Brad.m1 Posted August 28, 2016 Share Posted August 28, 2016 I'm not sure where to post this, so I apologize if this is in the wrong place. So anyway, I'm new to 3DXChat, but, not new to sex chats. I've made some friendships in the past that lasted several months and some that lasted years. I have a fair amount of experience A problem I've always had in chats is almost friend zoning girls that I have a lot of things in common with. Every once in a while, you meet some girl you wish you met offline. She likes most of the same music as you, she is hilarious, you have a lot of the same hobbies, sexually you'd be compatible...etc Whenever I find a girl like that I talk to them for hours...and, learn a lot about them...and sex is not on my mind anymore really. I respect this girl that is so similar to myself...asking to fuck almost feels...lame. I don't know if this makes sense to anyone else :'( I feel awkward talking to her now as well. I feel obligated to have sex with her. Saying, "I like you a lot, but sex feels like an obligation...I want to talk to talk to you until I feel it's the right time to fuck you"...comes off like fucked up insult lol I'm not bad at rp, I've had lots of sex in 3DXChat...but, not with anyone I relate to on the same level. I feel like a weird creeper, especially cause I'm a guy who just likes talking to her...likes her a lot, would like to have sex with her...but feels weird about it. Should I tell her I like her...or should I just leave her alone...? I'm not usually dependent on the opinions of others...some times it helps though. Thanks anyone who feels like answering me... Laure083 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest beccie Posted August 28, 2016 Share Posted August 28, 2016 Well... hmmm... interesting one - but where does it say on the can that you *have* to have sex with someone you've met on 3dx? Is it possible that you could simply remain friends and the deed will never happen? Or would this be some sort of 'failure' on your part? Does connecting with a girl have to equal a quick shag? What is her take on this (your best guess)? Maybe she doesn't feel the time is right. Maybe she doesn't want it. From my POV when I was in-game there was something quite cool in a slightly sadistic sort of way about knowing a good friend wanted it and not allowing it My advice for now: let it be, enjoy her company and friendship and see what happens naturally. Above all, don't force the issue and risk losing a great friendship just on account of a cheap thrill. LadyLayla, Caren, FairyDust and 4 others 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caren Posted August 28, 2016 Share Posted August 28, 2016 That's b/c you're seeing her as a person rather than a sex ... thing. So talk to her, and enjoy the convo. <3 There aren't any rules that say sex is required... ever. Have fun xo, Caren RedJewel, MissPlaced, FairyDust and 3 others 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnyNameWillDo Posted August 28, 2016 Share Posted August 28, 2016 Interesting choice of profile picture for someone so demure... Caren, Maelyn, PoisonMortel and 3 others 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brad.m1 Posted August 28, 2016 Author Share Posted August 28, 2016 Well... hmmm... interesting one - but where does it say on the can that you *have* to have sex with someone you've met on 3dx? Is it possible that you could simply remain friends and the deed will never happen? Or would this be some sort of 'failure' on your part? Does connecting with a girl have to equal a quick shag? What is her take on this (your best guess)? Maybe she doesn't feel the time is right. Maybe she doesn't want it. From my POV when I was in-game there was something quite cool in a slightly sadistic sort of way about knowing a good friend wanted it and not allowing it My advice for now: let it be, enjoy her company and friendship and see what happens naturally. Above all, don't force the issue and risk losing a great friendship just on account of a cheap thrill. Good advice. Seeing what happens naturally is a good idea. Thanks for the advice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brad.m1 Posted August 28, 2016 Author Share Posted August 28, 2016 That's b/c you're seeing her as a person rather than a sex ... thing. So talk to her, and enjoy the convo. <3 There aren't any rules that say sex is required... ever. Have fun xo, Caren that's true, no where does it say sex is a requirement. I'll just see how things work out over time. thanks for your advice Caren 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brad.m1 Posted August 28, 2016 Author Share Posted August 28, 2016 Interesting choice of profile picture for someone so demur... "I <3 bald pussy"...? that pic...? that's not really a bold statement. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FairyDust Posted August 29, 2016 Share Posted August 29, 2016 I always say, "the mind is the most erotic organ we have" Sex is like the dessert at the end of a 5-course meal. Sometimes I stuff my face so much with the first 4-courses I can't even have dessert...that was a lie, I'm never too full to eat sticky date pudding Good Luck! Brad.m1, AnyNameWillDo, HHbabes and 4 others 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest SherryS Posted August 29, 2016 Share Posted August 29, 2016 Amazingly enough I don't see 3dx as a dating site. But it is always nice when someone cares a little more about you as a person to pick you sexual mind organ of it's erotic sex thoughts over time and not just hit you up for it head on. Did I make that sound like a car crash? Oh well! Just remember their is a person on the other side of the screen and their mind and feeling may be involved in this deep connection. Then again,they may be playing you up to use your little brain for sex too Just a thought, no matter how deep or dark. AnyNameWillDo and Caren 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest SayaX Posted August 29, 2016 Share Posted August 29, 2016 Stop overthinking (To be fair, I do that quite a bit, do as I say, not as I do kind of thing ). Live for the moment and enjoy it while it lasts. I have typically found relationships are temporary. Friendship is the thing that prevails. Have fun! There are many different reasons for people coming here, but at the end of it all, we are just here to have fun. Source: Lived it. Got the t-shirt. Briana, Caren, Bennet and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChloeMoretz Posted August 29, 2016 Share Posted August 29, 2016 I'm going to assume this is aimed at me brad, and i am flattered! FairyDust, Sparklebottom and Bennet 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparklebottom Posted August 29, 2016 Share Posted August 29, 2016 No one's going to ask her name? : P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparklebottom Posted August 29, 2016 Share Posted August 29, 2016 Oops, I posted that a moment too late! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparklebottom Posted August 29, 2016 Share Posted August 29, 2016 Fuck his brains out, Chloe! Rollo and ChloeMoretz 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest beccie Posted August 29, 2016 Share Posted August 29, 2016 I'm going to assume this is aimed at me brad, and i am flattered! Well I suppose that was one way for the OP to get his dilemma noticed by the girl in question.... lol AnyNameWillDo and ChloeMoretz 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FairyDust Posted August 29, 2016 Share Posted August 29, 2016 I'm going to assume this is aimed at me brad, and i am flattered! omg, omg, O-M-G...Miss Mortez! *faints* i want you as all 5-courses. life really sucks at 3dx without you. i miss rummaging through your trash! Jules Winnfield and ChloeMoretz 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matrix Posted August 30, 2016 Share Posted August 30, 2016 I wonder if the point all along was to get her to notice. Well it worked. Hope it works out. AnyNameWillDo, YouAreMySpecial and ChloeMoretz 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparklebottom Posted August 30, 2016 Share Posted August 30, 2016 I just assume they're having a marathon fucking session at the moment and that's why neither is responding. ChloeMoretz, AnyNameWillDo and Bennet 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jules Winnfield Posted September 22, 2016 Share Posted September 22, 2016 omg, omg, O-M-G...Miss Mortez! *faints* i want you as all 5-courses. life really sucks at 3dx without you. i miss rummaging through your trash! Leave the cherry on top for me ChloeMoretz 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SkyDiver Posted September 30, 2016 Share Posted September 30, 2016 try few pick up lines, here, i'll share some of mine: breaking 4th wall kinda, Deadpool syle - "oh baby, you boobs are so digital, and you ass is so nicely pixelated" or straight forward approach "your lips and my dick should go on a date", "be my squeal baby and i'll feed you my nuts", "hmmm you look constipated, don't worry, i'll fuck the shit out of you", "my dick died today, it only wish was to be buried in your ass", "damn i wish you wore my big toe, so i would bang you on my coffee table", "how do you like your eggs? fried? scrambled? or fertilized?" use it with cation, but if you'll see her smile and laugh instead of turning all red and mad, she's the one :3 BilawalD, Jules Winnfield, LadyLayla and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Toxic Posted September 30, 2016 Share Posted September 30, 2016 try few pick up lines, here, i'll share some of mine: breaking 4th wall kinda, Deadpool syle - "oh baby, you boobs are so digital, and you ass is so nicely pixelated" or straight forward approach "your lips and my dick should go on a date", "be my squeal baby and i'll feed you my nuts", "hmmm you look constipated, don't worry, i'll fuck the shit out of you", "my dick died today, it only wish was to be buried in your ass", "damn i wish you wore my big toe, so i would bang you on my coffee table", "how do you like your eggs? fried? scrambled? or fertilized?" use it with cation, but if you'll see her smile and laugh instead of turning all red and mad, she's the one :3 Lol Whip it out and show me what you got, so I can save the disappointment from later I don't need a spoonful of sugar to swallow you. You can call me the Garbagewoman, cause I wanna handle your junk. My batteries are dead, can I borrow your dick? "I'd like to point out that "beautiful" has U in it. But, 'quickie' has U & I together." Hi! I'm Craven Morehead are you? Hehe hope these help. Oh shit these are for picking up dudes. Oh well have at it Briana, LadyLayla, BilawalD and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChloeMoretz Posted September 30, 2016 Share Posted September 30, 2016 wow i actually met a guy named craven morehead once and that totally went over my head lol, i didnt see that!!! so... that wasnt his name im guessing... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparklebottom Posted September 30, 2016 Share Posted September 30, 2016 Well, did you fuck Brad??? ChloeMoretz 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Fuwakumi Posted September 30, 2016 Share Posted September 30, 2016 Oh this is a good one. lol, This reminds me a few times when a guy friend asked me for some advise how to take a girl they like to bed. Although it was much more complicated back then since that's in the RL and not here in a virtual world. I haven't read much of other's response but have you even talked about sex with this girl of yours? If you have then you have some common grounds you can stand with her about sex. You might find it weird that you respect her too much after chatting with her for hours and now you think you can't ask for a fuck. Honestly if you sincerely like this girl, I personally think it's worth asking her for a fuck when the mood is right. Of course it's the guy's responsibility to set the mood for the girl. If it were me and I feel good about a guy sweet talking me and we chat for hours and he's kind of pushing me to bed. I may let him depends on the "mood". You seem to be a very sweet guy and wouldn't mind talking to you as well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Fuwakumi Posted September 30, 2016 Share Posted September 30, 2016 Maybe? lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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