Sambo

10 minutes ago, Ross the RoberT said:

Not really sure why you folks think if a third gender is added all of a sudden dude's won't pretend to be females anymore.  Some of them go so far as to photoshopping pics, etc.  Do you honestly believe just because they add a she male choice they will stop?  The answer is probably no.   

As far as just futas being the only one against it, that would be incorrect because I'm a hetero male and I think it's a waste of time and resources.   It's not going to stop them from acting like lesbians or straight females so what's the point. 

Me personally, I'm not speaking about catfishes; you are right, that will continue to happen no matter what. I'm speaking about seeing things as they are and having a penis pop up on a girl because someone clicked the wrong pose etc... Also, anything that will improve the gameplay experience isn't a waste of time and resources. If you are a girl and you choose to play as a girl in the game, why even have the option for a penis on your screen? It's just a turn off for a lot of people. Take the new doggy style facedown-assup animation they recently added. A girl could be having a three way with another girl and a guy; someone could click that pose and you not thinking accepted the position change, and boom, you magically have a penis and you're completely turned off all together. 

And as far the the catfishes photoshopping the pics, those are easy to spot. Any person who posts irl photos and then insist on no irl in their profile are full of shit and are cat fishing.

6 hours ago, Twiggy said:

Why would it take a lot of work, and who has ever said it would need a bulge to be added.

All it would need is for what is now female to be changed to shemale/futa whatever and a new female gender added without the option for a cock and all the poses in the menu that we will never use. Yes there may be some work in making it so lesbians can still have a strap on but that could also be left that lesbians use the shemale/futa gender until they do that. As it is not only females have to put up with a lot because we have to share our gender with so many others, it also means men who wish to play as men and lesbians have to also put up with it, it causes problems for them as well.

It is not only making it so a lot of hetero sexual women do not want to play the game, and I can tell you that is fact as I am one of them and know of a lot of others that have left because of it. But I also know of a lot of men that have also left because of it and will say that a lot of men will not even try 3DXChat because of the reputation it has.

Although people seem to want everyone to believe that hetero sexuals are the ones that get everything it is actually hetero sexuals that are getting the roar deal in 3DXChaT. It is not only us women that have to put up with sharing our gender and all the problems it causes it is also hetero sexual men and lesbians that do as well.

Yes there are a lot who do not want it changed but it has little to do with the amount of work it will take and more to do with how it will effect their gameplay. There are so many in 3DXChat that seem to not want it because the percentage of men that play as shemale/futa has increased so much because so many people that want to play as heteros have left.

Look at the upcoming update, the new collars, Slut, whore and so on, do you think that is aimed at what women want or to attract women to the game. It is aimed at what men want on female avis. It is aimed at the market the devs have chose to cater for.

If the devs want to get numbers growth really happening in the game it is my opinion that adding a third gender is more important than all the other updates put together, the way the game is now many hetero sexual people will look at 3DXCHat as not being very attractive to them. To me it makes no sense to alienate hetero sexuals which is by far the biggest market.

 

Twiggy, I agree. I know for a lot of straight men it's a turn off to see a female avatar that also doubles as futa. Making a third gender isn't a lot of work; the infrastructure is already mostly in place for it. The problem is 3dx is understaffed and don't want to hire extra help. Also I agree on the collars, if they're going to allow females to wear a collar with the word "sissy" on it, then they really should add a third gender with a permanent penis. People who make the argument that, that will open the flood gates for people to ask for a 4th, 5th, and 6th gender are just arguing for the sake of arguing. There is clearly a huge demand for a futa/shemale gender, as shown by the sheer amount of people playing as one in-game. It also seems like it's getting harder and harder to find straight female avatars in the game. Either they're hardcore lesbians or futas. When a man approaches a woman he should be certain that he's actually talking a woman and that she's interested in men.

On 12/7/2019 at 6:28 PM, ☙𝔼𝕩❧ said:

Hairs are always a controversial question. The best ones only for pictures because it has too many polygons. Any hairs for games are different and it more depends of everyone`s taste. Hairs are important. Maybe we will get a good hair editor someday.

Honestly, as far as model quality, the hairs in 3dx are fine. The biggest issue with them is the design, they're not sexy at all, or attractive at all. Which is why most of the females you see in the game are all wearing the same few hair styles. I would love for the girls in the game to have an updo, long hair with bangs, etc... I mean the possibilities are endless, the developers just need to outsource some of the work to people who would do it. There are so many passionate people who play this game.

On 12/27/2019 at 7:43 AM, Skylana said:

If devs really going to add limp cocks in the game and give shemale players stuff like bulges and correctly working pubic hair it also would be great to make penis instead of pussy displayed under the skirt/dress when we don't wear panties.

Honestly, at this point I would rather for the developers to just add a third gender to the game and let them be shemales/futas. I know a lot girls hate it when they mysterious grow a cock during intercourse and I can only imagine how embarrassing it is for them and their partner. Having female avatars who are always female no matter what would be a big help and relief to the community.

9 hours ago, Aliviax said:

when pose editor hopefuly get released you  will be able to make ur dream sex poses  till then we wait  

If it ever comes out. 

