chaostika

black xmas
hmmmmmmmmm good idea chilli/mom shanti

 

 
sounds soooo sweeeeeeet n naughty^^
 

 
cya on the dancefloor
hope with enough frames^^
 

 

 
meauuuuuuuuu mietz mietz

So, um...why the limit on how many things we can "like" on the forums in one day? 
 
Seems kinda silly to me that anyone thinks they can tell me I've reached my limit for what I can like in a day. I mean, I'm a very liking person. I like to like things, things I like, which are numerous and many. I want to like them. I need to like them.
 
So why the like hate? 
 

mee too, thx 4 everyone involved, there and or in me tonight!!
pixels like music wise and all u guyz out there in here
my feet too, and all my claws... till now....mietz mietz
meaaaauuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu rrrrrrrrrr rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
lol and 9 frames in the beginning...just saying^^
 

 
 
 

 
 
 

 

 

Hello Gizmo. Hi all
 
i want to bring in the idea , if not yet doen by someone, to give us girls also the sexposes of men.
Especially it would be nice if we ahd the sofa poses. And i mean all poses !
I think many girls also want this and have the same idea.
 
Do it, no need to wait for or Christmas or something else .
 
It cant be that hard to make this transfer , switch corpus and done. Just try to do it.
 
Or give us the possibility to buy them in a shop ( item shop ) . Many would do this may be. Make base poses for free and special ones buyable in a Item shop.
 
I refer to Achat , which i have seen in internet. Here you have base poses and may be sepcial ones to buy. Why not.
 
But at least just give us the sofa poses now.
 
Hoping for some feedback and hope you do it soon.
 
Greetings Thana

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PS: Is it just me or were all those guys gorgeous back in the day...grrrr

Good Morning 3DX
Here's an eclipse tip for listening to beautiful music:
Just be Free !!!


 
My "free" is in a dimly lit room for atmosphere and privacy,
where I can close my eyes and just disappear from this world,
dance my silly dances, and sing as loud as I want.
...if only for minutes




 
Its a shame though, I find that as I get older I'm losing
more and more of my free time.

mee too, thx 4 everyone involved, there and or in me tonight!!
pixels like music wise and all u guyz out there in here
my feet too, and all my claws... till now....mietz mietz
meaaaauuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu rrrrrrrrrr rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
lol and 9 frames in the beginning...just saying^^
 

 
 
 

 
 
 

 

 

Great event! Well done Devs, and happy birthday to you! 
 

 

If you feel like you don't need the TV in game and want to get rid of these problems you could navigate to
 
C:\Program Files (x86)\3DXChat\3DXChat_Data\Plugins o(r wherever your 3DXChat is located) and simply renaming awesomiumWrapper.dll to disable it

Thanks roro ! When i come into a room, i hâte that TV with girls allways screaming and i have to turn off the Tv permanently! That break my head lol
 
I will rename this file by shuddup.dll ^^

sry hun, dear NO, sry, not....unfortunately..
 
 

 
rather chop
 

 
my hands off
 


 
than use a zuckerberg fuckboot product
 
 

 
just screamn, singing and saying
 
nice week @ll

 


 
ps:
nice word for his "software"
 
use skype for that..4 "the real" ppl^^

Oh ye, I agree with Achi (thank you for the great music DJ!)
What a perfect night!
I danced until my feet hurt, had a lot of fun, met my best friends and had sex...
Nothing more to ask for!
Thank you all, it's the people who make a party good.
Looking forward to the next one...

I think this is the part I agree with most. Maybe it's just my mindset, but a site like 3DXChat just isn't conducive to a real romance. And the atmosphere here isn't the one you'd come to to find some sort of exclusive romantic partnerhip. It's like going to a NASCAR race to recruit members for Mensa, or to Sweden to look for ugly people. It's just very, very unlikely to happen.
 
There simply isn't much to do in the realm of romantic encounters in 3DX. Maybe 3 poses I can think of are sweet like that; the rest are all geared far more towards the dirty/raunchy/hypersexual, which is fine and has its place, but isn't the kind of place you generally expect to find romance. The new Love Island is a start, I guess. At least you can sit down at a table with your partner and stare out over the waves at the moon. But you can't really hold hands or play footsies while you do that.    You can walk down to the beach and get naked and fuck like bunnies, though; and that's why this place exists.
 
I mean, you can even see it in the prop actions we have here. You can buy and drink a bottle of beer/wine (I hate beer so I tend to think of them as mini-bottles of Barefoot Sweet Red), and even get a 10-second buzz from it. But you can't pick up and drink the cup of coffee on the table, or sip the bowl of tomato soup. It's the mundane little things that seem magical when you're with someone you love that help cement that sort of relationship. And there's really not much mundane stuff to do here.

Unfortunately "no" is the simple answer.

 

As a straight out meet you tomorrow dating site.. How many partners have you met here from your own country that you wanted to hook up with instantly for real life date?

