KorbinDallas

I havn't clue what your babbling about or care.

 

But you having to hide under an alt and have no clue what your talking about is funny as hell. (Lol)

 

Let me edit and add too.

 

Until you show proof your a staff Developer in IMVU I will consider you an old man who thinks of himself as a "Big Fish" in a small pond.

 

Yes, it is amusing.

you seem angry, you mad bro?    i suggest real life sex, wouldnt be so uptight or maybe even yoga.   you seem very easy to get angry, no wonder the trolls have made you a play thing. im off now, be careful, high blood pressure from anger is real

I don't think that's true maybe right now on the main server. It does seems like a decent number of colders and people just into sex rooms and poses have moved to the test server, but I am sure it wont last. Still I think the game is less social then it was a few years ago at least it feels like that to me.

i think it has always been less social. Ive been here over 5 years and from the day i started seems game was always splintered into groups. that will never change as long as we have a 3dx.    This place has never been that trusting  towards new folks. Not much different than other games of the same type except you hear about it more here because its a smaller community and with world chat, its more open. peoples drama etc gets thrown out for public consumption 

Now you hide under an alt? LoL 'Developer'.

 

If you go in most, you will find it's just a shocking name to draw people in, but are 95% dance clubs.

 

Your arguement is invalid.

btw, funny how the "pup " got your  forum account you made banned, ehh?    rumour has it at least   You seem upset because i logged in and posted facts, not made up facts with no data. No need to thank me, i am here to educate. My job is done for the night

Now if you will excuse me, im going to pout because shops will never be in 3dx. Night all

I don't think that's true maybe right now on the main server. It does seems like a decent number of colders and people just into sex rooms and poses have moved to the test server, but I am sure it wont last. Still I think the game is less social then it was a few years ago at least it feels like that to me.

a quick look just now.....   on main server

warm your feet between her legs! or feets.

nah, its the best way to annoy her without her knowing you are annoying her. that and snoring on purpose when you are pretending to sleep

Allie is one of the most unknown and one of the best builders in the game. Her clubs even before world builder were mind blowingly good. I am glad she showed off a tip of the talent i have seen from her creations. 

i was just thinking this to myself, couldnt agree more.

And Dev team, please. If you will add those socks, remove them from men if sex started.   

noooooo, warms the feet in bed!

Here is an advice from someone who tried to fit real-life standards into a place like this for almost 3 years.

 

If you really want to enjoy the game, and get the best possible experience out of it (Lovers n Friends) I recommend you drop some of the limits you would naturally have in your real life.

 

The probably most common and highest drama-factor is created out of jealousy. Eliminate jealousy. Be easy on your friends and lovers. While the step into that direction can be hard, I can only recommend having an open relationship where you can be with you partner whenever there is time. Its totally up to yourself or you partner how much time you can / would like to dedicate to each other without putting a certain pressure wich leads me to the next point on my list of SNSFG (Standard not suited for game)

 

Pressure. Yes, most people put pressure on their partnersm or theirselves. Actively or passively. I ve been there too... putting pressure on myself to show up ingame to see my beloved ones (Even if it wasnt necessary)

You end up wrapping your real life around this game and making a lot of compromises wich can lead, in the worst case to some problem IRL too. I would suggest you only ask what you would be able to give

Respect that your partners and friends ingame have a job, rl-friends and probably hobbys they want to pursue out of the game. If you put too much pressure on them, they might be seeking ways to avoid you the one or other way.

 

Some people I met are really upfront and just tell you they wont show up no matter what. Other people dont want to hurt feelings so they make up silly excuses or even stories (The beloved Hosptial story is top notch) why they cant show up or are able to spend time with you. The third group of people is kinda meh to me. They start to run alts so they can avoid you and be with other folks. Sometimes they let their avi vanish the most silliest way one can ever imagine by faking RL-death, wich is very silly IMHO and usally it all comes out. Problem is, the paranoia fills the pockets of some individuals, that kinda make a living out of it now. Also that might be the same people that run alot of alts and try to fuck people over, so they get more money from people paranoying thru Pandora. Kinda a viscous circle but also a conspiracy theory.

 

Real Life. So most important part for some people here. Of course many would love to know who is behind the screen and pursue activities outside of the game too. It is nice but is a two-sided sword aswell. Usually the VR-World can follow you into your RL and if you get hammered with drama theres no way to hide if people know too much things about you. Theres a slight chance stuff will end up in stalking and once you get stalked into the real world you will have a hard time getting rid of the stalker and make them stop (Told from own experience too. Not from this game but yeah it shouldnt be any different here really.)

 

Just reveal what you are comfy with. Dont let people push you into a defensive position or even blackmail you. I ve met several individuals here that are never convinced with the proof of gender. So no matter what you throw at them, they wont believe you and demand more (for whatever reason) so to put it as simple as that... you dont need to proof to anyone, especially not if they demand it at all cost.

 

Also, and that is my personal opinion... I dont really want to know. I play immersive and imagine the person as they behave and appear ingame. Sometimes gender reveals can kill that immersion and you cant really "unsee" it. So it really depends what you want to do in this game. Some play this as some kind of dating simulator or dating site... but its more malicious then its worth it, and lets be real for a second... the chance for a real life relationship are very low. There have been some exceptions where two people met here and are now a couple IRL but thats like One in a million.

 

So what the game does best in my opinion: You can meet fun people, have some friendships too and of course have sex, but you shouldnt put too much heart in it. Of course you can get attached to the people and even love them, but seriously the exclusive real-life rules and living monogamous in a sex-game aint gonna work ever. And yes theres even exceptions for that. I know some people that practise the exclusive relationship for some years now and even sucessful but thats one of a million too.

