Dande

Just to jump in front of some questions. I don't use cheat engine or any modified DLL files.

Hi ! So after around 2-3 years of playing with no issues 3dx suddently became unstable. I connect to 3dx (tried both US and EU) and after around 1 minute or less I stop getting messages form people and I don;t see anyone moving, the weird thing is, people still get my messages and I can load people profiles perfectly and I never get disconnected. This specific issue started to happen after I reinstalled windows 10 and changed wireless adapter in my PC, but everything else works fine, internet speed is as high as ever and there is no latency issues anywhere this isue only happens with 3dx. I hope somone can help Best, Dande.

Hello Everyone, I want to start of this message by saying WHY? alot,here it goes. 1. WHY did a new club seemed as a good idea to developers ? Now out of 6 locations 4 are clubs. Nigh club, nigh club #2, sin club and love island (it has all the futures of the club - lights, dj booth, dance floor. And no other features, so .. a club with an iceberg) 2. WHY atmosphere is no longer a concern when it comes to locations ? Back when I joined we had Night club, BDSM (aka Sin Club) and Beach, all of them seemed unique and had diferent vibe, now apart from Beach and Sin club every other place feels the same I imagine again because of lights, similar music and club theme everywhere. 3. WHY is there no features in any of the locations ? Every place is like the same room with different wallpaper, we need things specific to that location, be it social or sex features. 4. WHY is every feature that is implemented is forgotten by devs as soon as it is out ? There were many features that could had follow-up updates. To name a few : Drinks - could had added bigger variety (shots, cocktails damn.. even different colored bottles) , make it so people can give the drink their holding to other people for RP and social value. Pole dancing - Longer better different dance loops could had been added. Volleyball - could had been improved and not remain a wasted developing time as it is now. Color palete - Doesn't work for some clothes (striped stockings) surely could had been improved. 5. WHY even ask for our suggestions via polls or earlier ago we had a seperate site for suggestions when you don't listen to them ? Cause every time you ask and we answer and you still do something else then we voted or asked for it's a sure way to lose faith of your paying customers. The part where i rant: At this point i am confused what is it with the whole night club theme for the whole game, dark spaces with dance floors. There is nothing to do on them, one location with features, interactivity and space would be better then all the current ones combined. As many said before me the new club looks nice, but thats it..it's just a wallpaper of the same generic room that is all locations we have. If not for exclusive furniture, room size and wallpapers in thsoe locations it would be the same as player opened rooms... As some many before in this topic I am also considering if i should even bother to subscribe anymore. I said "They will do it in the future" too much and this time i just can't bring myself to swallow the blue pill again and continue to support someone who treats us like money bags. I earn the money i give to this game and money by definition is a tool of exchange for your work and for you to get the best other people can make and frankly i don;t believe that is the best these devs can make, that whats pisses me off the most. And in cocnlusion: It is better to do one thing right then to half-ass hundreds of things. Best, Dande.

I support the changing to 80s- 90s music, like most of the player base is around my age, and it is the music we grew up with, current pop music connects more with teenagers then young adults. Would be nice to have a club with dedicated 80-90s music and we can already see how many private rooms this aswell, so there is peopel who want it already. Best, Dande.

As to more ideas expressed here. I don't know where you get the notion that throwing more money at it makes it better, and thats the opposite of how things actualy work, if you want more money for something you make a product that is worth more money you don't ask for more money on the promises of it being worth it later on. In game shop aswell , bad idea, ingame shops really only work when it doesn't affect core values and purpose of the game, if you say put an ingame shop for poses or clothing even that's making people pay for more money for main features of the game (it is not like any game where you pay for visual changes to character becouse those games don;t have visual look as main feature, clothing here only serves the purpose of looking nice so it is a main feature). As far as paying for premium or so packages, thats just people wanting to be special and unique for paying more money, if you just want to support the game, ask for donation feature, not premium or vip status. Good idea to get more people to try it out is say 7 days free trial with all features, worked for many games in the past, still does. Let people experience the game for a while and see if they want to play it. Just some thoughts. Best, Dande.

