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I have had a great evening in this place.
 
People are friendly and welcoming.
 
Thank you for taking the time to make a club/room that offers something different. 
 
May you continue taking care of business and get the support you deserve.
 

Elvis Presley - Such A Night  
 

Elvis Presley - Such A Night  
 

Elvis Presley - Such A Night  
 

I have had a great evening in this place.
 
People are friendly and welcoming.
 
Thank you for taking the time to make a club/room that offers something different. 
 
May you continue taking care of business and get the support you deserve.
 

Seeing as Halloween is coming up ....
 

 

 

 

 

 

Hot Wives (Wife Sharing).
 
I enjoy writing stories and In one of my stories, I wrote of a couple who decided to try wife sharing, specifically cuckolding and later on in a role play I took part in, my partner teased another lover of hers - a Stag, whilst we roomed. It was different and great fun.
 
Research for my story of wife sharing and hot wives was quite interesting and I thought I would share some interesting things in this Forum.
 
If anyone is interested in reading my story, it can be found here:
 
A Cuckold at Crystal Lake
https://www.literotica.com/s/a-cuckold-at-crystal-lake
 
 
Typically, Hot Wives include Cuckoldresses and Vixens and all are very sexy and alluring.
 
Hotwives enjoy sex and plenty of it.
A Cuckoldress wants a better quality of sex.
Vixens enjoys being shared by and with her sexy partner.
 
Cuckolding (or cucking) is one of the kinks of wife sharing.
 
Women involved in this are called “Hot Wives” or “Cuckoldresses”
People outside the scene often use the terms interchangeably,
The terms have major differences though. They are really very different roles for women to choose from.
 
Being a Cuckoldress is all about Cuckolding, dominating and humiliating her beta male husband.
The first thing to note about the role is that being a cuckoldress can only happen in a cuckolding scenario.
 
However, a hot wife can assume her role in any number of situations.
 

 
The “hot” part of the term essentially means “slutty” or “available”, as well as sexually active, confident and able to act autonomously from your partner.
So hot wives could be part of:
swinging communities,
wife sharing groups or
just engaged in everyday adultery.
 
If you are the kind of girl who loves sex and isn’t satisfied by your partner, or enjoys multiple lovers you’re in hot wife territory.
 
Hot Wives can then become Cuckoldresses or Vixens if they so wish or just carry on being a Hotwife.
 
So hot wives are wives that make themselves sexually available to other men (and women).
 
A cuckoldress is a special kind of hot wife, the kind who gets off on humiliating their partner in situations with agreed limits.
 
Vixens enjoy sex with others and with their sexy husband’s or sexy boyfriend’s participation and or knowledge.
 
A Hotwife can only become a cuckoldress if she has a cuckold to complete the “act.”
 
If she is fucking other guys and your husband doesn’t know, or he finds it enraging, you are not a Cuckoldress or Vixen. You are an adultress LOL !
 
A Cuckoldress has license to humiliate her partner during sex with other men.
Her partner, the cuckold, loves it, and so does she.
 

 
A cuckolding couple consists of the cuckold husband who is referred to as the cuckold, or the beta male. He is inferior. He may for example feel he has a smaller dick than average, or he may feel that he is inadequate in that area of his body and commonly he feels he is unable to sexually satisfy his wife.
The cuckold enjoys the thought of an alpha male fucking his wife and is sexually excited that he is the underling.
 
Hot wives are motivated more by a desire for quantity. They become “addicted to cock” and desire as many sexual partners as possible. They play up to the slut role in an exaggerated, obsessive way.
 
For the Cuckoldress, the quest isn’t for more sex. She wants a better quality of sex, the kind of sensations that her husband simply cannot deliver. The alpha male who can is known as The Bull.
 
For many people, the Cuckoldress role is healthier. If the guy is comfortable as the cuckold, it can be a way to deal with sexual problems within relationships.
That’s not really the case for out of control hot wives.
 
Cuckoldresses deal in Power. 
 
The classical “hot wife” isn’t fucking to make herself more empowered. She is doing so because she needs to. It’s in her blood. She is a hot sexy slut.
 

 
The wife in a cuckolding relationship is often referred to as a hotwife or cuckoldress and gets to pick and choose who she has sex with.
The person that she picks to have sex with is therefore often perceived to be more well hung than her cuckold husband and is able to satisfy her more sexually than her husband can. This person is referred to as the bull, stud or the alpha male.
The Bull is the lucky man that the hotwife chooses to be unfaithful to her husband with, with his knowledge.
 
