TamsinUK

I ask how many careers Mar_Mohan has had in her lifetime. I think more than four without trouble.
 

I ask this, why is it so important to Mar_Mohan, RobT and their friends to make out that someone is Ciera, Billy, SImon or JimBob? The only people who make big issue of this are Mar_Mohan, RobT, and friends. It is because they do not like that their views are irrelevant and not held by most thinking people in western world. They do it, also, to hide that they are the worst culprits for using alts, spreading lies, insults, abuse and bullying.
 
I make edit here.
 
I did not realise that Bridget had been subjected to an attack to drive her out of 3dxChat. How can that happen? It happens because RobT, Mar_Mohan and friends are allowed to do it. They deny the right of someone to play as they see fit. I do know that Ciera was subjected to a campaign of harrassment by RobT, JimmyJuice and others. I have proof of this. I say this, the bullies do this to people because they think it is funny. Why is it that a few, two perhaps three, people can cause so much trouble that people have to leave the game and give up their remaining subscription. I am glad the bulloies do not, and will never know, my game name.

I ask this, why is it so important to Mar_Mohan, RobT and their friends to make out that someone is Ciera, Billy, SImon or JimBob? The only people who make big issue of this are Mar_Mohan, RobT, and friends. It is because they do not like that their views are irrelevant and not held by most thinking people in western world. They do it, also, to hide that they are the worst culprits for using alts, spreading lies, insults, abuse and bullying.
 
I make edit here.
 
I did not realise that Bridget had been subjected to an attack to drive her out of 3dxChat. How can that happen? It happens because RobT, Mar_Mohan and friends are allowed to do it. They deny the right of someone to play as they see fit. I do know that Ciera was subjected to a campaign of harrassment by RobT, JimmyJuice and others. I have proof of this. I say this, the bullies do this to people because they think it is funny. Why is it that a few, two perhaps three, people can cause so much trouble that people have to leave the game and give up their remaining subscription. I am glad the bulloies do not, and will never know, my game name.

I ask this, why is it so important to Mar_Mohan, RobT and their friends to make out that someone is Ciera, Billy, SImon or JimBob? The only people who make big issue of this are Mar_Mohan, RobT, and friends. It is because they do not like that their views are irrelevant and not held by most thinking people in western world. They do it, also, to hide that they are the worst culprits for using alts, spreading lies, insults, abuse and bullying.
 
I make edit here.
 
I did not realise that Bridget had been subjected to an attack to drive her out of 3dxChat. How can that happen? It happens because RobT, Mar_Mohan and friends are allowed to do it. They deny the right of someone to play as they see fit. I do know that Ciera was subjected to a campaign of harrassment by RobT, JimmyJuice and others. I have proof of this. I say this, the bullies do this to people because they think it is funny. Why is it that a few, two perhaps three, people can cause so much trouble that people have to leave the game and give up their remaining subscription. I am glad the bulloies do not, and will never know, my game name.

There are 14 posts since my last. Two from Bridget, seven from RobT, one from MikeyDee, three from XandSweet and three from SleeperGirl.. None say anything. They are empty words. Even Bridget who points out that the time RobT started his offensive was unusually early in the morning is not saying anything. I think it is clear what three of these posters are doing. I think it is clear why. I do not want my diary to be a battle ground for supremacy over the forums. It has become this.
 
The rule that another Trollfriend often quotes says that forum users must not be made to feel uncomfortable using the forums. The result of this battle for supremacy makes many feel uncomfortable about what they post. I do not think it is neccessary to quote examples. They can be found even in this thread. Even the quoting of the rules is intended to make people feel uncomfortable.
 
I do not know the solution to this. The idea behind my dairy was to try and do better. I ask people to read through all the posts and make decision about what is going on. Ask if it is acceptable behaviour and decide if any solution is possible. It is probably not safe to post what you think here. I suggest a PM to Gizmo or an email to 3dxChat Help. Somebody might decide that intervention is required, no?

I want to say this. It does not matter who is JimmyJuice or RobT. What I see here is not good. It is wrong for many reasons. The point has been proven. Some people do not want the forum to flourish. Most of us are able to behave well. The few who aren’t, perhaps won’t, are making ruin for the majority.

GUESS WHATS TODAY?

SAFER INTERNET DAY

 

"Together against hate speech and a better internet"

 

Over the years, Safer Internet Day (SID) has become a landmark event in the online safety calendar. Starting as an initiative of the EU SafeBorders project in 2004 and taken up by the Insafe network as one of its earliest actions in 2005, Safer Internet Day has grown beyond its traditional geographic zone and is now celebrated in approximately 140 countries worldwide.
 

 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F-OsGildKBU
 
https://www.saferinternetday.org/

Perhaps full autosex so you can go make a cup of tea.

Perhaps full autosex so you can go make a cup of tea.

I was being ironic and making joke of pose clickers.

Perhaps full autosex so you can go make a cup of tea.

I complain I spill my tea laughing.

I had made a new post and was ready to copy it here. A lot of what I wanted to say has already been said. Back to the drawing board, no?
 
Last night I had a long conversation in game with a good friend. It was about the recent forum activity. I will not go in to detail now because I do not want to encourage more trolling and bullying. My friend said this 'You can tell from the forum whether or not you want somebody to be your friend in game'. I think this is true, it got me thinking about how we accept people in game. I think it is like real. Close friends the boundaries are wide, no? The relationship takes in a lot. Aquaintances the boundaries are more narrow. People you do not know at all then the boundaries are very tight until you get to know the person. I will risk using a hug as and example. With close friends hugs are wonderful and help support the friendship. Aquaintances perhaps it depends on the person. In most cases probably no. People you do not know at all, or do not like, then a hugs is definately a no. As you get to know someone I think as you come to know them better, perhaps to like them, the boundaries expand.
 
