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    Domonique reacted to Coldheart in Who gets the ring?   
    This dude gets the ring -

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    Domonique got a reaction from HoneyLee in What is Roleplay?   
    Personally, I don't RP much.. but most commonly, people will RP a persona, they'll RP their fantasy self. They'll design the person that they want to be in the game and will often design their profile to reflect it. You'll get the obvious vampires, demons and nekos and then the not so obvious where they'll just be RPing a more confident or slutty version of themselves.
     
    It's completely up to you who you want to be, but as you've found out, there needs to be a level of respect. Public sex happens quite often in places like Sin Club, but it often happens in the back rooms for instance, rather than on the bar, as an example. The longer you're in the game, the more you'll learn this stuff, when in doubt: ask :3 you'll notice the people who are around a lot and most 'veteran' players will be happy to give you advice :3
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    Domonique got a reaction from Dylan in My life in 3DX   
    O.o I don't like the sound of this slow-cooked cat.. /me mews and cowers in her kitty hideout
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    Domonique reacted to DarrenD in real life effects   
    I hope I won't be grilled for reviving this my first and oldest thread, but, for some reasons I thought I wanted to make my voice heard again
     
    First a friendly hello after a longer time away, but ... I have been busy elsewhere.
     
    The reason I'm back here in the forum is because many of the things that have happened in the last couple of months started with 3dx, and in particular with this thread.
     
    In the past couple of months I have been operating a fetish blog, that has gained a significant audience (no worries, no advertisement ahead lol) and that has proven to be a hell lot of fun.
     
    And all of this has started here.
     
    3dx allowed me to untie my sexuality, much more than I had ever imagined. What had started as a nice way do distract myself and to relieve some of the "sexual pressure" that builds up in long term relationships, has allowed me to stand up and reclaim my sexuality, to open up to my long hidden fetishes and desires and find me not being alone with them
     
    I learned to express them in words, much based on the things I have "learned" here in 3dx, when interacting with people.
     
    And I learned to talk to my real life partner about all this, about 3dx and eventually also about my blog. LilCal's advice to talk to my partner has been the best advice in a long time.
     
    At the bottom line I have somehow changed from being passive to active, from passively watching porn to much more embracing my sexuality.
     
    Real real life effects.
     
    Just wanted to share that - have fun all you naughty pervs!!!
     
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    Domonique got a reaction from JessicaX in Relationships(girls only)   
    I'm sorry to hear you weren't able to make it work
     
    KimmyFox is right, before you get serious with someone, the most important thing to do is make sure you're on the same page about what you want, especially if you're looking for a relationship in 3DX where temptations and jealousy run rampant. If you think you've found someone you want a relationship with, make sure you are 100% clear with them what you want in the relationship.. it helps to avoid the confusion and heartache that you've just experienced.
     
    Loruna is also right, I wouldn't recommend coming to 3DX with the sole intention of finding a relationship. It's so very rare that it works out because of the nature of the game. I suggest just to have fun, take every day as it comes and be yourself.. eventually if there's a special someone for you in this virtual world, you'll find them!
     
    My final piece of advice.. because love, real love, is rare to find here and crazy difficult to keep hold of.. always be honest. So many relationships here fail because one or both people in the relationship are not honest. Then they get caught out and things fall apart. If you're both clear from the start about expectations and don't try to hide anything from each other then you'll give the relationship its best chance.
     
    I hope this has helped :3 
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    Domonique got a reaction from Night Queen Josephine in Relationships(girls only)   
    Briana, don't be so cynical.. It's rare, I'll give you that, but it's not impossible!
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    Domonique got a reaction from Anaganda in This is a Sex Game, right?   
    I wonder the same thing Ana.. I wonder the same thing
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    Domonique got a reaction from AnyNameWillDo in Making my virtual Will...   
    Hehe nah, Nora's a blast ;3 She knows how to have a good time!
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    Domonique got a reaction from AnyNameWillDo in Making my virtual Will...   
    With the amount you spent.. you could probably have bought her a Nora and been able to control it for her ;3
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    Domonique reacted to AnyNameWillDo in Making my virtual Will...   
    Making a cock of myself
     
     
    “Vince, I want your cock!”

