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Pierrousss after a night in the Club ^^
 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oD2XV_Ri800

Hairstyle wip

ooooo i need to add one
 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wy_TB6onHVE

I have changed my mind a few times over what I think is best for the game all round and I have been keeping an open mind about it all. And its still a hard one to call to be honest. I can see the benefits of multi avatars, heck, I have an alt at the moment myself. But I only use that alt to joke about with my friends. They all know who it is and I don't use to actively meet new people. Can I live without having it, simple answer is YES. From my own experience and those experiences of people close to me it is clear that the multi avatar feature creates far more negativity in the game than it does benefits.
 
I think the main issue is with the people who play this game. Many have no interests but for themselves and don't care how their actions will effect other people. Personally I think these human beings are the lowest of the low and there is no place for them here in 3dx nor in society in general. But the sad fact of the matter is you are never going to be able to eradicate them.
 
A few people have mentioned this before and I have to say I now agree with them. Having just 1 avatar, for me, would be ideal, but I really cant see that happening. So the solution is to link any alts to your main character so people know who you really are. If you have nothing to hide, you have nothing to fear people.. Also, in this day and age, im sure they can impose a strict 1 account only per person. Although when it comes to losing money im not sure the developers would go with that.
 
The ignore feature is awful and at this moment in time, until its modified, isn't really a solution to all this. And as laura said, you don't ignore your so called friends and by the time you find out what they have been doing its too late, the damage has been done. The trust is gone and ignoring them is then pretty pointless.
 
People need to realise that actions will always have consequences. Your alts will always get found out eventually. I do believe it is the minority who spoil it for the majority but that's no consolation to the people who have been hurt and made to feel like fools. Like laura and Freya, I don't trust any new players anymore so im sure its only a matter of time before I quit this unless the issue is taken seriously and addressed by the Devs.
 
Yes its a game, yes its based around sex, but to many its more than that. Real people are behind the avatars and real people have feelings. If people grew some balls and were open and honest about their game play this whole issue would not be an issue. So what if you want to play as a male and a female!! Lots of people here do and are open about it. They are not judged or ridiculed. I think most people who play this are open minded, they wouldn't be here if they weren't!
 
So, 3 Avatars, 2 linked to your main one and a strict 1 account only is they way forward in my opinion.

I still see pros and cons for both sides of the argument. Some people just cause pain with multiple avi's others use them for RP or fooling around with friends. I use multiple from time to time to fool around and yes my friends know it's me. Again one avi or one hundred won't make a difference to the people intentionally playing mind games. Then you say one account per ip. Firstly devs won't go for that as it's a lose of revenue for them after all it is a buisness to the developers. Secondly what about genuine couples who play together? I have known one couple who has seperate accounts to play the game together not hurting anyone have also known rl couples who share their account. Not just here but different vl games. People who have genuine fantasies of swinging and group sex but wouldn't carry it through in rl can excercise their fantasies in vl. Whatever is implemented it would have effects on both sides.
 
I know this is a lot of players first foray into avi life and find it difficult how to deal with VL. Feelings unfortunately we all learn the hard way how to deal with those feelings and where they need to be kept. Yes avi life does become a part of RL I'm not saying they are totally seperate. We all have that point in the day where something from avi life comes into your head and gives you a smile or a frown. Virtual world is full of memories good and bad but it's still virtual. He'll I'm sat here at work thinking if something in my avi life is going to come good. I'm sorry some people feel they have to leave the game when their feelings get hurt. It all comes down to the individual and controlling those feelings. Unfortunately this is virtual life it's how it's always been and how it always will be.

Reading this thread I felt I must add my thoughts to it. I am against multiple unmarked avi's. I believe the compromise should be a tag on the profile so the account can be identified.
 
I have myself been a victim of great hurt by someone on this thread...and others not on this thread. I have also experienced multiple times the lies & rumours spread and designed to hurt. Infact there were rumours going around about me during my absence from game which was a new low point of stress and hurt upon returning.
 
It would be great to believe that ppl are all adults and have a morale compass which they follow, but this general wash over statement as a remedy is not going to work. We do not ask people to judge and police themselves do we? no we have laws in society to ensure the majority adhere to the correct morale decisions
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It is a sad fact there exists an element to this community which is out to hurt and frankly, honestly bully. I don't feel comfortable logging in and I now trust very few ppl on 3dx. How long I retain my sub is unclear. I am sure I will decide in the coming weeks.
 
The reason I am so infrequently on now compared to 2 months ago is the simple fact that users have far too much freedom and ability to do what they like to other users and then hide their actions behind multiple avatars. There is no accountability for actions.
 
I am positive change needs to happen for the community to move forward. if many other ppl like myself are unhappy and feel hurt and are leaving or contemplating leaving. That fact in itself is surely not a good thing.

ooooo i need to add one
 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wy_TB6onHVE

This lol.....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=urNyg1ftMIU

I will be there getting familiar with the tunes.

Last one for now lol
 

This is an old archive of "Real Men Of Genius/Real American Heroes" commercials from Budweiser.  I used to love these!  They have visual ones too, but most are for radio and voice only.
 
If you like sarcasm, you will love these!
 

The girls' expressions are priceless......
 
