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A while back I came across an interesting channel on YouTube called: Ask An Escort, where one escort answering questions, which she often gets as well as she clarify many other stereotypes, misconceptions..that surround this field.

I decided I'll do the same here for online version, which of course varies greatly. In certain areas is completely different from real world, while In many areas there gives no difference between. Personally, I'm surprised how many questions I'm receiving about this and how much curiosity there is. So I decided I will do a shorter version of ''Ask an Escort'' By this I am inviting also all other escorts to participate here and maybe post their own experience,  answers on some questions and view points, so that people can see how much views... differ from one escort to another and so on. Also if you have any questions,...just post them bellow. I should also mention at this point, that currently I'm not doing escorts. Okay here we go:

1. A very common question or statement that I get or misconception that I notice is: YOU DO/DID THIS ONLY TO GET MANY GIFTS - GIFT NUMBER!

Answer: While there are no doubt SOME escorts out there and people who consider GIFT number as an status symbol, or girls who do this, just do get few gifts, NOT ALL do this because of gifts. I've been here an escort for about 2 years, in this time I have delate - reset my gifts 3 times to ZERO, well I have let only 4-5 gifts left from friends for respect for them. For me, is the jump into the escort world a kink. A fantasy, that I wanted to explore, a safe way to explore. While this SAFE part play a major role and is the key point why I would not do it in  physical world.

HOW MANY CLIENTS DID YOU HAVE?
Answer: Somewhere between 150 - 250. I've been here most of the time so called ''freelance escort.'' Freelance escort means that they are not ''working'' for any certain brothel, club,..but they get most clients from public rooms or temporarily brothel work. Escorts in brothels here have usually many more clients as freelance escorts, in so far they active member of an (active) brothel. Currently there gives no active brothels, maybe White House Palace, I'm not sure. But also in various escort clubs as White Breeze, Premium Escort, LUVENUS...can go the numbers very fast, very high up.  Given that I was an escort for almost 2 years, can give you a approximate number of clients I had in a month..

DID YOU ENJOY BEING AN ESCORT?
Answer: Mostly yes. Definitely I have come across people by escorting here, that I would never meet otherwise, diversity is immense. Of course, not all of my clients were my type. In fact, some of them were quite antipathetic to me, I have just wonder about the arrogance,..of some people, hard to come across the lvl of it even in the movies. Although it is a myth that escort visit only ugly, unwanted,..man. I had many clients which was very friendly, charming, very caring to me.

WHAT WAS / ARE YOUR RATES, HOW DO YOU DECIDE THEM?
Answer:  There are no predefined numbers, each escort decide her rates on her own. Some escort count various wishes extra, as wearing certain clothes...I charged very differently, usually ''the standard' 30 min = 1 gift. My highest rate was 3 gifts for 15 minutes. 30 min. was usually always my MAX. time I was available for hire. 

WHY ARE ESCORTS FOCUSED ON 30 MINUTES? 
Answer:  Because people can't pay here with real money. Escorts offer here real service and get nothing for return, so of course - what they are willing to offer and give is very, very limiting. I'm offering a real service and get back useless gifts, people can't even pay here with anything useful. This game does not have such options. If this would be possible, then I would accept also offers that I stay over the evening with someone, go to a Love island, fulfil bigger fantasies and desires, stay with them for hours...but not for GIFTS. This is an insult. People do not call on a sex hotline and say to a girl - I will send you a smiley for payment. So until people can't pay here with real money or useful stuff I would not accept such offers, nor I think any other escorts will. And I also think whole escort thing will stay here as it is now, very limiting, and clients should keep this in mind - always!! and not try to make out of 30 min. 31 minutes, 35 min, 40...if they can't pay. Gosh I dislike this so much when they try this.  Also paying escort here with xGOLD is useless currency, same as GIFTS.

WILL YOU DO ESCORTS AGAIN?
Answer:  Maybe, currently I enjoy talking with people, hang out with people that I find interesting...getting to know them more. While I was doing escorts I could not find (very) often time for this. I spend here limited time, I was never and I'm not now online for very long periods of time, thus I try somehow navigate what to do with the time that I spend here. 

