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Noticed later that sex sound for me recently almost impossible to hear unless camera view up really close like ½meter approx, if you move camera remotely beyond that moans and sex sounds become virtually impossible to hear for me. Unless you mute all music entirely anyone else having same issue?

I find is sad that you had nothing better to do than make a list mocking people of their choices, for no other reason that try and feel better about yourself.
I find it funny that the list was almost boring enough to make me sleepy.

Hello there :3
 
First of all i have been in your place at least on how you feel.
 
My first Master... i still think he was a good guy, he helped me discover a side of myself that before didnt really make sense. We had a brief but very rewarding relationship in the beggining. I was his favorite but not his only one. I learned to share and i learned i could love more than one person.
 
What happened was... the arrival of a new sister. At first i didnt like her. Specially when Sir started spending more time with her and less time with me. I waited for good two months feeling like i was a toy abandoned in a corner. It hurt.
 
In the end  i had to talk with him. And ask to be released.  He fell in love with my sister. I didnt had any place there anymore. We remained somewhat friends but he really closed to me mostly coz she was insecure about me.
 
The funny thing is that as time passed she and i became really good friends untill she sadly passed away. 
 
My words to you are this....
 
Your first Master experience might have not been all good but it was a lesson... it showed you a side of yourself that you need to explore. You need to find what is what you really need and settle for nothing less.
 
Dont be afraid to get to know the person first, dont get discouraged if you try but dont seem to find the right one. Each experience brings a new lesson, each one will help you discover what you like.
 
I wish you all the luck in your journey. And maybe right now you feel sad about how it ended and that is natural. It will pass.
 
 

I am new to the lifestyle. Im an Alpha-Submissive woman. Im strong and a power player in RL. I front metal bands. Im a power vocalist...but im sexually submissive. Im also VERY straight. I was recently with a very charismatic Dom...that treated me like I was his #1...but was collecting a harem. He released me when I raised an objection despite his assertion
That I express my feelings freely. He said I was insecure. My heart is broken. I need help. I need direction. Someone...please...talk me through this..

This looks awesome! I'm so looking forward to this!
 
While I agree that the fighting is an April Fool's Day joke, I would definitely like some sort of way to decide whether a random guy gets to kiss and hug me. It's a little invasive. Maybe not a full on fighting game, but stomping on his instep or a knee to the crotch? Or maybe just a 'no, go away' button?
 
Caren

Perhaps the most important thing in any relationship is communication. The D/s lifestyle even more so! Ask a potential Dom/Domme questions.. Is He/She poly-amorous? What direction are they taking you? Where do they see the relationship in a month, week, a year!! Spend some time asking the really hard questions before things get serious. This is standard procedure for most RL D/s relationships and most times ending in a written contract so each person is protected, ,in a sense.. Then be very truthful ask yourself these same questions... If they don't match up then do not take it any further.. Now this doesnt help you now and i understand that But please remember if it doesn't feel right then it isn't.. trust your heart and your instincts and follow thru!! You are better off on your own, enjoy your freedom a while.. it hurts but you can do this!! And next time ask the tough questions..( smiles all cute n shit) HUGS FOR YOU HUN!!

To elaborate on all of the posts above have said without getting into a discussion that could literally be never ending, My personal philosophy has always been as Cheyanne stated, about communication. In this lifestyle communication is the basis for every other aspect between a D/s or M/s. Without complete and total honesty and full disclosure with yourself and the Person you are considering, be it top or bottom, you run a serious risk of being abused, neglected, abandoned or in this case in the online worlds tricked by someone who has no real life experience in the lifestyle. Too many people, yes mostly Men, are more predator then really Dominant in these worlds. They just like to hear their own voices and see if they can make someone do as they tell them. No real lifestyle D/M believes they can be the D/M to every pet, slave or sub since E/everyone has their own specific needs, desires and limits. If you feel you need to be in a mono relationship and not a poly then this is definitely one of the most important questions to ask or as you have found out, you will become very unhappy. Also beware of any so-called D/M who gives commands and orders to any unowned pet, slave or sub. Not only is this a clue to that one is not a real lifestyle D/M but shows they have no regard for the philosophies of SSC or R.A.C.K. Just know that getting into negotiations with a D/M in real life is not like here in the online worlds. Real D/M's will take there time and not push a boy or girl into something nor will they do it 15 minutes after meeting them or after having digital sex. Which leads me to the last point I will make, this lifestyle is not about sex, it's about the strong connection between T/two people who are willing to give each other their gifts, be it ones submission to be cared for and flourished or Ones Dominance to be accepted not because He or She says, "kneeling and or obey" but because after learning who and what you are you have developed a connection to this D/M after days or even weeks getting to know them first. Oh one last alibi, Dominants or Masters do not make themselves, they are made by the ones who choose them.