In many cases, Cuckoldresses feel empowered by their role. They can exert power over their husband and with their bull, dominate him with their sexual superiority.
The Cuckoldresses tend to be the instigator in cuckolding sessions with their husband, making decisions about who should be the bull and what limits will be imposed. It’s all part of reducing their partner to nothingness, and for some women, this can be exhilarating. Their cuckold men love the dominance and humiliation of these sessions.
 
Being a Cuckoldress takes skill and preparation. She is feeding the fantasy of her partner whom she loves and cares for, fuelling her own sexual thrills and making the session exciting and empowering for the chosen Bull.
 

 
Playing the Cuckoldress is a demanding role. It requires the ability to use words to goad and excite her bull and humiliate her partner.
It requires the physical confidence to dominate and thrill her partner, without losing the erotic charge between her and the bull.
 
It also requires imagination and getting the atmosphere right. She needs to have an instinct for and be aware of the lighting, costumes and how to entertain the bulls especially if strangers – an attention to detail that is irrelevant for hot wives. 
Hot wives just need a mattress and a guy and spread her legs.
 
Cuckolding and Hotwifing is becoming more popular and more acceptable in society.
 
The wife and Cuckold Bull may date regularly by going out to dinner, clubs, movies, etc. Or the wife and the Bull may just meet once at a cuckold party and go into a room and fuck. In their fantasy, the bull is well hung and knows how to satisfy the hotwife so that she can have endless orgasms.
 
        
 
The Bull is usually perceived as better looking than the cuckold husband and in better shape. He may even come around their home and have sex with the wife quite often, even daily, or he may only have sex with the hotwife just the once at a party. The cuckold husband knows and usually encourages this, enjoying the humiliation of being the Beta Male. He gets turned on watching or hearing them fuck or even by his wife telling him about it later in great detail.
 
Cuckolds seek the humiliation and debasement and possible homosexual encounters, for example, cleaning the Bull after he has fucked their wife. There is nothing wrong with that, each to his own fetish.
 
However by far, more men identify with the other wife sharing fantasy of hot wives.
 
Stags, as they are known, are typically heterosexual men who get off on the idea of their wives or girlfriends being with other men but do not fit the historical term of cuckold.
Many such men dislike the cuckold label because society has made it a shameful thing.
The cuckolds are seen as weak men, who like humiliation and are Beta males.
 
The growth of the term ‘HOTWIFE’ or Vixen in reference to the partners of such Stags are now well established in sexual subcultures.
 
They share with cuckolds the desire to see their partners take on extra lovers while they remain monogamous but that is where the similarities end. They are not perceived as lower than the Bull at all, they are more on an equal footing.
 

 
The Stag holds a genuine love and respect for his wife or girlfriend (Vixen) with whom he shares this erotic and fun lifestyle.
For this reason the proper term for him is a STAG and his wife or girlfriend is a Vixen, rather than the cuckold and Cuckoldress.
 
The Stag is on the same level as the Bull and are both strong Alpha males.
 
For the Stag this is always by consent and any humiliation aspect is just a playful erotic teasing game with his wife rather than any real desire to be humiliated.
The Stag will never be humiliated or intimidated by his partner’s lovers.
He is a strong type and is also an alpha male.
He is  very confident in their relationship.
The Stag simply derives huge erotic pleasure from seeing his wife or girlfriend, commonly known as a Vixen, being so alluring and desirable that no one can resist her. He considers it only natural and very arousing that she’ll need and deserve sexual satisfaction from other lovers as well as himself.
 

 
The Stag’s behaviour ranges from merely sharing the fantasy and acting out role play scenarios to full on Hotwifing.
 
It is just one part of their relationship.
Many couples only dabble occasionally.
Some couples discover 'Hotwifing’ early in their relationships while others find it much later but either way it is a hugely growing phenomenon.
 
The reasons for 'Hotwifing’ have always been around and lie deep in our evolutionary history as a species.
Factors such as female empowerment, better contraceptives ; safer sex technologies, ease of online communication, more openness about sex and sex information combined have brought it out of the shadows and to the edge of mainstream society.
 
Whatever your fantasy, Hotwifing is very hot and we all have the same goal - sex should be enjoyed to the full.
 

What is the difference between a slave, a submissive and a pet?
 

