McNick

Malke, sadly as I just said, that's exactly why a lot of us keep subbing I think.  We would/do miss the community.  Sad that the devs can't recognize what they have here.

With the last pose released last month, my reaction (and that of a lot of people I know) was, "oh great, another rough anal pose *sarcasm*".  There are some very simple poses and emotes we have been screaming for the better part of a year.  We are missing some of the most basic sexual poses.  It's been nearly a month since that last update, and this is what we are getting? I am 100% for the LGBT community getting these poses so that everyone can be satisfied.  That is not my issue at all.  My issue is that those poses being added is such a small item after a month of silence from the developers.  Oh, and we get a jacket (that was announced on 6/29) and we can drink (which is actually REALLY cool!).  After this amount of time, if you are going to add an emote like drinking, add a half dozen of them! Add some new, basic sexual poses.  It looks as if this was meant to look like a substantial update, but really it is taking pre-existing poses and making them available to other genders from what I can see.  Then again, we haven't seen the update in person and maybe there are more things added in the background to make some of this work.  Maybe I am missing something. I don't know, but I am just really looking for something more.  Developers, your members are coming to your game to meet people and socialize, and then going to other games when it comes time to do the deed or even show any variety in emote with them.  Is this what you want?

Lol 
 

Well said! 

2. Prohibitions, restrictions and conditions of use, for all game chats and channels.

You agree not to do any of the following:
2.01. Excessive use of bad language.
2.02. Insults, personal attacks, abuse or harassment are not tolerated on any level.
2.03. Any bad comments based on race, nationality, religion, culture, underage sex, or underage sexual preferences are prohibited.
2.04. Any reference to racial or national supremacy, as well as discriminative propaganda on any level is prohibited.
 
I should point out that it was not meant in any kind of offensive fashion, i was there , seen the whole scene, i am not arguing that it wasn;t stupid of him to do so , becouse it was. You ignored him, you will enver see him again, thats ok aswell, but it just soudns that you are angry now becouse he didn't apologise. It just happens that as far as i seen that word they use for each other (meaning his group of friends) so it is clearly not meant to offend anyone and not even addressed at anyone but his friends. SO you left here saying that you are the one to judge how should he socialise with his friends ? I am sorry , but i am not a fan of this over the top social justice warrior movement. And next time you could use the whole story and not only the N word part. ANd lastly , if you want to judge anyone, blame mainstream media and artists for making it popular all over the world it long lost any menaing it had priviously. 
 
As allways not meant to offent anyone aswell,
Dande.

Hello , first of all im spanish so im sorry for my bad english, i was who said the ''N'' word , here is ALL the story not just what i read up there.
 
At the sin club with friends just having fun, we just started dancing ,then one friend black skin in the game said me yoooh bro , then another friend changed is skin to black and said hey look my new clothes! and it was the same but just dark skin and i just respond ''Damnn nigga!'' just in the funny way cause i love Hiphop Rap and thats all,she just read it and take it offensive , but anyways i have black friends in real life and asians too i dont like racist thats why i just created this forum account to APOLOGY to you if you felt offended my bad i was joking with friends
 
Again i apology for that ''N'' word to all who felt offended,and if you unblock me in the game i will apology too and sorry for my english i try.

Forget, one of my friend has been victim of racism. It was just stupid so we ignored him and we discovered that the guy left because he didn't have any friend
 
We can't fight against stupidity but we can ignore it and suddenly, stupidity loose all it's "power" against other people. That's what I think
 
You did well to explain it on the forum. 
 
I hope he is saying the truth, in that case no matter

I really hope this discussion doesn't deteriorate into character assassination. 
 
As far as I am concerned, the suitability of the word in question is not the real issue. It's the cause, but it's not the real issue.
 
The real issue here is that the majority of us did not want in-game moderation, and when in-game moderation stopped, it meant that we all agreed to respect other people's feelings in public areas.
 
In my opinion, that means that if another player asks you to stop doing something, you don't argue about the rules or about your rights. You stop doing whatever it is out of respect for the person who asked you to stop. This applies equally to using offensive words, speaking in a language other than English, having sex in public near where other people are socializing, or any other behavior in which the rights of one party start to infringe on the rights of others.
 