And feeling confident enough to roll your cookies over seas to meet someone takes time.

 

As a long term fall in love and live happily ever after scenario. It's rare. There are I imagine more than a thousand fail stories for every success.

 

On line our dopamine levels still rise.. Our body still produces endorphins when we climax..so the feeling of being "in love" or connected is  very real. As real as in the physical world.

 

Also you probably share more intimate conversations a lot faster. Time seems accelerated and you can open up to a person on line very quickly. You're also probably a lot more honest here about yourself  (as hard to believe as that sounds) there is less judgement on line. You feel more free admitting to your sexual quirks than many will feel in years during a real relationship. These are all great things but net relationships are generally short lived.

 

Even more so on a relatively new site like 3DXChat. The lack of sexual poses and dating opportunities do not encourage long term relationships. It serves to get you off once or twice a day and make some interesting friendships but in an exclusive relationship boredom here will often win out. Unavoidable boredom and the fact that ur dating in a meat market where other people are hitting on your partner daily doesn't help at all.

 

From what I've seen on 3dx most relationships don't last past a month. I attribute the longer lasting relationships to great role-play, plenty of imagination and regular visits to other sites.

 

Don't get me wrong 3DXChat is a great site and will get even better as it ages.

It can be fun, interesting and exciting but as a dating site or a place to fall in love ..in my opinion it's more likely to hurt you than fulfill you.

 

Fall in love...everyday if you want.. But try not to take it so seriously that you are in tears when it ends. Enjoy it for what is is "an awesome sex chat site where you can interact with interesting and frisky people from all over the world in just a few hours a day"

 

PS… really hoping on proving myself wrong about this post..Dev team… more sex poses and more flexibility in poses and dating options please. Also if you're in a long term exclusive relationship I'd love to chat with you about how you keep it fun and fresh.. message me.

I agree with July lil more.
But at the end its a very individual thing how u play the game.
I for myself, dont need the drama anymore , and since i changed to this way of gaming , i have much more fun.
But when u look at the Comments closer:
Julys post - easy to read and simple.-.u can take it and go on.---
cheyennes text is massive, in many words , thoughts, feelings.-- much more complicated.-- and heavier...(but also well written)
 
imho...that shows exactly the difference, of the playstyles.
I love the shorter and easier way, which leaves u much time to do different things.
 
But like cheyenne also said.--- the choice is yours.

Don't let others be responsible for your happiness on 3dx or elsewhere.  The game is what you make of it.  If someone is causing you drama...Iggy them.  If your old friends are gone...make new friends.  At its core, it's still a game. The object of the game is to have fun.  If it's no longer fun for you, then you should cancel.  A lot of people have taken the time, to comment on your topic, encouraging you to stay.  If they're not your friends yet, maybe they should be.  Start fresh and have some fun!
 
Best of luck,

Without Dramas, this place would just be called 3XChat... better to play without expectations, you'll be less disappointed. Tho, not always easy to do.
 
Drama has always been there, and always will be unfortunately.
 
Do what's needed to make the platform your comfy zone, and don't let anyone run you out. Just make sure that your comfy zone doesn't trample on someone else's comfy zone, if they don't want it.
 
 
And also about playing without too much expectations, know that the best surprises are often the ones that hit us when we least expect them.

HotJulette In my six months here I've learned that drama come packaged with this place, people fall in love and out of love at the drop of a hat, others come looking for someone permanent to be with in here, but some come in with the purpose to troll and make the game as miserable as possible for other players (some might know who I'm talking about), unfortunately people here come and go, change their names at will, or just disappear completely, heart break here is inevitable, but also having great friends here is possible. I myself have had Drama like you could not believe, for example: having a dear friend that turned out to be who or what she claimed to be, I've fallen for someone and been dumped twice, I've had a certain person use Alts to get me in bed, and been accused of being something I'm not. Don't despair Julette there are good people, we all experience the same things here, Drama comes with this place, and learning to avoid it comes with a learning curve but not impossible to do, I myself now avoid it like a disease, one way I've learned from a good friend, is to leave what happens here at the door, learn to separate this place from reality, problems and drama in 3DxChat stay in 3DxChat, another way is to declare in your profile is to declare your playing NSA (No String Attached) if you don't want to get extremely close to someone.
 
 
I myself have wanted to quit several times, but then found good friends here, so don't despair sweetie, there are lots of great guys and gals here, so try and stick it out for a while, don't let the Drama trolls get to you, have your fun and don't let them ruin it, stay away from toxic people, and hang with the ones that love to have fun.

Dear HotJulette , the drama was allways here, as so many people said before me in this very post, diferent people spend their time here in diferent ways,
some chat and have fun, some want as much feeling as they can get which ussualy ends in drama.
You can always choose to walk away from drama and it is not hard, just don;t mind people who try to start it and pay them no attention they eventualy walk away. I myself been here for little more then a year and i had enough drama for one life time, i learned to walk away from it tho and the game became more enjoyable again, spending time with friends and having social fun is worth it, even if i have to avoid drama or get angry becouse of the attempts from time to time. I hope you will stay in this place, we could use social and friendly people. But it is your choice to make , have a great day.
 
