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#21 Twiggy

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Posted 13 February 2017 - 01:21 AM

I use to love going in WC, it use to be fun.

I actually can't remember the last time I commented in there, have looked on occasions and almost every time there was some sort of drama going on..

WC seems to now be a place for the shit stirrers to go and play their games.

A place where they can wait for someone who has crossed them at some stage and give them grief.

I have seen people name players as being someone else before, have named players who are meant to have alts and cheating on their partners and lots of other stuff that should not be said in local chat or world chat.

There are people in 3DXChat whos game is to just make trouble, stir people up and that is how they get their enjoyment from the game.

Problem is WC seems to have become their preferred place to hang.


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Posted 13 February 2017 - 01:40 AM

I don't look in WC much, if there is major drama I stay out, if I recognise some of my friends in there, or the convo is light and breezy, I will make a few thowaway comments.  

 

At least with WC available, the drama centres are on display for all to see so they can be ignored as required.


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Posted 13 February 2017 - 02:14 AM

I have turned my WC off. Too many over inflated egos butting heads all the time, and what's worse is  most of the time is coming from long time players, (just because you have been here a while doesn't mean you run the place).

 

Aside from that I was getting too fat from all the popcorn I was eating while reading it.


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Posted 13 February 2017 - 02:16 AM

since this is slowly becoming about wc once again i feel the need to defend it in a way .  If i dont like futa rooms and go in one, then whos to blame, me. same with wc, if its so bad, dont go in it. nobody is forcing you to go in it. I also find it funny how some here will tell you they never look in wc ever because its drama yet those same people can tell you what was said in it word for word on a daily basis. 

 

not to mention some of the so called "anti drama" people are the ones making daily alts to brew shit up in there because they dont have to balls to say it themselves without hiding behind something


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Posted 13 February 2017 - 03:01 AM

Problem is not WC but what how ppl's using it for spreading positiveness or negativeness ...just look at Olesya when she use it, she's a good example to follow ,always saying kind words in there.Putting sunshine in there


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Posted 13 February 2017 - 03:46 AM

The problem is not WC I agree, you can't blame the tool, just the people who use it badly and I for one don't think WC should go.

As for if we don't like futa rooms don't go there, that is completely different, WC is meant to be there for everyone and is one of a kind.

Some people do think it is there just for them and they are spoiling it for the others.

They feel they can choose who is allowed and who is not.

They also use it as a tool to discredit people in the open who are not even in there, like I have seen someone who is in this thread defending WC do.


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Posted 13 February 2017 - 04:45 AM

could be worse, they could be in forums making up false stories that was told to them by "very reliable sources who dont exist and since i am the only one defending wc , care to prove that allegation or was it another story you made up?


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Posted 13 February 2017 - 04:49 AM

since this is slowly becoming about wc once again i feel the need to defend it in a way .  If i dont like futa rooms and go in one, then whos to blame, me. same with wc, if its so bad, dont go in it. nobody is forcing you to go in it. I also find it funny how some here will tell you they never look in wc ever because its drama yet those same people can tell you what was said in it word for word on a daily basis. 

 

not to mention some of the so called "anti drama" people are the ones making daily alts to brew shit up in there because they dont have to balls to say it themselves without hiding behind something

 

I was sure that argument would come "stay out when you don't like it!"  really? comparing it with a room for one kind of gender? I thought world chat means chat for the world. Including all genders and all nations. People who join this game for the first time try to make their first contacts there and ask  "experienced Players" how to play. Sure trolls are in every game and deleting a world chat would be the worst  the devs could do but please don't let it be a platform for insulting and mobbing others. :wub:  

 

Problem is not WC but what how ppl's using it for spreading positiveness or negativeness ...just look at Olesya when she use it, she's a good example to follow ,always saying kind words in there.Putting sunshine in there

 

Thank you Briana that's the best example. "Olesya" who is smarter than the most of us with all that languages she speaks. I never heard a bad word from her but also she got insulted in wc. 


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Posted 13 February 2017 - 04:53 AM

I was sure that argument would come "stay out when you don't like it!"  really? comparing it with a room for one kind of gender? I thought world chat means chat for the world. Including all genders and all nations. People who join this game for the first time try to make their first contacts there and ask  "experienced Players" how to play. Sure trolls are in every game and deleting a world chat would be the worst  the devs could do but please don't let it be a platform for insulting and mobbing others. :wub:  

 

 

Thank you Briana that's the best example. "Olesya" who is smarter than the most of us with all that languages she speaks. I never heard a bad word from her but also she got insulted in wc. 

lol, if it was insulting then you need thicker skin, i was using it as an example of how foolish it is to suggest something should be shut down because a few people dont like it


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Posted 13 February 2017 - 06:37 AM

I have turned my WC off. Too many over inflated egos butting heads all the time, and what's worse is  most of the time is coming from long time players, (just because you have been here a while doesn't mean you run the place).

