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    Is Cybersex Sex ?

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    Hmmm some mental stimulation so to speak. Or a bad choice of words given the subject  :P

     

    This is something I have been reading into for a long time as i find it utterly fascinating how our perceptions have changed over time. Its interesting to note that Sex was always perceived as physical sexual contact between two people and when you were alone, regardless of what was happening, it was not sex. As the years have moved on, that entire thought process has changed. We live in a digital, connected world where we do not have to be in that same room to enjoy time with somebody be it a stranger or somebody familiar, or your actual love.

     

    I totally agree with what Siin said. Sex these days takes on many differing forms and it matters not if its between your legs or between your ears, what matters is that you enjoy it, your partner enjoys it, and most of all, it is fulfilling and meaningful to anyone involved. If people just wanted visual help... pornography has been around since the Romans figured out sewers. I understand that, yes, some people use this visually only to get their rocks off, but to others the avatar is just a visual representation of the mind controlling it, the personality and nature emoting it.There is also the thrill of doing things you would never have thought of doing or have had too many inhibitions to try. For some it is a release, an escape while for others its a thrill and a jaunt, and then for some its just a way to spot the sheets every know and then.

     

    Imagination is a key factor. You imagination can show you things the screen can only wish, and words... they are the most powerful thing on the planet. They make all the difference be they RP or actual feeling: Lets elaborate:

     

    1) I walk in and see you standing there. I walk up to you. I look deeply into your eyes, and smile before I lean in and kiss you deeply, our lips charged with electricity as they meet.

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    2) I stroll into the room where I see your body's silhouette outlined by the dipping sun, framed in a halo of light that stops my breathing, forces my heart to skip a beat. I am drawn to you moving yet not feeling the movement. My hands slowly encircle your slim body as I reach you, drawing you to my body, instantly warmer having your skin touching mine. My senses flare up as I smell your fragrance, my nerves charged and I cannot help but lean down and bury my face into you, smelling your hair, your skin. Gently my lips part and plant small constant kisses on your neck moving slowly up to your jawline, kissing around as I slowly turn you. I look into your eyes and again am given pause. Your eyes glinting in the pale light are intoxicating and my lips are not part of my body any longer as they draw me towards you. Our noses lightly brush in the first failed attempt to kiss but it matters not as our lips finally merge, mould, and catch fire as the passion flows between our bodies through a simple kiss.

     

    To some its about the visual with words merely a stopgap to roughly indicate what is "going on", i.e. Number 1 and to others... well that comes down to Number 2. Descriptive, entrancing and enchanting. And this just scratches the surface. Every single person is different with differing needs, wants, fantasies, likes, dislikes and figuring this out is half the fun. Some people will want to have a quick go, have fun, get off and be done with it. Others want friendships and relationships after and it is up to you to want to find out, or just ensure people know your reasons for being there if you just want to have fun.

     

    In real life we are all more reserved. Ok not ALL but most  :P Anyway, we are far less likely to jump in and do the nasty before we know somebody even a little, unless Captain Tequila is in play  :) Some people in real life will just go for it often and in copious amounts while others wont. Its all about the person and the same applies in any world. We bring a part of us with and it always manifests at some point, you cannot hide it forever. Cant elaborate as I hate going off topic but for me personally I will sum it as such:

     

    Any sex be it with a person, or on your own with fantasies or with somebody on the other side of a phone, message or game, with fantasies or visual stimulation, is sex. Its intimate contact, intimate words, and an imagination let loose. It is no longer a taboo as such and I personally have met amazing people, had a lot of fun, a lot of sex and I really look forward to spending more time getting to know people and ...  B)  B)

     

    TL:DR - Its sex ladies and gents, embrace it and have fun  :)

    Amazing People

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    The story that touched me most of the last year was the "Batkid" in San Francisco: A whole city played along when a charity foundation helped a very sick 5 year old boy to live out his dream of helping Batman for one day.

     

     

    I read about this. This was touching and amazing  :) The things people will do truly humble us at times  :)

    What is your favourite location?

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    It is a tough choice to make as each area has its own appeal and the right people can make any area fun. I ended up voting for the club because in real I love dancing and enjoy music. It is also very dependent on a persons mood as Veronica mentioned above, and at the end of the day each area has its own atmosphere which can be altered quickly with the right people present :)  :)  

    Post a song that describes you

    in Music & Videos

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    This is a tough one. I am a great admirer of many forms of music. Music speaks to me and my mood determines the music I listen to, and how I'm feeling. I cannot associate a single song to describe myself but I can associate songs to points in my life  :)

     

    The last few years have been tough with many downs and few ups. Divorce, Loss, Strife... I was falling apart and so was my life. Looking back, this song is apt.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8G4isvoGFqI

     

    The reasons for my divorce, a few know, but this song was one that really best describes my relationship before the hurt...

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ac3HkriqdGQ

     

    What is your New Years Resolution???

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    Mine might not be what you would deem to be fun  :P

     

    I have a very... proud family, one that stands by what it believes which has led to rifts in relationships, and half the family does not speak to the rest. My resolution is to aim to try and repair these rifts and get family speaking again. Family should never shun family and I have been guilty of it too and fixing starts with me, to set the example.

     

    A little deep I know but I am complex  :P  :P

    Poly / Open Relationship

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    Being exclusive requires a deep commitment and emotional tie-in of sort regardless of it being real or virtual. An open relationship requires the same thing but a higher level of trust that your partner will not end up leaving you for another. Temptation is everywhere and it requires a lot of thought and a willingness to give of ones self knowing what they are getting into. It is a question easily answered but actually not easily fathomed.

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