PurrTgirl

Dear Diary,
 
Okay screw it. Let's try it. Another nice guy who was one of the DJs at the Event 4 party sort of put things in perspective. In such a nice way he managed to show how selfish it was to hinder ppl from trying to be my friend. I'm so embarrassed! But he's my on my friend list now. Him and 2 other ppl. SO NERVOUS!!

Dear Diary,
 
I'm overwhelmed with the people of this place. They are so nice. It's scaring me tho. I've been the product of betrayal in other places on the internet. People who I thought were my friends but later destroy my soul when I find myself. I'm sort of damaged goods to be honest. It's like de ja vu all over again. I really hope people don't take me the wrong way if I'm not so quick to add them. Honestly, I wasn't really looking or expecting such interaction on this game. I'm a lust driven soul when by myself. Maybe I'm selfish in some kind of way. Wow. Maybe I am selfish. But I've been hurt by liars! I've been suckered into what they said was friendship only to be murdered emotionally! Here are the tears again. I don't know. I came here in my shell and figured well at least I can live out my sexual side. A place where I can have sex the way I want to in real life but don't really get the opportunity to cause I'm not really all the way transitioned. On top of that, even if I was, I don't think I'd get much play. Not that it's about sex with my transgender life but I do want sex. Sex is what I don't have in real and I think about it all the time. So I come here and I'm satisfied. So many friendly ppl here and I don't know what to do with it. I don't want to accuse ppl of being liars like those in my past. Being a product of internet bullying it's hard for me to really be quick with be-friending ppl. I'd much rather a person show me up front that their bad rather than be good first and then be bad to me later. That's what I'm afraid of cause that shit hurts! I remember a friend I had some years ago told me that titles are not really important. If it's real then it's real. I think I can be friends with people without being on their friendlist cause that's just a title. But when I see you out and about in a room some where I won't act like I don't know you! I don't really understand how it works here with friends. The nice guy I met today, he's not on my friend list but he's managed to be able to find me where ever I've been and we've had fun together today. And didn't have to add him. He's that example to me that it doesn't matter if you're on my friend list or not. He likes my time and he actually finds me. I don't know. I just hope I'm not hated for not accepting friend requests right now. Now I see a more valuable reason for this diary. I'll try to be more open but it'll take some time. I was on here for a month mostly in single player mode before I actually started going to public rooms. Bob and Betty have taught me well!! But the social thing is something I'm learning each day. I hope they understand.

Dear Diary,
 
I'm teary eyed right now. I really didn't expect such kind people to respond, let alone actually read this diary! A doll of a person messaged me giving me encouragement. Then to see more of it in the replies. I'm touched. I need tissues!! It's good tears. This is definitely a cleansing. I'm going to take a deep breath and actually try and open up a little bit. Lot of people call me Purr which is cute. I like it. But in actuality I have given myself a name in real life that I tell people. I haven't officially changed it but I'm looking into how to go about doing that. But, if this is what it means to open up a bit then this my stab at it. I've given myself the name Pearl. It sort of defines my overall demeanor of being in a shell. I know I'm a beautiful person but given the massive amount of hate I've received because of my life style choice I've really been in that shell. Maybe one day a lovely soul will take me out of that shell and fix me up to be that perfect round pearl that rich people wear around their necks. Right now I'm just treasure inside an oyster. Actually, come to think of it, I think I read some where that raw oysters are an aphrodisiac. OMG!! I'm just now realizing that! lol. Wow. I guess that what it means when you live in truth and honesty. Things just tend to make sense and fall in place. I'm seriously amazed right now at that little fact. Or is fiction? Personally, I don't eat raw oysters. I tried it once and I was horrified at the texture of it in my mouth. It's not like semen. It's like a thick mucus type gross thing. I have no idea how people even eat that and how it applies to a person's sexual appetite but if it's indeed true then just adds to the name I've given myself. Anyway, I hope people like it. I think it's a nice name. It fits me. Purr or Pearl, either one is fine with me. Still enjoying the AWESOME TUNES at Event 4. These DJs are really good! Music just has a way of keeping you in a trance. Stuck in a moment in time and simply lost in it. Body is just moving and I'm loving it. I really do appreciate the kind words and responses to my diary. I'm a bit excited. I really didn't expect anyone to read it. And if they did I was scared to even read the responses. I only read it because of the notification thing at the top. I read my message first and that absolutely shocked me! Then I saw someone liked it and that drove me to actually read it. Then that's when the tears started flowing, lol. Anyway, I don't want to get long winded. Still in awe. 

