RichardCypher

Of Course you can stream everything using Stereo mix as Input and butt, but of course you should not do anything illegal

So true, Nitro, I experienced as well finding myself in something that rather turned me off than pleasing me. Empty profiles and a lack of communication, and you find yourself in something you don't really like, and at least I don't want to waste my time here with that. There are still individuals behind the avatars, and respect and communication are - at least from my point of view - basics for the interaction between them.

For those who have Apple Music and want to include Music downloaded from there, that doesn't work with Winamp and the ShoutCast plugin, as Winamp is not able to read the downloaded files. However there is a possibility to stream Music with ITunes for PC and butt (broadcast using this tool: http://danielnoethen.de/) For doing this you just have to set up the Stereo mix as standard input source in Windows, as showed in the following Video: http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xf7b5l_use-itunes-and-other-software-with_tech. The disadvantage of that is, you have to turn all other sounds off, otherwise they will be broadcasted as well, that means either switching the sound and sadio off in 3dx or using another computer for streaming. With butt you can connect to the shoutcast or icecast server and stream your ITunes Playlists. If you Need more Information about this, feel free to contact me

A good start, makes me curious for reading more .

Oh, a place where I can get rid of my requests? Really? OMG, WHERE, Nitro, please tell me....

Richards Impression continued How to pm a girl Lately several people who I had not met before in 3dx, approached me, telling me that they had read my diary. Some of them asked me how to approach a girl with a private message. First I asked myself why they are asking me that, but finally I thought that would be a great topic for my blog, maybe as well raising the number of readers (at least of the male ones) rapidly as I will provide the answer here. I won’t put you on the rack too long, so here is the recipe how to pm a girl: Click on the girl with the left mouse buttonIn the popup menu choose ‘private message’Write something into the text fieldPress enter or click on ‘Send’And there you made it! So we handled that completely, seems as if that will get my shortest diary entry, right? What? Not what you expected? You want to know about the ‘something’ in the text field? Oh, that depends on what you want to achieve. Before I continue I have to disappoint you as I cannot provide you with a standard recipe about how to pm a girl. I can just tell you about what I do, knowing what worked fine for me, as I have found some awesome friends here. So don’t consider the following lines as the ultimate guidance, but more as my thoughts and my opinion about how to pm a girl. Quick sex You want quick sex? Need one killer phrase after which you can partner the girl and start to come into action, because the girl stated ‘pm me first’ in her profile? Already tried ‘Hi’ and ‘Mmh, you’re sexy..’? Great, you found already two of a probably endless number of phrases that don’t work for that. And there will be no phrase giving you the short cut to quick sex. If you want quick sex, I would recommend to go to the rooms stating in their name that you can have quick sex without chat, read the profiles there, find a girl that does not state ‘No colds’ or ‘pm me first’, be sure she prefers men (there might be a hint in the profile as well), cold her, and I guess you will find some girl (though there is a reasonable probability that there is a male operator behind). The risk is: you might end up with some pose flipping, the only conversation being ‘mmh’ and ‘oooh’ (which is nice in between a long descriptive session), or be with a partner with complete sexual preferences, one of you getting bored and poofing away. But I am no expert for that, so please ask someone else. Some Chat followed by descriptive sex Oh, you want something more? Descriptive fun with an interesting girl? In that case forget any standard phrases, I would expect that every girl has heard all of those phrases frequently. The first thing you always should keep in mind is, that there is no warranty for having sex, so if you regard a pm to a girl like an investment to get into action with her afterwards, I have to disappoint you as well, as at least my humble self has no recipe for this, so in this case as well ask someone else. Awesome people and probably sex I you want to know how to approach a girl I am able to give you some ideas, but generally I am not clear about the fact if it comes to more at the moment when I approach a girl. If I feel some erotic tension arise in between