DID/DO YOU ACCEPT ALL CLIENTS?
Answer:  No. As everyone else, escorts also have limits. As mentioned above, especially here when the payment is symbolic. I always asked the client which was about to hire me, what does he wish? Sexual desires...if I saw that he was shy, or uncomfortable saying to me straight ahead I tried to relax him joke around a bit..but It was always very important for me to know in advance what the client wants from me, for my own security, well-being also, so that the following did not happened. I did not accept hardcore BDSM desires, deepthroat, Rape Rps or humiliation games.

So much for now! Hope you have discover something new, find this stuff interesting, I will update the topic some other time with more Frequently Asked Question.

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I would like to draw your attention on some issues of Cybersex Magazine, where  other 3dx escorts gave interviews and answers some similar questions - just as an addition to this very interesting text.

September Issue with Iamtrouble

October Issue with Kemistry

November Issue with FeliciaKyle

December Issue with Pixie

 

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11 hours ago, Mondayy said:

A while back I came across an interesting channel on YouTube called: Ask An Escort, where one escort answering questions, which she often gets as well as she clarify many other stereotypes, misconceptions..that surround this field.

I decided I'll do the same here for online version, which of course varies greatly. In certain areas is completely different from real world, while In many areas there gives no difference between. Personally, I'm surprised how many questions I'm receiving about this and how much curiosity there is. So I decided I will do a shorter version of ''Ask an Escort'' By this I am inviting also all other escorts to participate here and maybe post their own experience,  answers on some questions and view points, so that people can see how much views... differ from one escort to another and so on. Also if you have any questions,...just post them bellow. I should also mention at this point, that currently I'm not doing escorts. Okay here we go:

1. A very common question or statement that I get or misconception that I notice is: YOU DO/DID THIS ONLY TO GET MANY GIFTS - GIFT NUMBER!

Answer: While there are no doubt SOME escorts out there and people who consider GIFT number as an status symbol, or girls who do this, just do get few gifts, NOT ALL do this because of gifts. I've been here an escort for about 2 years, in this time I have delate - reset my gifts 3 times to ZERO, well I have let only 4-5 gifts left from friends for respect for them. For me, is the jump into the escort world a kink. A fantasy, that I wanted to explore, a safe way to explore. While this SAFE part play a major role and is the key point why I would not do it in  physical world.

HOW MANY CLIENTS DID YOU HAVE?
Answer: Somewhere between 150 - 250. I've been here most of the time so called ''freelance escort.'' Freelance escort means that they are not ''working'' for any certain brothel, club,..but they get most clients from public rooms or temporarily brothel work. Escorts in brothels here have usually many more clients as freelance escorts, in so far they active member of an (active) brothel. Currently there gives no active brothels, maybe White House Palace, I'm not sure. But also in various escort clubs as White Breeze, Premium Escort, LUVENUS...can go the numbers very fast, very high up.  Given that I was an escort for almost 2 years, can give you a approximate number of clients I had in a month..

DID YOU ENJOY BEING AN ESCORT?
Answer: Mostly yes. Definitely I have come across people by escorting here, that I would never meet otherwise, diversity is immense. Of course, not all of my clients were my type. In fact, some of them were quite antipathetic to me, I have just wonder about the arrogance,..of some people, hard to come across the lvl of it even in the movies. Although it is a myth that escort visit only ugly, unwanted,..man. I had many clients which was very friendly, charming, very caring to me.

WHAT WAS / ARE YOUR RATES, HOW DO YOU DECIDE THEM?
Answer:  There are no predefined numbers, each escort decide her rates on her own. Some escort count various wishes extra, as wearing certain clothes...I charged very differently, usually ''the standard' 30 min = 1 gift. My highest rate was 3 gifts for 15 minutes. 30 min. was usually always my MAX. time I was available for hire. 

WHY ARE ESCORTS FOCUSED ON 30 MINUTES? 
Answer:  Because people can't pay here with real money. Escorts offer here real service and get nothing for return, so of course - what they are willing to offer and give is very, very limiting. I'm offering a real service and get back useless gifts, people can't even pay here with anything useful. This game does not have such options. If this would be possible, then I would accept also offers that I stay over the evening with someone, go to a Love island, fulfil bigger fantasies and desires, stay with them for hours...but not for GIFTS. This is an insult. People do not call on a sex hotline and say to a girl - I will send you a smiley for payment. So until people can't pay here with real money or useful stuff I would not accept such offers, nor I think any other escorts will. And I also think whole escort thing will stay here as it is now, very limiting, and clients should keep this in mind - always!! and not try to make out of 30 min. 31 minutes, 35 min, 40...if they can't pay. Gosh I dislike this so much when they try this.  Also paying escort here with xGOLD is useless currency, same as GIFTS.

