Xanar

I would like to invite you into the magical world of Supernova.
This a one room I built and I hope to see you all there!
 
Sat Nov 3rd
8pm CET
 
DJ LauraTWK
DJ Felia
DJ OOLisa
DJ Xanar

Please welcome LauraTWK in the lineup

To the 3dx community
 
We had a long conversation on Discord the last days and tried to work through everything. It is in the nature of things that some things cannot be exactly reconstructed, but the most serious chunks could be cleared out of the way.  One point that might be of interest to the general public would be that misunderstandings in operation and technical problems were seen as an indication of far-reaching bans in BunnyBot. Our common statement is intended to serve as a sign for all others who are or have been involved in this conflict, either directly or indirectly. We buried the hatchet and it would be great if others would follow our example.  Katya and Chloe

I will weak my pink Pyjama tonight to support you. Unfortunately I can't join tonight the party. 
I wish all Djs and guests a lot of fun but don't forget the background.
 
 

Just a few more hours!

Just a few more hours!

Just a few more hours!

Cool, you built a new club just for tomorrow

Grand Opening and grand closing on the same day?

Sounds like a big bang party to me

I would like to invite you into the magical world of Supernova.
This a one room I built and I hope to see you all there!
 
Sat Nov 3rd
8pm CET
 
DJ LauraTWK
DJ Felia
DJ OOLisa
DJ Xanar

I would like to invite you into the magical world of Supernova.
This a one room I built and I hope to see you all there!
 
Sat Nov 3rd
8pm CET
 
DJ LauraTWK
DJ Felia
DJ OOLisa
DJ Xanar

I would like to invite you into the magical world of Supernova.
This a one room I built and I hope to see you all there!
 
Sat Nov 3rd
8pm CET
 
DJ LauraTWK
DJ Felia
DJ OOLisa
DJ Xanar

I would like to invite you into the magical world of Supernova.
This a one room I built and I hope to see you all there!
 
Sat Nov 3rd
8pm CET
 
DJ LauraTWK
DJ Felia
DJ OOLisa
DJ Xanar

I would like to invite you into the magical world of Supernova.
This a one room I built and I hope to see you all there!
 
Sat Nov 3rd
8pm CET
 
DJ LauraTWK
DJ Felia
DJ OOLisa
DJ Xanar

I would like to invite you into the magical world of Supernova.
This a one room I built and I hope to see you all there!
 
Sat Nov 3rd
8pm CET
 
DJ LauraTWK
DJ Felia
DJ OOLisa
DJ Xanar

WOOO HOOOOOO!!!!!!!!

I would like to invite you into the magical world of Supernova.
This a one room I built and I hope to see you all there!
 
Sat Nov 3rd
8pm CET
 
DJ LauraTWK
DJ Felia
DJ OOLisa
DJ Xanar

I would like to invite you into the magical world of Supernova.
This a one room I built and I hope to see you all there!
 
Sat Nov 3rd
8pm CET
 
DJ LauraTWK
DJ Felia
DJ OOLisa
DJ Xanar

Woop woop! I'll be there! 

Here's the first video I made during my lunch break, but I hope it will help you to create the first basic room.
 
Part 1 - Creating a simple room:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R8DR9j3AlMM&feature=youtu.be
 
Part 2 - Making windows, moving the spawn, creating your own light:
https://youtu.be/6suMLMZvOrI
 
Part 3 - Expanding a room, creating custom funiture + position markers, creating a small beach.
https://youtu.be/ZSMV_yU4buo
 
Part 3.5 - Moving funiture, window-graphic bug.
https://youtu.be/oRFo4fTfMwA
 
Part 4 - Creating a beach, grouping objects, using effects.
https://youtu.be/5H5HuTg2T68
 
Part 5 - Detailed tutorial for creating a room, how to easily create small objects
https://youtu.be/dFSS3kBWzSA
 
Part 6 - Difference between local and global axis.
https://youtu.be/KXWatL7QEbQ
 
Part 7 - Groups
https://youtu.be/P-sh9SDP55s

Here is an advice from someone who tried to fit real-life standards into a place like this for almost 3 years.
 