 
This is a question I get asked often when role playing or people showing an interest in my kink.
They show an interest if never having tried it before and are interested enough to learn the differences in our partners.
I will try and explain it the best way I can and I hope that it is informative for those who wish to know.
 
The important thing to note, is our partners, give their consent to play in this way.
No one is abused and all can say no or use an agreed safe word to stop the play at any time.
 
Autonomy means independence or freedom, as of the will or one’s actions.
The autonomy of the individual. 
 
So the difference between a pet, a sub and a slave is their Autonomy.
 
Each of the three will have a Master, or are in the process of looking for one.
 
Each of them will know their place and if disobedient may be punished accordingly when they are out of line.
 
But it is also the Master’s responsibility to make their underlings (pet, sub, slave ) feel loved and desired and needed and wanted and to train them to understand and obey in their role and not to neglect them.
 
Other Masters or Mistresses should be addressed as Sir or Mistress. 
A slave should address all free persons as Sir or Mistress.
Pets and Slaves are referred to as It, unless given a name by their owner. Each owner can change it.
A submissive is referred to as his or her or her given name.
 
Most Dominants before playing with owned pets, subs or slaves will either ensure they are free to play or seek the blessing of the owner.
They will know they are owned as most will wear a collar. 
The Dominants should find out if it is decoration by asking the underling.
An underling can be punished if they lie.
 
A pet, sub or slave desire the happiness of their owner at all times. 
Those that do not desire their Masters or Mistresses happiness is doing it Wrong. Full Stop (Period).
 
Pet -
Pets are submissive but with more freedom than the other two. This is usually the first step in being controlled by a Master or Mistress. It is the favourite of all three to become involved in.
They may, on occasions, depending on the pet, take on the characteristics of animal pets, wearing tails ; ears ; even dress in costumes and of course learn obedience.
 

 
Pets have a great deal of Autonomy, depending on their Master. They may have anywhere from 80-99% free reign, though they know they can be called at any time, for any purpose. When called, it must respond to it’s owner as soon as possible. 
With such freedom, can come Responsibility too. The responsibility to occupy one’s own time when their Master is occupied. They can act independently, for example buying clothing they think their Master or Mistress might like.
 
They are treated as a pet would be. Think of your pet dog or cat. When it is with its owner,  their Master or Mistress can groom them, take them to the toilet, feed them in their feeding bowls or even feed from the hand to the pets mouth, put them to bed in a cage or pet bed, show off their training – sit, beg, sexual things etc..  give tit bits as treats, walk them around in a collar and lead, tell them what to wear, teach them to heel and of course use them for sexual pleasures. The boundaries are negotiated by the Master & Pet and agreements made by both.
 
Sub-
Subs are submissives that devote themselves only to their Master/Mistress. This is step 2 of the kink and lots will never move on to step 3. 
When the sub's Owners are not about they are free persons with agreed boundaries  of course. They must not ever embarrass their Master or Mistress.
They do not answer to other Dominants and are free to roam. 
They do however address other Dominants as Sir or Mistress. 
 

 
A sub has some Autonomy though not nearly as much as a pet, perhaps 40-60% depending on the Master. 
As with a Pet, even though the sub might be in the middle of something, he or she must respond to the call of his or her Master or Mistress as soon as possible. 
 
It is also easier for a sub to manage their own time while their Master is occupied because the Master of a sub is responsible for giving it enough to do to not worry about it. 
The Master or Mistress may give the submissive tasks to do.  It may be sexual – lend them to others; instruct them to do Group ; maybe to read up on a subject or answer posts / stories in forum and even instructions to play in their free time. 
They can act independently, learning & buying things their Master or Mistress might like.
 
 
Slave -
While all in the lifestyle are free persons who chose to serve, slaves give this up and are without rights. 
This is Step 3 and the extreme play of a submissive.
Their every waking hour (by this we mean every moment on line) is devoted to their Master/Mistress. 
 
They must seek permission for doing most things and are generally limited to the room their Owner resides in. 
They are treated as subservient by other Masters and Mistresses and are expected to show the highest forms of respect towards all.
 

 
A slave, by definition, has no Autonomy whatsoever. 
Its only desire is to fulfil every wish, every whim, every pleasure of it’s Master or Mistress. 
 
A Master or Mistress looking for a slave, must therefore dedicate himself to managing his slaves time very well.
They often refer to the slave as "boy" or "gir"l or any name the owner may choose.
 
