The biggest misunderstanding of many users, as I've been able to observe for some time now, is that they think RP is the same as fuck.
I've been running the Naughty Neighbors room for almost two years now. My warning now is, someone comes in, "Hello, I'm the new neighbor. Can you show me everything?" and the current step is, "come fuck". That's not the point of role-playing games.
I like it when people show up, live out their fantasies, play a role, that's what I offer the opportunities for. Developing stories with an erotic component. Every now and then I also start crime games embedded in it.
Unfortunately, that's not what most of those who call themselves RP'ers want.
Another shortcoming for many is a simple room rule: do not enter houses where there are already people without being invited.
this rule is intended to enable individual players, especially couples and single women, to play undisturbed and enjoyably without being showered with cold.
It's a shame that so few are seriously interested.