Chaostika, if you want to seperete the community entirely, then your idea works great, for anything else it is just an absurd thing. Paying more to get bdsm features ? so that means only top paying people will enjoy bdsm between themselfs ? The price is good as it is, it doesn't need to be lower or higher as you suggested, definetly not higher. And dividing features based on how much player is paying is just bad practise. One price , all features it;s how it is and should be. Best, Dande

Hello as always will put in my 2 cents. 1. Please no DJ booth, puting Dj booths everywhere is not a solution since they are only visual (becouse by your suggestions it doesn't seem liek you knew that). And sin club is really not a place for a DJ booth. 2. Community changed so alot of less active players that tlak in local in genral, over all locations. Now as to what i would think might help atleast a little. 1. Maybe organize Descriptive strip dances (everyone would know when they happen so players who like RP or descriptive active chat would come at those times) 2. Organize traditional spin the bottle games (not the ones that turn into orgies) 3. Do some parties (Skar lead an amzing one there) and advertise them good. 4. Always try and say hello in local chat when you come in (even if it looks useless at thsi point) I won;t go into suggestions that would requare dev work. Dunno i think these ideas might help if applied correctly. Best, Dande.

Hellos, well I read thru most of it or enough of it to realise that it actualy doesn't say anything about ethics just about excuses for acting "unethical" and i put that in quotes becouse thing as Unethical is never done, it is only perceived as unethical. Alot of those point refered to Ethics like clear and defined behaviour peopel should follow, which in reality it is far from it. Ethics is unclear thoughts and discussions about what should be considered right in the eyes of the person who is making up those thoughts, sure some of it gets mainstream and are accepted my majority of people like women rights, black rights, freedom of speech but then again so was slavery, women having no voice and beheading for not believing in god, both good and bad concepts are born in diferent times and are ethicaly right in those times. Sure now alot of people do say oh but we are better now, we know better, those living before us didnlt had such a moral compass as we do now, but do we ? are we sure that comign generations won;t look back at us as barbaric unethical bunch ? Coming back to your original post it is self contradicting in places: In the 1st point it reffers to usage of illgal drugs as unethical - really ? something that has nothign to do with conduct with other peopel is unethical ? (that statment can only be made if you consider laws as ethics) And then later on in some other point it says how laws is not ethics. Hence leaving point 1 looking like it was written by a person who has very single minded view of ethics. And then they were tlaking about selfless acts which again .. selflesness does not exist. People always look out for themselfs and laws and ethics are concepts that are agreed by people at the period of time to preserve themselfs, not protect others form bad people. Anyway i am putting my 2 cents in here. Would liek some edbate about ethics, but not the rules of how to fallow said ethcis Thanks, Dande.

Happy birthday ! Mike Mike <3

Sorry only found a playlist sort of full album on youtubes. It is Madness - One step beyond , and i could listen to all of their albums form start to finish, but i had to choose one ^^

1.DandeA person who pulls fast ones, slickThat guy pulled a Dande 2.No one can mess with this kickass last name. Whoever has this last name is automatically the coolest kid in the world. U can pronounce it many different ways but it is still cool. so hahaahahahahhaha. The boys with tend to very hot and have the best bodies in the world.Person 1: Hey who is that cool kid over there? Person 2: Oh, if hes that cool, and sexy, and hot, then his last name must be dande Person 1: that is soooo true

First of all i think this is very confussing title for the topic, i came here thinking someone needs help with something. and well i think what most peopel are tlaking about here is those first few months of so called Love when everything is good and happy. Me personaly think this stage is the worst since peopel ussualy lose sanity during it and even if they did ehave rational prior to this stage , they stop doing so while in it. Actual love i believe comes after months or even years. When both parties show respect and trust to each other after prologned time of being together and still find each other sexualy attractive. And i dislike new couples most of the time, appart they are tolarable when you are tlaking to one of them, but together they are just annoying to listen to i find. Anyways , just my thoughts. Best, Dande.

