything my heart & soul weren't unequivocally in, it just wouldn't feel comfortable and sincere.

We sometimes even come across very special people that accompany us virtually in our lives in amazingly supportive ways, people that are hundreds or even thousands of miles away, yet we feel closer to them than anyone else, singing a song only we can hear.

On some occasions we even take heart to embrace and acknowledge those feelings, a very brave act knowing how sensitive and fragile such connections can be at first, in few cases both partner even decide to take them up to the next level to forge blissful bonds or even real relations.

Yes I have seen actual couples blossom out of adult platforms like this and I found it charmingly romantic, especially if you were to tell the tale how you came to meet with a slight blush or smirk on your lips.

As for myself, I confide that I am guilty of being a hopeful romantic, being able to fall under the spell of words, good vibrations and gestures that make you heart jump deliriously happy but it often also is a struggle on a rocky road, intimacy can be a scary thing for many reasons.

Someone very special to me once said that we all came here for a reason and deep down, it doesn't necessarily have to be a sexual one, whether we allow ourselves to muster up the courage to pursue it or not is another matter entirely. Many have been burned with bad experiences, hesitation, confusion, doubt or stress clouds our senses and we wouldn't want to needlessly complicate our lives so we shut down at first. Self-reflection isn't an easy task, some words may turn sour for us until we have figured out what we truly want.

However, finding a confidant on here, someone you can share yourself with freely, closeness and tender intimacy, someone you can flourish together with, be the real you and liberate your own creative self, that is something if not the most rewarding aspect on here for me.

It wouldn't be a deep bond if there weren't any disputes, a bit of friction, things that trigger you, words that are said in a terrible passion, followed by pouting, curling up and eventually making up again, those are all but natural if you express the same appreciation.

Those are intense emotions not everyone wishes to invite or responds equally to, you can still try to ostracize yourself to purely indulge the fantasy aspect.

Love is a strong word for many but deep down, what truly compares to feeling warm affection and genuine intimacy in the 21th century ? The means of letter friends are a little quaint so I would like to think that some relations, given both parties choose that step can be resembled as long distance relations where this platform only solves as a means to enhance the experience and what more might be to come in such a technological based world, who knows ?

As mentioned before already, there is something and perhaps someone for everyone on here, how you choose to involve yourself is up to your very own desire entirely.

And that was my humble opinion

Can't say I'd mind to unwrap something myself for Christmas

Aaaand for my personal amusement

Your devotion is very admirable, thank you very much for listening to the community, it is true that many suggestions are redundant and have been made in the various topics associated to them, it simply shows the general desire and potential of this place in so many ways for more content at every capacity. Sadly I can't vote for additional freelancer or designer to alleviate your work!

Personally I would love to see some truly seductive dessous deserving of the name to entice the audience .

For instance, garter belts sans fishnet stockings and breast pasties among other luxurious lingerie.

There is also a lot of room for new aminations, both sexual and not to enrich the scenery, more environment interacting poses like the pool poses spring to mind or walking hand in hand but I am sure it has found a mentioning before already.

That aside, I'd very much like to see a few simple additions that could add so much! First and foremost expanding the color plate towards skin tones and the entire garderobe, finally a speed slider for dancing animations to add a more tantalizing touch and last but not least, opening the entire furniture for home design but those options are all out of your reach if I am not mistaken.

Thank you again for putting so much heart & soul into 3dx, it's much appreciated!

The issue is not solely with the Ignorelist but the community is upset, we have been waiting for an update almost three weeks to have this basically thrown at us.

I believe that the success of a product also comes with a dialogue to the community, communication is key. So before you roll such a significant update, it might be wise to ask for feedback, to give us a head's up or even a vote.

There are many means to inform the community about upcoming and intended changes, via mail, on the forum, even as a banner on the loginscreen. Perhaps the very idea could have been softened with a compromise, allowing us to save or import our ignore-lists, at least the names already on it, of course there would have been a riot but by explaining and informing us in advance, it'll be a milder one, not to mention that it shows consideration and care to the community, we like to feel heard instead of having things presented with a fait accompli.