 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KDxh7wGJxGM

Well stone the flamin crows. looking forward to it mates im ganna get meself a bottle of bundy..
 
Aussie Aussie Aussie
 
Oi Oi Oi

Ok guys and gals, to familiarise yourself with some Aussie music culture here's the playlist I will be playing that night.
 
Rock (First 1.5-2 hours)
 
INXS - New Sensation
ACDC - Back In Black
Men At Work- Down Under
Jimmy Barnes - Working Class Man
Cold Chisel - Khe Sanh
INXS - Original Sin
John Farnham - You're The Voice
Little River Band - Playing To Win
Midnight Oil - Beds Are Burning
INXS - Need You Tonight
Cold Chisel - Flame Trees
Daddy Cool - Eagle Rock
The Easybeats - Friday On My Mind
Jimmy Barnes - No Second Prize
John Farnham - That's Freedom
Divinyls - Pleasure and Pain
Hunters and Collectors - Throw Your Arms Around Me
Midnight Oil - Power and the Passion
Jet - Cold Hard Bitch
Powderfinger - (Baby I've Got You) On My Mind
ACDC - Thunderstruck
Wolfmother - Joker and the Thief
Spider Bait - Black Betty
ACDC - You Shook Me All Night Long
 
Pop/ Dance (Third Hour)
 
Savage Garden - Affirmation (I Believe)
Havana Brown - You'll Be Mine ft. R3hab
Stan Walker - Loud
Timomatic - Parachute
Marvin Priest ft. Wynter Gordon - Take Me Away
Justice Crew - Dance With Me
Samantha Jade - Firestarter
Nathaniel - You
Jessica Mauboy - To the End of the Earth
5 Seconds of Summer - She Looks So Perfect
Sheppard - Geronimo
Silverchair - Straightlines
3ree6ixty - Alone
Guy Sebastian - Who's That Girl ft. Eve
Iggy Azalea - Bounce
Kylie Minogue - On a Night Like This

YAY can't wait...!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hey guys and Gals, 
 
Iv never had the problem before but upon entering any area with music it lasts for about a min then the music is completely gone and stays gone. I have tried un-installing and re-installing twice and also tried entering the area multiple times however this problem still persists. I can hear all background sounds perfectly tho in each area. I was wondering if anyone else has this problem recently over the past couple days??? And if so is there a way to fix this problem.
 
thanks,
 
pash

Hey guys and Gals, 
 
Iv never had the problem before but upon entering any area with music it lasts for about a min then the music is completely gone and stays gone. I have tried un-installing and re-installing twice and also tried entering the area multiple times however this problem still persists. I can hear all background sounds perfectly tho in each area. I was wondering if anyone else has this problem recently over the past couple days??? And if so is there a way to fix this problem.
 
thanks,
 
pash

Take a screen shot of the abuse and report them. I am currently gathering screen shots of lies that a certain person is spreading around this game about me. Once I have enough to prove its not a mistake I will be reporting that person..
 
That's about all you can do other than blocking them, but that doesn't work so good. Too many here enjoy abusing people. Its sad really that they have nothing better to do. But as IRL, it happens..

I have to agree with brun you only put yourself in a position to be hurt. It's your choice how much feelings and emotions you want to put into this game (note the word game) that's exactly what it is to most. Yes emotions can and often do creep up on you. It's upto you to protect yourself in theses cases. If your looking for something more from this game and find emotions building what do you do? Continue allowing feelings to grow from typed words and a porn star avi? If so then to me that seems pretty naive.Personally the few people I've gotten close to. We shared things out with the game whether voice or video call or just another messenger service. Feelings and emotions are part of us all it's upto you as an individual how to control them. I've been around virtual gaming for a long time and tbh most of the stuff your told isn't going to be true I mean someone online tells you they love you after a couple of days are you seriously taking that to heart? All your doing is putting yourself in the position to be hurt. Yes things can grow as I stated previously. That's then upto you as an individual. If you get hurt whether virtual or real. Pick yourself up dust yourself down and move on. You know your a better person than the guy/girl who has just fucked with your mind.
 
Leave the game as it is let everyone play how they want. Protect yourself and have fun. Is that not what GAMES are for? if it goes beyond a game I wish you the best of luck but like RL. Shit happens!

*waves hand* I volunteer to dance! i promise to keep all sarcastic comments to a minium lol

I agree! People have been using alts to cause much drama. From my own experience alone it has been difficult, and it has also caused many people to leave. No-one pays to be tortured. And the ignore functionality doesn't work well enough to stop this. If the ability to have alts is removed, it will be a better environment for everyone. Because people will treat each other better and think twice before causing unnecessary drama or acting abusive.  We are here to have fun, but for some its a playground for their destructive behavior. And they cannot be identified or removed if they can hide. 
 
Andrea

I totally agree. Its the worst feature about this game and has made me very conscious and uneasy about meeting so called new players. I see too many pretending to be new just because they have made a new alt. It does take the fun out of the game for me and would be the main reason for me quitting if I ever did. Ive seen too many friends messed about by players using alts to hurt them and play mind games. Some have quit over it. I don't understand how people cant live out their fantasies with just 1 character? Unless their fantasy is to hurt others (which is sad, but a fact here I guess).
 
I vote 1 character!!