We could debate on this for days and days. It happens everywhere and it will always happen. As long as they're happy It doesn't bother me. It's always good to think that you're 'dating' a hot looking man (for example Brad Pitt) instead of knowing about the true 'reality', that can be like this: And I have to confess that I always feel tempted to pick some sexy pictures from the net and use them on my profile as mine, like: PS.: I'm not disrespecting your point, Macca. Sorry for the goof. Now seriously. I'm a very visual person so I like to see who's behind the avatar as I don't have problems in sharing...Of course that I like to see a nice looking man here with a real picture. But honestly I think that this game is all about imagination and fantasy. And our imagination has no limits. In my mind, all the guys that I meet in 3dxchat are extremely sexy and good looking, tall and muscled (at least in my mind).