I don't know you and you don't know me, but I saw you a lot in the game. I almost never read the forum as I stopped being me in the game a few years ago. I stopped being me and now I only do RP. You cannot be sure about anyone into this world. RP is easier because you don't expect that your partner is real or telling the truth about themself. Also, you cannot hurt them by playing a character. Well yeah, i've been manipulated a lot before and that's why I decided to only do RP. A lot of guys are women in the game for a simple reason. In real life, a man cannot do anything related to women. Because he would immediately lose his manhood and he will be rejected by other males (at least, that what happens the most in our society). But as he's not a woman either, he would be rejected by them too. So it's almost natural for a guy to be a girl in the game. To discover new things and to explore his womanhood. Because yeah, every man has a womanhood part, even those who hide it deeply. I won't talk about other genders because it would take a while. Just remember that you're not the first, you're not the last. You tested some stuff but you discovered people you really like. If they really like you, they will accept you as you are. If they don't, maybe they are the problem. And maybe you will be sad if they prefer to ignore you. But you did what you can. You cannot do much more, you told the truth. Let them go, they don't deserve you if your real gender is an issue. They lose something, but you don't. Be happy and be yourself. I wish you all the best. PS : I also posted here because a true friend posted here and I really miss this friend