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I WILL NO LONGER BE FREELY GIVING ROSES OUT. TOO MANY PEOPLE MADE IT A NEGATIVE THING. NO THEY WERE NOT "GIVEN OUT OF DESPERATION FOR ATTENTION", NO THEY WERE NOT GIVEN OUT BECAUSE "I EXPECTED SEX", THEY WERE NEVER MEANT TO BE A "MANDATORY " THING WHERE PEOPLE FELT I OWED THEM A ROSE, BUT ONCE GIVEN REFUSED TO TALK TO ME OR EVEN ACKNOWLEDGE MY EXISTENCE IF I SAID HI (THAT IS NOT ASKING FOR ATTENTION, THAT IS EXPECTING COMMON DECENCY AND RESPECT.)
I DID IT FOR ONE REASON AND AS HARD AS THAT MAY BE TO BELIEVE THAT REASON IS THE TRUTH. ALL I WANTED WAS A SMILE AND FOR THE RECIPIENT TO FEEL SPECIAL AND TO SEE SOMEONE CARED. I FEEL BAD THAT PEOPLE CHOSE TO MAKE IT SUCH A NEGATIVE AND PUT ME IN SUCH AN ATTITUDE THAT I NO LONGER FEEL THEY WERE APPRECIATED FOR THE REASON I GAVE THEM, TO MANY IT BECAME A JOKE AND PERHAPS IT WAS MY FAULT.
ANYWAY, IT IS WHAT IT IS AND I APOLOGIZE TO THE PEOPLE THAT TRULY ENJOYED THEM AND LOOKED FORWARD TO GETTING THEM.
I'M JUST NOT GOING TO LIVE WITH THE DRAMA OF HAVING TO EXPLAIN WHAT I FELT WAS A NOBLE AND KIND GESTURE.-
My dear friend please do not apologize for being you. Anyone who knows you knows that you are giving, kind, respectful and genuine. Shame on those who have accused you of such things. Every time I received a rose from you I knew it was with all good intentions. I have never, in almost two years, ever heard such mumblings from any woman, in any room, to whom you gave a rose. Those roses were loved and appreciated but make no mistake, so are YOU. So those bitter, jealous and small people who have said such things will be surprised when you receive the same welcome into a room....rose or no rose...because you are PAN and you are loved and respected.
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I am done making excuses for people. On any level for anything. They either have respect for others and keep their mouths shut or they pay the consequences. It shows who THEY are Pan, not who you are.
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