For me it began as a Game... until i lingered too long, making connections, acquiring feelings. That changed everything for me, turning what was a game into a Virtual World. FF 7 yrs later, a lifetime ago... still here, by a thread, bound to one i can't let go.
This place whatever you wish to call it, is a wonderful escape but like most anything else... you get what you put into it. And no different than RL too... gotta use your head along with all those emotions. Be safe and enjoy.