the chat, it may come to more, but it might be as well that we have some nice conversation but the erotic spark does not ignite. From my point of view here is some things to consider, that might be helpful. I don’t tell you that is the only way to do so, but this is what works quite fine for me, and I’m glad to know some wonderful people. Love communication! Maybe that sounds weird at first sight, but if you are talking to someone with the attitude of every sentence to be typed being a torture, I would not expect a high erotic tension to arise. If you state to love descriptive sex in your profile, I would expect you can keep a conversation running and you love to communicate. Show who you are and what you like. I don’t talk about RL info, but some ideas about your interests, about your sexual preferences and about your mindset can be helpful to keep a conversation running and attract those people you like to get to know. You can do this by filling out your profile, or write your diary. From time to time I get approached by someone due to my profile or due to my diary, which turns out in most cases into at least a nice conversation.Read profiles. A profile does not only tell you, what preferences a girl has or if she accepts colds, you can read as well a lot about her mindset in between the lines. And that might always be a good entry point for a conversation. And for me this is as well an indicator, if there might be a common base for a conversation, a friendship or some common fun.Contribute to the local chat. There is nothing more boring (at least for me) than a silent local chat. If you want to know how funny a room with an active local chat can be, visit Nitro’s room, this is a wonderful example of an active local chat. And based on the local chat it happened often, that either me approached a girl via pm or a girl approached me via pm in order to follow up a topic or just because some sympathy arose between us.The operators behind the avatars are all individuals, so if you pm a girl, you pm an individual, standard phrases are rather for exchangeable persons than for individuals. I would not like to be exchangeable. When I am approached, I like it, when the pm refers to me, either based on the local chat, or with some reference to the profile. That shows me, that the one approaching me is interested in me. And the same is valid the other way round. So if you think a girl is interesting and you want to chat with her, refer to that what you appreciate at her as individual.Be respectful. I experienced some really weird chats in local where one of the both involved persons talked in a very cynical manner, obviously trying to prove his / her superior intelligence. The problem is always, if you are of superior intelligence, you will end up alone, as everybody is on a level far below, not able to ascend to you. In some other chats I observed a lot of rude behavior like name calling. That might be ok, if the profile of the other one states that she likes that, but in general approaching a girl in a first pm with words like ‘slut’ or ‘whore’ might be the essential step for your own disqualification. And even if you find out that the girl you approached and you have nothing in common and diametric thoughts and values, you can finish the conversation with respect.As you might recognize this is rather an attitude than a course of action. Yes, in the end you will not find friends or sex partners due to a ‘killer phrase’ opening the heart and even more of a girl, but due to your mentality and attitude. In the end your opinion about the world, girls, sex and more shines through in every sentence, making your attitude more important than the content. If you think of girls as ‘sluts’, it doesn’t matter what you state, it will sound like glazed shit for girls who don’t like being looked upon as sluts.

My respect grows even more now, as you let us take a look behind what it means to be a host. I appreciate much that you always find the time for a chat with me. And I sough if I have 5 or 6 convos in parallel . Thank you for hosting your room, dear Nitro, you're a big gift to the world.

If I got the time I would never miss a party of you, Saya. Not only the music and you but as well the People joining in there make it awesome and special every time. And Breanna's party was great.

Haha, Saya, from what I read in your post I can see there is so much wisdom within you, you don't need a ghost writer at all. And as I can't make you older, from now on you're Saya the Wise Young Elf

Mhh, Nitro, as certified Request Machine in general I like the music you play in your rooms. If you ask for my favourite, that would be definitely Rock Music, but the 90's are quite fine as well. And in the end it doesn't matter, I'll come to your room anyway