*looks in the mirror* hmm well i still look the same, name in game is stil the same ... so i guess i am here.. and i am online daily these days:o in sin mostly And welcome back As for changes in 3dx, yes it changed and anyone who says otherwise either has bad memory or lies well not 3dx itself to he exact but peopel and the way they interact, rarey do i get a pleasant thing as a fun conversation in local chat which used to be my bread and butter in 3dx. People turned more private and not willing to talk to people they don't already know for some reason or prefer to tlak in private rather then local. Which is sad for me, but hey, can't judge peopel for doing what they want

How about this logo and name? sounds rather nice to me

Can't decide if this is true democracy or communism tho a nice club is always welcome

I went out, rode my bike all the time i was thinking about bad bussines practices tho and not informing community propertly about closing of services for some time apprantly alot of places does that these days

Hello everyone, I will confess that i did not read the whole thread just the start of it and then enough to notice that no one who has any credibility talking about the game (talking about devs here) had made any statement. I agree with twiggy as to the slow flow of updates and them being most of the time sex poses (I have nothign agianst sex poses) but some other things would be nice to have aswell. I would like developers sharing the bigger picture with us and whats the goal with the 3dx is altho i understand the downside of it aswell since alot of inpatiant people would start asking and demanding it instantly but leaving community in the dark like this is not a good practise aswell. the comments "it's a sex game and it's always been this way" Just becouse it always been this way doesn't mean people shouldn't want or expect it to be better. And we all know it is more then just a sex game by now. Funny enough how people who are now claiming it is just a sex game where in most cases the same people who complained about public sex and too much sex. Skar suggested sending an email and that is a good idea but i would suggest doing both , sending an email and posting it on forum, while the email will be read 100% the public post where peopel show their support is much more effective since developers can see it is not the single person asking for things. Rest of the cycle of peopel elaving and activity in the game seems to be marely secondary point that twiggy made and yes people leave for numerous reasons, but i can guarantee that lack of updates or content is one of those reasons aswell so i think any community would need to look at what reasons for leaving they can eliminate instead of just chalking it up to "cycles". And damn i joined around 2 years ago now so it should be obviosu that i want this place to succeed i really do and yes none other adult social game is any good compared to 3dx and i want it to stay this way and i want people to join constantly. I udnerstadn that developers are busy and working and that much of their work is not obvious to us or seen and i respect their patiance with our demands and pleeds, but please developers , throw us a bone, let us have atleast a glimpse on your goal for this game, lets settle this discussion once and for all. Best, Dande

Hello, as always my thoughts on the topic are as follows (with quotes this time!) First of all i don't even consider it a good or nice function, i just find it annoying and unnesseccary since i find using words are quite enough for me to express my points or feelings no need for color or text sizes, but of course it is not that big of a deal that i couldn't live with it. Anyway if there would be an option to turn it off and just see it as plain ol text and let the other people enjoy their colors at the same time it would be great and would solve most of this topic. Second part is the advertisement, somekind of advertisement system would be nice say a side scrolling lien at the bottom or top, you pay 500gold you get your advertisement there for an hour or something (should be optional afcourse) Or something else that would prevent peopel who donl;t want to see any advertisements from seeing them (altho i don't mind advertisements at all i just dislike the over use of not matching colors and fonts that makes my eyes hurt) In summary, A diferent way to advertise would be nice. And i would lvoe the option to turn the html code off and just see it as plain text instead id one so desires. Best, Dande.

As I see and thought it will happen this discussion is going nowhere. As for the statistics it is all over the psychology articles you could atleast do some research before trying to deny it. I undersant and not trying to belittle your horrable experience , but it is not an excuse to make peopel feel like they are freaks and act liek a biggot. Anyways i am done with this topic. Best, Dande.

Wow, as far as i see now twiggy has much deeper hate for people with rape fantasies then the room topic. I would agree that naming a room "rape" is unacceptable. But now you are straight our saying you will never have any respect for people with rape fantasies even tho statisticaly around 60% of people have such fantasies, thats more then half of the population. And if you are so self rightious that you can't even tolerate them at all why would they ever respect you and cater to your needs which you show alot of in this topic ? It is a fantasy it is not in any shape or form similar to the real thing and you want to what make them feel bad jusy becouse thay have such a desire and a fantasy ? call them freaks ? whats next throw stones at them ? Fanatasies and desires are nto something people think of for themselfs, it is something that comes naturaly. But as far as you are concerned peopel only should be allowed to cuddle and missioanry pose while tlaking sweet things to each other. Fantasies should never be publisized if they can offend anyone, but if you show no respect for them twiggy then sorry, but you have no right to say to them what they should and should not do. Best, Dande.