 

Aside from that I was getting too fat from all the popcorn I was eating while reading it.

I don't agree at all by saying it come from mostly vet! At my first monthly subs i did really bad things in there by insulting ppl's and starting fights  , I learned in time how to respect ppl's and shutting my mouth in there, if you have something to say against someone, better saying it in private than spreading the shit ppl's don't wanna hear.

I know some ppl's like to read WC comments just for the fun to hear stupidity ,jokes, getting some laught back of KB and how may turning some conversation with others, (To be honest ,sometime i like it cuz i love salty things) anyway,i think it's part of what it is, some use it for RP and other for Trolling ,we just have to close the chat window if we don't like what we hear in there or report those going too far , I will not give example but i think you're bright enough to understand what i mean.


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#31 Twiggy

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Posted 13 February 2017 - 08:01 AM

could be worse, they could be in forums making up false stories that was told to them by "very reliable sources who dont exist and since i am the only one defending wc , care to prove that allegation or was it another story you made up?

 

Oh I have proof, I just haven't put it in here for all to see, but you believe what you want to there.

As for it being you I was talking about, sure it was you, and are you seriously going to deny doing anything like that, your kidding right.

I won't mention names, but maybe you will remember a few months back saying a certain girl cheats on her bf using alts, calling her a slut and saying she screws around with lots of people using alts behind her hubbys back.

Oh and by the way, I am the one that told her to look in WC to see what you were saying about her and is how she came about going in there and kicking your ass.

Now I know her and know she doesn't do that and is why I got involved, but I have also seen you say similar things about others who I don't know, although I have to admit not of late, maybe you have changed, but you definitely at one time didn't care what you brought up in there.

False stories, you say I am the one that does that yet you are always in these forums making allegations about people with no proof, you just jump to conclusions and think yourself so smart you can't be wrong.

Then seem to appoint yourself judge jury and executioner.

Now I will say what I feel here, I haven't bothered much with WC lately, just looked in on occasions for long enough to see that it hasn't changed much.

But a few months ago you Rob were one of the foremost people in there making it how it had gone, you were one that many people referred to as thinking you owned it.

And even now your argument seems to be if you cant take shit don't dish it out, and if you can't take the crap that WC offers now don't go there.

Where as it should be, don't take that crap in WC, but then maybe that wouldn't suit you would it, it would spoil your fun.



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Posted 13 February 2017 - 08:30 AM

I think...the way world chat is sometimes...or rather then attitude of SOME of the people in it is awful...I knows it's under the thin excuse of bants or whatever and yeah we can all not look and blah blah blah...

...but...I think it creates an impression of the game and the community that's often deeply unpleasant...just like the forum does at times. I wonder how many people have looked in world chat...seen what's going on and thought ugh...I'll stay away. Gone to pm's or group chat or whatever and that's how they continue. So are we saying we only want world chat for the obnoxious or thick skinned...that's lovely...what a nice community we'll have.

I think what we should be asking is why...as a community...do we think it's acceptable or even necessary to allow world chat to go this way. Some people even seem to revel in the fact WC is a free for all for seemingly whatever you want to say without consequence or control. There's nothing wrong with WC...as a concept...there is something wrong with it being allowed to devolve to the lowest common denominator right?
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Posted 13 February 2017 - 09:45 AM

From what I was reading a couple of weeks ago before I shut off WC it was long time players, and a lot of us have been around long enough to know the apparent new ones are just old players on new avatars. I have nothing against harmless trolling and a bit of fun and joking around, but lately it seems to have sunk to a all time low level. Arguing and telling the other person they should go hang themselves just disgusts me and pretty sure would be against the rules of the game, so to telling someone the world would be better off if they were dead which was another argument on another occasion, those arguing were NOT new.

No different was hearing Sky calling someone a faggot in local chat, sure the person may have been trolling him but calling someone a faggot is not acceptable here or in real life.

This use to be a community that got along really well in the past, and I don't whether it's because of a certain few, or a larger group, but as my close friend said when I asked why she barely logs on .. it's because this community has become toxic.

 

When I step back and think about it... maybe it has.


