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Elvis

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  1. Are you a dom or sub?:


    RL on a daily basis VERY DOM. I am so DOM, I shit gag balls!


    What turns you on most?:


    Tipsy's boots


    Do you enjoy short lustful encounters or long erotic affairs, or both?:


    long


     


    What does your ideal partner look like?:


    Tipsy


    Have you had experience with dom/sub encounters in 3dx?: 


    The Dom/Sub thingy here is nice to scratch the surface. You might get the idea, but it doesn't match a real experience. But as I said, nice to play a little. I haven't met a real Dominus in here. But than again, none of the real life Domini I know, would do it virtually. ;)


  2. For me it is simple. I don't see us all as avatars or pixels, I see us as minds. Do I want to have sex with a man's mind? Nope. So I expect people to mention it in their profile if they play a different gender. My fun ava "BettyPage" doesn't say anything in her/his profile, but I don't use her for any kind of false relationship either.  

  3. I would like to kindly disagree with this statement and urge a different perspective on here, first of all, there is a living person behind every avatar so I naturally encourage everyone to treat given person with the same respect i want to be treated as a matter of respect. As far as the definition of love goes, i very well believe that it is possible to fall in love with words and those affectionate gestures, all those tingling emotions, be it on a dating site, or even back to the times where people used to exchange romantic love letters, secret admirers. Personally I am a strong proponent of the power words have, no matter if via text or word and as everyone is different, there are those of us who embrace them. In my time in the online world i've seen so many kind of relations, even couples who found themselves through online platforms like this, people who forged bonds deeper than they even dared to dream of, soulmates, friends for a lifetime, all of that simply sprouted by the written word and turned into an almost fairytale like story.

     

    I encourage and have the deepest respect for each and every single person who takes the bravery to express their feelings for a respected other one, be it out of fondness, deep affection or even love, exhibiting those feelings in a world filled with so much heartache, misunderstandings and issues that itself is a grand gesture, it means baring your heart and opening your true self whereas we all strive for love and companionship in so many ways and yet we are still afraid to loose the reigns of control, both in the virtual and real world.

    You dont fall in love with pixels but with the person behind it on the other end of the computer, some of those "married lines" even derive from real couples venturing into virtual places like this one for instance, the right to express their feelings and unzip their hearts is given to everyone, not just the real couples and it is a well worth cherising token of appreciation. Love comes eventually and most often in the places you least expect it ... does it take a voice and a picture for true love ? I wouldn't necessarily say so, that depends on the individual character, those seeing with the heart do not need visuals or voices to confirm their feelings, it may influence in terms of attraction to different degrees for some but true love in my opinion is not about visual appearences or voices.

    For some it could just be a fantasy, a fleeting dream, a vicarious experience to dive in, others might dare to follow that road to the end and see what rewarding experience could be found at the end or even not but brave is he who bares and acknowledges feelings, savours and cherishes them.

     

    Drama itself is a topic of its own, it comes with jealousy and miscommunication, with accusation and the desire to possess and control instead of wonder and communicate, it is the very power of words who can define anger or love. From my experience drama often comes in when boundaries have not been defined and frustration surfaces, this very psychological reaction is unique for all of us and can go subconsciously even get back to childhood experiences, it is a process of mental growing and digesting, past experiences you still carry along and haven't faced squarely yet, it lies in the human nature to believe under stress that whatever unhappiness you face is not your fault and caused by others, in a prison for example, most of the inmates would claim to be innocent.

     

    This may be a drastic comparison but the point is that a deep introspection can have a very healing effect and through claiming responsibility those fears will melt out of your body, it is not about blaming, true responsibility is always taken as a celebration of freedom. Unfortunately such is a mindset and aha effect we alone often struggle to find.

     

    On the botttom line, i do support feelings, whether you find a significant other to share and express them or just with yourself and i believe that will lead you to a more mature and fulfilled self instead of stuffing them down.

    If google serves me well, the is a french saying "l'esprit de l'escalir" meaning the feeling you get when you leave a conversation and think of all the things you should have said. Bonds that haven't been forged, feelings that haven't been shared, misunderstandings that were never cleared and if you are not on the same page, you have the peace of mind you need to move on.

     

    The choice is yours

    That is by far the best post I read in here. No matter how you play the game, some little line or some little word can cause a little "click" and you feel more for someone then usually expected. Especially when you are a talker and like to learn more about the other person. Thank you....thank you very much!! 

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