Hello everyone, This seems to be rather heated topic and I most of the time choose to stay away from forums but my thoughts are as follows: 1. The idea about forum links is nice and could be helpful. But as someone pointed out already most people just choose to stay away from them, I mean open forums is just a huge mess other categories are fine so i think open forums should be further categorized as i stay away mainly because I don't want to search thru piles and piles of fights , hate and hypocracy just to find few topics that are actualy fun. Forum is supposed to be a palce for community news, finding like minded individuals within the community and having civilized discussion which is not the case most of the time here. 2. As for profile ideas about RL and RP aswell as someone said before, peopel will just put in what they want anyway so it won;t make any diference except for RP players who can check the RP box even tho they have it written on their profiles now and yes it would be optional, but with updates so far in between and rare i really wouldn;t want developers spending time on somethign that won;t change anything, further down the line when we have more things that we really need ? sure. Now ? not so great of an idea. And I am not getting into all is it right or wrong to expect such information disclosure, becouse many people are so self rightious i don't want to even start debates with them. Best, Dande.

Well it is questionable is it real in the terms most of population think it is. It all depends on what scale you are looking at if you take 100 years back then yes climate is getting hotter and hotter, but take a bigger scale say before humans even exsited and the temperatures our scientist predict were then then it is actualy cooling off with this little small bump of hightened temperature. I would be more worried what comes after the increase in temperature as most of the time in earths history it was a small ice age. But then again, nature will have it's way, we people should stop and contempalte how insignificant we are to the nature (yes you can make arguments about how we destroy forests and such, but nature destroys us, Aid s, cancer, natural disasters.) we do not really matter to anything more then ourselfs and what ever comes of this global warming or ice age after that the nature will keep on rolling changing climate might destroy some species but others will thrive in that environment. 99% of all species that existed on earth are extinct now and we will join them sooner or later. In the end if we want to survive longer we should propobly consider what is best for human species, but in the grand cosmic timeline we do not matter at all

well if you all are now turning this in to a serious discussion then my thoughts are as follows: People will always be who they are you can try to RP or act diferently as much as you like (most of us try to do so in RL aswell in certain situations). But the simple fact of us being so self absorbed prevents us from actualy being anyone else, our ego will never let us have a really diferent outlook on life, we will always react to things the same way (it varies depending on the mood , situation or state of mind at the time) but in the end it is still you. Most people can't and won't accept the fact that we are being limited by our own subconcious so much inthe ways we can act and react but in the end we will always take offence to the same things we always do and won't tolarate things that we never tolarated. So the question "Does anyone play as themselves?" is really not neccessary becouse apart from profesional spies and brainwashed people not many people can actualy act like someone else. It takes but a simple observation while communicating with people you know (ingame or in RL) to see the same pattern and predictability in their behaviour in various situations. The other point is that noone wants to be someone they are not thats exactly why we are as we are , becouse we don;t like being diferent from what we are. So in conclusion i would agree with few peopel that said that we are who we are in game aswell, just perhaps showing more private sides then we do communictaign with people in real life but we never show something we are not. Thanks, Dande.

I try to reenact cold war veteran with post war stress disorders i twitch and limp around alot aswell as tlakign about post war days. I also liek to pretend i am possesed and scream randomly at people poking at them. But by far the most loved role is that of a drunk elderly morgue worker with a death phobia. It is all fun ! oh wait.. or were you tlaking about in game ? ingame i am as myself.

Dunno why is this considered an issue at all in adult environemnt we are grownups we choose how and what we want to do. There is no such thing really as free sex you pay for it either way by seducing, spending time with someone or in this case giving them gifts. As almost everyone said before me it doesn't raise any issues inside of the game. And what you think that after prostitution (if you can even call it that) is banned all those girls will jump straight on you ? they will strat RP prostitution wich will be the same couse in both instances no real value things are involved. As for gifts being visable to everyone, i couldn;t care less if they are or not. But again your argument that people with many gifts scare you is your personal issue not the game issue. On the other hand gifts helps (atleast for me) to see if the avatar is a possable alt of someone. In conclusion: I understand your social warrior code of honor or what not but this is adult environment we don't need people spanking us if we do something they don't like or telling us how we should go about our bussines. As long as it's not hurting anyone else we should be free to do what we want. Dande.