Dear Diary,
 
I'm trying to get better with social things. I like to talk with people but I have so much on my plate that I deal with on a day to day. I've dealt with so much hate and rejection based on who I am and what I believe. I just don't have the confidence to really be what I see so much of here on 3DX. I think I'm a pretty cool person to talk to. I've met some nice people so far and have had some sexual fun with others and it really was a treat. I'm not sure why or where the shyness came from. Even before I discovered my truth I was shy. I'm like anyone else in the world. Wants to be loved and stuff like that. I've heard some people tell me tips on how to get better with the timid feelings but it's hard when I'm actually on the stage. I hope nobody thinks I'm rude if I don't talk in Local or World. I don't really no anyone so I don't see a need to say anything. Anyway, this a step I guess. Get my thoughts out but I don't know if anyone will read it. I think it's cool that they have this seeing that I journal in real life. I think it's important to get your thoughts out on paper. I guess this journal is solely based on 3DX which for me is okay. I can just focus on 3DX stuff and I won't feel so shy about my real inner thoughts that my real life journal is infested with. That is top secret information that I'll never share with people here!! lol. But this is a step in a good direction. Currently at this Event 4 party. So far the music is amazing!! Met a nice guy, he seems to like me a lot already. It's a bit odd. I never experienced that before. I'm not usually on the receiving end of being admired but it feels good. But I hope he understands that I'm really here to live out my truth that is quite the lustful one. I can't get too personal with people here. I just can't. Only way I know how to deflect that is to sort of be un-touchable. I can't really have that genuine love for people here if I'm not willing to open up to them. But, I'll open my mouth and suck a fat dick or suck a fat pussy? That's good, right? I hope that's cool. I'm not sure how it works here socially but I'm learning as I go. So far? Awesome experience!

The logical step would be to encrypt the data being sent out. It's kind of a large over sight to not encrypt and secure the data. By not encrypting data and securing the games code, all the game data is left wide open to abuse and opportunistic third parties.
 
I hope this will be addressed seriously in the future. As without it all we seem to be seeing is a gradual escalation of third party abuse of the game and it's users.
I'm sorry but no user or non user should be able to scan the entire games streaming data and collect information on every single player & put it up for sale.
 
Acceptance of this because they have not physically breached the database is not what I think we should be hearing.
 
I personally do not have any alts, but I found it funny how solution offered to maintain alts privacy is to sign up for another subscription £$.
Made me laugh a lot ლ(´ڡ`ლ) lol
 
Abbey ♡

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Nice diary, thanks for sharing PurrTgirl

How about "Write Lots in My Diary Thursday". This diary is ace, not least as I read it in a sassy, slightly exaggerated voice in my head.

Hey everyone,
 
I come here with much humility, an open mind, and eagerness to learn. I want to learn this roleplay thing so that I can play this game better. My ignorance of Roleplay has made me look like a fool. It has had me disrupt another user's 3DX experience and I simply will not make that mistake again. And it starts with me really understanding what Roleplay is.
 
My only understanding of it is typing stuff in a chat. I never did it in a virtual world though. Stuff like Yahoo Messenger is where I would do roleplay but it never involved 3D avatars. 3DX is my first look at this sort of chatting and social interaction and so roleplay really wasn't at the forefront of my mind because I never roleplayed in 3D before. So I have a series of questions and I would appreciate any help with this.
 
My questions are:
1. What is Roleplay?
2. Is it a full time thing? Like is everyone roleplaying?
3. How do you detect a roleplay?
4. Is it disrespectful to not roleplay or function as a roleplayer?
 

Hehe... nice glad to see you are getting into the swing of things now hun and glad to see you have met some wonderful people you can call friends always happy to see people enjoying themselves especially people i have come to know and care about.

Hello everyone,
 
I'm a bit of a new face here and have been with 3DX for a few months off and on. Probably a month if I tallied all days online together in that time frame. Anyway, in being here I just wanted to sort of have a place where I could let loose a bit with my sexuality. Being a transgender it's not really the most sought after date where I live and on top of that I'm a shy one. I come here to sort of experience something, mainly SEX. Today, however, sort of aroused a bit of controversy in regards to what I did at the Event 4 and I think it's a good discussion to have. Basically, long story short, I received a cold invite from a guy that happened to be 2 guys and we ended up fucking on the DJ Booth. For us? It was FUN! However, for others, including the DJ that was spinning at the time found it to be rude or disrespectful. Obviously, it caught me by surprise cause I thought I was on a Sex Game. So just to remind myself I went back to the homepage where I was to join in the first place to be sure I read things correctly and sure enough, it says SEX GAME. And so, I've made it my signature here for the Forums cause I'm not really sure why there are some who are trying to deny this obvious fact. I don't think it's fair for some individuals to be rude to me because I'm playing a SEX GAME. My feelings was hurt when I read the response from the DJ who was spinning during our 3 some and I spoke to the necessary people about it. One including the individual who created the Event 4 and gave DJs the opportunity to even play at such a party. I won't name names but we all know who I'm talking about. He actually enjoyed the 3some on the DJ Booth and it was HIS PARTY. So, I had all day to ponder on this. Wrote in my diary about it. And now I just really want to utilize these Forums to get some dialogue going about the apparent portion of people who tend to be ignorant to the fact that 3DX IS a SEX GAME. There will be sex! In a public room possibly! Maybe on your DJ BOOTH! 
 
