JackPine

Damn, my ears are burning. 3DXCHAT is a place for virtual sex. However, what you witnessed, the only thing 'virtual' was due to the two being separated by physical distance. The rest? That was real, and I must say, deliciously so!

Now I have to revisit these old haunts! Who's with me?

As many who read this would agree, our worst critics are ourselves. Then there are those days that prove self doubts are often incorrect. Today was one of those days. Wish I could bottle this feeling and sell it. I would be rich!

To @Silvio. You are a kindred soul just for the fact we share space in these dairies. Keep your head up and hang in there. Though the clouds are dark, the sun is behind them, ready to burst through! And though you have your doubts about yourself, Dee, I for one sure don't. You are an amazing person for, well, being you. I am lucky to get to say you are a friend. Yes, stay safe, and we will be alright.

Talk about an up and down and up again and up yet again place this world called 3DXCHAT can be! As a person who lives in a northern climate, I am drawn to the beach scene, especially through these months of winter cold and a sun never very far above the horizon. Today found me on Asthestic Perfection's Erotic Nude Beach enjoying the sun, water, and music. I highly recommend a visit to this place! It was a quiet morning, so I took a spot on one of the sailboats at anchor and prepared to go AFK and work, with an ear to the music. It was a pleasant surprise to get a hello from a stranger on shore wondering if I would enjoy some company. Being one who doesn't get many random private messages, I gladly said, "Sure, permission to board!" After exchanging pleasantries, and enjoying the sun and ocean breezes on the deck, things took a turn towards sex. It was at this point I got another hello from shore. This time from a long time friend. After some playful banter regarding my new encounter I was fully engaged in this new acquaintance. Sparing the explicit details, we had fun. Well, she sure had fun. As soon as I brought her to climax... poof! Since 3DXCHAT being what it is, I assumed a D/C. After a wait, I accepted the fact she wasn't returning. I enjoy being a pleasurable experience for those I partner with. However, for someone to just leave at that point was disappointing. Low and behold that longtime friend from earlier stopped by again. Upon hearing my story, and seeing I was available, she was quickly aboard that sailboat to enjoy a complete experience with me. How lucky am I?! So that was the up, down, and up again. The up yet again was finding myself in another long time friend's club later in the day. Many friends were there. Lots of laughs, banter, good vibes. Today was another day that just left me with warm fuzzies, even through these dark, cold, winter days. No wonder I am hooked! Thank you, all!

Mr. Pine-occio... I love it!

Yeah! Thanks Diana! Because of your help I got to stumble into this good friend. But whatever he says about me, don't believe him. I was on my best behavior, as always. Why is my nose growing?

Obviously, we've met?

I have resisted the urge to comment on a couple other threads, since my input would only lead to more debate that is leading us no where. Once again, this place has opened my eyes to world of sexuality way more complex than I had imagined. All I know is me, so the only one I can accurately judge is me. One would think the world of 3DXCHAT would allow all of us the opportunity to just be ourselves as we want to be, openly and without regrets. But alas, we see the need to argue and shout from our own ivory towers. I appreciate the opportunity to learn, without having to pick one side of an argument or the other. It would be nice to see more listening here in the forum, especially when most rooms in game you can't get anyone to speak! Another is the endless critiques of the technical parts of the game. What is missing, what isn't working quite right, lack of updates, etc. I am on my second annual subscription. Based on my monetary investment in the game and my observations of room numbers, we are a rather small community, and I doubt anyone is getting filthy rich. To realize everything everyone wants would require a lot more subscribers, a more expensive subscription, or both. I have realized my satisfaction from the game is YOU that I get the opportunity to interact with. In a way few games allow us to do. For this reason alone I am hooked. Be open, be kind, and have FUN! I know I am.

Thank you, Silvio! To be mentioned in the same sentence with @Derai is high praise, indeed! My wanderings and ramblings have put me in some real good company.

Sam Elliott, since I am assured selling a copy to @Nektar.

Thank you, Atticus. I have had my ups and downs here and out of 3DXCHAT, but overall I would have to say I'm a very lucky bastard and quite the naughty boy. Life is too short to not at least try to enjoy the ride and share good times!

Nektar truly is one of the good ones. Wishing you the best on your recovery, Atticus.

I adore the passion you have to share this place as only you, Olesya, can do. Keep sharing, and I do hope to make one of these videos myself!

