RichardCypher

Had this from time to time as well, and yesterday a friend told me, that she could not read profiles. This seems to be quite a new bug, experiencing it the last two weeks...

I wish you all the power to go through this, Valkman, and my heart and mind go with you.

Richards Impression continued Friends, Sex and Gifts Every day I am in 3DX I gather new insights into me, my sexuality and my System of values, this is why I love being here so much. Starting here in search of a platform to explore my sexuality, things are shifting towards a social platform with a higher sexual share than real life, which brings up always the aspects of having friends, having sex and having sex with friends. As I pointed out in a previous contribution, having sex with someone does not make that woman a friend, and vice versa having a woman as friend does not mean automatically having sex with her. But there is an intersection of having sex with friends, and combining friends and sex is at least for me quite an unknown undertaking, due to the fact that in real life I never experienced this. From my social environment, sexuality has been always seen as a part of a partnership (or even doing it with complete strangers). I even have friends working at Malvasia's Garden of Eden, I meet them as 'Client' there, they receive a gift (or even two), and we have fun together. And nevertheless, there is a friendship behind, I just refer to my last post, what the means to me. And as well in reference to my first post, I don't see the gifts as 'paying' them, but more like something I take with me to a Rendezvous, like flowers or chocolate. This was how I looked upon gifts, seeing something like a small present, until one morning, when I logged in to 3DX, I found 2 gifts from a friend, just giving me some appreciation regarding our friendship. Even though this was 'just' gifts, the thoughts behind these gifts were completely different from what I saw in gifts so far. And those gifts showed me she was just thinking of me and she cherishes our friendship. This was such an overwhelming moment, which made me think as well about all my friends, how much I appreciate them being in 3DX and being my friends, and that I wanted to tell them as well. So I just sent out a gift to all my friends as a sign, how much I value our friendship, and that they are in my thoughts. 3DX is still a platform, where I can experience my sexuality, but it is as well a social platform, and it would be nothing without my friends there. And to all my friends (yes, it is everyone on my 3DX friends list): Thank you for being here, you make 3DX gorgeous and incredibly exciting, and even the gifts I sent can not express that approximately.

Richards Impression continued Friends and Love I started to clean up my friends list, as I found some names on it I could not determine, how this friendship arose, who that friend was, and when I saw him/her last. So I started to think about my personal ‘social relationship pyramid’, and I just want to share this with you. My social relationship pyramid Level 0: love The lowest level on this pyramid is love. That might sound weird to you, so I will detail this starting with the question (how many songs did as well?): What is love? Some people think of love like of a thing or object: it is limited or even short, so those who want to receive their love have to fulfil their conditions or expectations. And as love seems to be short for them, they try not to ‘waste’ their love. Some people think of love like some sort of concept. They want to have a proof of love by the others. You can identify them easily, as they often say: ‘If you loved me, you would…..’ The funny thing regarding love is that you cannot feel the love of the other people. Your love is the only one you can feel. So if you want to feel love, just love someone. And as I am some sort of love junkie, I love everyone. Yes, everyone without any condition. That might sound altruistic or absurd; in fact this is pure egoism. I am aiming for a lucky life, and looking at everyone and everything with an attitude of love makes my life brighter and more beautiful. Hence I love everyone, and I have to admit that I rather prefer to love some people from the distance J. So if you meet me in 3DX, you can be sure that I love you. Level 1: Like Besides the fact that I love all people, there are some people out of them all that I like. That means, I enjoy being with them, exchanging ideas, chatting, sharing the same values. If I meet someone I like in 3DX, I say ‘Hi’ to him / her and maybe have a little chat. Level 2: Friend Out of all the people I like, there will be some that will become my friends. The difference is that a friend will get my absolute loyalty. I always take care of them. He / she will get to know the fragile and sensitive parts of my personality, as I will trust him / her absolutely. I love to see my friends frequently, as they inspire me. In 3DX that means that when a friend is online, I will always contact him / her for a pm chat. And if he / she is busy at the moment, a small conversation like that should be no problem: RichardCypher: Hi XXXXX, nice to find you online J XXXXX: Hi Richard, just talking with a nice guy, could result more out of this… RichardCypher: np, we chat later. Have fun, dear J XXXXX: thanks, hun J Jealousy, tenures, stalking is something which I don’t want to experience in 3DX. I am not here for a monogamic relationship, and I don’t expect that of my friends. Level 3: Number one At the top of my social contacts pyramid there will always be my number one, the one and only. But this is what I definitely do not search in 3DX. So I started to look over my friends list, keeping this pyramid in mind. And I identified 3 of them, I can really call my friends, as I know they fit to the criteria; maybe 2 or 3, where I am not quite sure, but I’d like to give a try.

I have collected a lot of 'friends' the first time here, recognizing after some time, that much of those 'friends' behaved as strangers, when I met them the next time. Having good sex with someone does not yet make her automatically a friend. So I cleaned up my friends list quite rigorously leaving those which fulfil the following criteria: when I am online and he/she is online, we connect per pm and exchange some words. If he / she is busy, np, then we don't chat, but at least a 'Hi' is welcomethere is no jealousy or ownership thoughts, when we accidentally meet in a room and of us is just in action with anybody else, no problemWe have interesting chats and fun togetherThis reduced my list drastically, but as well leaving some people there I really look after......

