Hi. Because I think I'm not a common case (but maybe someone will tell me I am wrong), here is how I play this game. This is my personal experience to add some food to this wide conversation. I am also open for observations and remarks, or advices of how to play this game better or how to just feel better about it. So thanks in advance to try to understand. So first. I am a man and I play a girl. So I am not playing myself. Well, kind of because I AM playing myself, just with another gender. And by another gender, I play a girl who is looking for men. I am not a lesbian, I am not a shemale. Also, I started the game with this character, that was natural for me to create a girl, to create this girl and I just don't think about making a man, even just to try. So this girl is me. Or, should I say, a part of me I don't really know or ... I don't know, maybe not yet. Hard to explain. In real life, I am married with a girl. I enjoy my life. Truly. But... Sometimes, before I ever eared about 3DXChat or any other online sex game, I have kind of reflexion about me, about who I am, and what I like. Because I am a man, I am heterosexual, and I think I really am (well, even if I sometimes think about how it should be to have sex with a man, this is another story). I like girls and I love having sex with my wife. But, I think I always wanted to be a girl, to feel how it can be. And not shemale or gay. Just a girl. And I think that it's more than just thinking about it. For example, regarding of porn, I always search for "female point of view" porn (and this kind of porn is so rare). And wow. It feel so strange to just writing it here. So, what I am ? Am I a monster ? I don't know. But it's like that in my brain and I can't explain. Would I want to change sex and become transexual ? I don't think so. Being a guy who became a girl is not being a girl. So... Or maybe deeper within my brain, I just don't have "balls" to do the first step ? I am not yet at this step of thinking. So what ? Should I put "I am a man" in my profile ? I want men to think that I am a girl because I am... in 3DXChat. What will I say if they ask ? That I am a man, of course, but I think I will instantly brake something. Maybe I am wrong, I don't know. I really don't know how to handle this. Maybe I just need a therapy ? Hope this can help the topic (and again, sorry for my english)