Regarding the update policy, I have been preaching this for years now. We have very talented users on here which would love to contribute to a product they're at least as passionate about as you.

You'll see that with a growing product, fresh content is also paramount and many if not all rivaling products boosted their capabilities through it's implementation.

And the fear of lacking quality is something that with all due respect, I don't share, many teasers and advertisements have shown such auspicious potential that it would only be too saddening to waste that potential.

I ve been victim myself 7 years ago. While I wouldnt put the incident into the bullying category, it was even worse. It's called stalking and had its origin in the internet aswell. Back in the day I wasnt really careful with personal informations of myself, but also the said person has abused his administrative rights of a community to trace my IP adresses that have been logged into the forums. That way the said person paid me several visits in the real world. Unwanted visits to be precise. The only way to stop this was to call the police and to reach an interim disposal via court of law.

 

While it was a shocking time it was also a learning curve.

 

Privacy on the internet has become a huge deal to me since that days, and I can only advise anyone else who fears bullying or stalking, that it is totally up to you how many private details you reveal in any digital form. I ve seen some people are pretty reckless with their privacy and yet they wonder why they are hit were it hurts. And to be honest, I am really surprised how far some stories go here in 3DX Chat... a game that is obviously a sex game with slightly to no chance to find a real partner here.

 

Usually people (like myself) come to roleplay fantasies here, while others come here to seek or create drama wich is often carried beyond the walls of 3DX or the internet.

 

We are own destinys smith, especially here on the internet.

 

 

 

 

As I said... Real life is a bit different. If you comparing the digital world and the real world equally, you might live in the digital world too much. Not wanting to sound rude, but its a comparison that has one huge flaw...

I am sorry to hear  you had to witness such horrific ways, I think it is safe to say that we all are a bit passionate and perhaps somewhat sensitive to that topic and you are obviously entitled to your own opinion, I won't divulge any of my personal experiences but I found the advice a little rash, especially now in respect to your own happenings and what others had to endure virtually.

With the anoymity coming to play in the cyber world, it is a whole new ball game of problems that can arise.

We do forge our own destinies indeed, how we perceive this place is up to everyone's own perspective, I might be among the minority who enjoys more than the sexual aspects of company but to each their own.

Perhaps there is a third category and on top of that, a somewhat deeper reason for all of them, us, to come here but I won't digress any further into that social aspect, it is just a curious development to see so many wave the "Drama-free fantasy" flag and remain for something else, something more on here. Once and every now even blossoming an actual relation or other close bonds from a world that can be more than pure debauchery.

It is just that I disagree with the term "drama-seeking" and the whole process such things unfold and stalking or bullying emerges but enough of that and back to the Ignore-list .

I always love to hear the magic word "Cyberbullying"

 

While real world bullying can be a real pain, I cant really see how Cyberbullying became a thing. I always hear it from the Facebook people that cyberbullying is going on... I mean how so...

When someone bullies you on a social network or game, how can you not walk away from it? When beeing bullied in the real world its often not easy just to walk away as you mostly surrounded by bullies. But on the internet the solution is so easy and simple....

 

Just turn off your computer.

 

The same basically applies here... feel beeing bullied? Just put the person on ignore. He or she made another alt? No problem. Put on ignore.

 

Cyberbullying... I still cant believe its a thing that exists.

I wouldn't be so quick to cast a judgement on that, I genuinely hope for you that you never needed or need to deal with mobbing or bullying as a victim, therapist or close relative, be it virtual or real but it isn't quite as easy, not to mention that those who actually entertain these forms of mindgames do not reveal themselves in such simple fashion but this is probably not the place for a detailed psychological essay or a list of examples.