WILL YOU DO ESCORTS AGAIN?
Answer:  Maybe, currently I enjoy talking with people, hang out with people that I find interesting...getting to know them more. While I was doing escorts I could not find (very) often time for this. I spend here limited time, I was never and I'm not now online for very long periods of time, thus I try somehow navigate what to do with the time that I spend here. 

DID/DO YOU ACCEPT ALL CLIENTS?
Answer:  No. As everyone else, escorts also have limits. As mentioned above, especially here when the payment is symbolic. I always asked the client which was about to hire me, what does he wish? Sexual desires...if I saw that he was shy, or uncomfortable saying to me straight ahead I tried to relax him joke around a bit..but It was always very important for me to know in advance what the client wants from me, for my own security, well-being also, so that the following did not happened. I did not accept hardcore BDSM desires, deepthroat, Rape Rps or humiliation games.

So much for now! Hope you have discover something new, find this stuff interesting, I will update the topic some other time with more Frequently Asked Question.

Damn, Mondayy , you should have interviewed me, I am extremely familiar with the escort world here in game, been living around the old Garden, and  Exy and Pierros Palace for as long as it has been an idea in game..well that's of course thanks to the original Madames, Ex haren and Malvasia..lol, But like your post,  And am Glad the escorts are still out there, allways fun, and willing partners, and escorts generally give a good effort, as well as appreciate a good one back, when it cums!! Lol down to the Nutts and bolts of a date..Haha!!

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4 hours ago, Mondayy said:

Aww thank you all! Even though if click on your links Kemistry i get this:

Sorry, there is a problem

You do not have permission to view this content.

Error code: 2F173/H''

I will try to log in there and view the content.

Oh yes, you need to log in there….

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@Kemistry
Yes, I have read them, very interesting!

@ robo
Hello Robo, thx. I should interview you?:p.  I wasn't prepared for that, ahaha, sure there comes few questions to my mind now for the client side. As you wish!! But my questions will be brutally frank, direct...no mercy...same as I did answered questions above, and will answer some more in the future and maybe some other escorts too:).  But of course if my questions are too uncomfortable... to answer or anything like that, no need to do it, all okay:).
Here we go:
Why do you use an escort service?  What do you like at most by escorts? 
What do you dislike at most when escorts do? I mean, gives there a common mistake that escorts do and it's very annoying? Turns you off a lot? 
Do you see here escort(s) often? 
Did you had ever developed feelings for an escort here?
Anything else you would like to known the escorts out there?
That's is it...what came to my mind,..so your turn.

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Ok...First of all Stay Tuned..I will be filling in a Long, in Depth honest perspective this week..And It will be the Nutts and Bolts of what an escort should provide in Game, and why many or myself like to indulge a GOOD! Escort from time to Time!!!!...Stand By!!!😋

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Okay robo, take your time with it and and, of course if any other man want's to answer the questions, or describe his experiences with escorts. I know many of you want anonymity, but if you are one of my past clients and read this..and you would like to share your experience, I don't have problems with it, I would love to hear how you choose the escort, what's important for you, of course if you have enjoy the time with me, if you will say no, I will hunt you down!!!!! 😅

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Why do you use an escort service?  What do you like at most by escorts? 
What do you dislike at most when escorts do? I mean, gives there a common mistake that escorts do and it's very annoying? Turns you off a lot? 
Do you see here escort(s) often? 
Did you had ever developed feelings for an escort here?
Anything else you would like to known the escorts out there?
That's is it...what came to my mind,..so your turn.

