SweetHeather

Well I am unsure of the system 3DXChat uses but a friend of mine when developing uses a bone rigged system with defined points. He just modifies various points, and the animation works for varied interactivities. 3DXChat may wish to look into a similar system. Given that as they get larger they'll have to keep developing poses individually for M/F, F/F, M/M. Rather than design it once and use a specific system to define points. Even so some animations may still not work with certain ones even with points. But a majority would, and would save them some time. The thing with AChat is I figured even when I went there how to modify their game. And gave certain tips to people on it if they cared to mod the game. Its also in the same way when I used to go to IMVU I kept suggesting they use HALCA over just a basic modification of CAL3D. HALCA is still CAL3D just updated and modified. As for the system my friend uses wish it was public, but its a in-house coded project. But something this team can look at and consider if they should use a similar system.

Yes ever since a few patches ago same deal. Lots of disconnections, at times saying password/email is incorrect. I vote instead of a new pose, or a fluffy new hat, they figure and fix what it may be. As with it being so widespread it isn't a localized issue. And most likely has something to do with their code. Please fix it when you guys can <3

Are there problems right now with connecting? I was in then said connection lost, logged in again, few minutes later connection lost .. Now just not connecting.

You're welcome sweety, just trying to be helpful =)

Completely agree hunny. And with how images are today anyone can doctor a image. Some are so good in fact you can not tell they are fake. Unless you have specific tools to determine this. And it is highly suggested that 3DXChat does not rely on the trust of the uploader. Over the system they have put in place. And give it the ability to file and upload screenshots within the game. Should also mention most companies and games label the abuse button as 'report' or 'report abuse'. Not simply 'abuse'. Because with just saying 'abuse', it could under various language skills and levels of computer skills mean many things. Trust me the confusion of basic wording is always there. And really as the game grows wording should be more reflective of specifics and what they do in brevity. In this case 'report abuse' or simply 'report'. Because not everyone might get what to do with 'abuse'. Just some thoughts.

So I recently got 2 new pets, 2 lovely and adorable guinea pigs. Never owned them before but took care of adult one. There names are Kylie and Ruby. Kylie has black eyes, white fur with tan spots. Shes shy and skiddish since I've gotten her. But shes amazingly cute. Ruby is very outgoing and social. And when they get together she gets Kylie to start talking. Ruby has bright red eyes with white fur and brown spots. Started to feed them seperately because while they get along it seems and play together. Ruby likes to think ALL the food is hers. And hates when Kylie tries to eat it. The battle for their hearts is different. Ruby is ALWAYS eating so trying to win her heart through food did not work so well. What I'm finding does is being held and petted. Kylie still is too scared to be held but shes coming around. With her it was food but not their dry food or the hay. Shes been loving the fresh veggies I cut up and put in their cage. She looks like when shes eating it, is this for me! Its so adorable! I'm confident in time Kylie will let me hold her. For now I'll keep feeding her the fresh veggies and holding Ruby. It actually works with 2 birds with one stone. When I go to feed Kylie the fresh veggies, I take Ruby out and pet her. So Ruby gets what she wants, and Kylie has time to eat her yummy snack.

Some very wonderful comments from everyone. <3 It is very endearing for myself to see the encapsulation and expansion is not always what the end product was initial designed for. and while these are also my views and thoughts, they are my own. They do not have to be shared, can be shared, etc. I believe first and foremost wherever in life you find yourself. Be it real life or the virtualized representation thereof. You should always seek to be you in all definable qualities. Sex is a integral part of life as many other things are. To negate them in respects to one would to simply be to shadow the reality of who we are. It is why I am a huge advocate to "If you wish to play a fantasy online, at least do it in a realistic way toward yourself". For those who may question and/or wonder what this means. It means just because you wish to play a fantasy role, does not mean you give up still being yourself. Because a fantasy thats more directly relatable to the self, is far more rewarding in experience. It is only the basics of human co-existence to seek out reality. We may often say we opt from such things, then recreate it, need it, desire it, in actions and words we express. I find it amazing and blissful to be a part of a new community of people. To share in their lives, their experiences, to delve a lot deeper into what makes people unique and beautiful. When you really open up, there is a glow in your heart. There is a breath and urge to seek out bonds, to seek out more than sexual adventures. Here is a corny thought maybe, "divided we fall, united we stand". I could then relate this very thought to a game simply only staying pure sex. It would be fun and enjoyable for a time. But time is fleeting, it expires, then as a developer you have to create something new, because it has waned in acceptance, Rather than create something new as a developer to expand it. To enhance the idea or ideas. So it is with great heart I am happy to be here, to be a part of you all. And to seek that here becomes something more, something better. And yes maybe share some smiles, words, and m&m's. xoxo Heather