Part of what this forum is for is discussing issues like this, so that we all know what the rules actually are (and the rules do change from time to time) and that we can understand perspectives of other people, who don't necessarily think as we do. 

I think that Fey handled the situation really well and her message to this forum was fair and well  balanced. In response to that, Bartroli identified himself as the person in question, explained his point of view, and offered to apologize. Kudos to the both of them.

Given all that, I see no reason to skew the discussion into the realm of moral judgement of personal character.
 
As Sgt. Friday might have said: "Just the facts, man."

Being nice apparently gets us nowhere, so I am going to be honest.  As always, this is just clearly showing no attempt to predict what the long-time and new members want or will tolerate. A $20 a month game was fine (when we knew all content was free), but then came "Gold", and now it seems like as soon as a cool "feature" (and I use that word lightly) is added, it costs money to use.  You can't expect that people will just pay it like a number of mindless dopes.  Really think about this.... We are already spending $20 a month of hard-earned money to play a sex game and hang out with online friends.  Outsiders would think us crazy as it is (but dammit I love ya all, I promise!).  Then think about spending actually money on a little digital bottle that makes your screen blurry for a few seconds.... What is the point?  To show that virtual people that you have expendable cash?  I know I don't.  I live check to check like I know most of society does and I have a hard time biting the bullet every month to stay here.  I do so because of the community that I love, and my friends here.  It stopped being about the game itself 8 months ago. Apparently though, keeping us members happy is not important.  It's not important to add new features to make us feel like the game itself is worth visiting.  It's all about raking in the dollars and eeking out a pathetic update when the "mindless cattle" that we are apparently considered to be, become restless. Oh, and why not have that update have a way for us to spend even more money... we're stupid right?

With the last pose released last month, my reaction (and that of a lot of people I know) was, "oh great, another rough anal pose *sarcasm*".  There are some very simple poses and emotes we have been screaming for the better part of a year.  We are missing some of the most basic sexual poses.  It's been nearly a month since that last update, and this is what we are getting? I am 100% for the LGBT community getting these poses so that everyone can be satisfied.  That is not my issue at all.  My issue is that those poses being added is such a small item after a month of silence from the developers.  Oh, and we get a jacket (that was announced on 6/29) and we can drink (which is actually REALLY cool!).  After this amount of time, if you are going to add an emote like drinking, add a half dozen of them! Add some new, basic sexual poses.  It looks as if this was meant to look like a substantial update, but really it is taking pre-existing poses and making them available to other genders from what I can see.  Then again, we haven't seen the update in person and maybe there are more things added in the background to make some of this work.  Maybe I am missing something. I don't know, but I am just really looking for something more.  Developers, your members are coming to your game to meet people and socialize, and then going to other games when it comes time to do the deed or even show any variety in emote with them.  Is this what you want?

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Drinks! + 3 sex poses; +clothes
 
 

 
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Daily Rewards! Play 3DXChat every day and get more XGold each consecutive day you play!
Also Porno TV has been fixed

We've tried that countless times and there is an entire section of the forum full of suggestions that have gone ignored for months.  Hence why I said I am being honest for a change instead of trying to be nice.  There's no response either way.  I know some of these things are very difficult.  More than I can even comprehend, but when you start a business you have to count on years of hard work..... constant hard work.  It seems like we see it from them only when we are truly at our breaking point with frustration.

Couldn't have said it better, Ali! It feels like the adding of additional charges in game is simply the incorrect response to something (whether it is low membership, high overhead, whatever).  I can say as a business owner who has made the mistake, jacking up prices or hiding fees without communicating with your clients is a recipe for disaster.  Bring someone in, whether it is an adviser or an investor, and get some help getting back on track.  This game could be a gold mine if you could get over the hump, and I don't see having to over-charge to get there or stay there.

Honestly... the fact that 3dx is starting to charge us additional money for items is appalling. And like Riela said above, if you MUST charge us to use additional features, they you MUST lower the subscription fee. Though I feel there should be some charge if only 5$. And that is simply to weed out the children from the adults to keep a subscription going. As of right now this game has two main features going for it. Amazing graphics, and a friendly caring community. Now anyone who has been here longer then a month, will tell you that the sexual poses "imagination wise" can only take you so far. The real fun and excitement comes from the individuals who are involved with one another in the game.
 
