panCDCA
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“Let us learn to show our friendship for a man when he is alive and not after he is dead. After that my own rule is to let everything alone.”
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Between the shit in game (which was my escape) and real life.... I truly don't know which is worse anymore or why I became so hated for giving roses and being a nice guy.
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You are far from hated!! You are valued. You are friend. You are kind. You are gallant. Stop paying attention to the opinions of those who are none of those things.
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Never listen to the haters. I don’t know any details about what happened but I know what can happen. You need a thick skin if you want to survive in 3dxChat. You need a partner or friends you can really trust to survive in 3dxChat. This game can be Hell and Heaven at the same time.
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I HAVE DECIDED IT JUST ISN'T FUN WITHOUT THE ROSE AND I CAN'T BE MYSELF BECAUSE PEOPLE DECIDED TO BE ALL DRAMATIC AND PLAY GAMES. I TRULY DON'T KNOW HOW I PISSED ANYONE OFF, BUT SUCH IS LIFE, FUCK IT.
THAT SAID, I WILL SAVE EVERYONE THE ISSUE OF IGNORING ME AND SHALL JUST BECOME A BUILDER.
SOCIALIZING JUST ISN'T FUN BECAUSE PEOPLE I THOUGHT WERE FRIENDS WERE TAKERS AND WHEN THE ROSES STOPPED.... SO DID ANY CIVILITY.
THE DRAMA LAMAS HAVE WON... I TRULY HOPE YOU ARE HAPPY.-
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This. Is. Horrible. Why let them win? There are nice genuine people out there Pan. I am not happy about this at all. Shame on them. If I had a dime for every time a woman said to me "If only I could find a nice guy" I'd be very rich. Then they have one in their midst and this is what they do. So, yes, shame on them. ~hugs you tight~ And waiting on my rose next time I see you.
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Thank you for the kind words, but it is what it is.
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There are beautiful roses and then there are beautiful roses
The Climactic Flower https://www.literotica.com/p/the-climactic-flower
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I WILL NO LONGER BE FREELY GIVING ROSES OUT. TOO MANY PEOPLE MADE IT A NEGATIVE THING. NO THEY WERE NOT "GIVEN OUT OF DESPERATION FOR ATTENTION", NO THEY WERE NOT GIVEN OUT BECAUSE "I EXPECTED SEX", THEY WERE NEVER MEANT TO BE A "MANDATORY " THING WHERE PEOPLE FELT I OWED THEM A ROSE, BUT ONCE GIVEN REFUSED TO TALK TO ME OR EVEN ACKNOWLEDGE MY EXISTENCE IF I SAID HI (THAT IS NOT ASKING FOR ATTENTION, THAT IS EXPECTING COMMON DECENCY AND RESPECT.)
I DID IT FOR ONE REASON AND AS HARD AS THAT MAY BE TO BELIEVE THAT REASON IS THE TRUTH. ALL I WANTED WAS A SMILE AND FOR THE RECIPIENT TO FEEL SPECIAL AND TO SEE SOMEONE CARED. I FEEL BAD THAT PEOPLE CHOSE TO MAKE IT SUCH A NEGATIVE AND PUT ME IN SUCH AN ATTITUDE THAT I NO LONGER FEEL THEY WERE APPRECIATED FOR THE REASON I GAVE THEM, TO MANY IT BECAME A JOKE AND PERHAPS IT WAS MY FAULT.
ANYWAY, IT IS WHAT IT IS AND I APOLOGIZE TO THE PEOPLE THAT TRULY ENJOYED THEM AND LOOKED FORWARD TO GETTING THEM.
I'M JUST NOT GOING TO LIVE WITH THE DRAMA OF HAVING TO EXPLAIN WHAT I FELT WAS A NOBLE AND KIND GESTURE.- Show previous comments 3 more
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Yes, but easier and less embarrassing for those that ruined it if I just stop giving them out. I mean people would figure out after watching those certain people never getting roses. So, instead of causing more drama. I just figured I'd stop all together and therefore the drama llamas can't create more drama.
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See? Still a gentleman. Protecting those who insulted him. Don't you ever change my friend.
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