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  1. not all of them Starr. there are soo many here now and more talent seeing everyday. Music is life and we all loving to live and spin here in 3DXland. to have them all spin would take a huge amount of time and no one can stay up that long to change streams every hour LOL. well maybe Ice can ~giggles~ I just hope we can all have fun and make Morgaines day a memorable one. Room looks kewl. can't wait to party in eet.
  2. I officiated a double ceremony recently and it was fun. A few things went wrong which prompts me to post this entry. It all comes down to planning and organizing and rehearsing with plenty of time before the event LOL. There should be an organizer responsible to make decisions and organize the event. A focal point for the smooth flow of timing and actions. the organizer/wedding planner should work closely with the bride or groom to make sure everything as as THEY want it because it is THEIR special day. working with the matron of honor as also a good thing as she can take on many of the organization and schedule of the participants for the rehearsal and event advertising. having bridesmaids and'or groomsmen in matching outfits is a nice tough but can be problematic if the colors are not easy to select for people. Organizing activities should include: 1.securing a room ceremony, alter, chapel the room should be big enough to accomodate enough people but not too big or it looks lame. Lines for the bridesmaids and groomsmen to stand on all army like makes for great wedding pics. pads for the two partners to stand on and face each other also helps facilitate the positioning. the comfy chairs are good cause many attendees have partners to sit with. Make sure the room is easy to navigate in so peeps don't get frustrated and it takes forever to get all the butts in the seats 2. securing a reception room - if it is attached to the chapel is best so people don't have to go elsewhere after the ceremony, many may decide to not come to reception OR many will attend the reception instead of the wedding LOL. I have seen separate reception rooms work well for some hard call to make 3. Advertising - An announcement in Events forum is good or a poster in your profile pics that you can also send to all friends as an invitation. A poster is nice and you can put it up in your profile so your friends can see it and plan. Not everyone gets on Forums to see whats going on. 4. Rehearsal - a good time to get colors for all the brides maids and grooms men to get coordinated/ a few days before is best time to do the rehearsal as it usually takes 2 to 3 times longer than the ceremony. Its also a good time to familiarize everyone with the room layout and know where the DJ stand and Radio is. I have seen people load unfamiliar rooms and did not know where the radio was for the DJ's links 5. time of the event should be solid and agreed by all. Check forums events so you don't conflict with other pre-advertised partys 6. Photographer - this is an option that gets overlooked many times. The bride is usually tooo busy to remember to take pics so enlisting a friend or some profesional to take pictures0 is worthwhile to get the kind of pics you want to put in your gallery
  3. having fun is why we are all here. doesn't need repeating. its a fukking game. no one plays a game that isn't fun. even the ones that try to use guilt and sadness to try to manipulate your heart strings are doing that because they are in their comfort zone making you want to pity them. honor their blatherings and don't be mean. Love to watch the craziness on WC when some people get nuts about something. Yes i have lots of popcorn and laff so hard when people cry like babies. They are doing what they want and that should be fine to people, Thick Pixels and a stone heart make this place tolerable. compassion and caring should be reserved to ones who deserve eet. i do not understand why people aren't fukking more in a sex game and would rather emote their opinions like i give a fuk about what they think LOL
  4. Successful rooms formula: There are many factors that control the success of rooms. There are also many measures of success depending on what you want . I have had what i consider success with fewer than 10 people in my room. Chat in local is sometimes a measure and not just room attendance numbers. Quality instead of quantity is always satisfying to enhance your 3DX experience All things go into the equation and these few steps are ones i have shared with others and also are a compendium of suggestions and help i received as a noob DJ starting out, (loves mi irish lass sensei). Many have helped me learn and grow and i cannot thank them enough for watching out for me having my back. The following list is in order of importance but not necessarily cast in stone. sometimes i stop greeting when the room gets big and i can't read the names as peeps crowd the spawn point. the list comes from the statistics I have gathered in my year of DJing and observing 1. Keeping the room name on top of the For You list. First order. MOST important for high numbers. Be prepared with lots of gold to keep it at the top and top it occasionally or constantly depending on the room you are contending with. I love a good topping war but don't be too greedy, I have been iggied by owners of competing rooms because i pissed them off so severely and harshed their room numbers LOL it is also fun when a freind has a good room and you take turns topping someones room. saves gold and allows both rooms to get numbers. It is a statistics game and people here seem to always go to the top room first. It is just the way it is. Some will wade through the names looking for specific room types but this is not the norm for the general populace. 