The slave is not free to do anything on its own without permission or blessing of it's Master or Mistress.
The slave is expected to have no desires except to obey it's Master or Mistress.
A slave owns nothing, everything is owned by it's Master or Mistress.
 
A slave is only as free as it's owner allows. But it's most important thing is to serve it's owner first always.  
 

 
Pets and submissives’s have more freedom then a slave and are allowed to think for themselves. Slaves have no opinion or view, they obey and are obedient.
 
The owner controls the slave with love, making them feel loved, wanted and needed. 
The slave gives itself freely to it's owner and trusts that their owner has their best interest at heart.
 
A slave depends on the Master or Mistress to govern it, guide it into knowing what it's Master or Mistress wants. 
 
Once the slave has learnt what is wanted, there is usually the ability and expectation to act pro-actively to please it's owner. 
 
It does not usually think or act for itself except in mundane chores etc.. they must seek permission to shop etc...
They must even ask permission to enter the rooms of it's Owner and even then to speak to it's Master or Mistress. 
 
 
Some important differences :
 

 
A submissive is someone who negotiates; a slave does not
A submissive has limits; a slave has given up all limits except those which it's owner sets for them.
A submissive obeys and serves by choosing to do so each time and retains her will. A slave initially makes a choice to obey it's Master/Mistress at all times and then submits to the will of  It's Master or Mistress at all times.
A submissive accepts submission, while a slave accepts obedience.
 
A submissive has retained some rights within the context of the D/s relationship, whereas a slave has given up all rights and becomes, in effect, property, hence the it.
A submissive is owned, but a slave is possessed. (property)
A slave is not allowed to sit on furniture or wear clothes, and always kneels at it's owner’s feet.
A submissive has a safe-word to end play, while a slave has consented to no-consent.
A slave must be a submissive, but a submissive is not necessarily a slave.
 
Being a submissive is just a step on the way to the “ultimate” state of submission, which is being a slave.
 
A slave is more submissive than a “mere” submissive. 
Submissives are just playing; slaves live the lifestyle.
A submissive has more self-respect than a slave. 
 
BDSM training questions of underlings.
 
"Tell me what you are?" 
"I am a pet, submissive, a slave for a Master." 
 
"What is a slave (pet or submissive) ?" 
"A girl who is owned." 
 
"Why do slaves (or submissives) wear brands?" 
"To show they are owned." 
 
"Why do you wear a collar?" 
"That men and mistresses may know who owns me." 
 
"What does a slave (or submissive) want more than anything else?" 
"To please (men,) their own Master or their own Mistress." 
 

 
 
Fuck Toy.
A Master or Mistress looking for a fuck toy to use whenever the mood strikes would most likely be looking for a Pet. 
A pet, sub or slave expects to be used at any time. 
 

 
A Pet would suit “whenever the mood strikes” as it leaves the pet time to go out shopping, playing, etc… after it's Master or Mistress is done. 
A Master or Mistress looking for an "on demand fuck toy" doesn’t want to micro-manage an underling and therefore would be expected to keep itself from getting bored.
 
A Master that ONLY wants a fuck toy doesn’t want to give it chores like laundry, cooking, cleaning, etc. to do when he or she is not using it for his or her pleasure.
 
The Master or Mistress of a slave, if (s)he’s doing it right, knows that his or her slave depends on him or her to fill it's time.  
Then it would be used for such chores and comforts for it's Master or Mistress, even serving his/her food and drink at meal times. 
 
The Master of a slave will need to micro manage it or will end up with a very bored slave who will eventually become a runaway or go to another Master who will appreciate it.
 
Similarly, on the other side, a Master of a Pet who is too controlling is encouraging rebellion. They are subservient when it is their Master’s time.
 
An underlings desire for “autonomy” vs. “being given things to do”  can fluctuate in a relationship. 
The underling may offer itself as a pet one day, then wish to be more closely directed later, perhaps even craving to be a slave.
 

What is the difference between a slave, a submissive and a pet?
 

 
This is a question I get asked often when role playing or people showing an interest in my kink.
They show an interest if never having tried it before and are interested enough to learn the differences in our partners.
I will try and explain it the best way I can and I hope that it is informative for those who wish to know.
 
The important thing to note, is our partners, give their consent to play in this way.
No one is abused and all can say no or use an agreed safe word to stop the play at any time.
 