How is something like that rude given the context of where we are?
What has happened to some that they some how don't like 3DX Sex anymore?
Am I just a newbie who is having fun like everybody else did but give it some time I'll be anti-sex like the ones who have been here longer than me?
 
What is the deal?

How about the ability to put patterns ON FINGER/TOE NAILS!!
That would be so PurrT ==

So basically profile reading is going to be my new hobby! lol. Thanks, guys. This has really been a help. I think I have enough information about this for now. I'm excited. Now my creative juices are flowing to try and come up with something cool.

So basically profile reading is going to be my new hobby! lol. Thanks, guys. This has really been a help. I think I have enough information about this for now. I'm excited. Now my creative juices are flowing to try and come up with something cool.

Dear Diary,
 
I can always rely on you to listen to me. And I just have one thing to say. How do I handle being disconnected while connected to a hot sexy woman while filling her juicy ass up with my thick dick? I mean, seriously. I was so rock hard and heated and she was moaning and giving me all she has and suddenly I crash!! She had me touching myself. I just wanted to be lost in her ass for the rest of the day to be quite honest. I mean I was eating her ass and she was eating mines and then she was sucking my dick and then I returned the favor and then I just put it in her sweet ass and she was so into it and I was into it and then it happened. Disconnected!! Glad she's on my friend list though, but still. It's the principle, you know. Now the moment is ruined. Like the whole set up was great. We at the beach. Talking, chilling. She all of a sudden said damn I want you. I'm like shit girl let's go find some where to fuck then. And we running around trying to find a spot. We find one and it got nasty. Now it's ruined. I can't even get my head in the game to get to that level again now cuz it'll seem forced lol. Like ' ok, sorry I got disconnected...where were we? ' I never was good with that. The moment is ruined but I enjoyed it for however long it lasted. -sighs- my PurrT dick.

How about the ability to put patterns ON FINGER/TOE NAILS!!
That would be so PurrT ==

We are all roleplaying here, whether it's our real selves or not, in the end we have a certain role and we expect others to approach us as such... take you for example, you are playing a transgender, yes yes I know it's who you are... but in the end it's a role that people are expected to interact with you while keeping this in mind.
 
aight... now to the messy stuff... I will try to keep it as short and simple as I can. keep in mind I am not a pro or anything, but this is just what I learned over time.
 
roleplay is when a person assumes a role that is pre defined ... i.e a vampire, a succubus, a sexual predator, a sexually dominant person who like to do it rough, a slut, a person who's so wild that they will have sex on a DJ booth ... or a DJ.... etc...
in essence it's much like when you are playing the -witcher game- for example, while you are playing this game for all intents and purposes you are the witcher, you are living this fantasy and enjoying it... and all your interactions are defined by that... and that's what a role player wants to achieve, to live a certain fantasy in the game, the only difference here is that they set this fantasy for them selves. 
 
now, the most common questions...
- how can I detect them?
- are they always in character?
- am I expected to only interact with them as such?
well... the answer to those questions most of the time, exists in said person's profile... some people don't like to be always in character, some people are always them selves, except for certain times when they want to enjoy a certain set scenario in a certain way... in that case this scenario gets planned with the people involved and it gets played out... erotic RP falls under this category. 
 
- is it disrespectful not to function as one?
no... by no mean is it disrespectful... it's up to you, it's your game and you choose how to enjoy it.
 
also with time, after interacting with a person for a bit, you will start to learn them, get closer and know them better... in that case you wont need any of those questions, cause you will just know what to do with them
 
I hope that was helpful, know I didn't cover everything, and I don't consider my self a pro at by an extent.. but I will be more than happy to answer any questions you have in mind, on this thread, or via PM here or ingame.