2. Greet People. Say Hi or hello or welcome AND their name. This works wonders making people feel included in the scene. They will stay if they are recognized and like the tunes and the calibre of the people in the room. so many are left out of the clubs and cliques and gangs here. It is sad to see and true many here are damaged and broken and probably should NOT be breathing my air but a concerted effort to make people feel comfortable and included is never a bad thing. An added benefit to greeting is that people who are focussed on Local Chat Blatherings suddenly see the name of a bestie or freind and can also greet making for more exciting associations and involvement. someday I will create an AVI named Greeter 3. Having a room name to reflect the purpose of the room. Colds OK or Not, Dance,Chill, special fetish scenes etc. Be consistent with your tunes. If you are using radio..... go suck adog 4. Easy accessible room So many rooms are full of stuff and complicated to navigate. LAG is caused by too many lights and items associated with movement. Do NOT try to impress and show off. Keep It Simple,Silly KISS it becomes no one and people will NOT stay if it takes forever to load or move around. Complicated threshold transitions take time to learn and there are many ways to get over a room boundary threshold leaving some moon walking and getting frustrated. Inside rooms are especially damning due to the difficulty to fly cam out and see where dafuq you are. I spun a room once with a light house and navigation was soooo difficult i got pissed cause i could not find the way to get to the DJ decks LOL... Major fukked up room for a noob experience. 5. Advertise in World Chat A nice advertisement to Copy Paste is nice as long as you do NOT post tooo much. Once every 50 lines of World Chat Blather between ads is a minimum or you look desperate and lame. Make it Simple and easy to read. 6. Spam your Friend list with the advertisement A colleague taught me this one and it works great especially when you DJ an event along with other DJ's. Do Not be dissaponted if they do not show or do not respond. burnt out now more to follow
  5. Prays for torrential rains and snow so my camping trip cancels and i can listen to this awesome collection of DJ's spinning the past decades best tunes (notices there is no DJ for the aughts)
  6. I was honored to have been in such a great event. Had fun and enjoyed showcasing my sisters custom beat. sorry i had to perform the UDJI at the end but it was appropriate LMAO
  7. What an amazing event. Thanks to all and TY for letting me be a part of it, Loved that Trena closed to place as special surprize guest DJ. (such a nice ass)
  8. hope i cleaned the stains off the stools up near the DJ stand well enough
  9. Custom Rooms There are many really cool rooms i have seen and lately they have gotten more elaborate and detailed as tools have com out for building. An entire Modz forum exits for such endeavers. be careful in getting too detailed and elaborate as it can cause lag such that people with sucky computers cannot enter and enjoy your prowess. Rooms should be places to hang out and have fun and not a demonstration of ones skillz. Here are a few i have seen. The huge cocks are mine LOL I was furtive when first building and it does take time but it is very satisfying and should be attempted eventually. Using others creations just speak LAME and shows a singular lack of concern for expressing oneself. It room should be a window to the soul and show creativity of the owner. I can understand with all have time pressures that prevent us from building our own rooms but come on, do you really want to use another's room and look lame? I have been told to enter my cock room in the competition and many have asked to help make it better by me giving them the .DAT file and letting them have at it for a bit. NOT gonna happen and i won't enter the room in the competition because you have to submit the files. If one has skiils you do NOT need 3rd party tools like the room builder to line up stuff. It speakes lame skills and small misalignments and flaws are actualy showing cherecter and effort. I get sooo harshed by all the round rooms now especially when the have domes that make navigsation painful and difficult. cracks me up when sheeple aplaud the fancy rooms like that and then go walkabout bashing their brains into the walls cause they flycammed out and clicked a wall feature
  10. Marraiges here in 3DXland I am officially ordained as a priestess and although marriages here are virtual, i try to provide a semblance of the joy and passion of the union that marriage brings to the environment here. it can be a fun and wondrous thing to be married. but it can also ruin a good friendship unless ground rules are established to cement the events and hook ups that invariable happen here. I can perform many denominations of ceremonies. The one presented her is my simple ceremony and takes only a few minutes. i sometime do it in Pink text to differentiate it from the normal flow of conversation. some simple rules to follow are for the one accepting to NOT accept immediately so that pictures can be taken. once the ring is accepted they kiss and the should NOT break the kiss for awhile as everyone applauds and congratulations are offered. The petals fall during the kiss and STOP once the kiss is broken. I can play wedding songs and usually stop after about 30 minutes and people have gotten seated. The words then go in silence (not tunes) normally. Doing the ceremony in pink text is a nice touch. i then restart my stream with tunes until another DJ takes over the spinning. moving to another room for the reception is good OR a new room is loaded while i open my room for an