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  1. WARNING! THIS POST ONLY SHOWS MY OPINION! IT'S NOT MEANT TO TELL READERS WHAT TO DO OR NOT! WHO AM I TO TELL YOU WHAT TO DO?! Please correct me, if I understood you wrong, but you seriously want to tell that it's ok when people play with others like they desire? It's true that this is just a game and it's in some way the players fault for taking it too serious, but well ... it's still a social game and it's not tolerated of treating people like this in RL. The consequences are more strict than they ever could be in here. I guess the chance to get close to a person in here is very high. Maybe I'm wrong with that, but I also could be right. Sure you have to expect lies all over this place, but believing in the good attitude of other players also won't be wrong. And I dare to assume that every of us comes to a point to think, that this all can't be just a lie, especially when you've spend more time with one player and the "relationship" got deeper. I'm not talking about those people who want to get into someones panties in here. This is something you have to expect when you're playing this kind of game. I'm rather talking about getting hurt by getting lied on purpose and this for a long time. Calling them out in public is 1. against the rules and 2. it won't change anything. Those people find new victims to continue playing games on. Creating more accounts to have several avatars to continue this might let people think a bit more first. I mean it's money to spend and well ... is it worth spending 60$ for the game per month to have 3 avatars? And well if this is the case then it's good for the game, because it brings more money. It's not my job to decide what will happen in here. I just can set focus on things I see as problem and report them. That's what the forum is for and it gives the opportunity to discuss about it. If I see things different than others that's ok, because we don't need to have the same opinion about something.
  2. That's been the main reason, why I've started this topic, because it need to be prevented that new players get this impression. Disappointment is the main reason, why people leave this game. When I came here it's been more a "Wow - Great!" but actually it's more like a "Ah ... ok that it then?"
  3. WARNING! THIS POST ONLY SHOWS MY OPINION! IT'S NOT MEANT TO TELL READERS WHAT TO DO OR NOT! WHO AM I TO TELL YOU WHAT TO DO?! A few weeks ago user-rooms got added by the development. Rooms, which can be decorated by players as they want. The idea might have been a good one for giving players the options for roleplays in a local like area. Sounds exciting but the consequence is that local places got more and more empty. Sure, there are still players at local places, but it became less since players can open their rooms just for friends. Actually this splits the community into several smaller or larger groups who are in their apartments. For those players who are playing here for a longer while and have plenty of friends it’s not a problem, but did anyone think about new players who want to try out the game? Just imagine you enter the game for the first time and everything you can see are local places where not many people are around. Then you see the open apartments, also mostly empty. What will you think? Easy to answer: “This game is really empty and the community is small” But you can’t see that there are a lot more people in their apartments, because you can’t see them. I totally understand when people want to be for their own and have some privacy with friends or a bunch of people they invited. This is human. But I think all of us have some responsibility for this game, since it’s still in progress. Or our development has this responsibility at least and should do anything to keep this game growing. Now how to handle with this problem of user rooms? Removing them will make people angry and some might leave. Also which development ever removed new features? They get changed until all problems are fixed, what we all could see during the last weeks. Every update was for the user-rooms. In my own opinion development should focus on other things right now. More stuff in public locations, which make those places more interesting again. Maybe some new furniture or special features which only work in public places. And those should stay at these places. If we get able to put everything in our apartments, why do we have public places? We could do it like in Achat and have a dating portal and invite people to our apartment. Great idea! Please development don’t reduce the public places to empty rooms, because everyone is somewhere in private. Make them more interesting to people will use them. Work more on those places to improve what we already have and what’s been good in the past. Or bring this game back to Achat standard which will make many people cancel their subscription. [i included for sure]
  4. After you've pushed the button "h" and your window is close hit the "print" button on your keyboard. (Above the arrow keys) Then paste the screenshot into paint and you can save it as picture.
  5. One avatar per account instead of 3 See also http://3dxchat.com/forum/index.php?/topic/456-why-multiple-avatars-per-account/
  6. Since I’m playing this game which actually is a long term, I’m wondering, why we have 3 slots for avatars. Long ago it was possible to log in will all avatars at the same time, but well the question is: Why would this been needed? From own experience, I know some people are using this opportunity to play mind games on other players by pretending someone else. Just using an alt for this and hurt those people. If not on purpose then at latest when they tell the truth one day. The option of having more than one avatar mostly got used for messing with other players. Mostly on purpose what is shame!! Serious ... why the hell do people have to hurt others, who are here for having fun, finding new good friends, relax or live out their fantasies?! I don’t have an answer for this and I don’t tolerate it any longer. Not after all this messing up what happened during the last months and still continue. It seems some people don’t understand the meaning of the little but strong word “No”. This also means, if I break contact it’s the most powerful version of saying “No!” I’m not going to blame anyone for having more than one avatar, since I also use more than one, but people know who I am and at least can figure it out easily. Now I suggest, no I demand, that every account gets one avatar for use. This will stop this entire mind gaming, which isn’t good for the community because if people feel mind gamed they in the end will leave, especially those who play mind games don’t have to fear punishment. And to be honest ... who can play with 3 avatars? That’s nearly impossible [for me at least] I for myself got messed up enough from other players and want this will end, because it destroys all fun I've found in here. It also leads to, that you always have to fear a newbie is an alt of anyone who you don't want talking to any longer. So please development ... take care for your gorgeous game and do something against this mind gaming. It just leads to bad feelings for players and eventually to (paying) people/costumers quiting the game. And to all those who enjoy messing with others ... think how you would react if people/friends do the same with you and how you would feel then. Treat others always the same was like you want to be treaten.
  7. Jola

