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Cheyenne

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  1. I 100 % agree, saves me another gazillion screenshots of steamy rp's on my hard drive for sure Copy & paste, pm, a chatlog and perhaps as the icing on the cake some timestamps just to recapture my afkishness would be a great addition and should be no rocket science either to provide the community with a little more comfort! The chat-system in general could use a fresh touch with a freely resizable window but that is another story, let's go step by step!
  2. Curiosity is a fine thing , the update cycle has indeed slowed or well to spread some rumors, there was a bit of tinkering onto something bigger, at least requiring all their manpower from what i picked up. But i agree in general, it is the economic 101 to supply the audience with continuous updates to keep them pleased, especially if they intend to keep this project thriving.
  3. French lingerie Pier, Prias opened me the world for the second most seductive and dangerous weapon we women have, right after the mind of men . And stop begging me for likes, will you
  4. It's me again with my bubbling mind i would like to suggest a few more layouts for apartments as it becomes rather mundane to stare at the very same two places for eternity. For instance a two floor place, different shapes/architectures of the actual flats put into a fresh setting to enrich the experience. And here is a very ambitious thought that came to mind which would probably kill the server, I was imagining the entire hotel complex that provides the ambience to be an accessible place, freely interactive with several floors of player filled apartments, some way of "housing", stairways and lifts build upon a bar on the main floor to create a fully interactive place. Whether those locations could be added on top of an existing place, the hotel complex or next to an impossible new project, i can't say but it looks nice
  5. In case my vote hasn't been registered already ... Stewie for me, go for it my pink flamingo ( the winner has to deliver a victory dance, non ? )
  6. Thats my favorite card game , who likes to play "Spin the Bottle" if they could have that! As much as we all have a vivid and almost infinite imagination a new set of poses for all inclinations would definitely enhance the experience immensely, after all you eat with your eyes as well I also would appreciate a couple of options just like the dancing, 2-3 choices to vary the positions, kissing ( there can never be enough lip service ), groping, licking, teasing, stroking to enrich existing and upcoming poses even more. Make some sexy noises for new poses!!!
  7. Now now in the spirit of emancipation it would only be fair to have something the female audience could feast on too PS : I was given some secret footage of Stewie Hmm, dancing so delicate and graceful like a swan Stewie, but just where do i put the money
  8. A little something for the varying tastes of rp, an addition to the yacht/beach or love island. I imagine moving ships would be an even harder if next to impossible task but one can dream Picturing a romantic gondola ride with a loved one in the moonlight ... a jetty attached to the love island *sighs*
  9. Definitely JohnL and Stewie from those who were daring enough ... pink simply beats it all!
  10. I'd gladly lend you a helping hand if you hold your part of the deal
  11. Something to highlight the neck, would love to have those * winks over to Pinky and Sol*
  12. I would love to see the sinclub being expanded by a few areas since i believe the addition of too many new places would strip off the at times already lowered popularity. Maybe even adding an upper floor for dine and wine plus an elevator ( mirrored goes without saying ) for those who had the "pleasure" already followed by a "swinger club" area in farther dungeons of the sinclub and since my creative juices are flowing already, why not extend the night club's bathroom by a few functioning glory holes. I would actually second the merging of both yacht and love island, possibly with the addition of an underwater section if that would suffice performance wise. I'm an Aquarius after all and who wouldn't be intrigued to get a little naughty underwater ? Such a place is definitely part of my bucket list for sex at unusual places but shhhhh!
  13. A touch of sinful secrecy for a sexy masked ball or simply camouflage , perhaps even a theme for a future party A little something to play with and spank the cheeky guys Ceremoniously dedicated to our party animals
  14. Oh it was great fun but we are still missing its very highlight visualized for all to see, i dare you Eddster . I wouldn't want to strip you of the pleasure to upload such eye candy .
  15. Those are some very hot little tales, i would even venture to say worthy of a sub forum dedicated to all the fabulous story teller on here, maybe culminating into entire contests for those who no longer wish to bear an untold story! I already suggested a chatlog in the idea section so feel free to support the idea and make some noise!