To all that have stumbled across this diary, to all that I have had the pleasure to meet here or in game. This is now the second Thanksgiving (a US holiday) that has seen us under the thumb of covid rules, shut downs and the feeling of being shut out. In the spirit of this holiday I do give thanks to this place, to you. Without it, I am not sure how I would cope. Thank you!

I have now passed 1 1/2 years in this place. At times I feel like an old grizzled veteran of 3DXCHAT, and then again a newbie still wet behind his ears. A few of you I met early on. Lucky for me I was welcomed into the fold. Not only to experience and explore this place as only 3DX can provide, but also to learn and love you all that makes this world what it is . Yet, I am still finding moments running into people I fondly read here on the forums for the first time. Each time I am like "oh oh! I know you!" Even though new, it's still like running into an old friend, we just hadn't met yet. With all of you, you give me pause to wonder. What a wonderful, compelling, complex world I am a part of. I don't pretend to fully understand it all, but with an open mind can't wait to learn more! You. All of you. You are the reason I can't wait log into the game again!

Hey Diary. Here to ramble to you again. Some other threads and personal experience in game got me thinking. Perhaps some will read and glean some insight into how some of us think, at least me. I am a bit older than probably the average 3DX'er. I gained adulthood prior to this thing called the internet. I grew up in a binary world, where boys were boys and girls were girls. Biology aside, I already knew we humans were more complex than that. I have an uncle who is gay. Heck, the best man in my wedding is gay. My generation transitioned from hiding their sexual orientation to seeing it normalized for the most part, and even celebrated. I know I do! Now enter my immersion into this place. Where even gender identity is more fluid. It was an eye opener. Not in a critical, judgemental way, but just oh!, that is what it means. This should be a place to be open and honest about all forms of sexuality and gender identity. A place to learn, to gain knowledge and acceptance. To understand each of us. I know I have had missteps along the way, but never out of spite, just ignorance. I am perhaps un-evolved. I am a male who is attracted to those born and remain female. It's just my thing. But you are you, and I respect and admire what you bring here, well, you! To those that might still feel ostracized and insecure in their own skin, hang in there. Some of us are still catching up. You deserve to be valued and respected, and only want you, and all of us, to share in the good times together. Peace.

Stass! Why thank you for reading my ramblings. I am a short reprieve while family is visiting, but will be back and causing a happy ruckus soon. In the meantime? Tag you're it!

Today was one of those days that just left me, well, happy. A group of acquaintances that welcomed me into a fun lighthearted chat. Sprinkle in a good friend, and new ones drawn into our local conversation loaded with laughs, memories, and flirtatious comments all around. It was a helluva good time! Somedays it can be struggle to find a good conversation, even in a game with 'Chat' as part of its name. Today was not one of those days. Today was good. Looking forward to more.

I find this question interesting. I renewed my subscription and it had absolutely nothing to do with the number of or lack of the number of updates. It is this community of fellow 3DX'ers that have captured my attention and loyalty to this place. Perhaps I am part of the problem, but I choose not to care. You. You have me hooked, and I am happy for that.

It was fun while it lasted. Thanks for the escape from the cares of the day, AG.

Corilois Bar! Yes, I miss their ale. Among other things. Dee, ya' know me well. That's exactly the part I played, and it served me well. I found some of the other characters so interesting though, and can see getting outside yourself being real fun. Time though. Always that time thing.

AG! I forget the name of your spaceport rest stop, but what an awesome theme and place you hosted! Although unable to fully immerse my character into your place due to my pitiful knowledge of sci-fi, you and your staff always welcomed me warmly. One of the memorable places in 3DX for me! I agree. It does take time and energy to form a role, let alone a world, and fully bring a character fully to life within a particular RP. It can happen and when it does, wildly entertaining! Time being in such short supply, it is challenging.

This place offers an escape that I have become attached to. Even when my commonsense is screaming, "Why? Why?!!" I am an imperfect soul in the company of like minded souls. Ups and downs for sure, but I might as well enjoy this ride.. with... YOU. Here's to us!

Wow. That didn't last long. Love can sure be complicated imperfect thing. Even here. With that, and timing with parents in deteriorating health, I am taking a break from this place and focus my energies outside 3DX. I may be back, but I need a bunch of crisp fall Minnesota air to refresh my attitude. Take care, be safe, and please. Play nice.