Richards Impression continued 3dx and the drama As I told Nitro about my next diary blog and now she asks me if I’m finished every time I see her, I decided to finish this topic quite fast. Thank you for being so tenacious, Nitro J. This time I want to focus on a topic not so pleasant, but I guess although many people state that they don’t want to experience drama in 3dx, most of them get struck by it in any way. I thought about myself as well as being drama-free, nevertheless I experienced some. I’d like to share this and my thoughts about that, hoping to give an impulse on our future way of interacting. One of my most recent weird experiences just point out a bit about the drama machine and I just use it for a deeper look inside the mechanisms of drama. Some days ago I was visiting Malvasia’s Garden of Eden and enjoying my time with a nice girl, as I received a pm from a friend with the text: ‘the slut is good?’ Obviously she had been hopping through the rooms, and when she entered the garden, she saw my and the girls name in the private area, and she didn’t seem to like what she saw, some weird feelings of anger rising up in her. She seemed not to have expected to find me there with a girl. And here is the first ingredient of the drama cocktail: She had some expectations to me, but I don’t know what they are, as she never told me. I met that friend the first time one or two weeks before, we met several times and hat very nice chats, so we became friends. We didn’t have sex and were not in any relationship. Maybe the information in her profile that she rather regards 3dx as a chat room with sex options should have been the hint, but I really don’t know. So I was totally confused by that pm, thinking about what to do now, as I was in the middle of something with that girl. And you can derive as well from my postings above, that the word ‘slut’ is something you won’t hear from me. If in a RP two partners agree to do so that is fine, but that is not my thing, so I never would call a girl “slut”. If I had not been with that girl, I would have asked her for what she was asking me that. But the RP with the game was very erotic and I did not want to stop it, so I just answered ‘She’s nice J’. I got the answer ‘Good for you’ and she was gone. The situation shows quite good some mechanisms of drama. In the beginning there is always an expectation to someone else, which is not really communicated clear. The reason for this first lack of communication (there will be some more lacks later) may be that the expectation is seen as self-evident, or that the person having the expectation fears to hear a ‘No’ when she communicates it. In this case I still don’t know the expectation, maybe not to have sex, maybe not to go to a bordello, or whatever. And as you see from this situation, it might be just a matter of time, until the expectation is not met, as I even didn’t know there is one. So my friend ‘caught’ me there, and as a result of the fact, that her expectation was not fulfilled, some bad feelings of anger arose in her. At that point she had the decision, either to use those feelings as an indicator for something incomplete to sort out, or to react in the way she did: shooting that weird pm, which was a hidden allegation, passing the blame to me for her bad feelings. This is the second lack of communication. In such a case it happens quite often that the one being blamed (in that case me) starts to explain himself, passing the blame back (who wants to take the blame), and so the drama builds up more and more. That would be the third lack of communication. As an alternative my friend could have checked, which expectation was not met by me, if the expectation was communicated and agreed (yes, others don’t even have to fulfill communicated expectations), what I can answer with a clear ‘No’. And she could have told me which expectation she had, what I did, so her expectations were not met, her conclusions and her feelings, either giving up that expectation or asking me to fulfill it the next time. The important thing is just, even if I decide not to fulfill her expectation after she asked me, I am not bad or guilty or anything, it might be, that a friendship is not possible as a consequence, but you can as well give up the friendship with respect to the other one and go your own ways. But this is only possible, if there is no allegations and weird feelings behind. So the abstract is: Expectations are just expectations, keep in mind that nobody has to fulfill themCommunicate your expectation, latest when it has not been fulfilled the first timeAsk the other one, if he is willing to fulfill your expectation, keep in mind, a ‘yes’ is only valid if he is allowed to say ‘no’Think about and communicate the consequences, if your expectation is not met (and I said consequence, not punishment; the consequence should be good for you, e.g. no friendship possible)If some feelings of anger arise in you, think about which expectation has not been met, and if you communicated it. If not, tell him your expectation and the consequences, if they are not fulfilled. That might help to avoid the dramaWhat happened between the friend and me? Yesterday I saw her being online the first time after the incident. I pm’ed her in the hope to clarify this, but she did not even answer. So I decided to remove her from my friends list. I would have preferred to sort this out first, but I wish her all the best and that she is happy here. This is the last thing to discuss: Sometimes it is not in your hand to stop the drama completely, but you can always stop it for yourself. If the other on wants to live the drama, that is the decision of that person, but you can get the feelings out for yourself, completing this situation for yourself. This is what I did. I am not angry on her, I just see there is no common base for a friendship and I agree to that. Hopefully she finds what she is looking for. If you like to discuss that with me and see me, feel free to pm me for a detailed talk about, but don’t expect me to answer when I have fun with a girl in the Garden of Eden J. In the end I would like to thank to some of the most wonderful people I met so far and I am glad to have as friends. The list is not complete, as it seems to grow every day. JazzAhDee, Ahrora, StephanieCD, Nitro, SayaX, BreannaX, Zireael, Atla, Asselia, CeliaWhite, Xanar, LucasScott, valkman, SpinalRip And I want to thank some people who are not on my friends list (maybe we should change that..) but I appreciate very much to know them: Malvasia, Leith, OliU, ChloeMinx, Audrey, SandieFoxx And I thank all the rest of you, thank you for being here and reading my blog or chatting with me. I’m finished now, Nitro, hope you find it worth waiting for J.

