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#21 RobT

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Posted 28 May 2017 - 02:47 PM

You are doing it wrong. :P

I very rarely watch "porn" anymore. The good thing about 3DX is that there are people on either side of the computer. It is interactive. With the right partner it is almost as satisfying as real life sex (yes, I have had sex in real life plenty of times). It is important that both sides really feel it, there is something special about sharing the experience, cumming together, even though you are not in the same room, you feel connected for the time you are together.

Also you are not completely aware of how the person looks. It is mainly the mind. The talking. And I think those are incredibly sexy. If we took away the looks are gender which we are physically attracted to then the real world could be a very different place, because the mind and conversation is more sexy to me.

There have been times where I have not felt it. I have gone through the motions of writing roleplay, and I guess it may get the other person off. It doesn't feel "right" though, I feel like I have not given them my all.

that is where we differ i guess. in my mind it nowhere near equal or fulfilling as real life but that doesnt mean it cant be for some  also as far as the rp goes i have come across some very "canned"  rping. by canned i mean pretty much the same thing over and over. so maybe thats it also. i would pick real as the best, phone as two and rping as 3. phone sex does alot for me mainly due to the voice on the other end i am guessing



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Posted 28 May 2017 - 03:08 PM

 

 

I think a 'build up' meter would be an excellent idea as suggested, as would be the auto-allow position option

 

I got this with another game absolutely useless. It reflects the arousal of the bot (based on speed, position changes, etc). In this kind of games, what matters is your human partner,...and his/her arousal can't be the same as the one of the bot. ..About auto-allow position..;chunder. 

How do you write while you are masturbating (I use eggs with remote control, not always). It is a mind stimulation for me: brain orgasm. Am I alone to feel this? 

To be true I can't imagine that it is possible to masturbate for two or three hours. It shows that there are many way to play, to feel and to come.


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Posted 28 May 2017 - 03:11 PM

that is where we differ i guess. in my mind it nowhere near equal or fulfilling as real life but that doesnt mean it cant be for some  also as far as the rp goes i have come across some very "canned"  rping. by canned i mean pretty much the same thing over and over. so maybe thats it also. i would pick real as the best, phone as two and rping as 3. phone sex does alot for me mainly due to the voice on the other end i am guessing


And you wonder why you are a bad 3dx lesbian ;)
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Posted 28 May 2017 - 03:25 PM

And you wonder why you are a bad 3dx lesbian ;)

yeah i know, i am ashamed lol. I have much work to do


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Posted 28 May 2017 - 03:31 PM

You are doing it wrong. :P

I very rarely watch "porn" anymore. The good thing about 3DX is that there are people on either side of the computer. It is interactive. With the right partner it is almost as satisfying as real life sex (yes, I have had sex in real life plenty of times). It is important that both sides really feel it, there is something special about sharing the experience, cumming together, even though you are not in the same room, you feel connected for the time you are together.

Also you are not completely aware of how the person looks. It is mainly the mind. The talking. And I think those are incredibly sexy. If we took away the looks are gender which we are physically attracted to then the real world could be a very different place, because the mind and conversation is more sexy to me.

There have been times where I have not felt it. I have gone through the motions of writing roleplay, and I guess it may get the other person off. It doesn't feel "right" though, I feel like I have not given them my all.

and honestly i think it has alot to do with the type of sex you are getting on a daily basis. If a person is having actual sex daily, i would think it would be harder for just rp to arouse them enough to masturbate. age is another factor. i am in my 40s so typically guys slow down  in that regard. not all men but i would be lying if i said i am as interested in it now as i was at 30. maybe im just getting old :P


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Posted 28 May 2017 - 04:39 PM

WOW, I am overwhelmed by the many posts in this thread. And I must confess that I recognize myself in many of your remarks.

So I have the same difficulties to keep myself troubled and write clear sentences at the same time.

I also attached a wireless keyboard and mouse after a friend asked whether a misfortune happened to my laptop.

I could convince her that I had spilled something and the notebook was probably a bit lucky not to have been damaged.
Like Chloe, I've never tried it behind my screen. It is simply not as interesting there .... but if the cover would be mirrored, well ....

And yes, i agree, having fun here with real people at the "other end" is not the same as having real sex and i don't want to miss this but it can be as exciting and really satisfying ...

Further i'm looking for some toys now to get my hands free when playing, but I'm still not sure which one is the best...

Thanks for all your contributions, I am looking forward to more of your experiences with you and other players, and especially with you in front of your computers


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Posted 28 May 2017 - 04:51 PM

I'm not super young (nor single) but I definitely become aroused while in game, typing, sometimes physically helping things along, with fingers, a strategic touch, here, and there, and there too, thighs gently rubbing, etc.  But never have outright pleasured myself (as in to 'fruition' lol) while in the game.  Because of many factors, mainly time and privacy, and lack of both lol  

 

Though I can see the appeal of making that connection, of a simultaneous orgasm via this interface.  Difficult enough to achieve in the flesh, so I applaud those who can and do!

