I can't compare this game to others like it, so i can't give you a full rundown on whats different and what not, but to answer atleast some of your questions: The community is definitely one of the strong points in this game. If you stick around and keep exploring, you'll most likely make some friends along the way. And yes, from time to time it's a huge party. Yes you can customize all your 3 characters to your liking. Gender, body look, clothing. I don't know how many sex poses there are in juliet sex session or even in here lol, But you have a few, and if you lack one, use your imagination lol. Some are gender restricted (m/f. f/f etc.) Some say we don't have enough positions/clothing/customization, others say it's perfectly fine. We do get somewhat regular updates. And it's definitely quality over quantity here. You get two apartements that you can customize yourself and use by yourself with bots, open them to your friendlist, or to everyone. But you can have sex anywhere. Most public areas have some little backrooms or corners where you can get down. But if you feel like it, you can have sex in the middle of the dance club, allthough that might land you on a ignore list or two. There is a similar pleasure meter yes. But you can cum in every position there is, whenever you feel like. And there are special cum poses like face/feet etc. I'd suggest you just give it a try. Buy a subscription for one month to get an idea of the game. And if you like it after that month, you can buy a 12 month sub for just 65$ until the 15. of january 2015 as posted here: http://3dxchat.com/forum/index.php?/topic/967-3dxchat-holiday-season/