As has been touched on already, Roleplay can mean different things to different people, so the definition is somewhat open.
I have roleplayed for years in various games, usually MMO's like Final Fantasy, Elders Scrolls, Star Wars, and in those games there are thousands of roleplayers and while there is still some variations to it in there, its much more generalised and the rules more normalised.
A general idea of roleplay is making a character, naming it, then giving it a life so to speak. For example, in Elder Scrolls, I play a travelling merchant woman, stopping at small villages and towns, striking up convos with other roleplayers. Before I started, I sat down and wrote a full bio up on her, as I find it easier to do it that way. things like where she was born, the status of her family and their background as well as your own, the type of person she is, her MO and other assorted references. I do this so I don't fall into the trap of sliding different ways during rp, so I have a reasonable firm stance on the demeanour. An example of sliding is when a young man whom I was quite fond of, asked for my help to set up a robbery on a caravan, and while the scenario sounded fun,  my character would have nothing to do with this, in doing so would break my character and be silly.
In picking a character to play, this game is a lot different as it does not have lore associated with it, so if you want to play a demon, vampire, werewolf, secret agent or coffee shop owner or just a normal person with some odd quirks, its all fine, though its best to pick something you know a bit about so convos can be a bit more engaging, but google is your friend if you feel like something different.
 
As for being full time, most don't, and I feel it would be unhealthy to do so. A lot of people including myself usually use an alt character that we will RP on, and another character to play the game so keeping them separate. Some scenarios can go on for weeks, even months in the case of a romance I had in Star Wars, it started as a random encounter with a bounty hunter in the deserts of Tatooine, we became friends, then lead to romance.
 
Once you've made your char and given it a life, and some sort of meaning, then comes the hard part, going out into the world and finding like-minded people to converse with, which leads to your question about finding RP. This game wasn't build with RP in mind, so lacks even the basic tools to help with this. In other games, if you walk around, rather than sprint or use a mount, is a clear sign to others you are in character, and games like Final Fantasy have a little RP tag that you can turn on in options that shows up next to your name, and finally, the RP communities usually end up making a area like a tavern/pub/bar somewhere in the world which will become a default meeting spot for like minded people. Your only avenue here is to use the forums, and add that info into your profile... Clunky, but its all we have atm.
 
There's two key things this game needs for RP to flourish and attract more. One is an area chat or /say, which usually covers around a 30 feet area around the character so you can walk into and out of rp as you go along, possibly joining in if its open, this is usually a common sense thing and just listening in for a moment will tell if its open banter or a more serious private convo, but usually, that sort of private convo will be taken to a remote area like your private house, or possibly group chat, but as a general rule, if you're out in public chatting, then you're "usually" welcoming anyone to join in. Even in the current small places and clubs, where the the convos would overlap it would still be a benefit, as it gives users an extra channel separate to World and Local which people can shit talk in.
The second, which is symbiotic to the first, is a map to facilitate this open RP style. The recently released beach map goes a long way towards this as its huge, allowing you to find private pockets in a still public space, but what is needed is a more what I call a character neutral area, something like a small city area with a couple of streets, some shops, offices and maybe a small park so naturally occuring RP can happen more organically in a setting that makes sense for so many different types of characters.
 
For your last question, No, not at all. You pay your monthly fee and can play how you like. The two groups play in the same place for years without too many problems at all, sometimes people can be mean and try and disrupt RPers by standing, jumping and other silly things in between the avatars, but this game has an excellent ignore function that not only mutes unwanted and disruptive chat, but makes the offending avatar vanish.

The difference between shemales and Futanari is that futa is a made up biological sex. Futa is born as futa. A shemale is a trans gendered person who went through a medical procedure to become a shemale.
They're two sides of the same coin.

Futanari (futa for short) are... well... you just have to Google... this is a good response to a similar question to yours...
 
Also known as "futa" for short, is Japanese for hermaphrodite (-ism), or having the genitalia from both genders.

Commonly found today in hentai (anime porn), or in the "3DX" community on the internet (a community that puts original or existing 3D characters in sexual situations. They're commonly known for making 3D futa characters or futa versions of existing characters from video games), the characters are normally depicted as a humanoid female with both a penis and a vagina, while most of the time having penis lengths in the 12-18 inch range and a 2-3-1/2 inch girth (considered normal for a futa), or bigger with an equine variant, and excessive seminal output anywhere from pints to gallons.

Futas may be drawn with or without testicles, as it's merely just an aesthetic preference between artists and doesn't change what the characters are.

Futas are herms, but often gets confused with shemales/dickgirls/traps, because so much emphasis is put on them using their penises for acts, and rarely have any visual representation or interaction of their vaginas.

