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Please, please, please change threesome poses so that every person involved must click Accept before the pose will start. This is basic consent here. It's bad enough that anyone can join a Partner group without the full consent of those already partnered. But the fact that only two of the partners need to want a given pose in order to force the third to accept is problematic at best. So this is really a two-part suggestion: When a third Partner is invited to a partnership, existing partners should also get a pop-up to Accept or Deny that new person. When a threesome pose is requested, require all partners to Accept before it is initiated. If any partner clicks Deny, the pose request should be cancelled. I know this has been asked for before, but maybe it needs another reminder that this something that is desired, and frankly something that is both ethical and practical. It's a win-win-win all around.

#1 After a "Grand Opening", you will never ever see the respective location being opened again. #2 Only exception from rule #1 is when there are additional "Grand Openings" for the same location. (also called DomMac's law) #3 People who write "don't cold me" in their profiles are quite naive. How else would they get the idea that colders would read profiles before colding? #4 Those who complain the most about "Pose Clickers" in their profiles also complain the loudest that there are no new poses with every update. #5 The bigger the breasts of an ava, the better the chances that a real surprise is hidden under the virtual skirt. #6 Deal with people who have "no drama!" written in their profile and drama is 95% guaranteed! You want to have fun? Then avoid people who have "Only here for fun" in their profiles at all costs. #7 No serious virtual slut will have the word "Slut" in the avatar name. The same goes for the terms "Teen", "BBC", "Dom" and "DJ". For example, "DJTeenslut" is therefore neither Teen nor Slut and least of all DJ. #8 In 3dx a blowjob lasts 2 hours and eternal love lasts 2 weeks. This is called the 3dx time distortion. #9 The law of inverse sexual proportionality says: The more terms like "gangbang", "fuck", "orgy" appear in a room name, the lower the probability that there are gangbangs, orgies or sex at all. This rule can be combined with the Capital-letters-assumption: The more capital letters in a room name, the less the chances for some sexual fun. #10 A derivation of the axiom of 3dx time distortion combined with Bob's assumption (#11) leads to the rule of semantic ambiguity. It states that the expressions I will do immediately.... I will always...." (love you / hate you / fuck you / ...) I will never...." (leave you / betray you / fuck he,she, it again / ... ) I will be back soon... usually have these true meanings: ...withing the next 3 days, if at all ...at least for the next 3 days ...at least not in the next 3 days ...within the next 3 days, if at all.. #11 Bob's assumption: Meet, fuck, fall in love, swear oath of undying love and loyalty, marry, betrayal, drama and breakup are more a thing of 3 days than 2 weeks. tbc

The thing is that all parties in the Threesome get the Accept / Deny pop up for the pose, the system only requires 2 Accepts. It can not be that hard to change it to need 3 accepts. Not coding savvy but this feels like it’s changing a 2 to a 3 in one line of code somewhere. The partners being added mid sex is rude. Had it happen to me a few times in random orgy rooms. Always makes me stop everything and just walk away. But even then I agree that a confirmation pop up is a good idea.

I agree, it would be a nice change. Some people can be too... insensitive to understand that they can't just invite whoever they want without asking first. It would also be very nice, if in threesome poses same sex partners could swap positions, like in normal FF (or I guess MM). I know that those requests not connected, but if devs going to work on threesomes they might add this feature as well.

