Anyone who allows themselves to get so emotionally tied up in this 'game', where anyone can present themselves in any way or behave in any way, w/o consequences, is simply setting themselves up. You don't know who or what these people are. If you want 'real' relationships, step away from the net and meet actual people (who can still be fake). If you crave actual human connections, it's not to be found here, where all cocks are 8", tits don't sag and people fuck in the middle of the dancefloor.