    “Ok…. let’s log in then”, I replied excitedly.

    “No….. I want YOUR cock!”

    About a week later the mould-a-willy kit arrived at my house…

    Now, you’d think this would be a simple process: wank… insert…. wait… withdraw… fill…. bingo. It developed into a living Hell.

    I didn’t take long to realise, this was designed to be a two-person task, something for couples to do together, largely those in a long-distance relationship, but not for Freya and I; not for two people who hadn’t yet met. And I could hardly recruit a right-hand man, could I? No, if I was gonna get this done, I was flying solo.

    Now, I don’t know about anyone else but I don’t diarize bouts of self-pleasuring, they just kinda happen. But for this I needed to prepare. Mould resin? Check. Mixing container? Check. Spatula? Check. Correct amount of water? Check. Water at precisely 60c? Check (yeah, a thermometer was provided) Laptop? Check. Cat locked out of kitchen? Check. Porn clip? Check. Erection?…………..


    Well…………………………………



                                                                                                                                     **some little time later**



    ….……………………. everything comes to he who waits - and watches a lot of You Porn clips - and eventually I was good to go, but I have to be honest this wasn’t in any way sexy. Now guys, I’m sure I’m not alone, but carefully emptying a packet of powder and mixing in a precise quantity of water are not thoughts which usually race through my mind while engrossed in carnal pleasure-seeking. And it’s not like I had a big ‘window’. No, this resin would set hard within two minutes from when it was mixed with water.

    If only other things set hard with such inevitability…

    There’s no easy way to describe this but my first attempt was a flop as the drawbridge slowly lowered - afterall both my hands were busy elsewhere - at exactly the wrong time as my mind was forced from thinking about sex to ‘hmmmm there’s still some lumps in this’. But regardless, I pressed on, feeding my rapidly-diminishing manhood into the rapidly-setting moulding liquid like a Victorian washer woman offering up clothes to a mangle.

    The outcome was not good. Less lifelike cock, more grotesquely melted candle, with a collapsed bellend, which sounds like a medical condition. Take two….

    I awaited the arrival of mould-a-willy 2.0 with trepidation and some genuine anxiety, deflecting Freya with excuses that the kit had yet to arrive, which was technically true, because the second kit was still on dispatch.  

    But don’t despair, this story has a happy ending - quite literally. Take two was an unqualified success (practice makes perfect) and to this day she has a little (err… reasonably well proportioned) piece of me with her whenever we get some naughty time….

    But go on, have a laugh at my expense. It’s okay, I’m good at making a cock of myself…. eventually.
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    Domonique got a reaction from chaostika in A guide to self-preservation   
    Nitroo.. there have been cultures where they have recognised up to 5 (I think it's that many) genders
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    Domonique reacted to AnyNameWillDo in A guide to self-preservation   
    Here, have my actual cat. After three, everyone...... awwwwwwwwwwwww
     

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    Domonique got a reaction from chloe in A guide to self-preservation   
    Empress Domonique.. I like the sound of that xD
     
    To show show love, bring me kittens! I will accept kitty gifs :3
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    Domonique got a reaction from AnyNameWillDo in A guide to self-preservation   
    Empress Domonique.. I like the sound of that xD
     
    To show show love, bring me kittens! I will accept kitty gifs :3
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    Domonique got a reaction from Deeborah in A guide to self-preservation   
    Nitroo.. there have been cultures where they have recognised up to 5 (I think it's that many) genders
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    Domonique got a reaction from DarrenD in A guide to self-preservation   
    That's just it though Nitroo, it may be our culture now, but in the grand scheme of things concepts like male and female, gay and straight are actually kind of new in anthropological terms. With the way our culture is going, it's not likely to stick around much longer either. With so many people being able to and actually making the choice to be something other than the rigid concept of male or female, we're already in a time where we recognise more than the two 'default' genders.
     