Dear administrators and moderators of 3DXchat! Dear 3DX chat community! We are contacting you, because we do not see any other way out of this situation! Too much blatant rudeness and humiliation of human dignity! INSULTS IN THE GAME – SAY NO! The fact is that the "ignore" function does not fulfill the purpose for which it was made. Because; 1. Poised on the ignore list of the player, you can still see how others respond to his remarks! 2. we have players who bypass these ignores and easily continue to swear and at the same time not only the one who sent in the ignore, but also his family and friends! 3. many people spend holidays, weddings, birthdays, concerts, events in their locations! We think for many people this is a very important event in this virtual world! Many even have relationships that have reached a real level! And taking advantage of the fact that in the virtual world it is impossible to punish the player, such people poison our life in the game. Dear administrators and moderators of 3DXchat! We ask you to make a team(KICK+ignore) for the owner of the location, so that he has the right to throw an undesirable and boorish player out of the location. My home is my fortress! The owner of the location must have such an opportunity and such a right! The function "For friends" or "For a group" does not help here, people are constantly changing in the Game! New ones come, old ones go. Among newcomers, too, full of good adequate people! And such people of course should get to places where they will be welcome! Sending to "ignore" so that an unwanted player doesn't get into the location doesn't work either! Because they make Twinkies and come again! And continue to get those players they hunt and their loved ones! Some of these Twinkies almost a dozen! Even if you sign up such a player, they will just make a different account and return! Already have a similar experience! And you can't remove such a player from your location by sending them to ignore until you reload the location! And how to do this if there are 100+ people in the location, for example? Throwing everyone out for one boor and bully? Why should other adequate players suffer? At the last concert for example we had 3!!! restart the location twice to remove the boorish player and he still appeared there 4 times with another twink! How long can you stand it? We will not mention the names and nicknames of these players here. There are enough similar players in different diasporas! But the introduction of such a command (kick+ ignore) for the owners of the location - it would solve the problem 100%! If you don't know how to behave correctly, get out! A couple of warnings and if the player continues, the owner of the location throws it out! And such functions are already available in other similar games, where the owner of the location can remove an unwanted person from the location! But we are fans of this game! 3DXChat has become a native for many, although many will find it funny! Yes, this is a SEX game! Yes, we are drawn here! Pixel! But there is a person behind every monitor! A LIVING PERSON! And even here, the player must remain HUMAN! The 3DXchat community! SUPPORT OUR REQUEST! Уважаемые администраторы и модераторы 3ДХчата! Уважаемое сообщество 3ДХ чата! Обращаемся к Вам, потому что не видим другого выхода из сложившейся ситуации! Слишком стало много откровенного хамства и унижений человеческого достоинства! Это, конечно, секс-игра! Мы — не ханжи, так же как и другие не видим ничего дурного в том, что вещи называются своими именами, пусть даже матом или какой то пошлостью, НО это НИКАК не должно оскорблять КОНКРЕТНОГО человека! Дело в том, что функция «игнор» не выполняет часто той цели для которой она сделана. Занеся в список игнора такого игрока, во первых, ты все равно видишь то как другие откликаются на его реплики! Во вторых, у нас есть индивидуумы, которые обходят эти игноры легко и играючи и продолжают доставать при этом не только того кто послал в игнор, но и его близких и друзей! В третьих, многие проводят в своих локах праздники, свадьбы, Дни рождения, концерты! Мы думаем для очень многих это очень важные события в этом виртуальном мире! У многих даже отношения вышли на реальный уровень! И пользуясь тем что в виртуальном мире невозможно получить ответку, такие люди отравляют им жизнь. Уважаемые администраторы и модераторы 3ДХчата! Очень просим Вас сделать КИК для хозяина локи, чтоб он имел право выкинуть нежелательное и хамское существо вон из локи. Моя дом- моя крепость! Хозяин локи должен иметь такую возможность! Все как в реале! Ведь лока — это виртуальный наш дом! Наш дом открыт для всех! Мы рады каждому! Но если кто то не умеет себя вести и унижает кого то, то ХОЗЯИН локи должен иметь право удалить этого человека из своего дома! Это абсолютное правило любого цивилизованного общества! Функция «Для друзей» или «для группы» тут не помогают, в чате постоянно меняются люди! Приходят новые, уходят старые. Среди новичков тоже полно хороших адекватных людей! И такие люди конечно должны попадать туда где им будут рады! Отправка в «игнор» чтобы нежелательный игрок не попал в локу тоже НЕ РАБОТАЕТ! Потому что они делают твинков и приходят снова! И продолжают доставать тех игроков на которых они охотятся и на их близких! У некоторых таких твинков чуть ли не десяток! Даже если такого игрока забанить, он просто сделает другой аккаунт и вернется! Уже есть подобный опыт! И еще такого игрока нельзя убрать из своей локи, послав в игнор, до тех пор пока не перезапустишь локу! А как это сделать, если в локе 100+ человек например? Выбрасывать всех из за одного хама? Почему должны страдать остальные адекватные игроки? На крайнем концерте например пришлось 3 !!! раза перезапускать локу чтобы убрать хамского игрока и он все равно в 4 раз явился туда другим твинком! Ну сколько это можно уже терпеть? Мы не будем здесь называть имена и ники этих игроков, но я думаю подавляющее число уже поняло о ком идет речь! Подобных игроков хватает в разных диаспорах! А вот введение такого кика для хозяев лок то это бы решило проблему! Не умеешь вести себя корректно - на выход! Пару предупреждений и если игрок продолжает, то хозяин локи его выкидывает! И такие функции есть уже в других подобных играх, где хозяин локи может удалить нежелательного человека из локи! Но мы фанаты этой игры! Чат стал для многих родным, хоть многим это покажется и смешным! Да это СЕКС-игра! Да мы тут нарисованные! Пиксельные! Но за каждым монитором сидит ЧЕЛОВЕК! ЖИВОЙ ЧЕЛОВЕК! И даже тут игрок должен оставаться ЧЕЛОВЕКОМ! Просим сообщество 3ДХ чата поддержать эту нашу просьбу! Поставить подписи под этим посланием всех неравнодушных! Здоровья всем в это нелегкое время! Спасибо!