 

Usually it end up in cheating, drama, stories and tears.

 

Dont let that come to you.

 

 

Most people in here live in a one-sided exclusive relationship and even if you point out the obvious they wont believe it. In the end as I said earlier... everything will come out sooner or later, and some even might have remembered what I have told them... but usually when its too late. Mostly resulting that good people leave the game because they tried to fit in real-life standards and rules that only apply for them.

 

Of course it is your money and your game. You play it the way you want to. So before anyone getting this wrong (or want to)

 

This is how I changed my gameplay over the years and this is how it works the best now. I am happy. I enjoy my little time I have here now and you should too.

this is in all likelyhood the best post ever written. Just saying

males need socks and ffs some new additions for avi looks please. . 33 percent of all people looking alike is a bit annoying

Do I detect a pattern here? First try to stifle discussion with threats under ToS then stifle it with rubbish. Will abuse come next? I strongly suspect that users are reluctant to participate in discussions because of the risk of troll attack? An excellent future update could, and should, increase the effectiveness of both the ignore function and enable moderators to act more quickly, effectively and consistently. Of course that’s not to neglect the tools to increase the range of user created content available.

 

Actually Nikki is no troll, she is one of the more respected posters here and i am pretty sure she echos the sentiment of most here. They are tired of all the bullshit in this thread back and forth that has nothing to do with the thread topic. If you want to debate those things, make a new thread for it instead of clogging up a thread people use to get info about upcoming updates. 

*i was including everyone bickering, not just one person*

you are correct, I will now focus any posts here towards upcoming updates from this point forward

His name is Bamboozles and hes awesomes 

 

Allies Cat 2.pngAllies Cat 3.png

i knew thats where i saw it

seems someone made a cat, saw it in a room. maybe Allie but i could be wrong. i will try to remember or ask around. 

 

I suspect the rules about moderation are more to protect the moderators from any legal challenge rather than to prevent reasonable discussion. If I have misjudged the rules and have overstepped the mark, then I apologise

 

 

No, that rule was actually made well after 3dx started. it was made after some forum members started making threads discussing who got what ban  and decisions the admins were making so they put that rule in. It was actually a subject of contention for a while because people felt the rule was added on the fly in order to silence them. 

In essence people have to understand the forums and the game for that matter isnt a democracy. The rules dont have to be fair. they can have any rules they want and then its up to the user if they feel it is something they want to be a part of or they dont. this is a rather good article but old one about the subject. people think these forums entitles them to free speech, it doesnt.  I have another newer article but this one is about the same thing. 

https://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2009/09/free-speech-in-online-communities-the-delusion-of-entitlement/

Why  was it banned by gizmo?

i imagine because it was created 3 days ago with the sole intent to harass someone else. All i know is it was reported yesterday, today its gone. Not going to say more because its against the rules to discuss disciplinary actions. if you saw the profile in question, you would have no doubt why it was made 

@Ex

come and go ...idk ,but it was a new account

doesnt matter, it was banned by gizmo. i will tell you how you can tell so you dont get confused. usually if they ask to be deleted, a guest will be before the name, If the name is greyed out, its been perma banned and if they are suspended for a certain amount of time, it looks normal, you cant tell from just looking at it. 

Thank you RobT. I would have preferred hearing it from the moderators.

 yw Ciera. thats never going to happen because they dont discuss disciplinary measures with people. Now if you will excuse me, i have worlds to save and distressed damsels to be a knight in shining armour for. You can ask Rob yourself in a few days

count me in, i like offensive stuff

Thank you, I was certain i’d seen it.

 

As far as I can tell no action has been taken yet over the homophobic comments. I think this is cause for concern as it reflects badly on the moderators. I think that seeing as Terms of Service have been so flagrantly breached some sort of statement from the moderators is required. As it stands they appear to condone homophobic and other forms of abuse.

 

I ask this question of the moderators ‘Do you, or do you not, enforce the Terms of Service and the Game and Forum Rules?’ If you do what action have you taken regarding thle individuals homophobic comments?

 

I am aware that this in itself could contravene ToS but justify my post by saying that users’ confidence in the moderators is an important part of the survival of 3dxChat in a competitive market place.

i have it on good authority he was in fact punished for his comment regarding the homophobic slur. I wont go into specifics as to what it is because its against the TOS to discuss punishments set forth by the people in charge. Perhaps now this thread can get back to its topic, upcoming updates, not upcoming RobDates.

Ant further comments or questions regarding it will not be replied to, just reported per rule 2.10.

2.10. Discussion of disciplinary actions, or any other sanction bans made by facilitator or administration in all game channels and / or forum is prohibited. This category includes creating comments or threads on the forum to discuss disciplinary actions taken against a character, account (forum and / or game) using chat logs and email correspondence between a player and a forum moderator or Developer.

KorbinDallas, if I remember rightly from one of my visits to his profile page, is one of RobT's alts.

I have reported this as well. I will not sit idly by and let someone slander my good name. I will not pollute this thread more because you seem to be stinking it up rather well all by yourself. A cyber shower may be in order

 

Just as the ability to get taextures easily to create with is undeniable, and chargebacks easy to do. Now go gather some coupons for the Devs and pretend to be on the inside. We will wait breathlessly for you to tell us more.

what is a taexture?   its texture, if you really worked with them you would know this but the most important question i have is the following..

love the art work

Dairy Queen

one month, six is to long to start if you have never played 

I love hugs