If you care for more indepth knowledge, I'd be more than happy to indulge you with some rather shocking stories, those are surely not the norm but they're not excluded fron such an environment. An account-wide ignore does not necessarily stop that either but it ceases most attempts.

On the matter of shutting down your computer in case of cyber harassing, we're all paying customers as well, while it might be the best or most efficient solution in the end, you would also leave your social circle behind, not to mention a certain amout of money and I am sure the developers have an interest to avoid such escalations for several reasons. I believe there is a larger amount of people on here who could  fill you in on rather unpleasant stories that went to great lengths, thank you for understanding.

As for the matter of payed slots, I can befriend myself with the thought, however wiping the entire ignore list before does somewhat contradict with it I am afraid.

While I am sure the very idea was marked with very good intentions to tackle the issue, we are a mature community that very much appreciates some sort of consent and interaction towards such decisions to avoid friction and escalation of any kind when it comes to such drastic decisions.

Even if it seems to come with some issues, I think it's safe to say for myself and others that we would feel much more secure if we were given the means to ignore entire accounts.

It is greatly saddening to see the degree of cyber mobbing, bullying and mindgames of all sorts emerge on here so we as paying customers should have the very right to protect us by all means.

The current system with the ignore list "wipe" basically invites everyone for a free ride and as xgold is easy to come by, it feels like fighting windmills.

I don't want to delve too deep into that topic and I am sure there are reasons behind, a sensitive nature, a bad day, frustration, misunderstandings, boiled up anger that culminates into a happy trigger finger or lashing out, but from what I came to witness over the last 1 1/2 year, it definitely blew out of proportions.

Although some disputes or false first impressions could surely blossom into healthy friendships, I strongly believe we should be allowed to ostracize us from where it doesn't feel that way.

In the very end I suppose it comes down to personal opinions, admittedly it does harmstring the rp community, as for myself, I do welcome the pricing in hindsight to the abundant creation and removal of characters in certain wild passions even if it cuts into spontaneous celebratory pranks as well on the downside.

Just thinking of the very twisted possibilities the new system invites makes me shudder.

Perhaps there is a new more dynamic Ignore system or compromise on the horizon that can be developed with the input of the community but until then, I kindly urge to pay an open mind and reconsider the new system.

Our thoughts and hearts are with all of you, my prayers go out to all of you brave souls #Solidarité

Such horrifying actions ... I am crossing my fingers, strongly believing that those wounds will heal and that such terrible barbaric acts of terrorism will never manage to strike fear into our and your hearts, for we are united and stronger than that.

Such a pity I missed the Halloween festivities, I wonder if anyone dressed up like this

I can only speak for myself here but the current patch forced me to wipe and reinstall 3dx chat entirely to get it starting again, just in case I might not have been the only one befallen with such a pesky issue.

Apparently my client was reset to 3dChat build "0" for unknown reason, perhaps that helps those tampering with the same hickup!

I have to agree with the aforementioned, since the system is already implemented it shouldn't be much of a stretch to extend past the skin colors, especially with Halloween and all it's fabulous creative possibilities looming on the horizon and I believe it could be spread past certain still undyeable clothings, hats, several dresses and even the very furniture itself as well. Let us color up our experience, please .

And with all respect to the shemale community regarding the new poses, I wonder if it would pose too much of a strain to convert them into something that could be wonderfully sensual for us women, for instance, sans the imaginary strap-on, the caressing fingers of our dear one's or something naughtier to the rhyhtm of the pose, only having to reprogram the hand motions. That being said, I have no knowledge of the pose creation itself, perhaps it is a simpler task or maybe not but that could be something to taken into consideration for the future design to ensure all parties satisfaction .

PS : Last but not least, I am sure many of us would still like to see the implementation of a dance-speed slider, just subtle little additions that can make this place even more enjoyable.

I confess that my suggestions were inspired by one of my favorite tv-shows, a nightmare to design but such a lovely design

And this is one is a rather sexy body I even love to wear myself from time to time.