Thank you Saya, for sharing your touching and varied time in 3DX with us .You're awesome and I sense it a big honour to know you and be your friend.

You're making me curious, Saya. Would be a pleasure to read about your adventures and Impression of 3dx . I'm looking forward to finding your blog here ..

Wonderful, Nitro, you did it . I can fully understand your description of your first time, that reminds me of my own start here. Great to get to know the Story behind your wonderful Meet'n'Fuck room, dear Nitro. What an enrichment for 3dx to have you here and let you share your room with us. Your personality and your creativity is so highly appreciated, and the high number of guests just prove the wonderful balanced concept of your room. Keep going on, you're awesome, and see you in your room. Kisses Richard

Wow, what a Feedback . I'm overwhelmed.....Thank you all for your kind words. Thank you Saya, the same goes to you, I enjoy your company a lot, thank you for being my friend and I'll remain your request machine Somebody had to tell, Jazz, what a jewel is to be found in 3dx . I'm looking forward to seeing you. Thank you Oli, I don't want to miss your parties, when I can . Take care and stay crazy \m/.. Thank you AntsyPantsy, I enjoy the atmosphere of the parties a lot, see you there soon. Thank you Nitro, I appreciate your room as one of few being able to combine sex, chat and party, attracting the nice and awesome People.

Richards Impression continued What am I supposed to do here? Another month has passed by, still finding me here in 3dx, bringing up several questions, a simple one regarding the title of my diary which is now dfinitely wrong , and a more complex one, what I am supposed to do here. Anyone might ask: Why do you spend your spare time in a sex chat game, which might be at best a weak surrogate of sex and conversation in real life, so what are you doing here?. And I don't have a quick answer to that, like „I'm here because....“. So I'n trying to find out, sharing my thoughts with you, as well hoping I will find a clear answer. 3dx is a sex chat game, so the first answer would be: „I'm here for sex, for chat and for sex chat“, the only combinations which can be built out of the words. But is that the answer? Let's start with the sex topic. I still enjoy having sex here in 3dx, although the 3 months made me quite picky, as I experienced the 3 last months a lot about my sexual preferences. For me, sex in 3dx is like an erotic story, created on the fly by 2 (or 3) partners. Feeling the sexual tension arise and writing it down, kissing and cuddling, foreplaying, and letting the fantasy flow about actions not covered by the poses, having time for chilling down afterwards, this is what turns me on, making sex here unique, even if it is virtual. The poses are a nice visual support, but they are too few (and no matter how many poses we will get, this will always be too few) to really turn me on. Many people say, men think with their penis, that might be right, as I need my brain for the sex here And regarding sex in 3dx, Malvasia's Garden of Eden is still the location for me, where exactly this can be found. I met a lot of wonderful girls there, having much pleasure with them. And there is one girl outstanding: Jazz (JazzAhDee). She is smart, sweet and pure sex, and being with her always leads to creating exceptional erotic adventures and moments like paradise. If Jazz is there, there is no other choice for me, and every time it is unique and special. Jazz, I love the time being with you, thank you for so much unforgettable moments. Ok, is sex the reason why I'm still in 3dx. It still seems to be fun for me, so yes, for that type of sex I described above I still love to be here. But as I recognize the sex aspect becoming less, focusing on these wonderful moments, that does not seem to be all... What else? Friends? Oh, yes, friends are important to me. So what about my friends here? Do they keep me being in 3dx? There's two very close friend that make me immediately answer: yes, I am here as well to meet them and have fun with them. One of them is again Jazz, I enjoy chatting with her, exchanging