 

  OK FIRST and foremost a little back ground on me , when it comes to the game, I have been a member in 3dx on and off since about 2014, so I am kind of like a founding father aka Dinosaur! .LOL. .Seems I have been around here on and off for a few years now, hell I'm older then sand ..lol... Over the years, I have seen a few Brothels open and close, only to be replaced by new ones, I remember the first Brothel in game, it was run by a wonderful women and old friend, Madame Ex Haren . she was one of the pioneers, of brothels and escorts in the game, she ran a  great place of fun, sex, and chat and local was a lot more important, she ran a great place and I made friends with some of the ladies there. The next brothels that became big were Pierrouss, White Palace, which was always good fun, loads of girls and Pierro always tried his best to keep his clients very Happy, as also to try and keep a party feel to his room. The other place, I loved to visit was Malvasia's Garden of Eden..... Malvasia was really the second main Madame in the game, very Hot and fun as hell, well gifted in the role ,and ran  the Garden of Eden very well, always taking the extra to keep her clients very happy ,  later the Garden  was co hosted by the sexy and talented Morgaine. Over the fairly long time they were open, had many experiences with their escorts, and would sometimes help them decide who was good or needed some work..lol...I would attend their   brothel at least weekly, if not a few times a week, and it was always good fun ,cheerful and inviting, I became really good friends to the ladies that worked there, and still am close friends, to this day

    Ok now my take!!!  first question why I like to use an escort service?  .  I like the fantasy of paying a sexy lady for her services and to be my personal sex toy, dress and wear sexy things most ladies will not wear, sex with no strings attached, no drama, no commitment,  just straight fun, and pleasure. I have to say though not all escorts are worth their weight in Gold, I have known many , and many of my close friends are escorts or prior escorts in  game, but not all escorts are good!  or leave a real impression that the experience was pleasurable for both parties. Something that  is vital, and very important,  for being  an escort, and especially a good one.... is for an escort has to be authentic, in her reasons, this makes a huge difference, when enjoying her services.  If you feel that she is not authentic in her services, and does not feel like she is really enjoying what she is doing, or is not really doing it for the real fantasy of being an escort and getting paid for services  of  performing, and taking pleasure in acting out your fantasy , it does not work and totally.... kills the experience! and ruins having any desire to pay her for her services in the future. Another thing that is becoming ever clear in new brothels and with new escorts, are how much they are charging, that is a turn off because it makes the client think, the only thing the escort is really enjoying is how much she can charge, so  now it becomes not about a FANTASY OF playing an escort, but of how much she can make, and  this at times leads to rushing , or being rushed by the escort, taking no real Joy in her work, and trying to get her next client lined up for more money. This in my thinking is starting to ruin the joy and fun of escorts, in the game...due to many newer escorts, making  their first priority on how much they are worth , or how much they can  charge making that  more important then the priority of  my fantasy and hers, her experience and mine, instead of  providing real joy for both of us, and enjoying  my lusting  desires for her,   using her, and her concentrating on making my experience extremely joyful and fulfilling for both!

So next question! What do I like  most by escorts?  Well, first and foremost, they are usually very good at what they do and are decently descriptive, nothing like going to a sex room and getting a bad partner, who just pose flips, or does not say anything, or poofs half way deep in the act...lol ..So another turn on ,and thing I love about an escort, is generally your going to get a real decent and creative partner, that will work with you,  stay and dedicated from start to finish of your date to providing pleasure. Don't get me wrong, I do like sex rooms and going and flirting and finding a decent descriptive partners pretty much anywhere and all places in game,, but generally on a fly or if you are not going to be on long, a good escort that you know is always a bonus...…. So again why I like? they have the descriptive talents, and generally will stay and help you finish and will usually enjoy it, escort often will wear outfits and things that many may not..... I have a huge fetish for a sexy lady in  tight leggings, pantyhose, stockings and garters  wearing  what I desire, which makes it a lot more exciting for me, and adds to my hot sexual fantasy of a sexy naughty lady that is their for my pleasures and joy!...I also love the freedom of enjoying them, having passion in the moment and intimacy without all the relationship drama, or any jealousy from her or anyone else and no commitment! 

What do I dislike  most about escorts, What I find annoying, and a turn off ?  Well first of all, I do not like an escort that seems fake, not giving their full attention, nothing like getting an escort that is delayed from responding due to other chat, or only being partially in the fantasy, they should ignore pms and concentrate on what is going on with the dialogue and play of the fantasy and with your paid session nothing worse then an escort that does not say anything or respond,  it's a turnoff and downer, or when changing poses, you wait a minute before  the escort responds. I also dislike the importance of payment, how much they cost, and when you just go over your time, they say times up! and stop, If one is  going to pay a few gifts for their services, it should not be the end all and main focus on the gift number and price, and going over a few minutes should not be worth a stoppage and poof from sex. There is nothing more annoying then  paying like four  4 gifts to an hour of service and the escort is garbage at what she does. I also think 4 gifts for an hour is plenty, anything more is becoming  ridiculous and then gives the escort the appearance that she only likes the gift number and gifts, not the occupation she is performing for. The ever increasing gift number is phasing out those escorts that really enjoy it first and foremost for the pleasure, and also puts so much pressure on other escorts to charge more to compare her gift numbers and how popular she must be by the number of gifts. lol.. In my view It is starting to kill the escort industry in game!.