Nothing super fancy but thought I would share. Ended up making nachos for me n bestie for our movie. 4 cheese blend plain tortilla chips basil water meat (I say meat cuss you could pretty much add chicken,beef,elk, etc) avacado crushed red pepper olives tomato You should put on a snack tray, but I don't own one. Instead I put them all on a dinner plate. Just make sure they are spread out. You clump them at all and you won't get it nicely spread. 1. In a bowl mix basil,water,avacado,crushed red pepper together. Then spread in a ring around the top of the chips. 2. Spread olives,tomato evenly around. 3. Spread meat around evenly. 4. spread 4 cheese blend evenly. 5. Serve. There are many ways to do it, just one way I did the other day.

I love both the island and the club. The club more ... Why? Because of love bright and colorful things with nice atmosphere. Most the other rooms are dull, almost colorless and/or without effect. The music in BDSM makes me want to go to sleep, and I love music. So if that isn't a shock on anything .. ya -lol-. And while island is dark a bit. What really sets it apart even without color is the soft crashing and lovely ocean. The sparkles and crackles of the fire. Its very pretty. I still would love the developers to make all the rooms one room. And just make them all locations in the same room. And give it day/night shifts. If you worry about the load of people. You can simply only render x yards around a avatar. This way only that area they are in loads and with the avatars near. Okie will stop going off on thoughts .. but my top fav is club. Because its flashy and bright, your eyes stay active watching just everything in it. And often love the music there. One solution to the radio (I know wasn't asked). Give users the ability to have their own radio that they can let sync with others, or listen off on a station of their own. Instead of just being a static station in a room. The user would control their own music instead.

@AndraS I agree with you fully sweetheart. This is largely the greatest misconception of internet dating that people fail to understand. And that is the lack of true relationship depth that only a real life relationship can have. A internet relationship is heavily fractional and distant. There is NOTHING even the so call closest internet bonds can change of it. It is what it is without any effectual change. You share only what you wish people to see when its virtual. This is far harder to do in a real life situation. Because the person you are is more directly observable. People may wish to say 'our love will beat the odds'. And more times than not, sadly they are what make those odds themselves. Its not to say I have a thing against love, those wanting it, those giving it. Its simply on the idea with limited observable conditions the engagement of attraction can be fairly high, and negated in greater extent when it becomes more real. This is why if you want love in a virtual world in true form. Try seeking or wanting it less. Mingle and build bonds and keep it there. Some might say but what you wrote now goes against what you wrote above. Does it? Not at all, it goes with it. Build bonds of truth and understanding do not say 'love', reserve that for when you have met them in real. Otherwise you are only 'loving' them in partial of what they have shown you. You will only hurt yourself in the end most times because of this word so easily used because of the feeling it generates. Does it mean go heartless? No. Just guard your heart because it is a treasure worth guarding. No one else will guard it for you. Remember love is not a simple number, it is not a basic word. You can not attach it to things in partial effect, ie internet dating. Because all it becomes there is a word, nothing more. And love is deserving to be more than just a word. It deserves true unending depth. And you simply can not have that across two computer screens. Period. Do I believe in internet gf/bf/wife/husband .. -lol- no. Its a wonderful little fiction. Nothing wrong with it, sometimes a good fiction is what a heart desires. In truth what would they most likely be? A good friend , maybe a very close friend. And if fate should have it that you meet in real one day. You can work on having love. Does that mean I believe in going from relationship here to relationship in real life .. yes and no. You have to see how it will work out. I've dated online before and ALWAYS make the mention that if they see me we ARE friends only. And that if they want more they have to work for it, as I would. Going straight from relationship online to relationship in real can be potentially dangerous to your heart. I suggest using virtual dating as a tool to find potential partners. Not say 'THEY ARE THE ONE FOR ME'. Let real life decide that for you, then say it. Think of virtual dating like finding someone on a dating site, you still have to meet and go out on dates. I say this from my own heart and thoughts. Even as I have grown to really cherish someone I met in 3DXChat. The best that can happen with it virtually is just very close friends. That won't stop me seeking to be very close friends. And to enjoy every moment seeking.