If you really want to enjoy the game, and get the best possible experience out of it (Lovers n Friends) I recommend you drop some of the limits you would naturally have in your real life.
 
The probably most common and highest drama-factor is created out of jealousy. Eliminate jealousy. Be easy on your friends and lovers. While the step into that direction can be hard, I can only recommend having an open relationship where you can be with you partner whenever there is time. Its totally up to yourself or you partner how much time you can / would like to dedicate to each other without putting a certain pressure wich leads me to the next point on my list of SNSFG (Standard not suited for game)
 
Pressure. Yes, most people put pressure on their partnersm or theirselves. Actively or passively. I ve been there too... putting pressure on myself to show up ingame to see my beloved ones (Even if it wasnt necessary)
You end up wrapping your real life around this game and making a lot of compromises wich can lead, in the worst case to some problem IRL too. I would suggest you only ask what you would be able to give
Respect that your partners and friends ingame have a job, rl-friends and probably hobbys they want to pursue out of the game. If you put too much pressure on them, they might be seeking ways to avoid you the one or other way.
 
Some people I met are really upfront and just tell you they wont show up no matter what. Other people dont want to hurt feelings so they make up silly excuses or even stories (The beloved Hosptial story is top notch) why they cant show up or are able to spend time with you. The third group of people is kinda meh to me. They start to run alts so they can avoid you and be with other folks. Sometimes they let their avi vanish the most silliest way one can ever imagine by faking RL-death, wich is very silly IMHO and usally it all comes out. Problem is, the paranoia fills the pockets of some individuals, that kinda make a living out of it now. Also that might be the same people that run alot of alts and try to fuck people over, so they get more money from people paranoying thru Pandora. Kinda a viscous circle but also a conspiracy theory.
 
Real Life. So most important part for some people here. Of course many would love to know who is behind the screen and pursue activities outside of the game too. It is nice but is a two-sided sword aswell. Usually the VR-World can follow you into your RL and if you get hammered with drama theres no way to hide if people know too much things about you. Theres a slight chance stuff will end up in stalking and once you get stalked into the real world you will have a hard time getting rid of the stalker and make them stop (Told from own experience too. Not from this game but yeah it shouldnt be any different here really.)
 
Just reveal what you are comfy with. Dont let people push you into a defensive position or even blackmail you. I ve met several individuals here that are never convinced with the proof of gender. So no matter what you throw at them, they wont believe you and demand more (for whatever reason) so to put it as simple as that... you dont need to proof to anyone, especially not if they demand it at all cost.
 
Also, and that is my personal opinion... I dont really want to know. I play immersive and imagine the person as they behave and appear ingame. Sometimes gender reveals can kill that immersion and you cant really "unsee" it. So it really depends what you want to do in this game. Some play this as some kind of dating simulator or dating site... but its more malicious then its worth it, and lets be real for a second... the chance for a real life relationship are very low. There have been some exceptions where two people met here and are now a couple IRL but thats like One in a million.
 
So what the game does best in my opinion: You can meet fun people, have some friendships too and of course have sex, but you shouldnt put too much heart in it. Of course you can get attached to the people and even love them, but seriously the exclusive real-life rules and living monogamous in a sex-game aint gonna work ever. And yes theres even exceptions for that. I know some people that practise the exclusive relationship for some years now and even sucessful but thats one of a million too.
 
Usually it end up in cheating, drama, stories and tears.
 
Dont let that come to you.
 
 
Most people in here live in a one-sided exclusive relationship and even if you point out the obvious they wont believe it. In the end as I said earlier... everything will come out sooner or later, and some even might have remembered what I have told them... but usually when its too late. Mostly resulting that good people leave the game because they tried to fit in real-life standards and rules that only apply for them.
 
Of course it is your money and your game. You play it the way you want to. So before anyone getting this wrong (or want to)
 
This is how I changed my gameplay over the years and this is how it works the best now. I am happy. I enjoy my little time I have here now and you should too.