Do I see  escort(s) here often? The short answer is yes, fairly often, a lot not just for for sex, but also just to chat and reminisce, however, sometimes I like to go around and just be silly in rooms and have fun,  flirt and chat, with regular ladies, but other times if I am really horny, and just want some good fun , I may message some that I have on my list of friends, or I may see one in a sex room, and if I do not really know any decent lady partners in the room, and see a sexy escort, I will see if she's available, because most escorts are genuinely pretty damn good at sex, when it comes to having good quality cyber sex partner on a fly..lol..

  Did I ever develop feelings for an escort here?  The short answer is no, but the more realistic answer is in some ways yes, I have not developed any personal feelings of love for any of the ladies, but I have made and developed good personal relations as far as a few good friends, and a friendship bond to some  made originally as me being  A Client, then I became a regular, and eventually became good friends, especially many that are no longer escorts but friends  still to this day.

Anything else I would like to known about the escorts out there?.  Not quiet yet, but however stay tuned!..lol

 

 

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@robo
Very interesting and respect for your courage! I think such kind of stuff does help to understand or get a more realistic insight into a seemingly mysterious world, which attracts many curiosity in real and virtual world, while at the same time also from some condemnation and indignation. I have to say I've did some of the things you mention when I had started out, in terms of mindlessly accepting offers even though I was not in the mood for it. With the time I realized that it's impossible to do escorts that way, as you mentioned yourself, it can be seen, when the escort is not there where she should be with the mind, which is a good recipe for a bad experience for both parties. Personally, I had look at the client, roughly out of sight of a one night stand partner. 

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Ok.. i will give this a try :) 

I'll give myself some questions that in some cases differ from what Mondayy asked herself.

How did you get into the escort business?

First of all i have to say that most of my escorting has been done while i ran my own brothels, as madame :) So here is the background story and my history as Escort and Madame.

I visited a brothel like 4-5 days after i started in the game (5 years ago) and started working there on the spot. What atracted me was the adventure of it, lots of sex in an atmosphere with great co-workers, namely the other girls.

However, the boss was a male who more or less expected to have "free" acces to the girls working there. This, I later discovered, seems to be the case with most male brothel-owners.

So, after watching things there.... (i think the place was called Busty Bitches Brothel :)) i decided I could make a much better brothel on my own... based on female guidance.

I had my first brothel, Pleasure Nest, up and running 2 weeks later with the assistance of 2 male friends. With all due respect to these guys, i was the central hub in the business, and when one of the guys starting taking credit for my work and calling me one of his "birds" in local chat, i decided to close it down. It lasted only a few weeks. However, this incident didnt pull me down, i still saw a grand fun future in running a brothel. So, together with the friend that didnt go behind my back i opened Heavens Delights shortly after.

I have to explain here the role of my male partner. In those days we used a system with a main area where clients and visitors could see the girls and get in contact with them, and a closed area behind, with the bedrooms. My buiness partner worked (among a lot of other stuff) as bouncer, blocking the entrance to the beds, only letting girls and clients through when a deal was set up.

This brothel lasted maybe 5 months. Some internal stuff that i have mostly forgotten by now made me want to break it down and start up again. Me and a group of girls came up with Garden of Eden, which was to become my most succesfull and longest lasting establishment. I still had my male companion with me, but due to some personal problems we had to go separate ways after a few months. After that i ran the business on my own.. with a lot of help from my staff of course!

One of my girls, the lovely Morgaine, got more and more involved and with time she took a lot of the responsability for the place on her shoulders. Towards the end of Garden of Eden, we ran it in unison, untill i decided i had been madame long enough and gave the keys to her :). She did run it for a while after that, and all in all Garden of Eden existed 3 years or so, in one form or other.

After my time as madame ended, i did some freelance escorting, sometimes in established brothels, but mostly just out there in the "streets". I still do a bit.. but its minimal these days.

What did u like about being a madame/Escort?