    As for what people are sexually attracted to, fair enough of you have a preference, but whether it's a dick or a vagina, it's no different than having a preference for butts over boobs or abs over butts or any number of things. At the end of the day, it's the mind inside the body that'll keep you going back, that'll keep you aroused and will ultimately keep you enjoying the interaction.
     
    I ask you this, if it was about dicks and vaginas, why would lesbians use dildos if it was purely the dick that was a turn off for them? Or some gay men might use fleshlights even though having sex with a vagina is meant to be repulsive to them? Note I say some because I recognise that this is the case for others and I am merely trying to point out that its not as black and white as you seem to think.
     
    This is why people need to be more open minded, maybe then the cross gender players won't feel the need to hide their identity so much and it'll prevent a lot of hurt on all sides.
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    Domonique got a reaction from DarrenD in A guide to self-preservation   
    Nitroo.. there have been cultures where they have recognised up to 5 (I think it's that many) genders
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    Domonique got a reaction from AnyNameWillDo in Making my virtual Will...   
    lol i don't think I ever asked how/why you called yourself that xD
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    Domonique got a reaction from Kyaleah in hating who you have become?   
    I don't hate who I am, sometimes I'm in denial about it, sometimes I get irritated by it.. but I'll always be me at the core: a little weird, someone who gets a severe case of word vomit (some people have experienced this first hand!) and someone who's naive and sometimes trust the wrong people
     
    I don't think the game itself has the capacity to create changes for us, more the people we meet along the way. Before 3DX, I was a very different person than who I am today. I'm still all those things I mentioned, but the people who I've met have shown me that it's ok to be those things, they love me for and in spite of those things. They've given me RL confidence to completely change my RL for the better, knowing that there are people out there who accept me just the way I am.
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    Domonique got a reaction from KYUSS in hating who you have become?   
    I don't hate who I am, sometimes I'm in denial about it, sometimes I get irritated by it.. but I'll always be me at the core: a little weird, someone who gets a severe case of word vomit (some people have experienced this first hand!) and someone who's naive and sometimes trust the wrong people
     
    I don't think the game itself has the capacity to create changes for us, more the people we meet along the way. Before 3DX, I was a very different person than who I am today. I'm still all those things I mentioned, but the people who I've met have shown me that it's ok to be those things, they love me for and in spite of those things. They've given me RL confidence to completely change my RL for the better, knowing that there are people out there who accept me just the way I am.
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    Domonique got a reaction from chaostika in hating who you have become?   
    I don't hate who I am, sometimes I'm in denial about it, sometimes I get irritated by it.. but I'll always be me at the core: a little weird, someone who gets a severe case of word vomit (some people have experienced this first hand!) and someone who's naive and sometimes trust the wrong people
     
    I don't think the game itself has the capacity to create changes for us, more the people we meet along the way. Before 3DX, I was a very different person than who I am today. I'm still all those things I mentioned, but the people who I've met have shown me that it's ok to be those things, they love me for and in spite of those things. They've given me RL confidence to completely change my RL for the better, knowing that there are people out there who accept me just the way I am.
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    Domonique got a reaction from TomJM in Taking a relationship outside the game   
    Oh Reds xD trust you to take a mature conversation and ruin it lol it must be snoopy o'clock!
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    Domonique got a reaction from Reds in Taking a relationship outside the game   
    Oh Reds xD trust you to take a mature conversation and ruin it lol it must be snoopy o'clock!
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    Domonique reacted to MeiLing in Involved or not?   
    And like in real life: enjoy each moment as the last one and when it blows up in your face....recall this moments. 
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    Domonique reacted to Reds in Involved or not?   
    I think that like real life, with great reward comes great risk... if you're involved and on a massive high with someone, it's probably good to bear in mind that it's really going to suck if it blows up in your face.
     
    Of course, sometimes it doesn't blow up, and you really need to appreciate that situation.
     
    Now excuse me while I go wash all this soot off my face. 
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