Autonomy means independence or freedom, as of the will or one’s actions.
The autonomy of the individual. 
 
So the difference between a pet, a sub and a slave is their Autonomy.
 
Each of the three will have a Master, or are in the process of looking for one.
 
Each of them will know their place and if disobedient may be punished accordingly when they are out of line.
 
But it is also the Master’s responsibility to make their underlings (pet, sub, slave ) feel loved and desired and needed and wanted and to train them to understand and obey in their role and not to neglect them.
 
Other Masters or Mistresses should be addressed as Sir or Mistress. 
A slave should address all free persons as Sir or Mistress.
Pets and Slaves are referred to as It, unless given a name by their owner. Each owner can change it.
A submissive is referred to as his or her or her given name.
 
Most Dominants before playing with owned pets, subs or slaves will either ensure they are free to play or seek the blessing of the owner.
They will know they are owned as most will wear a collar. 
The Dominants should find out if it is decoration by asking the underling.
An underling can be punished if they lie.
 
A pet, sub or slave desire the happiness of their owner at all times. 
Those that do not desire their Masters or Mistresses happiness is doing it Wrong. Full Stop (Period).
 
Pet -
Pets are submissive but with more freedom than the other two. This is usually the first step in being controlled by a Master or Mistress. It is the favourite of all three to become involved in.
They may, on occasions, depending on the pet, take on the characteristics of animal pets, wearing tails ; ears ; even dress in costumes and of course learn obedience.
 

 
Pets have a great deal of Autonomy, depending on their Master. They may have anywhere from 80-99% free reign, though they know they can be called at any time, for any purpose. When called, it must respond to it’s owner as soon as possible. 
With such freedom, can come Responsibility too. The responsibility to occupy one’s own time when their Master is occupied. They can act independently, for example buying clothing they think their Master or Mistress might like.
 
They are treated as a pet would be. Think of your pet dog or cat. When it is with its owner,  their Master or Mistress can groom them, take them to the toilet, feed them in their feeding bowls or even feed from the hand to the pets mouth, put them to bed in a cage or pet bed, show off their training – sit, beg, sexual things etc..  give tit bits as treats, walk them around in a collar and lead, tell them what to wear, teach them to heel and of course use them for sexual pleasures. The boundaries are negotiated by the Master & Pet and agreements made by both.
 
Sub-
Subs are submissives that devote themselves only to their Master/Mistress. This is step 2 of the kink and lots will never move on to step 3. 
When the sub's Owners are not about they are free persons with agreed boundaries  of course. They must not ever embarrass their Master or Mistress.
They do not answer to other Dominants and are free to roam. 
They do however address other Dominants as Sir or Mistress. 
 

 
A sub has some Autonomy though not nearly as much as a pet, perhaps 40-60% depending on the Master. 
As with a Pet, even though the sub might be in the middle of something, he or she must respond to the call of his or her Master or Mistress as soon as possible. 
 
It is also easier for a sub to manage their own time while their Master is occupied because the Master of a sub is responsible for giving it enough to do to not worry about it. 
The Master or Mistress may give the submissive tasks to do.  It may be sexual – lend them to others; instruct them to do Group ; maybe to read up on a subject or answer posts / stories in forum and even instructions to play in their free time. 
They can act independently, learning & buying things their Master or Mistress might like.
 
 
Slave -
While all in the lifestyle are free persons who chose to serve, slaves give this up and are without rights. 
This is Step 3 and the extreme play of a submissive.
Their every waking hour (by this we mean every moment on line) is devoted to their Master/Mistress. 
 
They must seek permission for doing most things and are generally limited to the room their Owner resides in. 
They are treated as subservient by other Masters and Mistresses and are expected to show the highest forms of respect towards all.
 

 
A slave, by definition, has no Autonomy whatsoever. 
Its only desire is to fulfil every wish, every whim, every pleasure of it’s Master or Mistress. 
 
A Master or Mistress looking for a slave, must therefore dedicate himself to managing his slaves time very well.
They often refer to the slave as "boy" or "gir"l or any name the owner may choose.
 
The slave is not free to do anything on its own without permission or blessing of it's Master or Mistress.
The slave is expected to have no desires except to obey it's Master or Mistress.
A slave owns nothing, everything is owned by it's Master or Mistress.
 
A slave is only as free as it's owner allows. But it's most important thing is to serve it's owner first always.  
 