There are many sides to this.... If we take the sex thing first.. lets see :) If the relation between a client and an escort is sound, its based on an agreement that the escort gives pleasure to the client for a limited amount of time, for a certain payment. Besides that... no strings attached. As a free spirit who has never been interested in going romantic in the game, that suited me very well. In my earliest days in the game i quickly realized that if i gave a guy a fuck for "free" there was a more than 50% chance (or risk, rather :)) that he would would expect more, and in the worst case scenario, following me around with puppy eyes and getting romantic :-). Also called stalking...:)

So.. the Escort thing worked very well for me. I gave and received a lot of pleasure, in most cases being treated with a lot of respect from my clients. The gift thing for me (and i never charged more than 1 gift for ½ an hour :)) has for me always had a symbolic value.. its not about the gift.. its a symbol of the agreement between client and escort, setting up a boundary of the relation.

As an escort, i only agreed on doing things with my clients i was comfy with myself and never took on clients i immediately disliked. It might surprise many.. that i went through almost 4 years of intense escorting, without doing anal sex.. as its a thing i dont fancy :-) I never sold my body nor my mind, as such..... just for the taking. I could never be a ragdoll, just having my body used for someones pleasure. Some might do escorting that way... but the best experience.. for both parts.... is when the escort is in on what is happening, and has the mindset to really give the client a good time.

I take some pride in what some clients told me... something like this: "I know you are an escort, and its just a business deal, but you manage to make me feel you care." And yes.. i did care, a lot! I always gave full respect to my clients if i felt they respected me, and i am happy to say it was like that in 98% of the way more than 1000 "jobs" i did :) In the remaining 2% of "jobs" (which occured due to my own misjudging of the clients character) I closed my eyes and thought of my mother country :)! And i survived...

Another side to all this.. and here mainly in the sense  being the madame of a good establishment, was the feel of working together in a group... with the girls that worked at my place. At times i had up to 25 girls that was working with me... showing up on the days they could.. often having up to 10 girls present. The camaraderie we girls had together is one of the most cherished memories i have from all my time in this game :) ! Of course i didnt get along well with all girls i did employ, i even had to sack a few, but on the grand scale we had a great time together. Some girls worked with me from the the very start, in my first brothel.... and was still coming in.. doing jobs, 4 years later!. And i still have most of the girls that worked with me and who are still on.. on my friends list. When we meet, we always come to talk about the good old days ... i think we all look back on it as something very specal and unigue.. I do :) ! If any of you girls read this.... thank you for a great end very special time!

this was a "tour de force" for me writing.. i also got rather sentimental :) I will follow up on this on a later date and answer some more questions :)

 

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I am really enjoying the different views on Virtual Escorting described here. But with one point in the posting of robo I totally disagree. The statement that increasing gift number is killing the escort business, the joy and fun of the escorts and is even a sign of greed, can't be more wrong. And that for several reasons:

1) Don't judge the kink of other people
For a lot of virtual escorts I know the kink of getting paid for sex and and be treated like a whore is the motivation to do the escort job. At least in part. Some like to be treated as a cheap whore. Others like the feeling of being a highly paid luxury girl. To accuse this ones of destroying the business is unfair and wrong. They just live their kinks. And why shouldn't they?

2) Bad payers are bad players
This is a litte "Kemistry heuristic" after a few hundred customers. I noticed a clear and distinct relation between the will to pay appropriately and the ability to play well. The "1 gift for 1 hour" customers are usually boring pose clickers. The customers who are willing to pay me 6 gifts for 30 minutes (that's my rate) are mostly good role players. That doesn't mean that they are gentle ore caring ore attentive. Fuck, no. But they always know how to play the "whore game" with me. They accept my kink and my preference to be a luxuy escort. And by the way, they are usually also very good with the "cheap whore approach".

3) Show valuation
I simply quote part of my Cybersex-Interview here, because all is said there:

Cybersex:
So what was it that most attracted you to escorting?

Kemistry:
Well, I certainly don't need gifts to pay my bills, so it’s not about that. The main thing is that I just love sex. 
I like to pleasure people and I like to serve them. I'm experimental and enjoy discovering new things. I get horny from making other people horny.
And to be paid, and treated as a paid whore, is a big turn on for me. It's my personal kink, and that’s why I can deliver such a good experience.

Cybersex:
What does it cost to hire you?