Honestly this is what I feel is going on right now. The games (sales wise) is doing sooooo poorly, that you are trying to make up scape every penny that you can out of us at this point. If that is true, then holy cow, throw this game up on Kickstarter, and get some donations to pave the road for 3-4 months of updates or enough to officially RELEASE the game. And there are many website to pool money from besides kickstarter.
 
All n all, you have dozens and dozens of people all posting the same if not similar things. It boils down to this ... is 3dx hurting for money, hence why this game does not seem like it gets the devs FULL attention. And if so, you guys really need to venture out there and find a sponsor, or throw this up on kickstarter to make some funds. Because the "want" is present, you just need to supply the "demand".
 
But If I am wrong and the game financially is doing well, then post up an official subscriber amount, and show us how many people are keeping the game up and running, prove to us this isnt just your part time gig. But I can gurantee you, if you pay more attention to us, and to developing this game, you could have a real winner here.

Dear Lisa, Gizmo and any other dev that is working on this game.
 
I wish to give you honest feedback. Feedback that is shared by many people here.
First let me start with largest concern.
 
Your game is in BETA and have one of most expensive subscription of all games that exist, not only erotic ones but normal games as well such as WOW or any other mmo currently on market.
We are paying 19 euro per month. Many of us spent money on gifts as well, because we like to support game more and we wish for our friends and special ones to remember moments we shared together.
 
 
However you promised us big feature coming soon and that is reason for update delay.
So we use our money to support you and what we get in return? Feature that was created thanks to our money asking us for more money.
 
Now don't get me wrong drinks are requested feature and really popular one. But I must ask why it does cost gold? why?
Aren't we paying enough? Look at these topics we been giving you feedback for such long time. We want this game to work. We are going so far as giving you free help (such as submitting clothes/ hair  and wanting nothing in return)
 
Is it worth for you devs? How big is this community? 300 active people at best? Is it worth for you to milk 50 whales / people who are willing to pay for invites, beer and any upcoming features as well and loosing others in long time?
I just had friend who quit because of content of this update. She been here for 9 months, She gave you almost 200 euro on subscription and you just lost her many more will follow I am sure of it.
You also made my other friend angry. Friend who was willing to submit her 3D works for you so there's more content for this game and she wanted to do that for free.
 
 
Look at this huge outrage this have caused. It is full of negative feedback - world chat, local chat everyone complaining. How many people you want to quit?
Most of us are here because of people we like. DO you realize how easy is to pack up and go to SL for example? It is simple. It happened before with groups of people and it will happen again.
 
Me and many more people wont support this shady double dipping with our money and we wont stay long. You might get short term boost in money thanks to this ... month, two ... perhaps more and then you will realize how many people left because we just wont tolerate it.
 
What is next? Pay for rehashed poses? Pay for new furniture? Pay for ability to PM ?
You see, I am fine with paying for stuff but then drop subscription. DROP 20 euro per month. MAKE this game free and then we can talk about buying features with xgold. This is one of most, if not most expensive game on market with least amount of content possible.
 
I truly hope and I wish you read this and think about it.
Show us you value us as customers and show us that you can do better. Update was only today. Prove us that this game is not scam. FIX IT and people will thank you and continue to show their support with their subscription. Keep pushing us like sheep and many will leave.
This game will live or die by your decisions and your ability and willingness to communicate with us.
 
 
 
I like this update. It is finally nice to see more poses. I hope more M / F poses will follow to F / F or M / M. 
But I must also ask. Where are our collars?
Solen submitted them more than 3 weeks ago. Why are they still not here? Answers please. Everyone in community knows about them and we are waiting and waiting.
 
 
This is not only my rant. This is what everyone you ask in game that been here for long time will tell you. Please devs we love this game we want it to work. But you gotta do something for us too. Our wallets are finite

When I first started playing this game I thought cool a sex game with really good graphics. I started having random sex  but after awhile I began to meet people and make new friends and random sex wasn't fun anymore
now I have a lot less sex because I want it to have meaning call me silly and a fool I don't care its how i feel.  I plan on being here for years, because of the friends I have made and the many more I will make "smile" 

like always polite gene

sexii Lexii and sexii Nickii
 

Rochi and Shanti found a new eye color
 

Rochi has found a new glitch
 

Cybertone and Iselle welcomes all friends and everyone else to our Virtual Wedding. ❤