 
Pets and submissives’s have more freedom then a slave and are allowed to think for themselves. Slaves have no opinion or view, they obey and are obedient.
 
The owner controls the slave with love, making them feel loved, wanted and needed. 
The slave gives itself freely to it's owner and trusts that their owner has their best interest at heart.
 
A slave depends on the Master or Mistress to govern it, guide it into knowing what it's Master or Mistress wants. 
 
Once the slave has learnt what is wanted, there is usually the ability and expectation to act pro-actively to please it's owner. 
 
It does not usually think or act for itself except in mundane chores etc.. they must seek permission to shop etc...
They must even ask permission to enter the rooms of it's Owner and even then to speak to it's Master or Mistress. 
 
 
Some important differences :
 

 
A submissive is someone who negotiates; a slave does not
A submissive has limits; a slave has given up all limits except those which it's owner sets for them.
A submissive obeys and serves by choosing to do so each time and retains her will. A slave initially makes a choice to obey it's Master/Mistress at all times and then submits to the will of  It's Master or Mistress at all times.
A submissive accepts submission, while a slave accepts obedience.
 
A submissive has retained some rights within the context of the D/s relationship, whereas a slave has given up all rights and becomes, in effect, property, hence the it.
A submissive is owned, but a slave is possessed. (property)
A slave is not allowed to sit on furniture or wear clothes, and always kneels at it's owner’s feet.
A submissive has a safe-word to end play, while a slave has consented to no-consent.
A slave must be a submissive, but a submissive is not necessarily a slave.
 
Being a submissive is just a step on the way to the “ultimate” state of submission, which is being a slave.
 
A slave is more submissive than a “mere” submissive. 
Submissives are just playing; slaves live the lifestyle.
A submissive has more self-respect than a slave. 
 
BDSM training questions of underlings.
 
"Tell me what you are?" 
"I am a pet, submissive, a slave for a Master." 
 
"What is a slave (pet or submissive) ?" 
"A girl who is owned." 
 
"Why do slaves (or submissives) wear brands?" 
"To show they are owned." 
 
"Why do you wear a collar?" 
"That men and mistresses may know who owns me." 
 
"What does a slave (or submissive) want more than anything else?" 
"To please (men,) their own Master or their own Mistress." 
 

 
 
Fuck Toy.
A Master or Mistress looking for a fuck toy to use whenever the mood strikes would most likely be looking for a Pet. 
A pet, sub or slave expects to be used at any time. 
 

 
A Pet would suit “whenever the mood strikes” as it leaves the pet time to go out shopping, playing, etc… after it's Master or Mistress is done. 
A Master or Mistress looking for an "on demand fuck toy" doesn’t want to micro-manage an underling and therefore would be expected to keep itself from getting bored.
 
A Master that ONLY wants a fuck toy doesn’t want to give it chores like laundry, cooking, cleaning, etc. to do when he or she is not using it for his or her pleasure.
 
The Master or Mistress of a slave, if (s)he’s doing it right, knows that his or her slave depends on him or her to fill it's time.  
Then it would be used for such chores and comforts for it's Master or Mistress, even serving his/her food and drink at meal times. 
 
The Master of a slave will need to micro manage it or will end up with a very bored slave who will eventually become a runaway or go to another Master who will appreciate it.
 
Similarly, on the other side, a Master of a Pet who is too controlling is encouraging rebellion. They are subservient when it is their Master’s time.
 
An underlings desire for “autonomy” vs. “being given things to do”  can fluctuate in a relationship. 
The underling may offer itself as a pet one day, then wish to be more closely directed later, perhaps even craving to be a slave.
 

“A taste of the Slave Ring is beneficial to all women”
 
Slave ring: This is simply a heavy iron ring, about one inch in diameter, to which a slave may be secured. These rings can be found in many different places such as on a master's couch, on a floor or wall. Public slave rings can be found in numerous places throughout cities. The rings can be used to secure slaves or other animals, and even a Free Companion. A free woman might one night find herself attached to a slave ring on her Companion's couch. This may be as punishment or simply to remind her that she is a woman and has a need to be dominated, or maybe for her to just try something different.
 

 

 
“A taste of the Slave Ring is beneficial to all women”
 
I read this statement in a book and it got me thinking. 
 

 
I realised it wasn't meant as an arrogance, but as advice about sexuality, not just for a woman but for a man as well. 
It’s about losing those inhibitions that suppress who we are and how we enjoy each other in a sexual and exhilarating way. 
 