Subvision - Until You're Mine Don't stop looking at me Cuz I like what I see Staring with eyes Through the dark as disguise At me You are beautyfully lean Like someone on the screen Baring your fruit in a leathery suit Quite a scene My long lost concubine But you're not mine So, what do you say? Are you going my way? Into the night Goes the starspangled flight Away from today The right I won't find Unless you're mine With lights gone down Let's fan the flames and scorch the sky As once sung in a lullaby I won't rest my mind Until you're mine Until you're mine This was a song posted to VD thingie .. i liked it cuss it reminded me of Be My Valentine.

“Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get - only with what you are expecting to give - which is everything” ― Katharine Hepburn,

Loves stuff like Rogers & Hammerstein <3 <3 But don't really listen to it around friends, more a private pleasure.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LAQq72ULF_g

-giggles- Oh sweetheart you had me laughing at your comment. Thing I wanted to post was ... can we have actual porn on the tv's? Its all short clips ie ads to a service. Yes I know you are trying to generate interest so people buy into it. Might I suggest doing regular porn clips then tossing adverts to it, through the playing of the normal clips instead. In a way the advert to the service reminds me of sitting in front of the t.v. just to watch commercials and exclude the shows. Well okay more interesting commercials but still -heh- .. Can we get actual and more full content? You could partner with YouPorn even. Yes yes then why come to a room to go to something you can view free on the web. Easy .. not having 2 things open and being able to watch something together.

We all have thoughts. These little visions that parade across our minds. We do not always give focus to the things that need focus. We do not always give clarity to things that seek clarity. And yet at times we wear our worries like iron across our neck. It weighs and tugs against us, yet we still struggle to stand tall. That nothing bothers us, that we are strong. That if we ignore it long enough that it should fall away into dust. Yet it keeps tugging and tugging, and we try to adjust the chain. Instead of noticing that this heavy piece of iron has a simple lock, with a simple key. And that key is resting, almost patiently within your palm. You may have forgotten you had that power to let go of that burden long ago. That you could face it head on. That you buried it far too long. And wore the scar like a battle victory. Yet you never won. Take the time you need to really think. To really understand where you are. Where you have been. That if you feel you need more strength to free yourself of that iron, you have people who truly love you. And that you are never alone. And to finally let go. (This was a lil ramble I just did just now. A lil bit for anyone else and also for me, to have courage and strength to expose our pains and let them go. And always know you are beautiful <3)

I'll post my thoughts even if some might disagree with them. Love is a very deep and special feeling. It is bound simply by truth and willingness to build a bond. Can that be shared online ... yes and no. I'll start with no first. Most people will never get past simple flirting and words. They are as empty and meaningless as the moment they are said. They are said to make you feel special for that moment, but hold nothing more past it. It is a game, a fiction, a nice little story they will create with you. Though depth with such persons will also fail. They share only a segment of their true self with you. And that segment might even be false. They have a hard time really showing you who they are . Because truly to them you do not matter enough for them to explore the reality. You could ask them a million times if their feelings are true. And they will lie a million times to keep that fiction. People have a very hard time just being themselves in real life, let alone in a game. You might think its easier. Many will consider its easier to hide and play a fantasy instead. It can hurt people, it can make people resent etc. The yes part would be. When you stop worrying about the fiction. About the who you wish to pretend to be. When you let down your guard. What you feel they want to hear. And just be yourself. To adorn yourself in no special clothing, words or actions. To know that upon the internet and in a game you do not need to sound cool, or hard, or dark. That people can see past that, to your real true heart. And instead of only sharing a glimpse of yourself you share it all. The true beauty of who you are. That there are no longer restraints or restrictions. That you think and feel in honest feelings. That people care about what you think and what you say, because you are genuine. And hoping that someone cares long enough to return that genuine feeling back to you. To let you know you are not some shadow. Some fixture. That your heart is alive. Your breath so very vivid and real. And that all you crave is people to notice you and say hello. To build upon truth and a real bond. To finally know when they stare at you, when they talk to you, you are being the real you. And that they enjoy being around the real you. As much as you care to be around the real them. (This is really why I'm very quiet a lot online and in this game. I have a hard time trusting people and knowing their intentions. I like real people not fantasies. Though many people when they know the real me, the truth of me, I am often still the girl alone. I am not sad because I'd rather be alone than with people who only want to be fake with me. It hurts a lot less. Actually doesn't hurt at all.)

Well one my favs and ya maybe lil silly but its from Shakespeare ....... “Why, what is pomp, rule, reign, but earth and dust? And, live we how we can, yet die we must.” ― William Shakespeare, Henry VI, Part 3

feel a lil mixed so think this one fits right now > https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wQuQZaYdtvI

m&m's!