I would honestly prefer to see a Mac port first and foremost. 

Blackjack, Texas Hold'em, Spades, Dominos, and even slots are easy games to code. No reason for us not to have them. It's even better if we can use our 3dx gold, because honestly it serves no purpose. 

INB4 someone mentions gambling...

As long as 3DX gold can't be exchanged for real currency then it's not gambling, this is how Rockstar was able circumvent gambling in GTA V. 

On 12/27/2019 at 7:02 AM, Ross the RoberT said:

Nah , unless it's a racial epithet  or something like that 

Not even then I'm afraid, I've seen several users in world chat dropping the hard R word (n-word) for days on end, and they still haven't had their account actioned.

I have to agree; this game has become nothing more than a sex simulator. 3DX has so much potential, mini games like blackjack or slots would be so easily to code for an experienced dev, there's no excuse for it not to be in the game. 

Integrating the walking animation and standing animation with a "browse cell phone" animation would go a long way to making the world feel more alive.

I even suggested a fight animation that's basically RNG as who wins, but honestly, I don't think the rigging on the models are good enough for such animations.

Assuming the models are rigged well, the animations are super easy to make in Autodesk Maya. Though I'm not sure how the Unity stuff works.

Oh sorry Sambo but you have got it so wrong.

Us girls don't want to feel special in the game, we already do.

I for one have a lot of guys that know i am a girl in rl and are made to feel special.

Once guys get to know you are a real girl it is already that way, but for anyone new in the game it takes them away from our focus.

We just get sick to death of having to prove we are real women behind the keyboard, or I do anyway.

So getting to be involved with any new guys is where it efffects us, but to me that doesn't really matter, there are a few guys I know that play a similar game to me and I am kept very happy.

I feel sorry for any new guys though, they very quickly learn that most girls in here aren't really girls.

I think most real girls that have been here for a while feel like I do, which kind of puts the new guys ina bad position.

If they are going to care if it is a girl behind the keyboard, and I think most do, then it takes to much time for them to get to know who are really girls and who are not.

 

For me my biggest grief with what goes on is seeing friends get involved with someone where I have reason to believe the girl they got involved with is not a girl in rl.

That goes for both guys and girls as often it is a lesbian or Bi sexual female I know and am friends with that get tied up in it.

Now I don't do relationships myself, but at any one time at least half the people in there are in some sort of relationship and a lot take it very seriously.

No one can deny that, people that have been here a while anyway will know that, and people look for that type of affection and being made to feel special to someone.

It is their problem I know but when I see it happening I worry about the friend I have tied up in it and what I know he or she will go through if it gets found out.

It is also really frustrating to know that you can't do anything, you have no proof and it is just not the done thing to go running around saying, hey I am pretty sure your gf is a guy.

Far to many times I have seen it happen, someone gets found out and the effect it has not only on the person they are with, but lots of people around them.

And I can't help but also feel guilty for not having said anything.

 

Then there is the amount of times I have believed a friend, a guy, to have left the game, only to find out he had made a female avi, not let anyone know and had actually friended me with that female avi.

I can't help but then feel let down by that person and pissed off.

I understand why they do it, as long as they can believe or fantasies the girl they are with is a real girl behind the keyboard then they get what they are looking for and what they were having trouble getting playing as a guy.

That is what most of them are doing, some go for guys hiding they are trangenders or gat guys, but mostly it seems to be guys just wanting to get with girls.

And that is why it is so strongly argued against, they don't want to have to give away who they are because if they do then they will not be able to imagine or fantasies that all these girls are really girls as most are just other guys doing the same thing.

So the problem will persist, the transgenders will keep getting a bad rap, the lesbians will always be targets, the males who stay males will always be unsure, females will always be made to prove they are females and people will just continue to get hurt.

But above all that, the game will just keep getting a worse and worse reputation.

I see your point Twiggy, and I agree with you that it does suck for for people to get really involved with someone only to find out their sex doesn't match their in-game avatar. However it comes with the territory of any game that allows players to be female. Especially in a game like this where sex is the major focus. The funny thing is you can make a survey irl, and ask 500 guys are they gay and have they ever thought about being a girl? And probably very little will say yes if any at all. But you come to a game like this where all the females in the game are almost exclusively played by guys; something's not adding up. That is because from birth, boys are thought to be tough, don't cry, show no emotion, and most importantly don't be gay. Almost every American male child is raised based on this philosophy, and you have a lot of men who can't be who they want to be in real life because of very real physical harm potentially coming their way as well as alienating their family. They often suffer from depression and 3DX and similar games is the only outlet they have to just be who they feel like they are. I do think it's wrong for guys to trick other guys into thinking they're a girl when they're not, but like I said it comes with the territory for a game like this. And people will continue to get hurt, because no matter if you just want to bang the person or not, if you continue to bang the person, feelings will grow and eventually one person will want to take it further.

you would be correct, i dont. as far as being an asshole, i already know i am, its part of my charm.not really sure how you could have read anything in world from me since ive maybe said 3 things in the last month so yeah, your not an alt. not that i care, im just not as stupid as some who would believe that horseshit

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My opinion should be pretty clear about this kind of topic because it was discussed many times in the past

 

I think everyone should to play this game how he want.