  16. My dear Freya, judging by your strong reaction to my post i understand that is a topic of great concern for you and i genuinely apologize if i may have stepped onto your toes. I'm merely offering a different mindset to the thread starters question. That is a good thing, a perfectly understandable response. You are naturally free to share your personal opinion to this, as everyone else. I would not find a back and forth discussion about the possible pros, cons and convincings fruitful to this topic, i believe everyone will find a great deal of interesting points in this topic already. I concur that it is possible to build a deep affection for several wonderful persons but we two may have a different notion on the term love itself, personally i put weight on the thought where the love exchange between me and my "partners" is something i believe satisfying for all involved, for example i would not agree to sayings like "you can only love what is there to take/give". Given the afore mentioned different needs for affection and love everyone has, so if i ever felt not truly happy i would bring that up for a discussion and in case it becomes a subject without a proper solution, leave the relationship because every single one of us deserves to be loved the way he/she envisions. It fills with me great happiness to hear that such an admittedly rather unique form of relationship seems to work for you so well, I don't believe my words were of criticizing nature, however i found it necessarily to raise a few points of consideration for relationships from my sole personal point of view. Pursuing this topic further would probably lead into a deep philosophical evaluation of love itself, what degree of love are we talking about ? is it absolute butterflies in your stomach raising love ? I have not the slightest idea of the relationship constellation nor is it my business, i simply see attending to the needs of a love triangle or even more as an increasingly difficult task, hence a tad bit of skepticism perhaps. If it proves a long term solution that works out great to the all involved persons, i'm happy you found such a unique combination and i would love to hear more about it in a few years. By no means i intended to link a comparison to robots or emotional inability to you, it is beyond me how that may have slipped into the wrong context. As for feeding the drama i'd like to offer you a different perspective as well, first of all i would wonder what "drama" is itself ? a reasonable expression of concern or opinion if one party felt treated wrongly ? It is my firm believe that we as condescendent adults have therefore the responsibility for a respectful interaction, life is become such hectic place for so many of us that the slightest nuance can set a stressed mind off, therefore an involuntarily offending form of wording or acting can so easily cause friction in a non pleasant way. Then as the second point, who exactly is it that feeds the drama ? The accuser or the accused ? I agree that the wrong words are cause for so very many misunderstandings and arguments and i cant wash my hands off that either but i am willing to state the theory it may take two for drama. It may differ from case to case but there is a certain guideline of errors, attitude and disrespectfulness that may also feed the drama and sometimes oneself is not even aware of the power their words had to their respective other. Too often we do as we are done by to add even more fuel to the drama fire where a different approach from the very beginning may not even cause them to sparkle in the first place. I would like to encourage you and everyone else at least to consider that very idea, i understand this might be a difficult mindset, for some character types more than others. Of course i agree that some people may have developed more of a susceptibility for drama and thus you may not want to involve yourself with them, instead with cheerful and bright personalities that make you feel well, perfectly legitimate and even recommended, however i would not abandon that special group of probably "damaged goods" so easily and still keep an open eye or helping hand to make them find their way back as well, such behavior usually derives with reason or at least unpleasant past experiences. I respect your opinion in that regard and see this as the easier path to follow but that also is a decision for everyone themselves to make. i'm truly thankful for your intake on this and would find your experiences a very refreshing topic to hear about in private if you should ever feel like it.
