I think the point of this thread was simply asking people to act like human beings. It's obvious after reading some of these responses that that's just too much to ask. So whatever. I've been thru this but I'm not broadcasting it. I'm posting to let anyone know that has had an experience like this, that it was not your fault. It's easy to fool yourself into thinking it was, and to blame yourself. It can be a slippery slope and you can end up in a very dark place. Seeing people treat this topic as if it's something that should be taken lightly may upset you even more. Therapy is an important and helpful way of dealing with feelings you may have. I know exactly what I'm talking about and without advertising my personal life to a bunch of people I would barely consider human, I'm just offering to talk and help however way I can to anyone that wants it. I'm not a therapist by any means, I jus want to offer what I can to anyone who may need it. To the people that think I'm being a feminist, or too sensitive, or someone who jus likes posting on volatile threads, my avi name is Jasmine. If you see me, please block me so that I can pretend you don't exist. It will help me sleep better. If you'd like to argue with me, here's my response: "fuck you" /ignore