Sunstrike

I don't know you and you don't know me, but I saw you a lot in the game. I almost never read the forum as I stopped being me in the game a few years ago.

I stopped being me and now I only do RP. You cannot be sure about anyone into this world. RP is easier because you don't expect that your partner is real or telling the truth about themself. Also, you cannot hurt them by playing a character. Well yeah, i've been manipulated a lot before and that's why I decided to only do RP.

A lot of guys are women in the game for a simple reason. In real life, a man cannot do anything related to women. Because he would immediately lose his manhood and he will be rejected by other males (at least, that what happens the most in our society). But as he's not a woman either, he would be rejected by them too. So it's almost natural for a guy to be a girl in the game. To discover new things and to explore his womanhood. Because yeah, every man has a womanhood part, even those who hide it deeply. I won't talk about other genders because it would take a while.

Just remember that you're not the first, you're not the last. You tested some stuff but you discovered people you really like. If they really like you, they will accept you as you are. If they don't, maybe they are the problem. And maybe you will be sad if they prefer to ignore you. But you did what you can. You cannot do much more, you told the truth. Let them go, they don't deserve you if your real gender is an issue. They lose something, but you don't. Be happy and be yourself. I wish you all the best.

PS : I also posted here because a true friend posted here and I really miss this friend

You know if its possible to maybe check if same IP logged in on same time, which correspond with person on someones ignore list. Maybe its possible to let IPs share ignore list on those who are logged in. ON the current IP they're actively logged in on, maybe at least it make it harder for them to coordinate between the account that can see players who ignored them, and the other account they made be logged in on also.

 

I imagine even if they don't use a fixed IP maybe its possible to affect IP their currently so IP's logged actively share ignore list on IP thats logged in that given moment and disappears once logged out again?

 

Not a tech expert on IP but that might be possible without someone being effected by it if they accidentally have same IP as person changing.

That would be a mess to code with mistakes everyday.

And what about people using the same IP address? Maybe, roomates, a couple, etc.

@Sunstrike, you talk about tagging as if there is no tagging goes on in 3DX.

Tell me when you see a room that says 80s music, do you complain about it being tagged or do you think yes that is a room I will go to because I like 80s music.

There are certain things where tagging is only a help, having it so we know the person with the so called tagged alt is looking to likely be role playing will let people know what they are looking for from the game.

I feel, as it is my opinion that having it so our intentions or what we are looking for with our play being shown this way would not only help with some of the alt problems it would also help put trust back into things where trust has been lost.

I talked about tagging people, not things. Of course it's nice to tag a room. You will know what you will find in it. A room is a thing and a thing doesn't have feelings. An avatar can, depending on who is behind the keyboard.

It's rude and mean to tag someone without thinking. I tag my RP alts as RP alts because I think it's normal to let the other players know I want to do RP. But it's my choice. I think that each RP player should do it, but it has to come from the player.

Camden go through this thread and look at what has been said by others, including the role players, then have a good think about all the pluses and misuses the color code offers, then I think you will see it is not such a bad idea.

You talked to Camden but I had to answer to this.

I follow this thread from the creation of it and I still don't understand why so much players want to tag others. In real life, we are constantly tagged, judged, reviewed. Because people are obsessed to put others into categories. Like the gender, like how we look, like the music we listen. This is a very bad habit of the human race. But this is printed in our genes. Everyone has to deal with this.

So no... I don't log to 3DXChat to undergo the same crap that real life give to us everyday. I don't want to be tagged again, I want that my avatars can be free of real life bullshit. But with respect to other players.

I voted for new poses but especially for FFF poses!!!!! Please

Can we just keep things like it was before? It's not wonderland. I've been the target of a few mindgamers. I handled it and I'm still alive. I know this is very annoying. But people have the right to be anonymous. I do roleplay with my alts and my friends of my main avi know that. They understand I want to stay anonymous with my alts and they didn't try to find them. I don't want to bother my friends or them to bother me when i'm roleplaying. That is just simple. Everyone needs a bit of privacy. Sadly, a few mindfuckers will used that to bully other players

Edit : Thanks to the devs for the new update .

I never said they did anything wrong. Seeing them fucking air just brings the curiosity of who they fucking is all. Really doesn't matter just a silly thought that I happened to have when I wrote that post.

I understand then. Forget my sentence

You already have these characters now, there's no charge. You only have to pay if you delete and make new character, which if you already have them, would nt make sense unless you were trying to escape an ignore. You can go in and make that char look any way you want. 

I was thinking about new members, not to me.

And... Names matter in RP. So it's logical to delete an avi to create a new one with a new name.

Ash's idea is the best in my opinion.

I don't really care about ghosts. We will still see people fucking in the air. It's stupid to make the not ignored avatar invisible. He did nothing bad.

But still... We pay for 3 slots... Well, we paid for 3 slots. I don't understand why new members cannot have 3 characters. If we want more than 3 slots, I do understand we would have to pay. But 3 slots at the beginning is a feature. Not an option!!!

I have a main avatar and 2 others for RP purposes. In the profiles of my alts, I wrote that they are there for RP only. I know that not everyone does that. But if you think someone is bullshitting you, BAN, the whole account. Easy...

Someone talked about IP block. This is nonsense. IP address can be easily replaced or hidden.

I only notice a thing. The majority of people who participated to the poll voted for Accountwide block. It means what it means...

I don't understand how this change popped out of the blue. I don't believe to the security excuse. It seems that is only related to money, nothing more.

And I don't understand either why some people want to tag RPers. They have the right to do RP as I know? This is totally useless against mindgamers.

And what about deleting the BL without warning?? This is the worst update since I'm here. This is thousands times worst than the supposedly security excuse.