Best,
Dande.

I would like to kindly disagree with this statement and urge a different perspective on here, first of all, there is a living person behind every avatar so I naturally encourage everyone to treat given person with the same respect i want to be treated as a matter of respect. As far as the definition of love goes, i very well believe that it is possible to fall in love with words and those affectionate gestures, all those tingling emotions, be it on a dating site, or even back to the times where people used to exchange romantic love letters, secret admirers. Personally I am a strong proponent of the power words have, no matter if via text or word and as everyone is different, there are those of us who embrace them. In my time in the online world i've seen so many kind of relations, even couples who found themselves through online platforms like this, people who forged bonds deeper than they even dared to dream of, soulmates, friends for a lifetime, all of that simply sprouted by the written word and turned into an almost fairytale like story.
 
I encourage and have the deepest respect for each and every single person who takes the bravery to express their feelings for a respected other one, be it out of fondness, deep affection or even love, exhibiting those feelings in a world filled with so much heartache, misunderstandings and issues that itself is a grand gesture, it means baring your heart and opening your true self whereas we all strive for love and companionship in so many ways and yet we are still afraid to loose the reigns of control, both in the virtual and real world.
You dont fall in love with pixels but with the person behind it on the other end of the computer, some of those "married lines" even derive from real couples venturing into virtual places like this one for instance, the right to express their feelings and unzip their hearts is given to everyone, not just the real couples and it is a well worth cherising token of appreciation. Love comes eventually and most often in the places you least expect it ... does it take a voice and a picture for true love ? I wouldn't necessarily say so, that depends on the individual character, those seeing with the heart do not need visuals or voices to confirm their feelings, it may influence in terms of attraction to different degrees for some but true love in my opinion is not about visual appearences or voices.
For some it could just be a fantasy, a fleeting dream, a vicarious experience to dive in, others might dare to follow that road to the end and see what rewarding experience could be found at the end or even not but brave is he who bares and acknowledges feelings, savours and cherishes them.
 
Drama itself is a topic of its own, it comes with jealousy and miscommunication, with accusation and the desire to possess and control instead of wonder and communicate, it is the very power of words who can define anger or love. From my experience drama often comes in when boundaries have not been defined and frustration surfaces, this very psychological reaction is unique for all of us and can go subconsciously even get back to childhood experiences, it is a process of mental growing and digesting, past experiences you still carry along and haven't faced squarely yet, it lies in the human nature to believe under stress that whatever unhappiness you face is not your fault and caused by others, in a prison for example, most of the inmates would claim to be innocent.
 
This may be a drastic comparison but the point is that a deep introspection can have a very healing effect and through claiming responsibility those fears will melt out of your body, it is not about blaming, true responsibility is always taken as a celebration of freedom. Unfortunately such is a mindset and aha effect we alone often struggle to find.
 
On the botttom line, i do support feelings, whether you find a significant other to share and express them or just with yourself and i believe that will lead you to a more mature and fulfilled self instead of stuffing them down.
If google serves me well, the is a french saying "l'esprit de l'escalir" meaning the feeling you get when you leave a conversation and think of all the things you should have said. Bonds that haven't been forged, feelings that haven't been shared, misunderstandings that were never cleared and if you are not on the same page, you have the peace of mind you need to move on.
 
The choice is yours

In my twelve months on this game, there has always been some drama. But I do agree lately it has seemed to become a lot more regular, unfortunately a small minority with hidden agendas making it unpleasant for the rest, which does spoil what is a fun place to be.

I have considered to leave a couple times to.
 
There are a few people here that like to play with your feelings.
But leaving for them would only make them happy. I did fall in love with someone too. Sadly been dumped aswell. Not gonna say any names tho. That person knows who she is ;-)
 
So yes i do believe it's possible to fall in love in here :-) it may hurt or you may have an amazing time. It's how it works i guess.
 
Good your staying tho. Don't let them win:-)

I carefully considering my options, and chatting with people in the forum. And thinking about my previous post, reading everyones opinion on this matter.
I have decided to stay and continue playing this Game.
Thanks to all fro your concern
 

Hey folks!
 
Let me add something to this topic.
I know that it's possible to fall in love with someone who you know only from chatting because it happened to me already twice in my life.
Sometimes It just happens and you can't do anything against it.
So my message to you all out there is:
Do what you want but please don't mess around with somebody else's feelings and please don't tell anybody "I love you" if you don''t mean it.
This would avoid a lot of drama.
 
Thank you,
 
Deano

Gah, sorry to hear that someone was giving you a hard time Chaostika! I think you’ve got a good idea to not fight fire with fire and just let it go and move on though. I had a great time dancing at your club last night, thanks so much again for having us over! Good times, good music and good company.