It is going back to raw animal basic instincts in the bedroom.
 
We all want to enjoy sex and be possessed in a sea of passion with our chosen partner. The joy and climactic thrill of being with each other.
 
Some free woman may take longer to arouse than one who considers herself a slave, or a submissive or a pet. 
 
Maybe these Free women tend to have hang ups that slaves are not allowed to carry.
Maybe for a free woman, the expectations of a partner are unreasonably higher; or perhaps they selfishly expect their partner to arouse them with little or no actions or effort themselves; maybe the stresses of the day are still lingering, maybe the shift to sexual play is not their true focus.
 
A slave, on the other hand, or even a free woman who has learnt to express herself, is an orgasmic marvel! 
 

 
The slave tends to enjoy the touch of her Master, very often just a look or a first touch and she is aroused.
She is not bound by any inhibitions of how she should behave in public, in private or her past.
The stresses of the day forgotten.
Her Master is her focus.
 
She knows her sole job is to please her Master and every Master wants and demands that fire in her belly.
That fire for him, where she moans his name, writhes in passion for him and those cries of climax are music to his ears.
The heat of the slave makes her a beautiful creature. 
She is female. He is Male!
 
From the way she walks to her posture in her daily chores; the way she displays her body in her everyday tasks to the looks of longing she throws at him (or her) when she glimpses him. All are engineered to entice herself into his arms and to be ravaged as a woman should be by her man. Everything she does is foreplay geared to lift a man’s desire.
 
A female enjoys a man to admire her and so he should. 
 

 
The art of sensual dance is very powerful.
It should be encouraged more in play with partners and certainly is a great way to seduce and display the body.
It is a wonderful female foreplay which can leave a man panting.
 
Maybe it is psychological when a female wears her collar.
Perhaps behaviourally, given no choice but to act as a passionate female, the slave suddenly through simple psychological relations is transformed. 
Perhaps it is knowing they are right-less, owned, dominated which so deeply triggers the profound web of yielding, piteously receptive, helplessly submitting reflexes ; perhaps in their bodies lies the secret need to be sexually  subjugated totally without which they cannot attain their full sexuality.
 
The Master also uses his slave regularly to remind her that she is wanted and desired and precious. Sometimes a whole day of such sport which although leaves her satisfied, implants the hankering, the want  and the need known as the “Slave Heat” for her Master. She wants more of the same! 
Another expression… “Leave her or him wanting more…”
 

 
One of the insistences of a Master, if he is wise, is to make his slave vocalize her sensations; then ventilating and reinforcing those moans, multiplying, deepening and intensifying them. 
 
Thus this helps to arouse her and contribute to her own pleasures and consequently of course to those of her Master.
 
A slave is never allowed to be silent in these matters.
This command of her of course under which she is placed to moan her pleasures and abundantly, together with her abandon and nudity and stunning beauty in this state, manifests them physically and guides, accurately and surely the Master in a detailed exploitation of her weaknesses in his depredations practised on her body. 
 
She must betray herself. She cannot be blamed. No choice is given her. He will know her erogenous zones and her “turn ons!”
 
Here, I might mention edging, this should only be used sparing. 
Edging a climax eventually desensitises her natural instinct and can ruin a female. 
Let the natural beauty of climax spill over. 
I rarely try or want to control a woman’s beauty in her peak. It is a time to bathe in her raw magnificence. 
In time, maybe a practised climax can be bought on in a trained slave by a mere word.
 
She is an instrument of passion on which a Master plays, delighting himself with the music of her expressions, her movements, her cries, even the wild unrestrained odours of her collared slave body. She is forced to contribute to her own sexual subjugation. 
Do not blame her. No choice is given.
 

 
Utter abandonment likes this is dynamic and every woman should on at least one occasion in her life seek and enjoy this kind of lovemaking.
It would be a shame to not ever know it.
 
So, “A taste of the Slave Ring is beneficial to all women”   or if it is more palatable to some … “Be a lady in public but a wanton slut in the bedroom.”
 
Sometimes though, it takes a taste of the former to fully utilise and understand the latter.
 
The goal of course is the same for all, we all want to experience the full Joys and Abandonment of Great Sex. 
 

 
Good Luck and much joy in your pursuit. 

Iron Maiden - Run to the Hills 
 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ysGdhiyjMNg

Iron Maiden - Run to the Hills 
 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ysGdhiyjMNg