Kemistry:
My usual service rate is five gifts for 30 minutes. That’s an “all in” price, and it’s only for hard BDSM, threesomes and gangbangs that I charge anything
extra.
And yes, I’m expensive. There are girls out there who offer everything for a single gift, and that’s their prerogative, but to my mind cheap services aren’t valued.
My clients and I appreciate and respect each other because they recognize I’m worth the price. Someone who’s looking to get their cock into the cheapest hole
possible really needn’t come visit me, or any of the White Breeze girls for that matter.

 

(Attentive Readers will have noticed that there is kind of Inflation in escort business, too.)

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@ Kemistry and who else it might interest:

There are probably as many aproaches to being an escort as there are escorts, and as many approaches to being a client as there are clients. Its very hard to generalize and there is at such no "right" way to do it..... to each their own.

Still there is something in your words i cant agree with. You imply that there is a relation between quality of service and amount of price. Its not so; it all depends on the girl and her attitude. I know, from talking with former clients, that in some cases they had very bad experiences in other brothels, after the prices boomed. Girls getting paid a big amount of gifts for a certain amount of time, staying silent and inactive during the session, and quitting the "partner" as soon as the time was up, without any warning.

Furthermore, there is a lot more to being a good escort, than just being good at the technical stuff. The emotional stuff is just as important. Many clients come to escorts to have the feel, even if paying for it, that someone cares for them and accepts them as they are without any judgment. That goes for virtual escorting as well as real life escorting. Many clients return to the sscort, if she is good, not only for sex... but as much for the feeling that with her they can relax. Some even chose to just spend the time chatting and having some friendly time, no strings attached.

One thing about the higher prices now, is that it somehow sets a higher bar. New girls coming in might take 5 gifts for ½ an hour as the standard, and sets their price accordingly. I have seen that being the case, checking the profiles of new escorts. In my days 1 gift for ½ an hour was more or less the standard everywhere, in brothels and on the "street".

just my 5 cents on this.... but as i stated... to each their own :)

 

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1 hour ago, Malvasiah said:

Still there is something in your words i cant agree with. You imply that there is a relation between quality of service and amount of price. Its not so; it all depends on the girl and her attitude.

 

Nope, I didn't say anything like that or perhaps I did not express myself correctly. What I said was: there is a relation between the quality of the customer as a player and his willigness to pay a higher price. Greedy customers are often greedy players…

An escort who wants to play the cheap street whore and charges 1 gift can deliver an outstanding experience… and a "luxury escort" can deliver a ridiculous desaster for 6 gifts. No question about that.

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@ Kemistry

Your last sentence in your statement above we can totally agree on! :)

That said, i will add this:

I understood perfectly well what you said and meant  about the relation between quality of client and his willingness to pay a higher price. I doubt that this can be taken as a general rule, as my own experiences tells me something different, and in fact i believe that just the same rule goes for clients as for escorts. A highpaying client can be a disaster as well as a lowpaying can be great. In the end its all about the chemistry between client and girl. But let that rest.

I didnt say that you said that low price escorts are lower quality, i said you implied it, which is semantically a very different thing. Reading your last answer, in your text copied from Cybersex, certainly gave me that impression. But i do realize that its taken out of another context, and was probably partly ment as an advertisement for you and your establishment.

Happy Whoring! :)

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On 12/12/2019 at 5:28 AM, robo said:

I remember the first Brothel in game, it was run by a wonderful women and old friend, Madame Ex Haren .

Misspell my name again and I'll tie you to some stool, take a rose whip and an ice cream, and spank you until I finish the ice cream ❤️

@ExHaran

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I am following the discussion highly interested and value all other opinions
which probably just show different standpoints or locations when looking at the same thing.
But, I could not resist to post my own humble opinion here.

I have a relatively simple view on the payment issue, as an escort customer.
30 minutes is a lot of time and 5 gifts have finally only a symbolic value.
So, as an escort, I would stop at 30:01. Of course, there are situations in which
the play is worth to be continued. No question, if the escort enjoys there are not limits.
But if not, why should an escort spend more time? On the other hand I do not know any escort who
stopped at 30:01.

Personally I think, the escort activities in this game are outstandingly valuable.
Why? Because people are different and not all or so bold to access a girl or lady
in other ways. It makes the game more colorful and broad and opens the game world
for very different characters.