There are many different groups of people in 3DXChat, the one who play it just as a fantasy sex game, the other who use it as a kind of 3DChat to meet some friends, the next group are ppl who get a close partner relation in a Virtual basis.

This groups are very different and also is the target to play 3DXChat very different!

 

It's for everyone a moral question to tell his game partner his true gender! No one should forget behind each Avatar is a real human and in my opinion is it wrong to play with real feelings!

I think the most ppl in 3DXChat do it correct and tell her game partner earlier enough his real gender but there are also ppl who see it until the last moment as a game and they have no problem to hurt some Members.

 

Is it wrong to play as male controlled female Avi in 3DXChat? Nope, I don't think so!

Is it wrong to play with real feelings of other members and hurt them at least? Yes of course it is...

 

Lesbian, Transgender, gays, heterosexual or just male with the fantasy for have sex in a female body... I think for everyone is enough space in 3DXChat! But I think it would be pretty cool if everyone talks a bit more with his game partner to clear the question of his kind of game play and to get sure that nobody gets hurt

 

 

You will never find a perfect way for a game play in 3DXChat and about this topic because there are to many different opinions but everyone should respect the feelings and wishes of other players

Agreed, I think it would be better if people could just check a box in game if they would rather play with gender verification on or off, and have the people who checked yes be phased in another server from people who have it off. That way no one gets their feelings hurt. I mean if people are really getting that emotionally involved with someone in this game, then 3DX needs to take the dating site approach to this. You can't force people to change how they play the game for other people. But I theorize that not a lot of people would go for the gender verification server because it would be boring and bland and you'd meet nothing but silent males who don't talk to you who are only looking for women, and if you're female it'll be the worse thing you can ask for. 

I hate to say this, but ignorance is bliss. People want their cake and eat it too, real women want to feel special in this game, but too many male operated female avatars are encroaching on their attention. So the allure of seeing a woman in this game is pretty much not their there. I know some guys in here who are just terrified about the thought of fucking a female avatar who is a guy in real life, and for those reasons threads like this will continue to exist until 3DX invests in a dating social media server for this game with proper identify verification. 

just wondering what is the opinion of forum members about girls who playing on male caracter?

 Most people don't care, because it's not as prevalent as the counterpart. But I did read about a woman in the UK who got arrested for tricking her friend into believing she was a man. Somehow, don't ask how, they ended up sleeping together and she found out during intercourse that it was a woman, and now her friend got charged with rape.

meh, just an alt who doesnt have the balls to say it on main account.  

You don't know anything about me, I find it hilarious that whenever you disagree with someone you never try to listen or debate your point of view, you instead resort to insults and little "cute" remarks. See I come on these forums a lot and read the stuff you post in game on world chat, and I just now created a forum account, so I know the kind of person you are Rob just from reading your previous posts in other threads. Also I don't care if you're a bigot or not, or whether you give a damn about my opinion or not. Maybe if you're weren't such an asshole I would care. And I can honestly say that although I disagree with Twiggy on a lot of things, I respect her passion for it. You I don't respect at all, but I'm sure you already know that and don't care either way.

not bigoted, just the truth, I am a guy and even i know i cannot understand the female body, menstrual cycles, etc.. you can do all the reading you want but until you actually experience the things a woman does, you dont really know shit and are in no position to give any woman advice on female issues

 

I do believe there are a couple and they should be respected here for what they have to go through but the rest are nothing more then frauds and deserve nothing. If anything they are a discredit to actual TG's  out to use the TG banner as an excuse to be a douche and to  fuck with minds of people they encounter

You don't speak for all males, just because you aren't qualified to speak on female issues doesn't mean anyone else is. You notice women are quick to say "be a man", or "he's a not real man." But it's people (men) like you who put pussy on a pedestal that makes men feel like their life and self worth will never be that of a woman's. I don't have to have cancer or aids to know about it. I don't have to get to shot to know that it hurts like hell. Also you have no idea how many transgenders are discriminated against on a daily basis, you don't even have a clue. 3DX is one of the last bastions of safe areas where someone who is told to just die because they were born into a body that doesn't feel like theirs can come. But people like you and Twiggy are so concerned with exposing frauds and guys who play on girl avatars, that you're making this game toxic. So what if there's 20 female avatars to 5 male avatars. If being freaked out by a dude in an female avatar bothers you don't belong on the internet. Why don't you and twiggy go champion something worthwhile. 

Me personally, I take everything with a grain of salt. It doesn't bother me that a man is playing as a woman. I actually prefer not to know anyway, it ruins everything. I know plenty of white guys who play as black guys,and there's no problem with that. I know a few women on here are fat but play slim attractive ladies, it doesn't bother me either. If you want to break character to be honest, cool more power to you, but why are you even playing an opposite gender anyway? I know most guys would prefer a female avatar being honest with them from the get go about being male. But I honestly don't see the point. Most dudes in this game just want a nut, nothing else. I guess I'm a little different as I'm not looking for real life love in a game.