Such characters are usually seen as a loophole among straight males for watching girl-on-girl action, while having a real, fully-functional penis attached to one of them and not an actual male figure.

1. The ability to move around and have sex just about any where.
2. I would tell them that it's very addictive! be sure to have plenty of napkins and wet towels next to your keyboard.

Hello everyone,
 
I'm a bit of a new face here and have been with 3DX for a few months off and on. Probably a month if I tallied all days online together in that time frame. Anyway, in being here I just wanted to sort of have a place where I could let loose a bit with my sexuality. Being a transgender it's not really the most sought after date where I live and on top of that I'm a shy one. I come here to sort of experience something, mainly SEX. Today, however, sort of aroused a bit of controversy in regards to what I did at the Event 4 and I think it's a good discussion to have. Basically, long story short, I received a cold invite from a guy that happened to be 2 guys and we ended up fucking on the DJ Booth. For us? It was FUN! However, for others, including the DJ that was spinning at the time found it to be rude or disrespectful. Obviously, it caught me by surprise cause I thought I was on a Sex Game. So just to remind myself I went back to the homepage where I was to join in the first place to be sure I read things correctly and sure enough, it says SEX GAME. And so, I've made it my signature here for the Forums cause I'm not really sure why there are some who are trying to deny this obvious fact. I don't think it's fair for some individuals to be rude to me because I'm playing a SEX GAME. My feelings was hurt when I read the response from the DJ who was spinning during our 3 some and I spoke to the necessary people about it. One including the individual who created the Event 4 and gave DJs the opportunity to even play at such a party. I won't name names but we all know who I'm talking about. He actually enjoyed the 3some on the DJ Booth and it was HIS PARTY. So, I had all day to ponder on this. Wrote in my diary about it. And now I just really want to utilize these Forums to get some dialogue going about the apparent portion of people who tend to be ignorant to the fact that 3DX IS a SEX GAME. There will be sex! In a public room possibly! Maybe on your DJ BOOTH! 
 
How is something like that rude given the context of where we are?
What has happened to some that they some how don't like 3DX Sex anymore?
Am I just a newbie who is having fun like everybody else did but give it some time I'll be anti-sex like the ones who have been here longer than me?
 
What is the deal?

Roleplay can mean so many different things. A person playing a different gender, nationality, race, ... could technically all fall under the category of "roleplay". Because at it's core, roleplaying means you are taking on the role of someone/something OTHER than you.
 
Within this game, roleplaying is divided in two main categories:
1. Regular roleplay;
People decide a certain scenario they want to play out and "act" accordingly. This can be a one person thing or it could be with a group of people.
 
2. Erotic roleplay;
Which is usually the term they use when they talk about sex that involves very descriptive writing (in some cases also combined with a certain scenario).
 
It's not always easy to detect roleplays...
Some roleplays are really vague, you won't notice it. For example; someone could be playing as a more dominant character than they are in reality.
Other roleplays are obvious. For example; Someone playing as a sex craving demon that needs body fluids to stay alive (or whatever xD).
 
Lastly, no, it's not disrespectful to not roleplay or not function as one... if you do it UNKNOWINGLY.
For example; You step into a group that is roleplaying and you're unaware, you say or do things that go against their scenario and that upsets them.
If you didn't know, then they shouldn't really blame you.
However, if you know they are roleplaying and you purposefully interrupt, then that could be considered disrespectful.
 
I used to be better at writing stuff here, it's been a while, but hopefully this helped.

Dear Diary,
 
Today has truly been a good day so far. From the turbulence last night turned out to be a blessing in disguise. I've found a group of friends who were my support system and have helped me cope with things. One new friend in particular, happens to be one of the guys I had the 3 some with on the DJ booth. Turns out? He's a talented, educated business man in the area of marketing. He literally makes videos and things for a living. Come to realize he only colded me to the DJ Booth for a video. All the while, ppl are seeing us as rude and inconsiderate. Not even realizing how 3DX is about to bless my new bearded friend because of his talent and lively personality. It truly shows how good truly wins over evil. We're dancing it up at the last Event 4 party. It truly is a awesome way to end it. Event 4 will always be a good 3Dx memory for me. And it's all because of him..
 

You do realise you just contradicted yourself? "It's a sexgame!" Yet to you it's unacceptable for someone to perform a sex act in your face without consent. However you will defend and cry unfair for someone else performing a 3 way sex act in the face of another user who was dj'ing an event, that expressly did not give consent?
No one cares if people have sex. People care about respecting each others game. There were plenty of places at said party or any room for that matter to conduct sex publicly.
 
Abbey ♡