interim place to hang until a new room is loaded. Officiant and partners should be in group chat so the flow and info goes smoothly. no others need be there unless maid of honor, etc have cues and need to sync the flow or actions. I need to be prompted to contnue after VOWS usually so there is no big dead space. Sometimes special tunes are played during processional and vows. no problem. Simple Wedding Ceremony:::::::::: person1, person2 GreetingThank you all for coming. Please all have a seat and we can begin. Statement We are gathered here today to celebrate one of life's greatest moments, the joining of two hearts and to give recognition to the worth and beauty of love, and to add our best wishes to the words which shall unite this couple in marriage. Today we have come together to witness the joining of these two lives. For them, out of the routine of ordinary life, the extraordinary has happened. T They met each other, fell in love and are finalizing it with their wedding. A good marriage must be created. It is never being too old to hold hands. It's remembering to say I love you every day and it is not just marrying the right person its being the right partner. They will now exchange Vows Vows participants words (group chat to prompt completion of vows for partner and me to continue the flow of the ceremony) I DO's Person1, do you take Person2 to be your Married Partner for life? Do you promise to love, honor, cherish and protect her, forsaking all others and holding only onto her? Until death or account deletion? Person2 ,do you take Person1 to be your Married Partner for life? Do you promise to love, honor, cherish and protect her, forsaking all others and holding only onto her? Until death or account deletion? Wedding rings are an unbroken circle of love, signifying to all the union of this couple in marraige Rings Prepare your cameras peeps ^,^ Please exchange the rings (acceptor holds off a bit so people can take pics)(once accepted i continue while they kiss and petals fall, Pronounce By the power vested in me I now pronounce you wife and wife You may kiss I present to you the happy couple!!!!!!!! Person1 and Person2 (here i usually start up stream again and people stand and clap)(kissing continues for more pics and words of congratulations from people) I can add more words or trim and add foreign versions if desired.i have done wiccan and hindu and jewish wedding as well. and can also do the words in other languages or include other languages at the same time.
  11. OMG its TODAY!!!!!! WOOOO HOOOOOO
  12. 1, haven't seen any bashing the pathological one is referring to. Perhaps his concept of reality and truth is twisted to suit his own game and mental instability 2, is harshed when she hears Thunderstruck played countless times by many DJ's constantly as well as disturbed sound of silences as a closing song ~Yawns~ Copying streams? idk even how to do that LOL BANNANA LMFAO Music is life and music transcends all barriers. Them that chose to create drama should look in a mirror. Leave your drama at the door and accept that you suck and should leave 3DX if you continue attacking the gangs and groups that you cannot understand because they do NOT promote egotism or perceived and fabricated greatness, We are all great we are all human, we are all alone yet centered in the universe ~giggles~
  13. Waits for rebate check for lost fuk time
  14. whew, so at least its not just me
  15. please link the google drive file. Install stuck atunzipping....... again
  16. https://prnt.sc/g8kxfb DJ's Need you all to PM me and give me your genres ASAP
  17. OK im still here. just got out of a 20 day marraige so i been busy. was totes devoted to the guy. He is an awesome DJ and i learned alot from him about DJing and mixing. 20 days is a success for me. First marriage was 3 hours. I m sure she did NOT expect me to accept LOL. Second marriage was 10 days. It was to another decent DJ that i grew with here in 3DXland . we had fun for months before tying the knot . That dynamic didn't work because his friends disrespected me and i was upset and he did not see how they had made me feel bad. one of his friends sang a song in his native tongue about fukking him in front of the Pool party we were at and it embarrassed the fuk out of me. I may have over reacted and but he got butt hurts about me not taking her disrespect so i divorce him and gave him his freedom. He was also under control of the psychopath here in 3DXland who coached him with tests to prove my existence. which i passed but he kept making it more and more what i did NOT come here for. Fortunately i am a loner. A lone wolf although that whole Lycan shit has harshed me on that paradigm. so lets just stay with Wild pony, Untamed, Uncontrollable, Unfettered and Unencumbered by alliances and complications and attachments. i used to fuk noobs like crazy cause it was fun and i liked to ruin them for any others with my mad skillz LOL my sharks were legendary and let me remember who i had ruined. Good gift for the new peeps. also paint can for when the sprayed me with mancream ~giggles~ fukking is fun but gets old after a few years. seduction is a fine art that i had honed to perfection as an escort in IMVU where i got rich as fuk. probably never get married again cause i was using it as an opportunity to become famous as a DJ. i liked being married but i had unfulfilled expectaions that harshed me with the ones i married. update So it can work out this last one has been 8 month, he pursued me, he got me and now im the luckiest girl in all 3DXland my man, My king, Koke update Dec 8, 2018 been 15 months now and still going strong
  18. ~is flummoxed that the word 'vapid' elicits such praise~ ~ giggles~
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