 

In the game itself, I get my "kicks" from the buildup to the act itself, like we're writing a mini story for a random encounter.  Though of course I linger, I stay with my partner until they 'finish'.  Unless it's taking too long!  I feel it's the equivalent to giving a blowjob ;) lol

 

The biggest thing is I can't get away with doing multihour sessions, not usually, and even one is often pushing it, because of my lack of time and privacy mentioned earlier.

 

Addressing some of the issues mentioned earlier, it does happen sometimes, people getting clingy.  But I don't really do "romance", or am I on often enough to encourage it, but I can see the ignore button being helpful if it ever becomes a total nuisance.

 

Another thing, I really do need for my partner to be aroused for my mediocre writing to have any kind of effect lol  If I'm on only for a few minutes at a time, and I prefer writing the buildup, what do I get out of it?  Is what I'm often asked! lol  I bring it back to the giving a blowjob metaphor.  I am absolutely aroused while doing so, but have no need to pleasure myself as part of it.  I do expect my partner to be aroused however, would be a very awkward, and perhaps personally soul crushing ( lol ) blowjob if that wasn't the case!  But if I've not helped them 'finish' before I am called away I only hope I've been of some assistance  ;)

 

 

 

 


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Posted 28 May 2017 - 05:55 PM

I'm not super young (nor single) but I definitely become aroused while in game, typing, sometimes physically helping things along, with fingers, a strategic touch, here, and there, and there too, thighs gently rubbing, etc.  But never have outright pleasured myself (as in to 'fruition' lol) while in the game.  Because of many factors, mainly time and privacy, and lack of both lol  

 

Though I can see the appeal of making that connection, of a simultaneous orgasm via this interface.  Difficult enough to achieve in the flesh, so I applaud those who can and do!

 

In the game itself, I get my "kicks" from the buildup to the act itself, like we're writing a mini story for a random encounter.  Though of course I linger, I stay with my partner until they 'finish'.  Unless it's taking too long!  I feel it's the equivalent to giving a blowjob ;) lol

 

The biggest thing is I can't get away with doing multihour sessions, not usually, and even one is often pushing it, because of my lack of time and privacy mentioned earlier.

 

Addressing some of the issues mentioned earlier, it does happen sometimes, people getting clingy.  But I don't really do "romance", or am I on often enough to encourage it, but I can see the ignore button being helpful if it ever becomes a total nuisance.

 

Another thing, I really do need for my partner to be aroused for my mediocre writing to have any kind of effect lol  If I'm on only for a few minutes at a time, and I prefer writing the buildup, what do I get out of it?  Is what I'm often asked! lol  I bring it back to the giving a blowjob metaphor.  I am absolutely aroused while doing so, but have no need to pleasure myself as part of it.  I do expect my partner to be aroused however, would be a very awkward, and perhaps personally soul crushing ( lol ) blowjob if that wasn't the case!  But if I've not helped them 'finish' before I am called away I only hope I've been of some assistance  ;)

violet, did you just say you are old like me? :P


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Posted 28 May 2017 - 10:55 PM

I got this with another game absolutely useless. It reflects the arousal of the bot (based on speed, position changes, etc). In this kind of games, what matters is your human partner,...and his/her arousal can't be the same as the one of the bot. ..About auto-allow position..;chunder. 

How do you write while you are masturbating (I use eggs with remote control, not always). It is a mind stimulation for me: brain orgasm. Am I alone to feel this? 

To be true I can't imagine that it is possible to masturbate for two or three hours. It shows that there are many way to play, to feel and to come.

 

Sounds like you are talking about 3DSexVilla 2...I have that but only for artistic purposes. I don't get off on fucking bots;

You introduced me to the 'egg' but at times I need more :) one handed typing is hard..but I need the descriptive to get off. Your not alone sweety..The mind stimulation is everything and a good imagination is key..When you can put your mind into a state you can almost physically feel what your partner is doing you can bring yourself to a mind- shattering orgasm. (you did it to me :) )..keep on keeping on :P


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Posted 29 May 2017 - 04:15 PM

and to add my 2 euro cent , we lesbians are a bit forced to seek for mind orgasm as we have less sexual options than others in adult games ( can be 3DX , Chathouse or Achat or any other ) and our imagination do a loooooot of the work :) ( But as Athena said , we sometimes need more than a vibrating dildo/egg/duck or any type of toy and our fingers are really some good toys :) )


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Posted 30 May 2017 - 08:30 AM

Just to clarify, my reference to an arousal meter of some sort would be manually controlled. And the auto acceptance of positions as an option for your partner to automatically move both avi's (or you move yours and theirs) without the box "accept/decline" each time, breaking the flow.