Due to the positive resonance I'm going to update this frequently by new Impressions. Today: a note for the guys... There are some rooms in 3DX which are opened by a girl, where she and her friends enjoy music, chat and have fun. Yesterday I entered such a room; as the music was good, and there was a friendly 'Hi' to me, I decided to stay, dance and chat a bit with the girls. Looking at the profiles just indicated they are either not at all or rather less into men, but that was not important, as I just wanted to dance and chat a bit, as the girls were really nice. So we had much fun, and the room host and me had some really funny screwball jokes (with some not so funny background about many boys scaring the girls inside here by their pushy behavior), when she pm'ed me telling me, that up to now she only knew 2 guys being nice, one of them being me. Nevertheless she hesitated to add me as a friend, as some other guys turned out to be pushy afterwards. I am glad that she added me as a friend, being one of those awesome people here, who make the difference why I like being here. And, just to clarify, that had nothing to do with sex, as we didn't have sex (although I have to admit, her personality really turned me on...). I won't refer to any name, I guess, if she reads this, she will know. And if she reads: You are beautiful, and I don't talk about your avatar but about your mind! But coming back to the topic: I was really surprised about the behavior of many guys inside here, obviously thinking, with their presence here they acquire a title of sex with every girl. profiles are rather not read, if yes, and a profile indicates 'pm me first', the girls might get a 'Hi', followed by a partner request. Please guys, before you scare all girls off, some proposals: If you want fast and immediate sex, please go to rooms indicating that (No chat, just sex)Check profiles there, you might get a hint about the sexual orientation of the girlIf the profile indicates 'pm me first', please do so, and find a sentence a little bit more sophisticated than 'Mmmh, you're sexy...'Outside of these rooms, if you try to cold a girl, I guess you chances are close to zero, so you can as well save the energy...For the girls this is sometimes like running the gauntlet, being bombarded with colds, hugs and pm's like 'Hi'.... Newbie support Today I was pm'ed by a girl, her attention called by my name (yes, those who like the same books like me, know the origin of my name ). We had a chat about different books and after a while she told me that she is quite new here. And obviously it is not so easy to gather all information about how to handle this game, and what is going on here. So maybe it could be helpful to install some voluntary newbie mentors, giving some assistance or hints to them, so they can adapt more easily into this world. What do you think about this?. Richard

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vHMJARPLmcg

Thank you Celia, I am so comfortable with you and the other Girls, such a awesome combination of personality, sweetness and sex.

Another great artist died much too soon, What a pity....

Yes, Malvasia, you definitely are :-)

Being here for about 2 months now, I just would like to share some impressions and thoughts about 3dx and my experiences, the beautiful ones and the weird ones. First of all: I like 3dx and I like to be here, there are a lot of wonderful people here I love to spend my time with, and who enrich this place with their being here. I am more into descriptive playing, loving the thrill of first talking and teasing before getting into action, using the pm chat to describe either details of my actions or actions which are not covered by the poses. Even though I am a native German speaker, all my adventures have been in English so far. Additionally I don’t want to be rude and I am not turned on by rudeness or name-calling. I had some adventures with silent pose-swapping or rude actions in the beginning, until I started to ignore colds and check profiles for information about sexual preferences. If I don’t find something, but the profile looks attracting for me, I tend to ask the girl first about that. Don’t misunderstand me, I do not judge any sexual preference in any way, I just experienced here that some of those don’t turn me on. By reading a lot of profiles (I found lots of interesting and beautiful profiles here) I stumbled upon lots of profiles telling not to cold or hug them in an almost aggressive way. Wondering this first, I started to look around in the different rooms, and started to understand why, as a lot of guys just walked around, hugging every girl they could get hold of. Other guys showed behaviors coming really close to stalking, penetrating and trailing girls in an extremely obtrusive way. And I experienced some weird types of drama and jealousy (‘You had sex with someone else’ – I always thought that is the reason for us all to be in 3dx, to have sex). And finally I had some weird adventures with girls poofing away in the middle, maybe they had no time, maybe they expected something different, maybe for other reasons, leaving me with a moment of confusion. Why am I telling that? One of the most important values for me is being respectful. We are different people with different expectations inside 3dx. Some are looking for fun away from RL, some may look for relations in 3dx, and some look for relations which can be ported to RL. We may have different sexual preferences, be more or less talkative, and so on. It would be so easy to clarify that first, and if our preferences don’t fit, we respectful go our ways. Even if we find out in the middle of something, that this is not what we expected, to just tell this to the other person and stop it. As many people write in their profiles, 3dx is for having fun; sometimes it just seems you have to have a thick skin to keep the fun…. So far for the weird things, coming to the beautiful side of 3dx… The place I like being most is Malvasia’s Garden of Eden Bordello. Malvasia, this room is wonderful, thank you so much for hosting this place. And there are so wonderful girls I love to spend my time with, enjoying their company, their personality and of course the sex. Celia, Jazz, Leith, Clare, you are gorgeous! Thank you for the wonderful times at the Garden. From some other posts I know that some of you may be puzzled that girls demand gifts for sex, I have a different look: first of all, this is a role-play as many others as well; second: I spend some time with a wonderful girl, so why not gifting her (in RL I would as well take flowers to a rendezvous J). I spent more money in my live for far more useless things… For dancing and hearing music I love to be in the Sin Club or rather in the Angels of Desire Rock Club. My compliment to all the DJs there, and thank you for the great music. There’s a lot of rooms with names like “No chat, only sex”. I have to admit being there quite often, even though I don’t cold and I don’t respond to colds. Those place are fun though, reading profiles and watching, and I met a lot of interesting people there I would not have expected to find there. So for me the last two months have been interesting and all in all very beautiful, even though there was a phase with all those weird experiences that confused me a little bit. To all the people in 3dx I have met or I don’t have met yet: thank you for your being, give respectful contact a chance, keep up the fun and hopefully see you soon J.

mmh yes, wonderful cover

Great Music and interesting people, thanks for the party (even though I could not stay very long), enjoyed it a lot.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3oAcw7lozFA

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WJhGQMHEcl8

One Suggestion from my side: some different facial expressions. Our Avatars seem always to look some sort of sad. Some smiling and laughing expressions would be great...