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The ones you have to watch out for the most are the ones who tell you how honest they are if they really were they wouldn't have to say that all the time.

I agree Rob I meant about having multiple alts being part of the game, and just because alts are a part of the game is no excuse to use Pandora.

People are allowed to do that because its what the game creators intended. I don't personally care whether alts are made public but supporting and paying for an illegal service should not be allowed.

Please no troll post the game creators have already made clear their opinion on this matter. It has nothing to do with honesty it has to do with paying for an illegal service. If it was free that's one thing but its not.

My opinion is that people should not be allowed to openly use Pandora since using it violated the terms of use, and other peoples privacy, but that's not my biggest problem with it my biggest concerns is using it supports a group of hackers who will then use the money they earn to create more dangerous exploits and hacks for 3DX. As someone famously said please no troll post from you Pandora users.

I'll make sure to stop by and say hi it sounds like fun.

I just wanted to say that what this troll did to you Big Mac was totally wrong and shouldn't happen to anyone. He killed your fantasy just as much as he claimed you were killing his.

I have felt an instant connection here with someone but your describing sounds to much like infatuation. I don't really believe in soul mates. I think that you can find someone anyplace you can meet people who might be the one. In RL I do not see couples who have been together for a long time that seem to still be in love, so I am not convinced its something that can last forever. It is much trickier here though since there is really very little to go on and lot of the things which might be relevant in RL aren't really here. honestly it seems hard for most people to maintain relationships here I have seen very few which last more then three to six months, and the ones that do are almost never exclusive.

The truth is you are one of them Big Mac and most of the type of drama your talking about the crazy kind only affects people who are active in world chat you might want to think about that... Not trying to be mean but maybe you should think about that... If you don't like it just don't make yourself a target the way you do.

I actually think it might not be a bad idea to have a number of tags you can put in your profile which describe what your avi is there for, and a Main tag that can only be used on your oldest avi. The only way to change the avi that you can use the main tag on would be to delete an older one, but all the other tags would work on all your alts. You could have tags like Roleplay, DJ, Room Builder, Sex Crazed, Troll, Drama Queen. If we want to be totally honest though you cant really describe yourself so we should make the community vote on which tag is appropriate. I am half teasing about the last part but only halfway.

I have myself been in the same relationship here for over a year now I basically ignore people who pm me looking for sex and I have found most people here kind of boring to talk with. The whole dancing DJ thing gets old fast as well. In someways I suppose you could say I am just not really playing the game anymore really. I think the game is what it is and works the way it was intended to really it seems like way to many people start relationships here to fast. I cant help but think that when that's the case both sides are looking at it as part of a role play which will almost always fail since its just not a good way to approach things. Also it seems to me like a lot of the people here are really difficult to be around and jump through a lot of different relationships. What most people think of me other then the ones I am close with or 3DX’s “reputation” are not things I can control or care about overly much some people seem to get focused on that thought.

I think a lot of the issue is that its easy to get confused here. Either something is a fantasy or it isn't its that simple. Its ok if you want to date people here Big Mac but you should be honest with people and tell then your exceptions and what you want first before you try to ensnare them in a relationship it really will work out better for everyone that way.

I think that alts can be used for other things as well for example I have an alt I only use for making rooms it would be super annoying not to have it and being pmed by people all the time when I am working. I also think that most alts are used to avoid drama caused by groups or stalkers or other obsessed people and that is a good thing. I honestly think most people who want to cause trouble use second accounts not alts anyways since alts can be found out.

I plan on moving to https://www.sansar.com/ most likely next year once they allow adult content like they said they would. Honestly the last patch was a mess its clear they put no effort into making those animation match up at all it would have been better not to have included them.

You cant change your name you can make a new alt with the name you want though.

My thinking on this is that a culture has developed in 3DX that looks down at sex in public places. The night club is considered a public place so is sin both of those rooms really do have areas that seems to be intended for sex all the rooms do really but people are shy to uses them the night club especially since one of those areas the bathroom is so close to the entrance and open. I dont see the appeal myself and almost never go to that room but I can see why people like it better as more of a sex room.

I have a friend who was married but the person he was married to deleted their account but he is still married to her. It seems to me deleting your account is a lot like dying in RL and you don't need to get a divorce if your partner dies. I think it would be less painful for him if her didn't have to hit that button as well.

I am not sure some of those count as swim suits , and I do think guys could use a swim suit. It would be nice to have a better bra as well I think.

If you really love her and she really loves you both of you will come to an accommodation whatever that might be. I think it cruel and selfish to leave someone just because they want a different type of relationship maybe that just me though since many people seem to do that. Unless you both plan on making a long term commitment I think a closed relationship can be really hard and pointless in the end. I think in most cases its better to just be friends. It does seem like its quite common though for people to decide they want to unilaterally change the terms of the relationship.

I take back what I said about them being manly I think its just that they are not suppose to be Caucasian.

I think it looks worse in the game but I can see it being good for a Vampire or something I suppose with the right makeup but I think those two faces are a bit manly myself.

I do think many maybe even most people do see it that way. However, I have definitely met people here who don't role play at all even sex. It is possible to do if you just talk about what your doing in RL. I prefer role playing sex though but, if the other person can be descriptive about what they are doing in RL that can be sexy as well. I think that's the real difference between being "descriptive" and role play, whether your really doing the things you say you are in RL. I do think most people role play here even if they don't admit it. I would say however that I would not be surprised if the majority of people who do see this as a role playing game are a bit conflicted about that as well.

I am sure it will be great I'll make sure to be there.

I like the idea of there being a club for more complicated role-playing but I am not sure how much interest there really is here. A lot of people seem shy about if for a number of reasons and my own experience has been that once your here a while you tend to get into a relationship and have a lot of friends and role-play doesn't really fit in with that. Most of the groups that seem to last seem to be based around some type of communication which is outside 3DX such as Kik, BlackBerry Messenger or Discord. If I was you I would start with that and also make a fancy profile image that people who are part of the group can use.

We do need a FFF threesome pose plus it would be nice to be able to sync three of us when we are dancing.