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Posted 13 February 2017 - 10:46 AM

PM = phone call

Group = friends on a night out

local = a party

WC = That's like a performance stage requiring loud voices in order to be heard, actors to play a role, and big, big egos. With most big egos comes a big dollop of insecurity. That's a recipe for what we all witness. Often WC is not a platform for communicating like the other three, it's a mini-game to discover the winning ego and when people compete - especially the narcissistic among us - things get nasty. I do note though, that the ones who push the envelope with regards to decent human conduct are the ones that seem to crack eventually, when the trolling goes too far and there's a loss of self-control. Whenever people compete, someone will always raise the stakes and then we're left with a downward spiral of comment and response which inevitably leads people to say things which are unacceptable, especially when triggered which is. of course, the purpose of the WC mini-game. So you're right Sky, it's all about winning and losing. I guess though it does not demand one makes meaningful connections, so maybe that is an attraction for some also.

 

To be honest I don't have a lot of time for most of the regular contributors there and rarely speak up in WC unless the mood takes me. Which takes me back to the OP. Once I made a pretty lame joke when entering WC and Sky, you shot me down and we'd never talked before, or since. No big deal dude, really - but it's how I now think of you when I see your name, and yet there are people in-game who I respect who have a lot of time for you. Maybe by quitting - not the game but WC - you have won too.

 

But when all said and done, all this.... it's a bit pathetic isn't it?


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#35 Twiggy

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Posted 13 February 2017 - 12:38 PM

Your right Any, but there are things that can be added to what you said.

 

Pm = phone call

Group = friends on a night out

Local = party (but in danger of following WC) as I have seen a lot of what has been happening in WC starting to creep into local chats.

 

WC = Ego trippers, people with big egos trying to prove to themselves they are as dominate and smart as they think they are.

          What they don't seem to realise is that most people just can't be stuffed playing their game and just stay away, not because they are scared or feel they can't compete, they just can't be bothered and aren't    interested in playing those games.


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Posted 13 February 2017 - 12:43 PM

Your right Any, but there are things that can be added to what you said.

 

Pm = phone call

Group = friends on a night out

Local = party (but in danger of following WC) as I have seen a lot of what has been happening in WC starting to creep into local chats.

 

WC = Ego trippers, people with big egos trying to prove to themselves they are as dominate and smart as they think they are.

          What they don't seem to realise is that most people just can't be stuffed playing their game and just stay away, not because they are scared or feel they can't compete, they just can't be bothered and aren't    interested in playing those games.

Good point about local. Local is troll school sometimes lol


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Posted 13 February 2017 - 01:38 PM

Oh I have proof, I just haven't put it in here for all to see, but you believe what you want to there.

As for it being you I was talking about, sure it was you, and are you seriously going to deny doing anything like that, your kidding right.

I won't mention names, but maybe you will remember a few months back saying a certain girl cheats on her bf using alts, calling her a slut and saying she screws around with lots of people using alts behind her hubbys back.

 

 

This is irony on a whole new level... xD

 

Seriously though, instead of stirring up new drama, just keep on topic pls Twiggy.


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Posted 13 February 2017 - 03:10 PM

Ok, just because i dont have a lot time this morning i am going to respond to everything without quoting...   no, i have no clue who you are talking about , i can barely remember what i said last week, much less a few months ago but i wont deny it because i dont know who you mean but please feel free to tell me and i would be more then happy to post the proof i had for saying it if in fact i did.  unlike some, i dont just make shit up. I do find it funny you are talking about people not being in wc when i say something because 99 percent of the time they are.  . I cannot tell you how many times tox has skyped me and showed me where someone was running off at the mouth with me not there. you reap what you sow and i could care less if you or anyone else doesnt like it. Use the report button, thats what it is there for.

 

now, as far as me making wc what it is today, that is prob true. Thats what happens when you insult me or someone close to me, you are going to get called out for your bullshit. certainly not going to apologize and i would do it again in a split second. unlike most of you i dont need alts to talk shit, i will do it right from good ole RobT. its called taking responsibility for your actions and words, might want to try it sometimes. 

 

peace out, time to make the doughnuts.



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Posted 13 February 2017 - 03:51 PM

WC = Same 7 people on different alts all day.


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Posted 13 February 2017 - 03:52 PM

since this is slowly becoming about wc once again i feel the need to defend it in a way .  If i dont like futa rooms and go in one, then whos to blame, me. same with wc, if its so bad, dont go in it. nobody is forcing you to go in it. I also find it funny how some here will tell you they never look in wc ever because its drama yet those same people can tell you what was said in it word for word on a daily basis. 

 

not to mention some of the so called "anti drama" people are the ones making daily alts to brew shit up in there because they dont have to balls to say it themselves without hiding behind something

 

I rest my case lol




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