 

 The arousal meter could be as simple as an alteration in moans IF....they ever get changed and expanded. But in any case, I don't know about you guys, but some of us I think would like some simpler things that encourage and stimulate us mentally by knowing what our partner is doing/feeling - moving away from Bot to Hot :)



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Posted 30 May 2017 - 08:47 AM

Don't you talk? Many players don't use "the moans". Yareel got a system based on speed, chat, number of sex position and time. It does not depend on partner. There is "cum button" that puts an end to the sexual intercourse (my personnal record for the shortest is 45s). But there, you earn money with each act.and you need it to buy clothes, positions, etc



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Posted 30 May 2017 - 08:56 AM

Oh I think based on previous posts that its pretty obvious I talk.... :D

 

I just wanted to clarify that I didn't want an auto arousal indicator, but a manual one. Anything to help get a sense of what stage our partner is at in a simpler way rather than trying to mash buttons and type whilst trying "masturbate in front of a computer" for those who do it (or behind a computer) :) 


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Posted 30 May 2017 - 09:53 AM

Yes the arrousal meter I was talking about would be a manually controlled thing, one for each so the other could see where the other person is at, like just a slider which shows at the other end.

Sometimes when having sex in 3DX we worked out a way to let each other know easily where we were at, we just typed a number between 1 and 10 to say what level of arrousal we were at.

It worked really well, and was also something I used in my strip act, as doing a good strip act can be very arrousing, even in a game.

As we were doing our descriptive, we would just send a single number, no other text. eg

6

If he or I did something or said something that the other really liked and was a real turn on we knew because the number would be high.

What could be really good, is as U-E said, they do better the sounds, and maybe have that work off numbers on the number keypad.

1 to 9 and if you hit 9, then one very loud and exciting grown comes through.

 

Edited to add,

After typing that I went on search for sex sounds that the devs could use in the game and pretty quickly found this.

 

https://www.soundsnap.com/tags/sex

 

They can be brought to use pretty cheaply, and some of the sounds got me going just listening to them.

I am sure it wouldn't be to hard for the devs to assign sounds to the different sex poses we have, and also to the number keypad as I said above.

My opinion, it would be like the best update they have had for a long time.


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Posted 30 May 2017 - 10:20 AM

Yes the arrousal meter I was talking about would be a manually controlled thing, one for each so the other could see where the other person is at, like just a slider which shows at the other end.

Sometimes when having sex in 3DX we worked out a way to let each other know easily where we were at, we just typed a number between 1 and 10 to say what level of arrousal we were at.

It worked really well, and was also something I used in my strip act, as doing a good strip act can be very arrousing, even in a game.

As we were doing our descriptive, we would just send a single number, no other text. eg

6

If he or I did something or said something that the other really liked and was a real turn on we knew because the number would be high.

What could be really good, is as U-E said, they do better the sounds, and maybe have that work off numbers on the number keypad.

1 to 9 and if you hit 9, then one very loud and exciting grown comes through.

 

Edited to add,

After typing that I went on search for sex sounds that the devs could use in the game and pretty quickly found this.

 

https://www.soundsnap.com/tags/sex

 

They can be brought to use pretty cheaply, and some of the sounds got me going just listening to them.

I am sure it wouldn't be to hard for the devs to assign sounds to the different sex poses we have, and also to the number keypad as I said above.

My opinion, it would be like the best update they have had for a long time.

 

Yeah the sex sounds in-game is something that's been overlooked in the quest to make it look better. Us guys sound constipated, the girls sound like they're faking it (ok that might be accurate) and the squelching sounds of penetration are more reminiscent of a pony galloping though a muddy field. More and better audio options, please, which cover everything from the first touch to orgasm, but not an arousal slider. One more thing to fiddle with and too much like a video game.


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Posted 30 May 2017 - 10:23 AM

Yes I think the number thing would be the go, being able to select different sounds from 1 to 9 or zero, just by hitting a number on the keypad would be something I would definitely use.


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Posted 30 May 2017 - 10:47 AM

Sounds like a Cum-O-Meter :)

To detect my level you have just to count my typos.. 0-1 means not aroused, 2-3 a bit 4-5 oh yes you do it right, 6-7 don't stop OMG... Completely unreadable... Cuming :)
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Posted 30 May 2017 - 12:42 PM

Sounds like a Cum-O-Meter :)

To detect my level you have just to count my typos.. 0-1 means not aroused, 2-3 a bit 4-5 oh yes you do it right, 6-7 don't stop OMG... Completely unreadable... Cuming :)

 

I'm masturbating to you talking about the subject of masturbating in a masturbating thread. current cum o meter rating 5.5


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Posted 30 May 2017 - 12:46 PM

I'm masturbating to you talking about the subject of masturbating in a masturbating thread. current cum o meter rating 5.5

 

Finally we know what turns-on RobT ... "talking about the subject of masturbating in a masturbating thread" 

Thats quite a fancy fetish LOL


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Posted 30 May 2017 - 12:48 PM

Finally we know what turns-on RobT ... "talking about the subject of masturbating in a masturbating thread" 

Thats quite a fancy fetish LOL

 

don't act like you didn't know I was strange :P


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