    User Reviews

    1) Great graphicsNice communityA world where you can live your phantasy 2) Give this game a try. It's worth of explore new things and give them a chance.
  8. Evapony's room is really empty.
  9. I was thinking about plants, paintings, carpets and such stuff.
  10. My post was posted 6 minutes earlier.
  11. Sex positions Non-sexual animations/expressions Clothes Hairstyles Furniture Decoration Locations Ideas to expand existing locations
  12. I have issues by starting the game since today early in the morning. After a game freezing crash I'm not able to load my characters any longer. Logging in is not a problem, also not choosing a char, but then it seems the game doesn't load properly and the whole game freezes. It's happening on all avatars the same and friends also told me about same issues. Deleting and installing the game new didn't solve it, even I deleted the whole 3dx data from my harddrive. Please help us and solve the problem quickly.
  13. They were talking about members in the forum, but I wish the community in the game will grow as well. Then
  14. Mmmmm ... such beautiful floor
  15. Jola

    "Dipped in Ink" Bug

    This problem exists since a few weeks. To make the person you've invited "colored" again, just take it to another public place and invite again. When you invited them at the beach, move to the club f.e. and invite from there. I've noticed that people are "inked" also in public places sometimes. This didn't happen at the beginning. Give the development a bit time and they will fix it. So it happened in the past as well.
  16. Mods are ok, but they shouldn't be active players. Mods needs to be staff of the game and be impartial and don't be involved in groups of players so it can't be an act out of personal reasons. Just prove acts of breaking all known game rules proven by screenshots and player reports, but with the option to tell both sides of the story. Could be the case someone begins to argue or whatever and cuts the main parts out of the screenshots. The other part doesn't document whats happenening and has no chance. Time spamp in chat also would be great for this.
  17. I didn't trust my eyes when I read your post. I'm sure you have your reasons so I just can wish you good luck, it's been a nice time we've had together and I won't say goodbye, because I hope to see you again. I will miss you very much. http://youtu.be/khznWuH3VTs
  18. The bad side of Harry Potter From the left to the right: Lucius Malfoy [Chen], Narzissa Malfoy [shanti], Bellatrix Lestange [Eleonore], Lord Voldemord (Tom Riddle) [Alaric]
  19. A retailer comes and sells crushed ice and makes the deal of his life
  20. Jola

    Local chat...

    WARNING! THIS POST ONLY SHOWS MY OPINION! IT'S NOT MEANT TO TELL READERS WHAT TO DO OR NOT! WHO AM I TO TELL YOU WHAT TO DO?! Having sex-free areas doesn't prevent that people have sex in there as well. It might cause the oposit and make people feel more excited, because it's not allowed. Sure, people should be considerate before they have sex everywhere they want to, but you see ... it's not the case sometimes. I didn't say that you have to stay in the Club all time long. Of course you can go everywhere you like, but then you might deal with the fact, that people might have sex right in front of you. But it's not like they do it everywhere and all time long as a bunch of horny rabbits. It's just a few times that people have sex somewhere in public and then they mostly are somewhere at a private spot. I agree with you that the SinClub might be an excaptional, because ... well it's the SinClub. So there you can do everything you like. The rp you have when players have their strip-show isn't compareable with the rp we're talking about in here. I don't have anything against this kind of rp and appreaciate if this will be added to other locations like people roleplaying the bar or something like that. But in my opinon other kinds of roleplay should be also allowed ... when they are short of course or maybe the introduction of a roleplay which will be taken to private later. 15 minutes should be ok, but in this case (and the reason why I started this topic) people began to complain just after 3 lines of roleplay. And that's not the sense of the game. (IMAO) I agree with you Leeloo, that a roleplay should be short. 15 minutes seems to be a good time for a public roleplay. In my opinion it should be ok to have a roleplay in public as introduction to continue it in pm or at the apartment later. Maybe inviting other people as listeners could also be an idea. But that's the decisoin of oeveryone for themself. I won't tell people what they have to do in here and what not. We have all different opinions, different fetishes and different conception of the meaning what's ok and what not. So we all needs to compromising when we want to enjoy this game and this doesn't mean that all our wishes will come true. It's not a perfect world we're living in and so isn't this game. You clearly can see that here the perfect world of the game and the rl meet each other. Try to enjoy the game and let other do it the way they want. We all have different ways to have fun and enjoy life.
  21. Jola

    Local chat...

    Groupchat was annoucned several time during the last year. Every time it was mentioned that groupchat will be added soon ... but as all can see ... nothing happened. You misunderstood what I wanted to say. For me it's not a problem to deal with post which I don't like or which doesn't show my opinion, but it seems that some users of the forum aren't able doing this. (Again my own arrogant opinion ) If a topic causes too much nonsense or posts of which I think it's just nonsense I ignore the topic and search for another one. I agree that long roleplays don't have space in the local chat, but short ones should be tolerated. I for myself don't want to spam people around me by my sometimes "boring" roleplays so I have them at home where no one can desturb me. But I would say that short roleplays should be allowed also in public, if people prefer doing them. Maybe the SinClub is the best location for this. I also agree that there should be some VIP areas in the game where roleplaying is allowed. And there are already non-sex areas in the game. You aren't allowed to have shown sexual activities on the dancefloor of the DanceClub and also not at the bar in there. This also is written in the rules and everyone should follow this. So if anyone don't want to see sexual activities --> Go to the DanceClub This post only shows my own opinion. If I stepped on someones feet ... I apologize for this, but well it's the way of life that you meet people who don't have the same opinion as you have and don't keep their mouth shut.
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  23. Jola

    Local chat...

    Again I've noticed that responds which aren't like some people expect to be are called spam or nonsense. The forum should give players room to tell their own opinion. And even if it doesn't show the opinion of a few people in here we are all grown up enough to accept this and show tolerance. In my opinion posts which just include a few lines but doesn't convey any useful message are spam.
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