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The pictures of the new place look amazing, Marc ^.^ I hope the Lotus is as successful as it ever was. Say hi to all your courtesans for me!
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SugarBunny, just like Fox, it shocked me to see you'd stop running your events. I personally enjoyed the events such as the snuggle parties and newb workshops and many people have praised the countless orgies that you organized.I'm sure you'll still have an audience for your events, they were pretty popular after all. Some people might be a bit weary at this point. They might need to see that things are different this time around before they decide to give it another try, myself included. Nonetheless, I still wish you the best with your future events.
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DISCLAIMER: My tact is equal to that of a bull in a china shop.
Firstly I'd like to apologise to those in attendance at the workshop, as Fox has already said, it wasn't our intention to ruin anything. Like SugarBunny, we want to help newbs learn the game so they can become part of the community and enjoy it. You will have formed your own opinion of us by now, but I hope that you will take the time to come and get to know who we really are. We've been part of the game for a long time and both had very different experiences so, like SugarBunny, we have a wealth of knowledge that we are happy to share.
Secondly, I'd like to apologise to Naike. My dear, sweet friend.. I'm so sorry that you are being targeted purely on the basis that you are impartial and chose not to take sides. Naike is one of the nicest and most genuine people I have had the pleasure to meet in game or out and she does not deserve to be penalized just for being friends with us. If you get a chance to meet her and become friends, she will not let you down.
Now.. a little history about the relationship between Fox and I and SugarBunny:
When Fox and I first started out, we attended a couple of SugarBunnys events. She spoke with wisdom beyond her years and we chose to ask her advice on how to navigate an online relationship. She was very kind and agreed to try and help. Fox spoke to her alone on a number of occasions and found that she was interested in having me as a sub. It was after this revelation that we spoke to her as a couple, she questioned us individually while the 3 of us were in group chat and we both answered her questions openly and honestly. Even the ones about our real life situations. SugarBunny came to the conclusion that we should not be together, she gave reasonable explanations for this and we understood where she was coming from. I'm sure anyone reading this will know by now, that we chose not to follow her advice. I'm sure that it must have been frustrating for her to spend time helping us, but we chose to try and make it work anyway due to the fact we both felt very strongly for each other.
Through Naike, we joined SugarBunnys organisation to try and help develop the community within the game, Naike even designed logos for her to use in her cause. We attended a number of events to support her and Naike and were preparing to start doing our own workshops for newbs. It was during this time that we were told a story from SugarBunnys RL that she chose to share with us in the group that had been set up in Telegram for the organisation. Some of the information in the story didn't make sense to me so I questioned it. When it was explained to me, it still didn't add up in my mind.. it may be that I didn't fully understand but I researched it and asked for second opinions on what she'd been saying to see if it made sense to others. With the additional outside information it still didn't make sense so I continued to question it further. Now, returning to my disclaimer above, I fully admit that I am not the most tactful person in the world and there probably were much better ways I could have gone about it.
SugarBunny moved the dispute into a private chat, as I probably should have done, and told me that I was being disrespectful and rude. Now, I can understand why she thought that of me, I explained to her that I didn't mean anything by it. It continued back and forward in this manner until she requested I make a formal, public apology in the group for being, as she claimed, disrespectful and rude. I took offence to this because I was merely standing up for my opinion so I responded with the attached apology in the group TG chat.
After that, it's my understanding some people left the organisation, I do not know what happened after leaving the group. I didn't want to know, I didn't care. Again, it wasn't the most tactful response but I felt it needed to be said. Up until the workshop yesterday, we had completely left SugarBunny alone, not wanting to interfere with what she was trying to do.
Which brings me to the workshop yesterday. We stopped by to see how things were going, see if anything had changed since we were preparing to be involved with the workshops.. almost like professional curiosity. We did make some comments, got involved with the discussion and yes Fox made a small troll comment but nothing worth getting upset about. Someone had made a comment about sleeping on her bed and SugarBunny suggested they sleep at the beach instead. Which is what brought about Foxs troll comment. After that point, Fox and I had some genuine comments to add to what SugarBunny was teaching to try and help and Fox followed the rules and typed "H" when he had something to say. I admittedly did not because, as I've said before, tact is not my strong point. Unfortunately, his attempts at contributing were misread and he was falsely accused of being a troll. Being his in game wife, his RL girlfriend and just generally the kind of person I am, I jumped to his defense. Not that he needs it, but if anyone follows SugarBunnys advice and reads my profile, you'll see that doesn't matter.
After pointing out that we were only trying to contribute and that Fox had been following her rules, we were accused of trolling and I was called a bitch. She then blocked the both of us and stopped the workshop early. We stuck around to see what the outfall would be, after finding out that she was continuing to trash our names we explained our side of the story, sharing what happened previously with the public apology. It was very shortly after that, the room closed, I can only assume in an attempt to stop us from talking anymore and sharing our point of view on the situation.
Today, I come online to comments like this and finding out what happened to Naike, well it's a low blow to say the least, so my response to SugarBunny is this: Do your worst. It'll be a waste of your own time and energy. Our friends know us for who we really are, they know that we've got more interesting things to do than purposefully ruin your workshops, or anything else in the game for others. It's one thing to hold hard feelings about our falling out but it's another to actively target us because of a past conflict. But if you wish to use your "influence" to bring more people into this.. feel free.
For anyone who doesn't know us: I hope you take the time to talk to us before you decide on your opinion.
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