To the one who will not read it I have a good job with nice colleagues, earning enough money to be independent and able to pay my bills. I have a lovely family and some really good friends. I am very happy with my life. But unfortunately, we had a lockdown. And a lot of things changed because of this. Last 8 months I worked from home. I couldn't go to gym, couldn't meet my friends, couldn't do a lot of things I was used to do. So I spend more time in 3dx. I improved my movie-making and photoshop skills. I talked with online friends a lot. I made new friends. And I learned a lot about hypocrisy. People unfriended me because I make porn movies. In a sex game. People unfriended and iggied me because I live my little kink and play as an escort. In a sex game. The leader of a "serious" DJ group told me that I am "only a dirty porn producer". The publisher of a "3dx fashion magazine" told me that my opinion isn't worth a shit because I am "only porn queen". And a lot of people told me that I am shit at all because I am a dirty whore. All this happened in a sex game. But there was this other thing I did in the times of lockdown. I built up a group. We set up a discord. We created events. We made movies. And we had lots of fun with this. We love to give something back to the community. Something creative, some amazing parties, other stuff. Yes, we took some things more serious, but it was still fun. It was recreational. Like every other hobby should be fun and recreational. Nothing else. So what I am doing is not replacement for a missing "real life". It is just my kind of fun in a second life. And... every Climax Club with >150 people in peak joining our party is also my middle finger in the air! It is also my "fuck you!" to all these hypocritical "serious" DJs and "Fashion Magazine Publishers" and ex-friends and never-been-friends-because-I-am-a-whore-and-porn-queen. And I have so much fun with it. You don't understand that. Well... you don't have to. But don't judge me because I love doing such things. About us...we met at a party and spoke about a philosopher who loves dancing. And then you said that you are too drunk to continue speaking on this level what was quite okay because I was tipsy too. So we agreed to meet another time. A few days later I visited you (your alt... ) in your room. You were busy with some music streaming problems and I tried to help you with that. Next day the same... I visited you in your room and we were discussing your sound streaming issues. And finally you got them solved. Then a few days later you messaged me and I was busy and I told you so. Then you messaged me again during Climax Club and I told you that I have 20 chat windows open and because of this I would not be a good partner for a talk. And then your Alt was gone. At least from my friend list. And now I've learned that this happened because I didn't shut down my activities because you wanted to talk with me... for two times... Yes, I am a really evil bitch... and you are... I am not sure what you are... Silly? Hypocritical? Does it matter? I will not judge you... It is enough that you judge and condemn me because of the things I do. I am what I am. I do what I do. I will not change myself because of hypocrits and judges and know-alls. I don't wanna be loved or liked by everyone. Everybodies darling is only everbodies fool.

That would be great! For the life of me I can't figure out how to place the persons in a certain spot in a threesome. It's always try-and-error...

Unbridled evening, dance hosted by DJ VOS, expose (or hide) your fantasies in all the places of the Club: the basement for rough and hard sex, the rest room -to discover!! bungalows and the beach for romantics...... yatch and boats for the group sex (if you want), the 2nd floor for VIPs and Escorts, voluptuousness and lascivity.......... Dance, and have fun ChloeLove.

Gets my vote. Supported

OMG...I have so much to pack...think I'll go to the beach first

Why am I up this early when I don't have to be.....probably because I'm so excited for the next few days

Last day before a 4 day weekend with no call......woo hoo.....it doesn't get any better than that...total freedom!!! :)

And you called yourself my friend.....you just showed me you weren't!

Adara means fiery noble beauty. Which seems to encompass most aspects of who I am. I am very passionate about everything I encounter. I am noble by nature and profession. I always try to find beauty in everyone and every situation, regardless of the circumstances. It also means virgin....but that's irrelevant

Damn....I need to go to bed earlier.

Intelligent Witty Sarcastic Impulsive Loving

What to do today....think I'll start with the beach

And this is why I shouldn't have drank last night.

I should have gone to bed earlier last night

The room is still spinning

Please let me out of here

I agree that something absolutely has to be done. This topic has very negatively affected me directly! I can see what everyone is saying but haven't formed an opinion until I can process all the pros and cons of both sides and that comes only with experience. What I do know is that I have been a member here for less than 2 weeks and have been accused of being so many different other people's AVI's, second accounts, and/or Alts. The constant interrogations, harassment, and conspiracy theories is very disruptive and makes the game not fun at times. The saddest part is that some of the biggest offenders of this treatment are the veterans. The very people that I was told to look to as they were good people and would help guide me through this 3dx world. I am sure there are many people that wouldn't have been strong enough to endure this treatment and decide that it's just not worth it. As a new member, I am sure this has and will continue to drive people away. And for the record.....I am Adara....NO ONE ELSE....Never have been anyone else....And I do not have an Alt.