thoughts, sharing ideas and values. Thank you for being such a wonderful friend, Jazz, you are like sweets for my soul and my libido And there is a second one, when you read this, you know that it is you, who is just so close to me. I enjoy chatting with her and having fun with her, she is really breathtaking, and her understanding and affection illuminates 3dx. We have been going through some weird situation, managing to sort this all out and staying close and true friends. I'm glad and thankful to have her as friend. And there's some more wonderful people I am glad to call friends, maybe up to now just getting into the situation of deepening our friendship to that extend, but I like you all (you know) and thank you for your friendship. And there are some people not yet on my friends list, but I will maybe to see them there in the future. So my friends are another reason why I'm stilll in 3dx. If I had not subscribed to 3dx, I would never have met them.....my decisions and actions seem always to turn out to something good, lucky me What else? What am I doing the other time? Oh yes, quite often you can find me in some rooms hearing music and dancing. Does that keep me in 3dx? Here's the list of locations I can be found, when I'm in the mood for dancing: The Angels of Desire Rock Club: just my music, great DJs, funny people, always my first choice The room of SayaX: a nice atmosphere, I can place my music requests, and as well very nice people there Nitro's room: Even though it's called 'Meet'n'Fuck', I like being there and just dancing (wasn't yet thrown out for not fucking there ) The Fuckers of Anarchy parties: crazy parties with crazy people, always a lot of fun The Sin Club, although the share of ads betweeen the music is too high My own room: thanks to Achilles' tutorial, I managed to set up my own music stream, opening my room from time to time and sharing my musical taste. Although I can't tell my room is crowded, from time to time some people come inside, having a nice time with music and chat. Ok, this is as well a reason for being here. It is always a great thing to party with people all over the world. And one last thing: 3dx really seems to improve my skills. A lot of conversation in English just keeps my lingual skills trained. Furthermore there is another effect regarding my abilities in multitasking. There is some studies telling that men have only small skills in multitasking, as from the evolutional point of view this was never needed (you can't kill the wild with multitasking but with a stong focus on that one task). So when I started here, one chat was really occupying me, and when I was pm'ing, I could not follow the local chat anymore. Nowadays I find myself more and more in the situation of holding several pm chats with friends while following the local chat. And it works! So I could tell that even my own advancement is a reason for being here, but that I guess is not intentionally Question answered? Somehow yes. 3Dx is not a surrogate but an extension to real life, enriching it by new possibilities. It is just important to keep the balance between both. Uuh, that was a long one. Hope you don't get tired reading it

Seems to work again

Login works again

For me the same...No Login, no message...

Why talking? They'll find out by themselves lol...

Even if that is true, Neko, it would be nice to be informed before.......

Same for me, Servers seem to be down...

Hi gammareh, the Problem is that the screenshots are saved in the program Directory of 3DX (C:\programs(X86)\3DX\Screenshots. In Windows 10 you don't have the authorization to save files there except if you are the Administrator. In Windows 10 you have to execute 3DX as administrator (easiest to do: right mouse click on the program Icon, there should be a item "Execute as administrator" in the coontext menu). Doing that you should be able to save your screeshots.

...always at the most unfavorable moments...... *trembling my fingers on the table*

At the Moment I can not access 3DX, every time I get the "Connection Lost" message, no matter if I log on via the EU Proxy or the US Server . This seems to happen even more frequent the last time.....