Surely, escort is about sex, but not only. It is about talking, getting contacts, and many many
other things too. So if I could rise a glass of wine for the escort business I would do it, but wine
is not available in the game and with the beer it is the same as with the gifts, worthless without mind cinema.
In my opinion, the 3dx world would just get more colorful and broader when having more
options for compensation and as a customer I also would feel better.

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Yes, escorts come in all possible shapes, sizes, personalities...and this diversity is good. Personally, my view points are in almost all cases very similar if not the same from the escort from the video. I did in the end of the day look on clients as that, and on my part as an service that I offer, of course voluntary out of my fantasy since the symbolic payment had no major importance to me, even though many clients have forget or have get lost in fantasies and behaved....as they would really pay me with real money, and here I personally have drawn the line, I was always the one who was in control, and the only control any client had by me was only the illusion of control I had give him. Of course I stayed with some over the time, but this was more exceptions as norms by me.

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Hey all! As someone who worked with/for Malvasia and Morgaine for over a year in the good old Garden of Eden days, I would like to give my 2 cents worth.

I knew I wanted to join a brothel (or at least an organized escort service) about as soon as I joined 3dx, which was in late 2016. I checked out a few, even briefly considered starting one of my own, but eventually settled on Malvasia's Garden. I was introduced by my wonderful in-game sis, LaylaK (LaylaSmith nowadays) and worked several times a week, as much as my RL job commitments would allow. Time zone was a factor, since the Garden is European-based and I'm in the US, but we made it work.

Why escorting? Something about anonymous sex I find incredibly sexy. Oh, sure, relationships are important -- I have a solid RL relationship and I was married in-game as well. But getting intimate and pleasuring someone you didn't know 5 minutes earlier... giving them a great time.... them asking to prolong for an extra gift or getting "tips" afterwards.... just a great feeling. You feel like you're providing a service, while of course experiencing some new fantasies yourself as well. Getting some insight in the male psych too 🤣.

I actually have thought about whether I would do escorting in RL, but there are just too many stigma's and dangers attached to it. I have a RL friend who is a Registered Nurse who did some escorting in the past -- because it pays more than nursing, LOL! I don't think I would ever gather up the courage to actually do it, but the thought still fascinates me.

I really don't see much of a difference in the "quality" of the sex between the "regular" guys I see outside of of escorting and the "clients". If anything, "clients" are probably more into it, they paid and they want to enjoy and get their money's worth, so they are less likely to disconnect or be absent. Both among "clients" and "regular" guys, there are good lovers, tender lovers, guys that just want to pound your brains out, guys that take their time to make sure that you have a good time too, and plain jerks. Clients, in other words, are just a cross-section of the 3dx-community as far as I can tell.

After a while in the business, you get your repeat clients... Hi robo, muah!  😁. It's always nice to be appreciated and I always tried to figure out what they appreciated about what I was doing, to keep 'm coming back, and to vary the experience on other fronts so that they didn't get bored.

I eventually married a guy I met at the Garden, we had a good time together until he left the game. Still think about ya some days!

As far as pricing, I'm with Malv, we are escorts because we want to. Malvasia and Morgy are among the highest gift getters in the game, but I don't think either of them did it for that distinction. I respect Kemistry's point about higher payers being better partners, but I honestly think I would feel some extra pressure to perform if I was spreading these ebony legs for 5 gifts per half hour. Maybe I'm just not a good negotiator... So call me cheap if you want, and maybe I won't be able to afford that 3dx-Tesla anytime soon, but I was always happy to collect what was then the standard price. To me, it was more rewarding to have a repeat client pay me 3 or 4 gifts up front, saying "we're gonna take our time today, baby", than to go for the max per half hour.

Finally, Malvasia also mentioned the camaraderie among the girls at the Garden. I didn't expect it, but that became one of my main motivators to keep coming back to the Garden and to 3dx, honestly. I really miss it. I will still hang out with ex-Garden girls today, almost 2 years after it folded. A brilliant thing that Malvasia did is to always have a beach session with the girls after the Garden closed. We could talk about anything, sometimes it was about politics, or parties, or particular clients that day, or the coming game updates..... Sometimes it lasted 15 minutes and sometimes hours.... That camaraderie was instrumental in the Garden's success; I don't know if other establishments have anything like it, but I haven't found it anywhere else yet.

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