  17. 100 % honesty is definitely true but i would also add a big portion of respect, make that someone you are with feel special and trusted, making your partner feel safe, open relationship still includes "relationship". Most importantly, choose your words well, if you go like a bull at a gate, you may find yourself one relation shorter before you know it, everyone deserves a decently respective and mild tone, come clean about what exactly you want and compare that to your partners needs, but mind you, an open relationship might not be suitable for everyone so if you cannot find common ground or too many compromises would have to be made, perhaps the two of you should let go. And i'd also like to touch on the love aspect, you would not want to mistake a different set of feelings there. Attraction can have many forms, a connectivity of spirits, the sheer curiosity and thrill for something new to break out of the routine, a certain set of words, commonalities or dissatisfaction with your current partner that triggers your interest. I'd like to disagree with Freya about the quality of love and here is why, it might be possible to develop a deep affection for several fabulous people but could you really love more than one person the same way though ? For that I'm going to pick up on something a very dear person to me once said "i love my friends but i am "in" love with my special someone" What if you happen to meet the "two" or how many you love at the same time and space ? A menage a trois does not solve everything , perhaps one seeks social banter or needs comforting, whatever need or interest there may be. That puts you into a precarious situation and how you handle them is of vital importance to your relationships, will you stave one off, try to satisfy both parties or work a schedule for them ? I have no means to discourage anyone, just a thought to consider, being wary of one's actions that is. So to sum my thoughts up, I doubt it, but more importantly, are you doing yourself any favors with that ? "Love" is such a powerful word, it should not be treated too lightly since it can evoke so many reactions, good, bad, hurt or joyful. Mind that different people have different needs, some may be more love depending than others. By all means i'm not saying anything against expressing love, just be clear about them with your partners and yourself. Mono- or polygamy might be just a question of semantics but there are also several layers in between, i wouldn't simply divide into those two categories in which fantasies, needs and pleasures can be experienced. In company of a very special partner you feel comfortable and heard with, it could simply come naturally. So i wouldn't be too quick to cast an adaptive form of monogamy away. There are many possibilities. If i recall correctly polygamy refers to a state of marriage for many spouses which in real i don't see working for above stated reasons among many others but that is something everyone has to explore for themselves, the key focus for me seems to lie in the satisfaction of our very needs, sexual, social and caring. It may be a solution but i'd like to offer a different trail of that regarding that in general, aren't we not more often afraid to find that intimacy and qualities in our current partners ? Does it not sound so temptingly easy to just go and simply seek them elsewhere ? Perhaps we didn't truly share or express ourselves ... That reference was mainly pointed towards the real life relations but i leave that question hanging. I personally don't believe in the no drama policy, everyone has feelings, just the majority of us is afraid to air them out, of course we develop various connections to a multitude of people, some we like more and some less, if we bonded with some, we obviously care more ... that is all natural, everyone likes to feel special and no one to be rejected, just because feelings are stuffed down, wont mean they aren't there. That is why i find respect and honesty to be such admirable traits and i don't see that as a form of dramatizing, the contrary, a liberation, fair, authentic and truthful, qualities worth cherishing. The advices here on are all good but everyone is different, what is fine for some might be the reverse for others. We cultivate a wide variety of social groups on here with different interests and longings, i've seen people get together over online games, split apart, drama, joy sometimes you find things you least expected in the most unusual places. We are no robots, as sex is as important as eating and drinking, feelings too are not to be underestimated. As master Yoda would say, explore your feelings, you must ... live, love, laugh,be truthful, respectful and don't feed the fangs of pretending!
  18. Hey there i'd like to dedicate my first post on here to the cause, as much great advice has been given here already it is not just about you, we woman have to give guys the chance to become that special someone that catches our interest, it is also a mindset thing or metaphorically speaking "Frog kissing" in being open and appreciating any form of contact if it does cover certain basics. I believe a touch of respectfulness comes without saying and profile reading natural, non ? "Hello, how are you ?" for example might not be the most terrific pick-up line compared to something out of the ordinary and a well worked out profile may outdo a simple one liner but most importantly, it takes two to cultivate a conversation. You may just say it took all your courage to approach her, it shows genuine honesty and is considered quite cute by many of us. Personally, eloquence, authenticity, wit & humor are the splash of color that attract me quite a bit. So bottom line ... like it has been mentioned already, don't let your head dangle, be authentic and come as you are, everyone else is taken anyway! Now go and get them, tiger Just one more thing, beware of rodolfo, he wears pink
  19. Happiness is not a state to arrive at, but a manner of traveling.

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