I think shows how 3dxChat mirrors real more than you think. I think this is good. I have made good friends in 3dxChat and have said many times how much I value them. I like that we have conversations about many topics. Serious, just chatting, silly. I like that my good friends often say things that make me think.

I had made a new post and was ready to copy it here. A lot of what I wanted to say has already been said. Back to the drawing board, no?
 
Last night I had a long conversation in game with a good friend. It was about the recent forum activity. I will not go in to detail now because I do not want to encourage more trolling and bullying. My friend said this 'You can tell from the forum whether or not you want somebody to be your friend in game'. I think this is true, it got me thinking about how we accept people in game. I think it is like real. Close friends the boundaries are wide, no? The relationship takes in a lot. Aquaintances the boundaries are more narrow. People you do not know at all then the boundaries are very tight until you get to know the person. I will risk using a hug as and example. With close friends hugs are wonderful and help support the friendship. Aquaintances perhaps it depends on the person. In most cases probably no. People you do not know at all, or do not like, then a hugs is definately a no. As you get to know someone I think as you come to know them better, perhaps to like them, the boundaries expand.
 
I think shows how 3dxChat mirrors real more than you think. I think this is good. I have made good friends in 3dxChat and have said many times how much I value them. I like that we have conversations about many topics. Serious, just chatting, silly. I like that my good friends often say things that make me think.

I had made a new post and was ready to copy it here. A lot of what I wanted to say has already been said. Back to the drawing board, no?
 
Last night I had a long conversation in game with a good friend. It was about the recent forum activity. I will not go in to detail now because I do not want to encourage more trolling and bullying. My friend said this 'You can tell from the forum whether or not you want somebody to be your friend in game'. I think this is true, it got me thinking about how we accept people in game. I think it is like real. Close friends the boundaries are wide, no? The relationship takes in a lot. Aquaintances the boundaries are more narrow. People you do not know at all then the boundaries are very tight until you get to know the person. I will risk using a hug as and example. With close friends hugs are wonderful and help support the friendship. Aquaintances perhaps it depends on the person. In most cases probably no. People you do not know at all, or do not like, then a hugs is definately a no. As you get to know someone I think as you come to know them better, perhaps to like them, the boundaries expand.
 
I think shows how 3dxChat mirrors real more than you think. I think this is good. I have made good friends in 3dxChat and have said many times how much I value them. I like that we have conversations about many topics. Serious, just chatting, silly. I like that my good friends often say things that make me think.

I complain I spill my tea laughing.

I complain I spill my tea laughing.

I complain about how empty the forums are now I've ignored all the trolls and anti-trolls.

You muddy the water, no. The point is that the rules are not applied to a small group of people. This is wrong and is a cause of the behaviour on this forum. The small group of people know this and take advantage to harass, bully and abuse. Some of us want this to stop. Ignore does not prevent it, only prevents seeing it. Removal of abuse would not affect the people who carry on regardless. It only affect the people who bully.

Sorry again, Mei. Reporting does not work. That is why the forums are so bad.

I am sorry Mei but ignore only means you don’t see the lies and abuse that is posted. It does not stop the bullies doing it. Only the moderators can do that.

Didn't knew this stat. Well the numbers are clear I would say. No need for a dislike ^^
 
I wonder how these numbers would look like if you remove alt-likes

Did we? Well yes please go and find the thread Slander-Rob. Is it just me or is the amount of rubbish you spread across the forum increased since you "have let deleted" your troll diary?

I found some really interesting facts in the "Overall top posters" section of this forum.
Looking at how I rate in this has me actually thinking about my posting and maybe I need to change how I go about things in this forum.
I went through 6 pages until I found where I am listed, and noted down some of the main people known in this forum of late, and how they seem to rate.
 
Nmae.                           Date Joined.            Posts.           Likes.           Average likes per posts.                         
 
RobT                             3/6/2016                  8234             6734            .81
Meiling                          13/12/2016              6436             10244          1.59
chloe                             11/9/2014                3319             8548            2.57
JessicaX                        5/9/2015                 1212             2361            1.94
Cordelia                         2/11/2014               1081             2464            2.27
Felia                               8/9/2014                 889              3580             4.02
Mar Mohan                    19/9/2017                872              449               .51
RobPathFinder              2/4/2016                  735              1535            1.84
Twiggy                          13/7/2016                 601              732              1.21
Xandisweet                   9/6/2017                   533              409              .78
Rockster                       14/8/2016                 510               507             .99
AHT                              9/4/2015                   445               964             2.16
 
As I said I looked at mine compared to others, average likes per post 1.21, a little under what appeared to be the average which is about 1.4
Which has me thinking I need to think about the way I go about things in these forums.
So now, having shown that and what can be taken from it I will get to the point of this thread.
I have seen in other forums that they have a dislike button as well as a like button.
I think a dislike button may help in members thinking twice before they post, and lesson the amount of crappy post that are so often appearing in these forums.
I am interested to know what other people think.

To participate here... A dislike could work, like it does in several other forums out there but since we have zero administration right now again it is useless, like the whole forum. It's just the living room of the trolls right now and they seems to spend there whole social life in here. Poor trolls. What would they do if forum would get shut down?
 
Oh and yes I have a social life. Real like virtual.